Adapted from Chapter 2 “The Developing Child” 7th Edition A group of 2 or more people who care about each other and are committed to each other Nuclear Extended Single-Parent Blended A family group with two generations – mother, father and children – sharing the same household Some included adopted and foster children Adoption is the legal process in which people obtain the permanent right to raise a child who is not biologically theirs Foster children are those whose parents or other close family members are unable to care for him or her A family group that includes relatives other than parents and children within a single household Examples include: Grandparents raising grandchildren Grandparents living with children and grandchildren A family group that consists of one parents and one+ children sharing a household Single parenting puts great demands on parent unless there is a support system in place A family group that consists of a married couple and at least one child from a parent’s previous relationship Also called a “step-family” Nuclear Blended Single Parent Extended A series of stages in a predictable order Beginning Stage Retirement Stage Childbearing Stage Empty – Nest Stage Child – Rearing Stage Launching Stage Beginning stage Couple works to establish a home and marriage Childbearing Prepares and adjusts to parenthood Child-rearing stage Launching Children gradually leave home and support themselves Empty-nest stage As children grow, parents work to meet their children’s changing needs and help them develop stage After the last child leaves home, the couple adjusts to life without rearing children Retirement stage stage Couple adjusts to aging process Variations Single adulthood Single parenthood Divorce Remarriage Couples without children Adult children who move back in with parents Changing Less clearly defined now Increasing numbers of families are headed by single parents or by two employed parents Mobile Family Roles Society Individuals and families move often Causes families to lack close, supportive connections with friends and relatives Awareness of Family Values Many believe in government supporting and encouraging families Commitment A pledge or promise of loyalty Time together Doing various activities Communication Open communication is essential to a strong family system Appreciation Affirm each other Each family member is appreciated for who they are Shared Usually based on the teachings and practice of an organized religion Coping beliefs skills Techniques that help people solve a problem or adapt to a situation Caretaker of the offspring of their own species. Biological parent: sire of child; shares DNA Adoptive parent: one who nurtures and raises the offspring of the biological parents but is not actually biologically related to the child A parent changes roles throughout the years During childhood, a parent is the caretaker and supporter of child During teen/early adulthood, parents become advisers and mentors During mid adulthood, parents are friends and confidants During the parents elderly years, they become dependant on their children, and roles are reversed. New responsibilities Life long commitment Will need to manage time, money, energy, knowledge, and skills Changes in lifestyle Parents have limited personal freedom Emotional Adjustments Anxiety Fear Frustration Doubts Financial worry Changes in relationships Take new feelings out on spouse May feel there is less in common with friends Strained relationships with extended family due to “advice” May feel closer to own parents Emotional maturity Putting baby’s needs above your own Desire for parenthood Health considerations Management What are the family’s needs and wants? What are the family’s goals? Financial skills considerations What are the family’s expenses? Can a child be added into the budget? Unsound reasons Sound reasons Our marriage is in trouble. A baby will solve our problems Having children will add depth to our relationship A baby is someone who will love me and belong to me I want to give a baby my care and love I feel like I’m nobody. Being a parent will make me feel like somebody I feel good about myself. Parenthood will be a meaningful and rewarding experience Unsound reasons Sound reasons I want someone who will take care of me when I am old I want to experience the special bond between parent and child that lasts a lifetime Our parents want grandchildren I love children and I want to be a parent Why is it important to make decisions about parenthood before pregnancy begins? What effects do you think an unplanned pregnancy can have on a married couple?