Budapest International Model United Nations Non-verbal communication and diplomatic protocol “Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleep after.” /Anne Morrow Lindbergh/ Communication plays a leading role while debating and participating at MUNs. Since the ancient times it has special rules and unwritten laws that may be learnt or born-with. Let’s have a closer look on how to extend a few simple sentences into an astonishing speech. 1. The main principles of communication a. The main verbal principles: i. cooperation (you are looking for a mutual solution, do NEVER forget it!) ii. quality (aim to tell the truth, exact data and information while using proper professional language) iii. circumstances (it’s different to give a speech in a kindergarten than in the UN) iv. politeness (be polite, always!) v. minimalization of silence (even though little pauses for express your sentences are not just allowed, but recommended) vi. the principle of irony and avoiding disputes (arguing is OK, disputes and quarrels are not!) b. The main non-verbal principles: i. ii. iii. iv. v. (physical connection (not in our case)) mimics and gestures (not too much, you still are at a MUN conference, but needed!) posture (something like “both proud and self-conscious”) outfit (elegant) circumstances (you are standing on the floor of a MUN conference, it gives you the non-verbal signs of intelligence and seriousness) c. → the verbal and non-verbal signs can strengthen, weaken, complete or contradict each other, be wary of this! 2. Diplomatic protocol In this section of the guide a little collection will be presented. Things, which you have to be familiar with; mostly the basics of diplomatic protocol. This is important to maintain the look of a professional and the both elegant and charming atmosphere. Clothing. As stated in the Rules of Procedure it has to be adequate, but it is not enough. A diplomat has to wear his/her cloth, not just put on. Gentlemen, do not forget your coat while delivering a speech and mind your bottom button! For the ladies there is no explanation on how to wear (and bear) the clothes, you know it, it is in your blood. Hands. Never-ever in your pockets. Never. If you do not know what to do with your hands while delivering a speech then grab a piece of paper (even if you have no notes on it) and Tel.: +36-1-327-7290 Fax.: +36-1-327-7298 Eötvös József Gimnázium 1053 Budapest Reáltanoda u. 7. Email: bimun@bimun.hu Budapest International Model United Nations hold that. Holding a paper makes you look like a delegate, unlike holding the microphone. You are not Britney Spears to softly whisper your words into it. Addressing. It is also stated in the Rules of Procedure, that delegates shall address the present excellencies in the order of their title. In the real diplomatic world if you miss someone important from your addressing then you may say goodbye to your fancy job. Attention. If someone is talking to you then it shall be fundamental that you listen to him/her, even though if you are not interested at all. “Delegates, please refer to yourselves in the third person singular or the first person plural” This is also important, only exceptions are the phrases, locutions that include other forms. Such as “Thank you” or “My apologies”. While yielding the floor it also may be acceptable to use the first person singular. Punctuality. There is nothing worse than a late-running diplomat arriving to the session minutes late still catching his/her breath. With these kept in mind do never forget that on the one hand you are a serious delegate representing a country in the world’s greatest diplomatic organization, the United Nations, and on the other hand you are a well-educated young adult with a few hundreds of others like you. Tel.: +36-1-327-7290 Fax.: +36-1-327-7298 Eötvös József Gimnázium 1053 Budapest Reáltanoda u. 7. Email: bimun@bimun.hu