Document1 Pg 1 of 3 2 The Great Commandment, Part 4 1 Corinthians 13 – The Love Chapter 3 June 22, 2014 ~ Legacy Baptist (www.LegacyBaptistChurch.org) 1 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 My prayer is (and at the top of our website ) that we are becoming a: GREAT COMMANDMENT CHURCH (the last few weeks’ MEMORY VERSES): Matthew 22:36-40 (ESV), THE GREAT COMMANDMENT - “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” 37 And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. 38 This is the great and first commandment. 39 And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. 40 On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.” 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 Next Sunday we’re beginning the Gospel of Mark, preparing us to lead our lost friends through a six-week one-on-one (or small group) evangelistic study of Mark. I want to see us all equipped in sharing the Gospel clearly and lovingly. So here are the next few weeks’ memory verses… [which you can now see on the church website, on the “Scripture Memory Tab”. And there’s a sheet you can print off that has ALL the verses we’ve been memorizing, with some of my comments and in different Bible versions.] 2 Timothy 2:24–26 (ESV) - And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, 25 correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, 26 and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will. [This verse is so helpful for when we share the Gospel, or have to confront someone who is in error. Our job is to be KIND and CLEAR, then we pray that God will “grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth…” This is a heart change that only our Sovereign God can bring, but He uses the means of us teaching His truth (prayerfully in a KIND and CLEAR way).] --------------------------- INTRO to 1 Cor 13 Here is the “Love Chapter”! It’s often heard at weddings (and of course it applies there), but here’s the original context… The church at Corinth was very gifted, and particularly admired showy speaking gifts (contrast 1 Cor 2:1-5). They were divided over which Christian leaders and speakers they admired (1 Cor 1:10-13; 3:3-9, etc). And then in 1 Cor 5 they were apparently bragging over their tolerance of the open, ongoing, unrepentant sexual sin of one of their church members. So yet ANOTHER misunderstanding of what Biblical love is supposed to be like. In 1 Cor 6 we find they were suing each other. In 1 Cor 8 and 10 they weren’t willing to sacrifice any of their food/drink preferences, even though they were tempting other church members to stumble in sin. In 1 Cor 11, we find out the rich have been eating elaborate meals before the Lord’s Supper, before the poor had time to get off work and get there, so ANOTHER division in the church. And 1 Cor 12 and 14 are about spiritual gifts, and how what we need is a focus on gifts that BUILD up the body of Christ, not let an individual show off. THIS is the context for the “Love Chapter”! It would have been VERY convicting, not a pretty thing to read at a wedding. They (like so quickly happens with us) were slipping into an individual focus, rather than on what would honor God and build up the whole church. 45 46 47 48 49 Today we live in a culture that has redefined love as what makes ME feel loved, or as tolerance of whatever the person is doing. But Biblical love is being committed to what is best for the one loved. There are descriptions here with hard edges (like “love rejoices with the truth” – v 6) and descriptions with a softer feel (“kind” – v 4, “not irritable” – v 5). In other words, there’s enough Document1 Pg 2 of 3 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 here for all of us to be in over our heads and desperate for God’s Spirit to bear His fruit in our lives (the first of which is love – see Gal 5:22-26)! ---------------------------1 Corinthians 12:24–13:13 (ESV) 24 …God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it, 25 that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. 26 If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together. 27 Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it. 28 And God has appointed in the church first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, helping, administrating, and various kinds of tongues. 29 Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? 30 Do all possess gifts of healing? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret? [These are “rhetorical questions,” where you already know the answer – “No!”] 31 But earnestly desire the higher gifts. [I think this refers to the gifts that build up the body – see 1 Cor 14:1-5, 12-19, 26. ALL of the gifts must be exercised in LOVE, and not be a chance to just do our thing and feel good about ourselves.] And I will show you a still more excellent way. 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 I. The IMPORTANCE of Love 1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. [Including not a Christian – see 1 Jn 4:7-8, 19-21.] 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing. [See last week’s notes for more on the importance of love…] II. The DESCRIPTION of Love 4 Love is patient [or “suffers long” / “endures”; see this Intro for how much the Corinthian church had done to 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 each other, and Paul wants them to hang in there and love each other! I’m concerned it’s so easy to be isolated these days that we don’t let each other close enough to have to “suffer long”.] and kind; [gentle / useful / acting on behalf of another’s good – see 1 Cor 5:5 which may not have FELT kind, but WAS aimed at his long-term good and the good of the church as a whole. Many have commented that these descriptions are all actions. True, but “kind” gives a gentle feel to all those actions. The same Greek root is in Ephesians 4:32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.] love does not envy [NASB: “is not jealous”; same Greek in James 4:2 as “covet”] or boast; [or “brag” / doesn’t need to “top that testimony”] it is not arrogant [or “puffed up” / proud; this word is used a lot in 1 Corinthians to describe this church – 1 Cor 4:6, 18, 19; 5:2; 8:1. 1 Cor 8:1b (ESV) ...“knowledge” puffs up, but love builds up.] 5 or rude. [HCSB – “does not act improperly”. Love cares about behaving properly towards the opposite sex (same Greek as 1 Cor 7:36) and proper manners for the culture (for rudeness in the Corinthian church, see 1 Cor 11:5-6, 20-22, 14:26-40]. And yes, this means that we’ll put others’ comfort ahead of our own – see 1 Cor 9:19-23] It does not insist on its own way; [love DOES insist on GOD’s way – see 1 Cor 5, 13:6, but not its OWN way. 1 Cor 10:24 (ESV) - Let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor. [Also 1 Cor 9:19-23, 10:31-33, 6:7] it is not irritable [NIV = “easily angered” Document1 Pg 3 of 3 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 193 194 195 196 197 198 199 200 201 202 203 204 205 206 250 251 James 1:19–20 (ESV) - Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; 20 for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.] or resentful; [NIV = “keeps no record of wrongs” 2 Cor 5:19 (ESV) - …in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation.] it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. [See 1 Cor 5 for a perfect example. (1 Cor 5:8 is the only other place in 1 Cor that uses this same Greek word for “truth”). Also see 3 John 4 (ESV) - I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.] 7 Love bears all things, [“bears” – NIV = “always protects,” and it CAN be that, but it’s the same Greek in 1 Cor 9:12 as “endures”. Also same Greek in 1 Thess 3:1,5. Love hangs in there, even after the horrible way the Corinthians had been treating each other – see Intro.] believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. [NIV = “always trusts, always hopes, always endures.” This is the word that’s used consistently in the NT for belief / trust in God and His truth. Most commentators think that here, because of the context, it refers to putting the best spin on what those we love tell us, and hoping the best for their spiritual condition (like Paul demonstrates in 2 Cor 1:7, 2:3, 3:2-4, 7:16, 10:15). A few others (and I’m leaning this way) say that Biblical love keeps trusting and hoping in GOD and what HE has said and promised, no matter what’s happening around us; no matter how III. The PERMANENCE of Love 218 219 220 6 deeply those we love are hurting us. There may be an element of both these things – Biblical love looks to GOD for what it is ultimately trusting and hoping in, and can therefore afford to be hurt by others, tending towards believing / hoping the best about them, while our ultimate confidence is in God, so we endure, looking to Him and loving those He’s put in our church family, even/especially when that’s tough.] 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 215 216 217 221 222 223 224 225 226 227 228 229 230 231 232 233 234 235 236 237 238 239 240 241 242 243 244 245 246 247 248 249 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 8 [Some see “the perfect” as referring to the completion of Scripture. I don’t think so, especially in view of 1 Cor 13:12. I think it’s referring to heaven. The clear point, though, is this: the Corinthians (and us, too) tending to get overly excited about things that are TEMPORARY (in this case, the gifts of tongues, prophesy, and the gift of knowledge). We NEED to focus on what is ETERNAL, like love! A good evaluation question: “What difference will this make in 100 years??”] 11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. [In other words, love is the mark of Christian MATURITY. The way the Corinthians had been acting (see Intro) was childish.] 12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known. 13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.