Lahiri Stories Discussion Questions And Class Notes (Sec04) “Interpreter of Maladies”: Why did Mrs. Das look for understanding from Mr. Kapasi? How does Mr. Kapasi misinterpret Mrs. Das’ verbal and non-verbal language? How do Mrs. Das' past and present attitudes affect her parenting? Do you think Mr. Kapasi’s interpretation of Mrs. Das feeling guilt, rather than pain, is correct? o What other emotions does she experience? Anger at husband and kids; Loss of youth by marrying young; Regret for lying to husband and son about her extramarital affair; Overall dissatisfaction at her life and situation. What is the significance of Mr. Kapasi’s last impression of the Das family in the last paragraph? o He sees her as a mother with her instincts to care for children kicking in; He no longer lusts for her like he did at first because she is a mother who is not interested in him romantically whatsoever. “This Blessed House”: Why does the Christian paraphernalia in the house bother Sanjeev so much? o It gives others the wrong impression about him than he wants them to think (cares about his image to others) o Twinkle sees interest in the objects and it bothers him because he doesn’t get it. o It’s another reason his wife upsets him. o Pgs. 149 & 146 Why does the Christian paraphernalia in the house intrigue Twinkle so much? o It’s exciting to hunt for the treasures. o She’s superstitious about them because if they were valued by someone else and get thrown away it might be bad luck. o She enjoys showing the objects off for guests as an interesting part of their house. Why isn’t Sanjeev sure if he loves Twinkle? o (147) She doesn’t seem like a good wife- lazy. o Her interest in the C. paraphernalia annoys him & goes against his desires. o She doesn’t appear to take his opinions into consideration or support him. o At 36, being married for 2 months, he’s not sure if what he and Twinkle has is love. In what ways is Twinkle a suitable wife for Sanjeev? o They are opposites attracting- she’s loose-ended, nonchalant compared to him being practical and rational. They balance each other out. o (153) She’s attractive, so she’s good for his image. o He’s so controlling and she’s so carefree, free-spirited. o They are both Indian- can relate on a cultural level (sometimes). By the end of the story, how does Sanjeev feel about Twinkle? o He accepts her, knows he can’t change her because she still doesn’t listen to him. o He hates that Twinkle loves the objects and found a valuable one. He will continue to resent the objects and Twinkle for liking, keeping, and showing the objects off. o He’s feeling how he felt at the beginning- butterfly feeling that everything’s perfect; excitement, thrill. “The Third and Final Continent”: What challenges does the Narrator face as an immigrant? o Food changes, weather changes, noisy, cheap accommodations What sacrifices does the Narrator make for his wife? o Has to look for a bigger apartment, he has to be ready to teach her the cultural differences How does the Narrator treat his wife when she joins him in the United States? o He cooks egg curry for her (traditional dish); he has trouble adjusting to giving her money for shopping; he doesn’t comfort her when she misses home How does Mrs. Croft’s age affect the Narrator? o She’s not like his mom who was depressed, crazy; Mrs. Croft is basically self-sufficient & doesn’t get help from family much How does Mrs. Croft’s family situation affect the Narrator? o It is unfamiliar to him in a cultural sense for her to be living essentially alone.