Building u d g Relationships e a o s ps Using Us g a Student-Centered Approach 2009 NACADA Annual Conference * Code 235 Julie O’Brien, Western Illinois University Niall Hartnett, Western Illinois University Advising Students in Academic Difficulty Learn how to evoke positive feelings in students through: Respect Encouragement Authentic empathy Foster the personal growth of students in their academic d i performance f What Do Students Want From Advisors... Carl Rogers “concluded the only thing anyone really needs is a good friend. Students probably b bl need d a human h being b i who h is i a good d friend, good teacher, and good advisor who is willing to listen as a responsible person who provides an ear and a compass to assist in making g informed decisions about academic goals.” (Wade, 2007) Case Studies… Scenario Role Role-plays plays for students in academic difficulty Advise the students how you would normally in this situation: CHARLIE – How would y you approach pp this situation? ANNA – How would you help her? Case Studies Follow Up What techniques would you use to advise a student in this situation? Do you find yourself using respect, encouragement and empathy when you are faced with a student who h this has thi ttype off a problem? bl ? Do you ever find yourself judging why a student is in this type of situation? Similar Approaches… Reality Therapy – focuses initially on the relationship between client and therapist which fosters mutual positive regard and openness but then looks at control t l and d solution l ti generation ti grounded d d in i cognitive iti restructuring principles. Similar Approaches Continued… Appreciative Advising – the intentional collaborative practice ti off asking ki positive, iti open-ended d d questions ti th thatt help students optimize their educational experiences and achieve their dreams, goals, and potentials Discovery Dream Design Destiny or Delivery Carl Rogers Person-Centered Therapy Theme – Client’s ability to move forward in a constructive manner if conditions fostering growth are present Views people as capable and autonomous with the ability to resolve their difficulties, realize their potential and change their lives in positive ways Principles… Congruence – authenticity of advisor – be genuine (appropriate self-disclosure is necessary), do not “ ” “act” Unconditional Positive Regard – Accept the student as h / h is he/she i without ith t judgment, j d t disapproval di l or approvall Accurate Empathetic Understanding – See the student’ss point of view and understand the meaning student and feeling of what he/she is experiencing Goals of a Student Centered Approach… FFocus on greater t independence i d d off the th student t d t– trust in themselves Help the student become the agent for self-change – openness of experience – they make the decisions Help the student self-assess his/her behavior – internal sources of evaluation – looking inward Focus on the growth, not the problems – willingness to continue growing – seeking out information or talking to their advisor Theory to Practice… Advisors must be present and accessible and “real” with the students Advisors must have an attitude of general caring, respect, acceptance, and understanding – help h l students t d t loosen l d defenses f Incongruence can occur between a student’s self perception and his/her experience in reality How to put this Theory to Practice… Congruence Advisor points out how both the advisor and the student have been similarly y affected by y such issues at some time. Unconditional Positive Regard Body Language Speaking Style A Accurate t Empathetic E th ti Understanding U d t di Rephrase the words of the student and repeat them back to him or her. Simulation Video… Simulation Follow Up Congruence is a key principle of this approach. Do you think this a technique that you can employ comfortably? What if anything might get in your way either with the student or yourself in establishing a relationship where respect, encouragement and authentic empathy are present? p Do you think that advisors have the ability to foster these relationships with the amount of time they have with students? Limitations… The advisor has his/her own goal for the student – increased academic performance, support of the university mission and values The advisor is not supposed to choose the goal for the student The student needs to come to this conclusion on his/her own Limitations Continued… N Di ti Ad Non-Directive Advising ii A Approach? h? Listen and ask questions first in a non-judgmental manner before tendering advice. Re-state issues or questions emphasizing main concerns to validate the student’s perspective. Validate the university policies and their function in supporting the student’s progress with the advisor as their representative. representative Devise a course of action based on common valid ground. Thus the advisor can still be in control of the session with a structured approach, yet not be authoritative or adversarial to the student. Limitations Continued… Advisors need to invest in the process – have to show genuineness without appearing fake Advisors may find it hard to self-disclose Have one or two anecdotes that you use repeatedly and th t you ffeell comfortable that f t bl sharing h i Advisors MUST remember that students are unique individuals and must be treated as such such. Each situation is different. The student should feel valued. Advantages… Academic advisors, regularly see students to help them pick classes and learn about requirements. Person centered therapy techniques can be used to aid students in the initial process helping them feel comfortable and connected. With counseling, a student must be the one to seek out therapy after feeling helpless or powerless or an i bilit to inability t make k decisions. d ii Many M don’t d ’t wantt to t seekk that help. This is why an advisor who utilizes these techniques can really aid a student in a subtle manner and then refer them if needed .* Direction…Moving Forward Moving towards Student-Centered Advising Advising can no longer be just passing on information and advice. Help p students with the development p of attitudes,, skills, and behaviors as a learner, decision maker and community participant. Melander (2002) describes functions of the expanded role of the student centered advisor. Using this Approach We Can…. EEstablish bli h and d sustain i a relationship l i hi with i h each h student— help inspire, motivate, and guide advisees adv sees as they ey eenter e the e uuniversity; ve s y; identify de y learning and development goals and plans Manage that relationship—keep rosters, send out announcements and reminders, and request appointments Pass on and point to sources of information about programs, courses, careers, and extracurricular activities Using this Approach We Can…. Monitor M it and d provide id feedback f db k to t students t d t regarding academic plans or results of past performances – unconditional positive regard Conduct one-on-one chat sessions with individual advisees or use a social networking site such as Facebook – congruence and accurate empathetic understanding Receive and respond to advisee requests – students can self-evaluate self evaluate what they need Conduct surveys and analyses to assess effectiveness of advising g policies p and practices. p Use the results of evaluations given by students. Questions/Discussion… Do you see yourself utilizing these kinds of strategies without even realizing it? Is Affective Advising a realistic approach or too good to be true? Any questions?! Resources… Appreciative Advising Advising. (n (n.d.). d ) How Can You Empower Your Students to Optimize Their Educational Opportunities? Retrieved August 13, 2009, from http://www.appreciativeadvising.net/ Bloom, JJ.L. Bloom L & Martin Martin, N N.A. A (2002 (2002, A August g st 29). 29) Incorporating appreciative appreciati e inquiry into academic advising. The Mentor: An Academic Advising Journal. Retrieved August 13, 2009, from http://www psu edu/dus/mentor/020829jb htm http://www.psu.edu/dus/mentor/020829jb.htm Center for Excellence in Academic Advising. (2008, September 23). Active listening skills. Retrieved August 11, 2009, from The Pennsylvania State University Web site: http://www.psu.edu/dus/cfe/actvlstn.htm http://www psu edu/dus/cfe/actvlstn htm Corey, G. (2005). Theory and practice of counseling and psychotherapy. California: Thomson Brooks/Cole. Resources Continued… Faculty Advisor Handbook Handbook. (n.d.). (n d ) A student-centered student centered approach to advising. advising Retrieved January 20, 2009, from Edgecombe Community College Web site: http://www.edgecombe.edu/ECC DOCS/handbooks/advisor/Body.htm http://www.edgecombe.edu/ECC_DOCS/handbooks/advisor/Body.htm Glasser, W. (1975). Reality therapy: A new approach to psychiatry (2nd ed.). New York: HarperCollins. Gondim, G di PP. TT. (2007 (2007, September S t b 18). 18) Person-centred P t d therapy th - concepts t andd techniques. Retrieved September 23, 2009, from http://ezinearticles.com/?Person-Centred-Therapy---Concepts-andTechniques&id=737482 Melander, E.R. (2002, November 27). The meaning of “student-centered” advising: Challenges to the advising learning community. The Mentor: An Academic Advising Journal. Journal Retrieved January 20, 20 2009, 2009 from http://www.psu.edu/dus/mentor/021127em.htm Resources Continued… Newcomb, J. Newcomb J (2009 (2009, May 6) 6). A Rogerian approach to academic advising: Building common ground between advisers and students when conflict exists. The Mentor: An Academic Advising Journal. Retrieved August 13, 2009, from http://www.psu.edu/dus/mentor/090506jn.htm Rogers, C. (1957). The necessary and sufficient conditions of therapeutic personality change. Journal of Consulting Psychology, 21, 95-103. U Info I f and d Advising Ad i i Gateway. G t (n.d.). ( d ) Advising Ad i i students t d t in i academic d i difficulty. diffi lt Retrieved January 22, 2009, from Massachusetts Institute of Technology Web Site: http://mit.edu/advising/academics/index.html Wade, W d B.K. B K (1999 (1999, D December). b ) What Wh do d you think hi k students d want ffrom advisers? d i ? Is what they want sometimes at odds with what they need or with institutional goals? How do you think students define what a “good” adviser is or does? [Msg 2] 2]. Message posted to http://www.psu.edu/dus/mentor/foru9912.htm Resources Continued… Wikipedia. (2009, Wikipedia (2009 July 27). 27) Person–centered Person centered therapy. therapy Retrieved August 13, 13 2009, from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personcentered_psychotherapy#History_and_influences Wikipedia. (2009, Wikipedia (2009 July J l 7). 7) Reality R lit th therapy. Retrie Retrieved ed A August g st 13 13, 2009 2009, from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reality_therapy Wikipedia. (2009, July 16). Unconditional positive regard. Retrieved August 13, 2009 ffrom htt 2009, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unconditional_positive_regard // iki di / iki/U diti l iti d