Family Therapy Program The Lighthouse for Recovery Ministries 140 58th St N, Birmingham, AL 35212 Email: thelighthouseforrecovery @hotmail.com Web: www.thelighthousefor recoveryministries.org Visit on Facebook. AN ADDICT IN THE FAMILY: FAMILY AT RISK RESOURCE GUIDE The words that have yet been spoken the things I need to say. To voice what's within my heart I just can't find a way. I've fought with my emotions I've held them deep inside. I didn't want to face what for so long you've tried to hide. I've been lost within the dark for so long I've seen no light. Holding on to the memory of a time when things were right. I've looked upon your face and seen the sadness in your eyes. The battle of addiction you no longer can disguise. Individual Highlights: Professional Organizations 2 Government Organizations 3 Advocacy, Education and Policy Organizations 4-5 12-Step Programs 6 Support Groups and Resources for Family and Friends 7 When your child, spouse, or loved one is struggling with addiction, it can overwhelm your family’s strength and hope. Friends and family members of addicts often feel confused, frustrated, angry and helpless. I've prayed to find the answers of what I myself must do. And I've prayed for the strength to fight through the hell that I go through. I've held on for so long but I can no longer watch you die. I cannot fight this for you but Lord knows how I've tried. It's just so hard to watch the ones you love slowly slip away. That's why I just blocked it out and held on to yesterday. I don't have all the answers or the power to save your soul. You’re broken, lost and lonely and I cannot make you whole. This fight is yours and yours alone no matter what I do. For I cannot save you the only one who can is you. Written for families with addicts - 2011 Pamela D Wray Biron Resource Guide Page 2 of 8 Professional Organizations Addiction Studies Program for Journalists A program co-sponsored by North Carolina’s Wake Forest University School of Medicine that conducts special workshops and lectures for journalists interested in learning more about alcohol and addiction. www.addictionstudies.org “Never be afraid to do what's right, especially if the well-being of a person or animal is at stake. Society's punishments are small compared to the wounds we inflict on our soul when we look the other way. Martin Luther King, Jr. American Academy of Addiction Psychiatry (AAAP) An international membership organization that provides information and resources for psychiatrists specializing in addiction. www.aaap.org American Bar Association – Standing Committee on Substance Abuse A committee of America’s preeminent legal organization that addresses legal and policy issues involving alcohol and drug addiction. www.americanbar.org American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM) A professional society representing close to 3,000 physicians dedicated to increasing access and improving quality of addiction treatment, educating physicians and the public, supporting research and prevention, and promoting the appropriate role of physicians in the care of patients with addictions. www.asam.org Association for Medical Education and Research (AMERSA) An organization that focuses on the education and training of doctors, nurses, and medical professionals on substance abuse care. www.amersa.org International Council on Alcohol and Addiction A nonprofit organization bringing together national bodies and a wide range of addiction professionals to exchange knowledge, ideas, advice, guidance, expertise, and research about recent addiction advances. www.icaa.ch National Association of Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselors (NAADAC) A professional organization designed for addiction care specialists that provides resources and information for people who work in the addiction field. www.naadac.org National Association of Addiction Treatment Providers (NAATP) An organization that provides news and policy updates and promotes research-based treatment on behalf of nonprofit and private treatment providers. www.naatp.org National Association of Lesbian and Gay Addiction Professionals (NALGAP) A membership organization dedicated to the prevention and treatment of alcoholism, substance abuse, and other addictions in LGBT communities. www.nalgap.org National Association of State Alcohol and Drug Abuse Directors (NASADAD) A nonprofit organization that supports the development of effective alcohol and other drug abuse prevention and treatment programs. www.nasadad.org National Black Alcoholism and Addictions Council (NBAC) A nonprofit organization that represents a cross-section of the larger black community, including professionals and businesspeople, and promotes the prevention of the abuse of alcohol and other drugs. www.nbacinc.org Physician and Lawyers for National Drug Policy A national group of physicians and lawyers promoting rational drugs policy and providing research and advocacy resources. www.plndp.org Page 3 of 8 Resource Guide Government Organizations Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms An agency overseen by the US Department of the Treasury that enforces the federal laws and regulations relating to alcohol and tobacco products. www.atf.gov/ . Bureau of Justice Statistics A source of facts and federal statistics on drug-related crime and incarceration. www.bjs.ojp.usdoj.gov Centers for Disease Control and Prevention A federal agency dedicated to protecting health that develops programs promoting disease prevention, environmental health, and educational activities. www.cdc.gov Center for Substance Abuse Prevention An agency run by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration that provides leadership in the federal effort to prevent alcohol, tobacco and other drug problems. www.samhsa.gov College Drinking Prevention A government-supported program that provides strategies and solutions to prevent the harmful consequences of college binge drinking. www.cadca.org National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Information (NCADI) A site run by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration listing federal resources and prevention materials on alcohol and other drugs. www.higheredcenter.org National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) A federal agency run by the US Department of Transportation, that maintains statistics on DWI and DUI. www.nhtsa.dot.gov “Every addiction arises from an unconscious refusal to face and move through your own pain. Every addiction starts with pain and ends with pain. Whatever the substance you are addicted to - alcohol, food, legal or illegal drugs, or a person you are using something or somebody to cover up your pain. Eckhart Tolle National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) A component of the National Institutes of Health that supports and conducts research on the causes, consequences, treatment, and prevention of alcoholism and alcohol-related problems. www.niaaa.nih.gov National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) A federal agency that conducts and supports research, administers policy, and disseminates data on drug dependence. www.nida.nih.gov National Alcohol and Drug Recovery Month An annual event run by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration to promote substance abuse treatment and recovery. www.recoverymonth.gov Office of National Drug Control Policy A component of the Executive Office of the President that features White House drug policy initiatives, programs, resources and press releases. www.whitehousedrugpolicy.gov Safe & Drug Free Schools Program A federal program to reduce drug, alcohol and tobacco use, and violence, in schools, through education and prevention activities. www.ed.gov Life is a series of baby steps along the way and if you add up these tiny little steps you take toward your goal, whatever it is, whether it's giving up something, a terrible addiction or trying to work your way through an illness. When you total up those baby steps you'd be amazed over the course of 10 years, the strides you've taken. Hoda Koth Substance Abuse Treatment Facility Locator A searchable directory of drug and alcohol treatment programs around the country, provided by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, that locates nearby treatment facilities.www.findtreatment.samhsa.gov Too Smart to Start An awareness initiative from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration that provides information and materials on underage drinking. www.toosmarttostart.samhsa.gov US Food and Drug Administration Drugs Information Consumer information on prescription drugs, side effects, safety concerns, drug recalls and medication health fraud. www.fda.gov Working Partners for an Alcohol- and Drug-Free Workplace A component of the US Department of Labor that provides information about addiction to alcohol and other drugs, the cost to the workplace and strategies to establish an alcohol- and drug-free workplace. www.dol.gov Secrecy, once accepted, becomes an addiction. Edward Teller Resource Guide Page 4 of 8 Advocacy, Education and Policy Organizations Advocates for the Integration of Recovery and Methadone (AFIRM) A consumer organization that endorses methadone as an effective tool of recovery that can be enhanced through the integration of other treatment approaches. www.afirmfwc.org “I have absolutely no pleasure in the stimulants in which I sometimes so madly indulge. It has not been in the pursuit of pleasure that I have periled life and reputation and reason. It has been the desperate attempt to escape from torturing memories, from a sense of insupportable loneliness and a dread of some strange impending doom.” Edgar Allen Poe American Council for Drug Education A subsidiary organization of Phoenix House that develops programs and materials based on recent scientific research advances. www.acde.org A new PATH (Parents for Addiction Treatment and Healing) A New PATH works to reduce the stigma associated with addictive illness through education and compassionate support and to advocate for therapeutic rather than punitive drug policies. PATH's current nationwide campaign is "Moms United To End The War On Drugs." www.anewpathsite.org Center for Science in the Public Interest (CSPI) A nonprofit education and advocacy organization that partly focuses on reducing the damage caused by the overconsumption of alcoholic beverages. www.cspinet.org Community Anti-Drug Coalitions of America A national prevention organization that trains local anti-drug coalitions to assess and tackle drug problems in their communities. www.cadca.org Do It Now Foundation A non-profit publisher of alcohol, substance abuse, and health information, targeting audiences including middle school, high school and college students. www.doitnow.org Drug Policy Alliance An anti-drug war group that promotes drug policies “based on science, compassion, health, and human rights.” www.drugpolicy.org Drug Scope An independent UK center on drugs and drug use, whose controversial studies on practices and government policies frequently trigger a maelstrom of heated debate. www.drugscope.org.uk Drug Strategies An organization that supports private and public efforts to reduce demand for drugs through prevention, education, treatment, law enforcement and community initiatives. www.drugstrategies.org Entertainment Industries Council (EIC) A nonprofit organization that encourages the entertainment industry to accurately and unsensationally depict the major public health and social issues surrounding drugs and alcohol. www.eiconline.org A watershed is: A defining moment of insight and clarity where healing begins and lives are reclaimed.”.” Faces & Voices of Recovery A national nonprofit organization working to mobilize, organize and rally Americans in a campaign to end discrimination, broaden understanding and achieve a just response to addiction. www.facesandvoicesofrecovery.org Fighting Back A partnership of businesses, communities and government agencies working together to fight substance abuse in their communities. www.fightingback.org Harm Reduction Coalition A national advocacy group that promotes programs to tackle adverse effects of drug abuse, such as overdose, HIV, hepatitis C, addiction, and incarceration. www.harmreduction.org Join Together A Boston University School of Health project supporting effective drug and alcohol policy and providing information on current policy and legislative issues, political advocacy, and a large online database and documents library. www.jointogether.org Page 5 of 8 Resource Guide Advocacy, Education and Policy Organizations (cont) Legal Action Center An organization that fights discrimination against people with histories of addiction, by providing legal services, policy advocacy, research, and training. www.lac.org Marin Institute An alcohol industry watchdog that disseminates and collates information on alcohol use, problems, and policies. www.marininstitute.org Medical Assisted Treatment A site aiming to raise awareness and acceptance of methadone treatment for substance abuse. www.medicalassistedtreatment.org National Association for Children of Alcoholics (NACoA) An organization advocating for children and families affected by alcoholism and other drug dependencies. www.nacoa.org National Alliance for Medication Assisted Recovery (NAMA Recovery) An organization of methadone patients, healthcare professionals and their allies, that supports opiate agonist treatment. www.methadone.org National Association of Drug Court Professionals (NADCP) An organization that promotes the establishment and funding of special drug courts for drug offenders. www.nadcp.org National Association of State Alcohol and Drug Abuse Directors (NASADAD) A nonprofit organization that supports the development of effective alcohol and other drug abuse prevention and treatment programs. www.nasadad.org National Association on Alcohol, Drugs, and Disability (NAADD) An organization that promotes awareness and education on addiction among people with co-existing disabilities and works to improve access to services, information, and education. www.naadd.org National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence (NCADD) A voluntary health organization that fights the stigma and disease of alcoholism and other drug addictions. www.ncadd.org National Families in Action A family prevention organization focused on opposition to the legalization of marijuana. www.nationalfamilies.org National Inhalant Prevention Coalition (NIPC) A public-private effort to promote awareness and recognition of the problem of inhalant use. www.inhalants.org Partnership for a Drug-Free America A nonprofit coalition of scientists, communications professionals and parenting experts seeking to reduce demand for drugs through anti-drug advertising and other forms of media communication. www.drugfreeamerica.org Partnership for Recovery An advocacy group formed by the Betty Ford Center, Hazelden Foundation, Valley Hope Association and Caron Foundation to promote the value of treatment to policy makers and the public. www.partnershipforrecovery.org Stop the Drug War A national organization that advocates for drug legalization and provides drugs news and views. www.stopthedrugwar.org “" Treatment Improvement Exchange A web center that offers information and resources for advocacy groups and alcohol and drug addiction organizations. www.treatment.org How lovely to think that no one need wait a moment, we can start now, start slowly changing the world! How lovely that everyone, great and small, can make their contribution toward introducing justice straightaway... And you can always, always give something, even if it is only kindness!" Anne Frank Resource Guide Page 6 of 8 12-Step Programs Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) The world's leading 12-step fellowship, designed to help people overcome drinking problems. www.aa.org Cocaine Anonymous A program to help people recover from cocaine addiction. www.ca.org Co-Dependents Anonymous A program that helps people with codependency problems to learn to form healthier relationships. www.coda.org I spent a lifetime in hell and it only took twelve steps to get to heaven. Crystal Meth Anonymous A program to help people recover from crystal meth addiction. www.crystalmeth.org Debtors Anonymous A program to help people recover from compulsive spending and debt problems. www.debtorsanonymous.org Dual Recovery Anonymous An organization for people with a dual diagnosis of chemical dependence and an emotional or psychiatric illness. www.draonline.org Food Addicts in Recovery Anonymous A program for people who suffer from overeating, under eating, bulimia, or obsession with food or body size. www.foodaddicts.org Gamblers Anonymous A program to help people recover from addiction to gambling. www.gamblersanonymous.org Marijuana Anonymous A program to help people recover from marijuana addiction. www.marijuana-anonymous.org Narcotics Anonymous (NA) An international association of recovering drug addicts. www.na.org The first step in overcoming Mistakes is to admit to them. Native American Indian General Service Office of Alcoholics Anonymous (NAIGSO-AA) A 12 step fellowship aimed specifically at Native American Indians. The service also offers an inmate correspondence program that connects with Native American alcoholics who are incarcerated. www.naigso-aa.org Nicotine Anonymous A program offering support to people trying to quit smoking. www.nicotine-anonymous.org Overeaters Anonymous A program helping people to overcome the problem of compulsive overeating. www.oa.org Sexaholics Anonymous A program helping people to achieve sexual sobriety. www.sa.org Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous A program helping people with sex and love addictions. www.slaafws.org Shopaholics Anonymous A program helping people with compulsive shopping addictions. www.shopaholicsanonymous.org The moment you think about giving up, Think of the reason you held on so long. Page 7 of 8 Resource Guide Support Groups and Resources for Family and Friends Adult Children of Alcoholics A 12-step program for women and men who grew up in alcoholic or otherwise dysfunctional homes. www.adultchildren.org Al-Anon / Alateen A 12-step program for friends and families of problem drinkers. www.al-anon.alateen.org Children of Alcoholics Foundation A nonprofit organization that provides educational materials and services to help professionals, children, and adults dealing with parental addiction. www.coaf.org Families Anonymous A 12-step program for the families and friends of people with addiction. www.familiesanonymous.org In The Rooms A support group for addicts and their friends and family alike. www.intherooms,com Nar-Anon Family Groups A 12-step program to help relatives and friends recover from the effects of living with an addict. www.nar-anon.org National Association for Children of Alcoholics (NACoA) An organization advocating for children and families affected by alcoholism and other drug dependencies. www.nacoa.org The Partnership at Drugfree.org Helping parents prevent, intervene and find treatment for their children using science and communications based resources. www.drugfree.org Road Recovery Helps young people battle addiction (and other adversities) via entertainment industry professionals who have confronted similar crises and now wish to collaborate with young people to create and present live-concert events. www.roadrecovery.org SuboXone TalkZone A place for addicts and those who love them to discuss addiction, particularly addiction to opiates (pain pills). www.suboxforum.com Treatment Talk A site created by a concerned parent that is focused on sharing and support for addiction, recovery and treatment. www.treatmenttalk.org Alateen A 12-step fellowship for friends and families of problem drinkers. www.al-anon.alateen.org/ Children of Alcoholics Foundation A nonprofit organization that provides educational materials and services to help professionals, children, and adults dealing with parental addiction. www.coaf.org Do It Now Foundation A non-profit publisher of alcohol, substance abuse, and health information, targeting audiences including middle school, high school and college students. www.doitnow.org Leadership to Keep Children Alcohol Free A foundation led by current and former Governors’ spouses that campaigns to curtail alcohol use by children aged 9-15 and provides alcohol-related information and resources for parents, community leaders, and researchers. www.alcoholfreechildren.org Association of Recovery Schools A national group of recovery high schools and college dorms designed to help addicted students to achieve success in both education and recovery. www.recoveryschools.org National Family Partnership An organization that provides information and materials for communities to promote youth alcohol and drug prevention efforts. www.nfp.org The Lighthouse for Recovery Ministries 140 58th St., N Birmingham, AL 35212 PHONE: (205) 834-6272 Pamela D. Wray Biron Executive Director/Founder Nominee, "2014 White House Champion of Change for Expanding Reentry Employment Opportunities". Winner, "Outstanding Woman in the Community", UAB Womens Center, 2014”. Future Dates for AN ADDICT IN THE FAMILY: FAMILY AT RISK WORKSHOPS September 13, 2014 January 10, 2015 May 9, 2015 September 12, 2015 December 12, 2015 UAB Campus in Birmingham, Al Campbell Hall Room 405 Winner, "2013 Best Social Services", Birmingham, AL. 2013 Presidential "Citizen's Award" nominee. "Make a Difference" award, February 2011, Alabama 13 and America's First Federal Credit Union. We’re on the Web! See us at: www.thelighthouseforrecovery ministries.org E-MAIL: thelighthouseforrecovery@ hotmail.com One of the missions of The Lighthouse for Recovery Ministries is to provide addicts and families and social service personnel with support and education on the disease of addiction, cross addiction and the impact on the family. Our addiction and substance abuse family therapy program is designed to assess your family’s needs, educate you about chemical dependence and offers ongoing family support during and/or after the patient’s addiction treatment. The disease of addiction has significant physical, emotional and social consequences for the individual seeking addiction treatment and for the family and significant others who have been impacted by the disease. We view family as an essential component of a patient’s ongoing recovery program and seek to involve family members in the addiction treatment and recovery process. The Addiction Family Therapy Workshop is designed to assist members of a family in establishing a supportive and healthy recovery environment by encouraging members to be authentic, communicate, utilize boundaries, and function in a healthy fashion. During this workshop, family members will learn how codependent behaviors, trauma, mood disorders and/or addictions can impact a family system. Family members will develop tools to successfully enhance recovery and a relational family system. Our primary goal is to help members bridge the gaps that have plagued the family system.