THIRTEEN REASONS WHY BY JAY ASHER YESTERDAY, ONE HOUR AFTER SCHOOL CASSETTE 1, SIDE A CASSETTE 1, SIDE A - JOURNAL • Reflect on this quote: What does it tell you about Hannah’s character? About the story she is about to tell? CASSETTE 1, SIDE A “… because there are thirteen sides to every story” (9) A common quote: “There are three sides to every story: your side, my side, and the truth. And no one is lying. Memories shared serve each differently” from Robert Evans (2002). Reflect on this quote, and compare it to Hannah’s version. CASSETTE 1, SIDE A • “Because it may seem like a small role now, but it matters. In the end, everything matters” (13) – Consider a few people in your life who play small roles, but have made a big impact on your life. Who are these people, and what was the impact? CASSETTE 1, SIDE A “…a snowball effect” (31) – What does snowball effect, or butterfly effect, mean? What do you think Hannah means when she says that this rumor is “just the beginning”? CASSETTE 1, SIDE A “Betrayal. It’s one of the worst feelings” (13) Why is betrayal one of the worst feelings? In your opinion, what feelings would be worse than betrayal – why? CASSETTE 1, SIDE A • “I know you didn’t mean to let me down” (13) Consider a time when you have let someone down (a teacher, friend, family member, etc). Did you mean to let that person down? Does anyone ever truly intent to disappoint someone? CASSETTE 1, SIDE A • “After all, how often do we get a second chance” (19) Have you ever gotten a second chance? Ever wanted a second chance? Explain. CASSETTE 1, SIDE A • “And everyone knows you can’t disprove a rumor” (30) Is this statement true or false? How could you disprove a rumor? Explain. CASSETTE 1, SIDE B CASSETTE 1, SIDE B • “It’s about the repercussions of what you did. More specifically, it’s about the repercussions to me. It’s about those things you didn’t plan – things you couldn’t plan” (42) What is a repercussion? How often do we consider the repercussions of our actions? Can we plan repercussions? CASSETTE 2, SIDE A CASSETTE 2, SIDE A • “So many things could have gone so horribly wrong” (56) Are you an optimist or a pessimist? How do you know this about yourself? CASSETTE 2, SIDE B CASSETTE 2, SIDE B “Unlike old age or cancer, no one anticipates a suicide” (73) Consider this statement, and consider its validity. Who might know about a suicide before it happens? CASSETTE 2, SIDE B • “… every story I’m telling leaves so many unanswered questions” (78) What are ‘unanswered questions’? Why might someone be haunted by unanswered questions? CASSETTE 2, SIDE B • “Revenge, in a twisted way, would have given me some sense of satisfaction.” (83) What are your thoughts on revenge? Is it worth it? Should one try to seek revenge on a person who has wronged them? CASSETTE 3, SIDE A CASSETTE 3, SIDE A • “Their reputations were more important than their faces. And Courtney’s reputation was more important than my reputation” (112) How important is one’s reputation? Would you value your reputation above friendship or physical safety? CASSETTE 3, SIDE A • “Do you believe everything people say about me?” (115) With so much gossip, how can you tell the truth from a false story? What should you do before you accept gossip, or a second-hand story, as the truth? CASSETTE 3, SIDE A (110) – What role does disappointment and expectation have in your daily life? How does it affect your outlook on life? CASSETTE 3, SIDE B CASSETTE 3, SIDE B • “I wanted them to get past the rumors… and if I wanted people to treat me that way, then I had to do the same for them, right?” (135) – Reflect on the concept of ‘forgive and forget’ as Hannah does here. CASSETTE 4, SIDE A CASSETTE 4, SIDE A (156) – If you had to guess, which people have you made the most impact on? Why? If there was a way to see how much impact you were having on another person, would you want to know? CASSETTE 4, SIDE B so much depends upon a red wheel barrow glazed with rain water beside the white chickens. CASSETTE 5, SIDE A CASSETTE 5, SIDE A (207) – Have you ever wanted to just go back In time and change things? CASSETTE 5, SIDE A • “When you mess with one part of a person’s life, you’re messing with their entire life” (201) Consider how this statement might make you act differently around people in your life. CASSETTE 5, SIDE B CASSETTE 5, SIDE B “If there’s one thing I’ve still got, it’s my memory. Which is too bad. Maybe if I forgot things once in a while, we’d all be a little bit happier” (223) –What role does memory play in our pain and ability to forgive? CASSETTE 5, SIDE B • “Rationalize why this isn’t the tape you’re making a return appearance on” (224) What does rationalize mean? Why is this an important theme in the novel? CASSETTE 5, SIDE B • “… you hardly ever talked to her and barely even knew her, but is that your best excuse for what happened next? Or is that your only excuse? Either way, there is no excuse.” (224) Is it easier to destroy/manipulate/betray someone that you do not know well? Is there ever a good excuse for hurting someone? CASSETTE 6, SIDE A CASSETTE 6, SIDE A • “ ‘We’re all to blame’ he says. ‘At least a little’” (233) Is everyone, in some way, due part of the blame when a loved one is suffering from mental health issues (depression, etc)? CASSETTE 6, SIDE A • “It feels good knowing someone understands what I’m listening to, what I’m going through. Somehow it makes it not as scary to keep listening” (239). How is empathy an important part of going through a difficult situation? CASSETTE 6, SIDE A • “’Thank you,’ I say. And when I say it, I mean it…. For how he reacted when I broke down and cried. For trying to make me laugh on the most horrible night of my life” (239) How do things such as silence and humor help in a difficult situation? CASSETTE 6, SIDE B CASSETTE 6, SIDE B (253) – Do you agree or disagree with this? Do you believe that depression or suicidal thoughts are something that comes naturally? CASSETTE 7, SIDE A CASSETTE 7, SIDE A (280) What do you think Hannah means by this? What does she mean when she says “not enough”? CASSETTE 7, SIDE A • “How do you know what a friend is?”(271) Come up with your own definition of what a friend is. How important are friends?