Reality Check What a new generation really thinks about Christianity … and why it matters Kevin Bowman, kevinb@cordovachurch.com Dave Davis, daved@cordovachurch.com PowerPoint download, www.cordovachurch.com/reality Sheltered 16-29 year olds Unfavorable Image Outsiders Churchgoers Boring 68% 27% Old-fashioned 78% 36% Out of touch with reality 72% 32% Insensitive to others 70% 29% Not accepting of other faiths 64% 39% • Current perception – Christians are boring, un-intelligent, old-fashioned and out of touch with reality • Goal perception – Christians are engaged, informed and offer sophisticated responses to the issues people face Culturally relevant • Sheltered individuals are disconnected from the culture they are attempting to influence • Of all the perceptions we’ve talked about, we feel this is the one which has historically impacted our congregation the most – As perceptions go, the Church of Christ starts off down in the count here – We have seen, and continue to see, the departure of young families & young leaders • We contend that, to continue to have impact, Cordova must address some of the perceptions we’ll talk about today Sheltered 16-29 year olds Unfavorable Image Outsiders Churchgoers Boring 68% 27% Old-fashioned 78% 36% Out of touch with reality 72% 32% Insensitive to others 70% 29% Not accepting of other faiths 64% 39% • Our church, like all churches, must be cognizant of the fractured sub-cultures which define the modern mission field • Our reach needs to touch a broad spectrum – from the intellectual elite to the overlooked – We must empower culturally relevant leadership Empowering the next generation We have an image problem • A sinking ship unaware of its fate • A powerful amplifier with poor wiring & weak speakers • A pack of cats looking like they are thinking deeply when in fact they are just waiting for their next meal • An ostrich with its head in the sand • A hobby that diverts people’s attention Re-branding Christianity • Like it or not we have been branded – McDonalds, Apple, Starbucks, Disney, Pepsi • Christians have been simplified to something that can be used or consumed – Christianity is not seen as a product that can transform this world – Christianity is not seen as something desirable or needed • Young leaders are our key players in this mission Why this perception? • Christians are out of tune with real-world choices, challenges, and lifestyles outsiders face – 80% of outsiders do not believe that an active faith helps people live a better life – Outsiders see Christianity & the Bible as behind the times and not relevant to today’s society • Faith reduced to attendance & not sinning – We’ve separated ourselves from the spiritual realm – Outsiders’ experiences with Christians do not translate to an experience with a living God – Christian faith seems dull, flat, and lifeless Why this perception? • Christians are not willing to think – We stifle curiosity, encouraging brain-dead followers – Christians are unwilling to face doubts & questions • Christians live in a bubble – We surround ourselves with other Christians & are not interested in trying to understand outsiders – We are part of a club and you’re either “in” or “out” A faith that doesn’t make sense • The young thrive on unexpected experiences & enjoy searching for new sources of input; willing to try almost anything • They grew up as one of the most “protected” generations & enjoy defying the “safe life” • They resist simple answers, favor mystery, and are OK with ambiguity • They enjoy spending time with those who believe differently, as a way to push & expand their opinions • A faith that is not willing to address thorny issues is not useful or attractive A painful contrast • The fact that Christianity does offer so much makes this perception hurt even more – Christianity does offer a sophisticated, livable response to the nature of the world – Christianity does offer a fulfilling, contextualized life • Outsiders don’t see Christian contributions pushing culture forward through arts, literature, science, social justice, music, government, etc. – We are not meeting cultural expectations The “good old days” are gone • Today’s youth do not lead what we’d consider to be “conventional” lifestyles – But they have no less needs; perhaps even greater • The cultural environment has changed more than we can comprehend – Responding with, “Every generation faces this gap; we toughed-it out & you should too,” doesn’t acknowledge the scope of this shift – Businesses are adapting & changing; schools are, our government is. The church must also. The Buster & Mosaic normal • Non-traditional family structure (1:20 vs. 1:3) • Sex: earlier, more partners, marriage not required, widespread divorce • More frequently use drugs, alcohol, profanity • More feel lonely, unfulfilled, & stressed-out • Desperation & suicide more prevalent Next week • Special-guest speaker & Judgmental • Feedback & resources – Kevin Bowman, kevinb@cordovachurch.com – Dave Davis, daved@cordovachurch.com – PowerPoint download, www.cordovachurch.com/reality