Social & Emotional Development in Middle Adulthood Balancing Work and Family Erikson’s Theory & Midlife • Generativity vs Stagnation • Commitment expands beyond self (identity) and partner (intimacy) to larger group • Gen- everything that can outlive the self and ensure improvement • Stag- unable to contribute b/c of selfcenteredness and self-indulgence Levinson’s Seasons of Life • Midlife Transition – ~40 yrs success evaluation, precious remaining years – Advancement & Growth at work? – For some, inner pressure to change life path Levinson’s Seasons of Life: Modifying ones life structure (Gender Differences & Similarities) • Acceptance with age & creating youth-age balance – Physical changes, illness, aging parents – Due to double standard of aging, women find it harder to accept • Confront own mortality and increase awareness of others’ destructive behavior Levinson’s Seasons of Life: Modifying ones life structure (Gender Differences & Similarities) • Reconciling feminine & masculine parts of self – Men: more accepting of “feminine” traits such as nurturance & caring – Women: more open to “masculine” traits of autonomy, dominance, & assertiveness • Will this be true when you’re in middle adulthood? Is there a MIDLIFE CRISIS? • What is it? • "I'm looking forward to pursuing the career I always wanted,“ • "I'm tired of just working on other people's visions, rather than my own, even if I have to start on a smaller scale." Is there a MIDLIFE CRISIS? • Intense self-doubt lead to drastic changes in personal life and career • 70-80% vs. 10% • Most don’t experience it, though wide differences in response to midlife • Sudden changes to outsiders may not truly be “sudden” • For many-sense of confidence & accomplishment Divorce