August 26, 2015 neighbors@stateportpilot.com Page 1B PORT folio Making her connection in L.A. By Renee Spencer Staff Writer Oak Island resident donna Mooneyham had the opportunity to travel to Southern California for two weeks this summer. While she spent a lot of time by the pool, she wasn’t there to relax. Mooneyham was in Los Angeles as an aquatics coach and mentor for the 2015 Special Olympics World Games. This was her second time as a coach in the international competition. The irst was at the 2011 World Games, held in Greece. Though Mooneyham was better prepared for the grueling schedule this time, she was still left wondering how time passed so quickly. For aquatics athletes and coaches, there are no days off. Because of the competition in their event, athletes are scheduled to compete every day of the Games. Though the regimen was tough, Mooneyham said the team really “gelled” and worked hard. “You’re all shoved together to live for two weeks,” she explained. “But we worked so well together. You knew everybody had your back.” While she admits she’s a little biased, she said the aquatics team had the best coaches and athletes. They approached the Games without focusing on medals, instead concentrating on motivating their swimmers to achieve personal bests. “Our big focus is on do your best in competition, give it your all and make improvements,” she said. “If you get something to hang around your neck, that’s great, but what we’re looking for is for you to do your best.” She said the coaches also stressed good sportsmanship. “We drilled it every night,” she said. “If somebody had a poor display of sportsmanship, they got a one-on-one conversation, because that was not acceptable.” She said that unlike the Olympics, Special Olympics does not promote a medal competition among the different countries. “They don’t make it a competition about who’s got the most medals because of the disparity in the number of athletes each country has,” she said. Because there is so little focus on medals, Mooneyham didn’t know how many the aquatics team earned until after she came home. But the focus on personal improvement and sportsmanship paid off; the team brought home 86 medals. The coaches worked to keep the athletes focused during the competition, but Mooneyham said the constant media attention was overwhelming at times. The experience was much different than being in Greece, where cell phone and internet service was spotty at best. She said in L.A., communication was “almost over the top.” “Our phones were blowing up all day with updates from Facebook, Twitter and Snapchat,” she said. She noted that local and national media were on-hand for the events, and ESPN provided live coverage throughout the Games. “They were everywhere with underwater cameras, on-topof-the water cameras,” she said. “We had to keep telling the athletes, ‘Don’t pay attention to the cameras.’” While the constant focus did pose challenges, Mooneyham said she was glad to see the athletes get the attention they Oak Island resident donna Mooneyham, left, was assigned to mentor Special Olympics athlete Starr Kluttz, a fellow Tar Heel from Charlotte. Kluttz, left, and Mooneyham were lag-wavers for the U.S., but the Special Olympics World Games are more about international bonding than about which nation wins the most medals and ribbons . (Photos contributed) deserve. Many people back home posted messages on Mooneyham’s Facebook page to say they saw her on ESPN. “People who normally wouldn’t know the games existed were watching,” she said. “L.A. did an awesome job of public relations. It was unbelievable.” Mooneyham said she was proud of her athletes and their determination. Initially when the team met for training camp in October 2014, she was assigned to coach and mentor Chris Willis, a swimmer from Owensboro, Kentucky. She said at irst, getting him to focus was a challenge. “He was under-motivated,” she said. To connect with him, Mooneyham had to irst ind common ground. She found it in their love for NASCAR. “We both liked the same driver—Jeff Gordon,” she said. One of Mooneyham’s former East Carolina University students had worked as a pit crew coach at Hendrick Motorsports. She reached out to him to see if he might be able to get Gordon to sign a shirt or a hat and ship it to Willis in Kentucky as a way to increase his motivation. “He got Hendrick Motorsports to donate shoes, shirts, hats—everything—from their four drivers and they drove it to Kentucky and delivered it to Chris,” she said. Mooneyham noted that eventually she was assigned to mentor a different athlete— Starr Kluttz, from Charlotte. But she maintained contact with Willis and during their time in L.A., he wanted to tell her about getting the memorabilia from Hendrick Motorsports. As Mooneyham watched Willis deliver a performance that was his personal best, a message popped up on her phone. It was from her former student. He wanted to let her know that Jeff Gordon had seen the competition and recorded a personal video message to Willis, congratulating him on his performance. “He stayed jazzed up about that the whole time,” she recalled, adding that he really got into the competition and began having fun. For the athletes, one of the best parts of the Games is being able to meet fellow competitors from other countries and trade pins and shirts. She said when the time came to swap items, Willis was in the thick of it. “The Chris I met in October would never have traded shirts with anybody, but there he was,” she said. This time, she said the teams from Finland had the best uniforms—the hot commodity during closing ceremonies. “I didn’t get any of their stuff,” she said. “By that time, I had already traded everything I had!” Mooneyham brought home shirts and pins from Iceland, Denmark, Honduras and Venezuela. While most of the trip was focused on the competition, Mooneyham did take some time out for a little fun. She recalled that the team visited Hollywood one day, and she attended a special 10th anniversary showing of “The Ringer.” After the movie, the coaches and athletes attended a reception where she met the stars of that movie, including Johnny Knoxville. They also had the opportunity to rub elbows with swimming champion Michael Phelps, as he was often poolside during the competition. “He loves Special Olympics,” Mooneyham said. Mooneyham said the closing ceremony was “one big party.” “I wish everybody could experience that just one time,” she said. While months went into preparing for the event, she feels it ‘If you get something to hang around your neck, that’s great, but what we’re looking for is for you to do your best.’ donna Mooneyham was over “in a lash.” “It was so awesome,” she said. “It was like absolute chaos. At one moment, you felt like it was never going to end, and then you were at closing ceremonies saying, ‘Where did the last 14 days go?’” Mooneyham said it will take her several months to process all that happened in L.A. But she hopes she’ll be able to do it again in 2019. An admittedly biased Mooneyham declared the aquatics team had the best coaches and mentors at the Games.