The Gender Inclusive School BRIAN JUCHEMS W W W. G S A F E W I . O R G (608) 661-4141 Developing the leadership of LGBTQ+ and allied youth Supporting Gay-Straight Alliances Training educational staff Advancing educational justice Deepening racial, trans*, gender, and social justice www.gsafewi.org My Gender Journey 1. Growing up, did you think of yourself as a boy, a girl, both, neither or in some way? How did you come to that recognition? When? 2. What messages did you receive from those around you about gender? Did those messages make sense to you? 3. How were students who did not fit into expectations about gender treated in school by other students? By the adults around them? By you? 4. Have you ever been confused by someone’s gender? How did that feel for you? Why do you think you felt the way you did? 5. If you were to describe your gender without talking about how you look or what you do, what would you share? 6. How have issues of gender and gender diversity “shown up” in your work as an educator or in your role at school? Source: Gender Spectrum Biological Sex Male Intersex Anatomy Chromosomes Hormones Female http://tinyurl.com/intersexy Gender Gender Roles (societal expectation of gender - racialized) male female Gender Expression (communication of gender) masculine androgynous feminine Agender Gender Identity (psychological sense of self, “brain gender”) man genderqueer woman Gender Gender Roles (societal expectation of gender) male female Gender impacts all students GENDER INCLUSIVE SCHOOLS HELP ALL STUDENTS Gender Gender Roles (societal expectation of gender) male female Gender Expression (communication of gender) masculine androgynous feminine Who is this? "The generally accepted rule is pink for the boys, and blue for the girls. The reason is that pink, being a more decided and stronger color, is more suitable for the boy, while blue, which is more delicate and dainty, is prettier for the girl." -- Ladies Home Journal 1918 Gender Gender Roles (societal expectation of gender) male female Gender Expression (communication of gender) masculine androgynous Gender Identity feminine Agender (psychological sense of self, “brain gender”) man genderqueer/two spirit woman Cisgender: A person whose gender identity more or less aligns with the biological sex they were assigned at birth. (“cis-” is a Latin prefix meaning “on this side of”) cisgender cisgender Transgender: A person whose gender identity is different from the biological sex they were assigned at birth. (“trans-” is a Latin prefix meaning “across, on the far side of”) biological sex female male gender identity man woman Evidence of gender diverse identities and behaviors exists throughout history and across cultures. “Transgender” is a Western term used to describe an identity which people claim in the current cultural context. There are a number of words which have been and continue to be used to describe gender variance in other cultural contexts. Gender variance exists throughout history and across cultures https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZDx9JQUGB0 (movie clip) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yUtDME18X7k (movie trailer) Gender and Culture Xanith (Oman) Khanit (Oman) Fa'afafine (Samoa) Fakaleiti (Tonga) Mahu wahine (Hawaii) Mahu vahine (Tahiti) Whakawahine (New Zealand Māori) Ia (Te Reo Maori) Akava'ine (Cook Islands Māori) Bakla (Tagalog) Two Spirit (Native American) Guevedoche (Dominican Republic) Kwolu-aatmwol (Papua New Guinea) Calalai/ Calabai (Sulawesi) Timtum(Judaism) Lakin on (Philippines) Tomboy (Philippines) Sworn virgins (Balkans) Mollies (England) Ashtime (Ethiopia) Mashoga (Kenya) Mangaiko (Congo) Travestis (Brazil) Muxe (Mexico) Waria (Indonesia) GENDER IDENTITY A person’s innermost concept of self as being male, female, neither, or both. Gender identity may or may not align with one’s assigned biological sex. SEXUAL ORIENTATION A person’s experience of being romantically, physically, and emotionally attracted to men, women, both, or neither. BIOLOGICAL SEX The combination of anatomy, chromosomes, and hormones that are typically classified as male, female or intersex. Sex is usually assigned at birth based solely upon a person’s visible external anatomy. GENDER EXPRESSION How we express our gender to the world. This could include the clothes we wear, the way we style our hair, the way we talk, and the pronouns we choose to use. 23:15 Associate gender with specific behaviors, use of gender scripts, through intentional learning can adapt scripts, indicators of gender variance clearly emerge, understanding of gender consistency can be shaky, transgender children may be consistent and persistent in their cross-gender identity Developmental Stages & the Transgender Child AGES 5-7 Sense of own gender identity, gender roles refined and stereotypes emerge, gender segregation emerges, struggle to find language to express differences, unsure of whether gender variance or transgender identity. AGES 4-6 AGES 3-4 AGES 2-3 Gender identity emerges, can identity “gender” of toys and certain clothes, seek out same-sex role models (matching their inner sense of gender), confused by gender variant adults, some announce difference between what they are told and what they feel and know about their gender identity. Gender consistency established, attachment to stereotypical behaviors subsides, possible embarrassment stemming from awareness of being outside the norm in interests, imposed limitations on expression could lead to behavioral issues and expressions of suicidal ideation. Brill, S., & Pepper, R. (2008) The transgender child: a handbook for families and professionals. San Francisco, CA: Cleis Press Inc. Sexuality Sexual Orientation Asexual (romantic/sexual attraction) same sex or gender bi/pansexual other sex or gender Sexual Expression (sexual behavior) same sex or gender both/ more than one other sex or gender Sexual Identity (self-identification) gay/lesbian bisexual straight Responding to Questions about Gender Data on Trans Youth Experiences 3x more likely to be in Special Ed. 2x more likely to have skipped school 5x more likely to have carried weapon to school 4x more likely to have no adult support outside parents 3x more likely to have been in physical fight 15x more likely to have been in juvenile correction or prison 3x more likely to have suicide ideation 5x more likley to attempt suicide 2.5x more likely to get aggressive, hit, yell, or scream Source: 2012 Dane County Youth Assessment Learn more at www.gsafewi.org The Role of Bias PUSH OUT “Push out” is used as opposed to “dropout” because there are active systems in place to push/force students to drop out. School push out occurs when a student is encouraged or forced to leave school. Push out includes punishments for students that deny them instruction time and their right to an education. Students suspended, expelled or arrested in school are more likely to drop out or graduate late. Push out makes it more likely that a young person will end up in the prison system. 26 27 In regard to Discipline, Gender Nonconforming Youth are more likely to face… Harsh Discipline and Biased Application of Policies Blame for Victimization The Law & Gender Inclusive Schools State Laws WI Anti-Bullying Law About behavior. Sample DPI policy includes “gender identity”. WI Pupil Non-Discrimination Law (State Stat. 118.13) About behavior and inclusion. Public schools may not exclude students from school or school activities or programs on the basis of sexual orientation. Adding “gender identity,” “gender expression,” and “gender nonconformity” would be WI DPI Administrative Code PI 9.02 Interprets 118.13 to include “harassment” under definition of “discrimination” Federal Laws 1st Amendment Right to be out at school, take same-sex date to prom, etc. Equal Protection Clause of the 14th Amendment Schools must protect all students equally (Nabozny vs. Podlesny) Equal Access Act GSAs should be treated equally. Title IX Prohibits discrimination based on an individuals inability to conform to standard notions of masculinity and femininity. This includes transgender and gender nonconforming people. Recent Legal Developments Arcadia and Downey (CA) School Districts – settlements with the federal government (DOE/OCR) over treatment of transgender students. Key actions: policy development staff training treatment of student as their asserted gender in all aspects of school Also, Maine (Nicole Maines) and Colorado (Coy Mathis) cases DOJ (June 2015) – Virginia: Transstudents should be able to use restrooms that match their gender identity and can’t be forced to use the restroom that match their physical characteristics DOE/OCR (Nov 2015) – Palatine, IL: District violated trans students Title IX rights by barring locker room use AB 469 – Student “Privacy Protection” Bill What it says Questions it brings up Current status Practices of Gender Inclusive Schools A Framework for Gender Inclusive Schools Gender Inclusive Schools: Recognize that gender impacts all students Interrupt binary notions of gender Normalize gender diversity Question limited portrayals of gender Support students’ self-reflection Teach empathy and respect Entry Points: Personal Structural Interpersonal Instrutional What are the ways we enforce gender binary in schools? Personal Interpersonal Structural Instructional Personal - Focused on your own understanding of gender - Developing your gender awareness lens Includes See Gender Spectrum’s complete “My Gender Journey” Structural - Institutional steps that acknowledge you recognize and honor gender diversity Includes Policies/admin regulations Staff training Flexible student information systems Identified educator leaders Gender neutral facilities Easy access materials Inclusive signage Inclusive forms Interpersonal - Individual interactions that affirm Includes structural gender inclusion Challenging gender binary - Intentional day-to-day behaviors Differentiating btwn patterns and rules Question limited portrayals of gender Recognize gender is about identity Support reflection Teach empathy and respect Normalize gender diversity Instructional - Stand alone or integrated approaches to instill greater awareness and understanding about gender Includes See handouts and samples Checklist In teams based on grade level and/or role… What are we already doing well? What could we do better? What aren’t we doing at all but need to prioritize? What should we stop doing? Questions You Might Get Asked about Gender Inclusive Practices Building Family Acceptance Before Viewing the Film After Viewing the Film Helping your families journey towards acceptance… Resources! LOCAL GSAFE gsafewi.org Madison TransParent Group Search words for link Teens Like Us youthsos.org Alianza Latina Search Facebook NATIONAL Gender Spectrum Genderspectrum.org Welcoming Schools Welcomingschools.org Trans Lifeline Translifeline.org Teaching Tolerance Tolerance.org Contact Us! Brian J. Director of Education & Policy brianj@gsafewi.org (608) 641-4141