GESTALT THERAPY COUNSELING THEORIES -- EPSY 6363 DR. SPARROW Background • We have seen how existential-humanistic therapies share common ground, but may emphasize different factors in therapy. • Existential therapy -- focuses on choice and responsibility as the “first cause” • Rogers -- focuses on self actualization and the impact of therapist factors in activating a person’s own capacity to move toward self actualization. Background • In contrast, Gestalt emphasizes awareness as the central force in fostering individual healing and growth. Awareness precedes choice and responsibility and is the necessary and sufficient catalyst to a person’s self-initiated and self regulated process of self actualization. GOALS and principles • Focus on process rather than content • To gain awareness of what you are experiencing -- genuine knowledge • To foster change as an outgrowth of intensified awareness • Paradoxical: Change occurs by experiencing more intensely what we are, rather than striving for what we’d like to be. • Clients have a capacity to “self regulate” if they are fully aware • Moving client to self support rather than environmental support GOALS and principles • Holism and integration -- no superior value placed on particular aspects • Field Theory -- a person is himself or herself in context, everything is relational • Figure formation -- foreground and background • Organismic self-regulation -- similar to homeostasis in family therapy, but seen more positively, because of a person’s ability to choose growth and change, not just the status quo. The Importance of the Now • The present is all we have, and focusing on past and future is a form of avoidance. • “What” and “how” questions bring the person into the present -- not “Why?” or “What do you think?” • Most of us talk about our feelings. Gestalt emphasizes getting into feelings all the way. • Past can be finished through reenactment; intensification assists release Unfinished Business • The past “seeks” completion, and will persist under dealt with - actualizing urge requires resolution and integration of the past. • The “stuck point” is when our ability to resist unfinished business does not work any longer, or when the environmental support is no longer there. Contact and Resistances to Contact • Various forms of resistance • Projection • Introjection • Retroflection, example is anger making depression • Deflection, such as humor, change of subject • Confluence • Blocks to energy Energy and Blocks • Clients will resist feelings by storing tensions or blocks in the body • Strategy is usually to “go into the block,” and to experience it fully • Describing the feelings around a certain bodily region • Giving tension “a voice” and dialoguing Therapeutic goals • Attaining greater awareness and choice • Assume ownership of experience (existentialist) • Meeting needs without violating rights of others • Sensory awareness • Accepting respons-ability • From external support to internal: locus of control • Be able to ask for help, and to give help to others. Therapist’s Role • Engagement • Helping client become aware of what they are doing • Paying attention to body language • Challenging patterns of communicating Challenges to Communication • Converting depersonalizing “it” language into using “I” • Converting “You” to “I” • Converting questions into statement • Going more fully into metaphors • Power-denying language • disclaimers or qualifiers, e.g. “kind of,” “you know” • can’t -- won’t Client Experience of therapy • No interpretations given -- increased awareness through engagement with feelings and therapist gives rise to meaning. • Three stages (Polster) • discovery -- ahas! • accommodation -- strategizing new behaviors in relationships • assimilation -- learning the influence the environment The Therapeutic Relationship • Therapist must know herself and the client, and must remain open • Therapist allows herself to be affected by client, and shares her reactions • Since Perls’ death, less confrontiveness and more empathic engagement • use of oneself • decreased use of exercises • focus on relationship Techniques • The Experiment -- tailor made exploration that emerges within the therapeutic process. Client must be prepared for them, and trust is essential. Resistance is respected. • collaborative • spontaneous Techniques • Examples of experiments • reenacting a profound past experience • setting up a dialogue with a significant other through journaling or two-chair technique. • dramatizing the memory of a painful experience • (From Dr. Sparrow’s practice) planning some event that can take a client beyond a point of arrested growth. (e.g. going to the graveyard to say goodbye to someone; wearing black to properly grieve the end of a relationship. All designed to intensify the feelings and further one’s development. Techniques, continued • Confrontation -- Perls was especially harsh • No longer in vogue; compassionate style is more popular now • Charlatan shadow can emerge when confrontation is used too much • Rule of the day: sustained emphatic inquiry paired with crisp and relevant focusing of awareness. Gestalt Interventions • Internal dialogue -- integrating parts; top dog and underdog • Two chair technique • Making the rounds -- direct and personal • Reversal exercise -- dramatizing the feared opposite • Rehearsal exercise -- “What would you say if he were here right now?” • Exaggeration exercise -- bodily, language • Staying with feeling • Dream work -- everything is a part of oneself, dialogue leads to integration