2 Corinthians “The Heart of an Apostle” Part 12 - 2 Corinthians 7:2-16 “Godly Sorrow vs. Worldly Sorrow” “I’m Sorry” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 2 “I’m Sorry” I SAID I WAS SORRY…ISN’T THAT ENOUGH! 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 3 “I’m Sorry” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 4 Godly Sorrow vs. Worldly Sorrow In this morning’s passage, Paul describes for us what true godly sorrow looks like, and how we can differentiate it from worldly sorrow. 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 5 Big Idea “if the sorrow is truly godly, it will result in the change of the sorrowful ” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 6 Change in Heart (7:2-4) A Look Back “We have spoken freely to you, Corinthians; our heart is wide open. You are not restricted by us, but you are restricted in your own affections. In return (I speak as to children) widen your hearts also.” (2 Cor 6:11–13 ESV) 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 8 2 Cor 7:2–4 “2Make room for us in your hearts. We have wronged no one, we have corrupted no one, we have exploited no one. 3I do not say this to condemn you; I have said before that you have such a place in our hearts that we would live or die with you. 4I have great confidence in you; I take great pride in you. I am greatly encouraged; in all our troubles my joy knows no bounds.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 9 Great Joy to Love and Be Loved “Make room for us in your hearts. We have wronged no one, we have corrupted no one, we have exploited no one. I do not say this to condemn I have There is noyou; greater joysaid as abefore pastorthat thenyou to have pour such a place our flock hearts that wethem would liveyou or your love intoinyour and have love diereturn. with you. I have great confidence in you; I in take great pride in you. I am greatly encouraged; in all our troubles my joy knows no bounds.” (2 Cor 7:2–4 NIV) 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 10 Change in Comfort (7:5-9) Look Back Again “When I came to Troas to preach the gospel of Christ, even though a door was opened for me in the Lord, my spirit was not at rest because I did not find my brother Titus there. So I took leave of them and went on to Macedonia.” (2 Cor 2:12–13 ESV) 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 12 2 Cor 7:5–7 “5For when we came into Macedonia, this body of ours had no rest, but we were harassed at every turn—conflicts on the outside, fears within. 6But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus, 7and not only by his coming but also by the comfort you had given him. He told us about your longing for me, your deep sorrow, your ardent concern for me, so that my joy was greater than ever.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 13 Two-Headed Enemy “5For when we came into Macedonia, this body of ours had no rest, but we were harassed at every turn—conflicts on the outside, fears within. 6But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus, 7and not The two-headed enemy of ministry is those who only by his coming but also by the comfort you oppose ushim. fromHe the outside, andyour those feelings had given told us about longing for of fear and incompetence that plague us within. me, your deep sorrow, your ardent concern for me, so that my joy was greater than ever.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 14 The God of all Comfort 5For when we came into Macedonia, this body “Paul pressed on by means of the God of all of ours had no rest, but we were harassed at comfort. every turn—conflicts on the outside, fears within. 6But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus, 7and not only by his coming but also by the comfort you had given him. He told us about your longing for me, your deep sorrow, your ardent concern for me, so that my joy was greater than ever.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 15 The God of all Comfort 5For when we came into Macedonia, this body “Paul pressed on by means of the God of all of ours had no rest, but we were harassed at comfort. every turn—conflicts on the outside, fears “Blessed6 be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus within. But God, who comforts the downcast, Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all 7 comforted us by the coming of Titus, and not comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so only by his coming but also by the comfort you that we may be able to comfort those who are in had given him. He told us about your longing for any affliction, with the comfort with which we me, your deep sorrow, your ardent concern for ourselves are comforted by God.” (2 Corinthians me, so that my joy was greater than ever.” 1:3–4 ESV) 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 16 Comfort Conductors 5For when we came into Macedonia, this body “God uses us to encourage and comfort others so of ours had no rest, but we were harassed at that we become comfort conductors. every turn—conflicts on the outside, fears God’s6comfort Us comforts Those needing comfort within. But God, who the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus, 7and not only by his coming but also by the comfort you had given him. He told us about your longing for me, your deep sorrow, your ardent concern for me, so that my joy was greater than ever.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 17 2 Cor 7:8–9 “8Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do not regret it. Though I did regret it—I see that my letter hurt you, but only for a little while— 9yet now I am happy, not because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led you to repentance. For you became sorrowful as God intended and so were not harmed in any way by us.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 18 Sorrowful Letter “8Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do not regret it. Though I did regret it—I see that my letter hurt you, but only for a little while— 9yet now I am happy, not because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led you to Paul apparently sent a “sorrowful” letter to the repentance. For you became sorrowful as God Corinthians in order to hurt them into intended and so were not harmed in any way by repentance. us.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 19 Allow People to Sin? “8Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do Why do we allow people to continue to sin, in not regret it. Though I did regret it—I see that the name of love? my letter hurt you, but only for a little while— 9yet now I am happy, not because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led you to repentance. For you became sorrowful as God intended and so were not harmed in any way by us.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 20 Warn or Repair? “Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.” (Gal 6:1 ESV) 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 21 Change in Direction (7:1013a) 2 Cor 7:10–13a “10Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. 11See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what earnestness, what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done. At every point you have proved yourselves to be innocent in this matter. 12So even though I wrote to you, it was not on account of the one who did the wrong or of the injured party, but rather that before God you could see for yourselves how devoted to us you are. 13By all this we are encouraged.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 23 Godly Sorrow Brings Repentance “10Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. 11See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what True godlywhat sorrow will toalways bring about earnestness, eagerness clear yourselves, what indignation, repentance.what alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done. At every point you Repentance (metanoia) “to perceive have proved yourselves to be=innocent in this after”. matter. 12So even though I wrote to you, it was not on account of the Godly leadsorus to injured God; party, this isbutwhere one whosorrow did the wrong of the rather that before God you couldto seego! for yourselves how devoted we’ve been designed to us you are. 13By all this we are encouraged.” Hell 3/24/2016 Heaven EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 24 Worldly Sorrow Brings Death “10Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. 11See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what earnestness, what eagerness toofyou clear yourselves, Worldly sorrow never turns it what only “But when he saw many the around; Pharisees and indignation, whatand alarm, what longing, whatguilt concern, seeks comfort freedom from the and Sadducees coming to his baptism, he said to what readiness to see justice done. At every point you consequence of sin. them, “Youyourselves brood oftovipers! Whoinwarned you12to have proved be innocent this matter. So even wrote to you,to it was not onBear account of the flee though from Ithe wrath come? fruit in one who did the wrong or of the injured party, but rather keeping with repentance.” (Matt 3:7–8 ESV that before God you could see for yourselves how devoted to us you are. 13By all this we are encouraged.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 25 The Final Analysis Godly Sorrow Godly sorrow brings change Godly sorrow sees sin as a crime against God Godly sorrow is Godfocused 3/24/2016 Worldly Sorrow Worldly sorrow avoids change Worldly sorrow seeks to excuse sin and dodge its consequences Worldly sorrow is selffocused EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 26 Fruit of Repentance “10Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. 11See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what earnestness, what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done. At every point you have proved yourselves to be innocent in this matter. 12So even though I wrote to you, it was not on account of the one who did the wrong or of the injured party, but rather that before God you could see for yourselves how devoted to us you are. 13By all this we are encouraged.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 27 Fruit of Repentance “10Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. 11See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what earnestness, to clear and yourselves, what “For I knowwhat myeagerness transgressions, my sin is indignation, what alarm, what longing, what concern, ever before me. Against only,point have what readiness to see justice you, done. you At every youI sinned andyourselves done what evil ininyour sight,12so have proved to beisinnocent this matter. So even I wrote you, it wasinnot on account the that though you may betojustified your wordsofand one who did the wrong or of the injured party, but rather blameless in your judgment.” (Psa 51:3–4 ESV) that before God you could see for yourselves how devoted to us you are. 13By all this we are encouraged.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 28 Change in Others (7:13b-16) 2 Cor 7:13b–16 “In addition to our own encouragement, we were especially delighted to see how happy Titus was, because his spirit has been refreshed by all of you. I had boasted to him about you, and you have not embarrassed me. But just as everything we said to you was true, so our boasting about you to Titus has proved to be true as well. And his affection for you is all the greater when he remembers that you were all obedient, receiving him with fear and trembling. I am glad I can have complete confidence in you.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 30 2 Cor 7:13b–16 “In addition to our own encouragement, we were especially delighted to see how happy Titus was, because his spirit has been refreshed by all of you. I had boasted to him about you, and you have not embarrassed me. But just as everything we said to True godly brings about aboutyounot onlyhasa you was true, sorrow so our boasting to Titus change in be you, butasalso whoaffection know you. proved to true well.those And his for you is all the greater when he remembers that you were all obedient, receiving him with fear and trembling. I am glad I can have complete confidence in you.” 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 31 So What? Godly sorrow must produce change. How so? 1. By the change in our hearts towards the people of God. 2. By the change in our ability to comfort others with the comfort we have received from God. 3. By the change in direction regarding our relationship to sin and how it is viewed by our Holy God. 4. By the change we see in others as a result of what God is doing in and through us. 3/24/2016 EBFC Semon Series: 2 Corinthians 33