Identifying Roadblocks Test and Flashcards

Clean up your mess.

Ordering

Help me with these dishes.

Ordering

Close the door.

Ordering

Turn down the volume.

Ordering

Don't touch my stuff!

Ordering

Get me a glass of water.

Ordering

Be careful!

Ordering

Make your bed.

Ordering

Help me carry this box.

Ordering

Don't even think about touching that.

Warning / Threatening

You had better clean your room.

Warning / Threatening

If you don't stop, I'm telling Mom.

Warning / Threatening

Don't make me count to three.

Warning / Threatening

I mean it, stop that.

Warning / Threatening

You're going to get in trouble.

Warning / Threatening

I'm serious, don't do it again.

Warning / Threatening

You'd better listen to me.

Warning / Threatening

I'm not going to ask you again.

Warning / Threatening

You're going to be in big trouble if you do that again.

Warning / Threatening

I'm watching you.

Warning / Threatening

Don't test me.

Warning / Threatening

I'm not going to tolerate that behavior.

Warning / Threatening

You better think twice before you do that.

Warning / Threatening

That's the last time I'm asking you.

Warning / Threatening

You're going to regret this.

Warning / Threatening

I'm serious, stop it now.

Warning / Threatening

You're pushing your luck.

Warning / Threatening

You should really be more considerate.

Moralizing

You need to learn to share.

Moralizing

You shouldn't talk to people that way.

Moralizing

You ought to be more responsible.

Moralizing

You should try to be more helpful.

Moralizing

It's not nice to be so selfish.

Moralizing

You need to think about how your actions affect others.

Moralizing

You should apologize for what you did.

Moralizing

You really ought to be more patient.

Moralizing

It's important to respect your elders.

Moralizing

You should always tell the truth.

Moralizing

You need to learn to be more independent.

Moralizing

It's not fair to treat others that way.

Moralizing

You should be more considerate of others' feelings.

Moralizing

You need to take responsibility for your actions.

Moralizing

It's important to have good manners.

Moralizing

You should try to be more positive.

Moralizing

You need to set some goals for yourself.

Moralizing

You should take a break and come back to it later.

Advising / Giving a Solution

Why don't you try calling them tomorrow?

Advising / Giving a Solution

Maybe you should apologize to them.

Advising / Giving a Solution

Have you tried turning it off and on again?

Advising / Giving a Solution

You could ask your mom for help.

Advising / Giving a Solution

Why don't you study with a friend?

Advising / Giving a Solution

You should get some sleep.

Advising / Giving a Solution

Maybe you should make a list of priorities.

Advising / Giving a Solution

You could try talking to them about it.

Advising / Giving a Solution

Why don't you take a different route?

Advising / Giving a Solution

You should try to find a hobby you enjoy.

Advising / Giving a Solution

Maybe you should join a club or group.

Advising / Giving a Solution

It might be a good idea to set some realistic goals.

Advising / Giving a Solution

If you want to finish on time, you'll need to prioritize tasks.

Logic

The most efficient way to do that would be to break it down into smaller steps.

Logic

Considering the deadline, it might be better to focus on the core issues first.

Logic

Given the constraints, your options are limited to these three choices.

Logic

Based on the evidence, it seems likely that this is the cause of the problem.

Logic

To achieve your goal, you'll need to be consistent in your efforts.

Logic

If you want to avoid that mistake again, you should consider this alternative.

Logic

If you analyze the situation carefully, you'll see the pattern.

Logic

To solve this problem, we need to identify the root cause.

Logic

To make an informed decision, you need to weigh the pros and cons.

Logic

That's your own fault.

Criticizing / Blaming

You should have known better.

Criticizing / Blaming

Why didn't you say that in the first place?

Criticizing / Blaming

You're so irresponsible.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're being ridiculous.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're making a big deal out of nothing.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're always complaining.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're not trying hard enough.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're just lazy.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're so selfish.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're never satisfied.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're wasting your time.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're overreacting.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're not thinking straight.

Criticizing / Blaming

You're acting like a spoiled brat.

Labeling / Name-Calling

You're always so negative.

Labeling / Name-Calling

You are being such a pest.

Labeling / Name-Calling

You're not a baby, are you?

Labeling / Name-Calling

You're trying to manipulate me.

Analyzing

Are you looking for sympathy?

Analyzing

You want me to feel guilty.

Analyzing

You're trying to shift the blame.

Analyzing

You're fishing for compliments.

Analyzing

You're testing my patience.

Analyzing

You're trying to dominate the conversation.

Analyzing

You're seeking validation.

Analyzing

You're trying to avoid responsibility.

Analyzing

You want to appear helpless.

Analyzing

You're looking for a distraction.

Analyzing

You're trying to control the situation.

Analyzing

You're seeking reassurance.

Analyzing

You're trying to provoke a reaction.

Analyzing

You're looking for an excuse.

Analyzing

You're trying to gain an advantage.

Analyzing

You're seeking approval.

Analyzing

You're trying to hide something.

Analyzing

You're looking for a scapegoat.

Analyzing

You're trying to intimidate me.

Analyzing

Don't worry, it'll be okay.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

That's awful, I'm so sorry.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

I know exactly how you feel.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

You must be so upset.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

It's not your fault.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

I'm here for you, whatever you need.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

Things will get better.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

You're stronger than you think.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

I can't imagine how difficult that must be.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

You're not alone in this.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

I wish I could take the pain away.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

You're going to get through this.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

It's understandable that you're feeling this way.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

You've been through a lot.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

I'm sending you positive vibes.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

Everything happens for a reason.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

You're a strong person.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

Just focus on taking things one day at a time.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

You'll look back on this and be amazed at how strong you are.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

I believe in you.

Reassuring / Sympathizing

Are you sure that's really a problem?

Questioning

Why didn't you do something about it sooner?

Questioning

Could you have prevented this?

Questioning

What did you expect me to do?

Questioning

Why are you telling me this?

Questioning

Is this really your problem or someone else's?

Questioning

Why are you so upset about it?

Questioning

Have you tried solving this yourself?

Questioning

What makes you think I can help?

Questioning

Are you looking for sympathy or a solution?

Questioning

What exactly do you want me to do about it?

Questioning

Why didn't you think about this before?

Questioning

Are you sure you're not exaggerating?

Questioning

Could you be more specific?

Questioning

Why is this such a big deal?

Questioning

What have you done to try and fix it?

Questioning

Are you blaming me for this?

Questioning

Why didn't you ask for help earlier?

Questioning

Do you really need my help with this?

Questioning

What's the point of telling me if you don't want help?

Questioning

Oh, no! This is the worst thing that's ever happened to anyone. Ever.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

Wow, you must be going through a really tough time. Like, world-ending tough.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

This is a total catastrophe. I'm so sorry your life is so incredibly difficult.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

I'm sure glad you came to me with this earth-shattering problem.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

This is a real tragedy. I'm so glad I could be here to witness this momentous occasion.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

Oh, poor you. Your life is so unbearably hard.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

This is such a complex issue. I'm so glad you brought it to my attention, oh wise one.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

I'm truly amazed by your ability to find problems where there aren't any.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

Wow, this is a real nail-biter. I'm on the edge of my seat.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Maybe you should write a book about it.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

This is a real crisis. I hope you have a support group for this.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

Oh no, the humanity! How will you ever cope?

Sarcasm / Avoiding

This is a real dilemma. I'm so glad I don't have to deal with such important matters.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

I'm so sorry you're having such a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

This is a real test of your character. I hope you pass.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

Wow, you're really good at making mountains out of molehills.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

I'm so glad you're sharing this incredibly important problem with me.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

This is a real first-world problem. You should count your blessings.

Sarcasm / Avoiding

Let's go for a walk.

Ordering

Please stop interrupting me right now.

Ordering

You need to calm down and listen to me.

Ordering

I would appreciate it if you would be quiet.

Ordering

Stop making excuses for your behavior.

Ordering

You must respect my personal boundaries.

Ordering

I demand that you treat me with respect.

Ordering

Kindly refrain from raising your voice at me.

Ordering

It is unacceptable to behave in this manner.

Ordering

I expect you to apologize for your actions.

Ordering

You must learn to compromise with others.

Ordering

Be more considerate of others!

Ordering

You're usually so helpful, I know this must be an accident.

Praising

I appreciate your hard work, but please be more mindful.

Praising

You're normally so considerate, I'm surprised by this.

Praising

You're such a kind person, I know this isn't like you.

Praising

You're intelligent, so I know you can handle this.

Praising

Given your abilities, I expect more from you.

Praising

I admire your strength, now use it wisely.

Praising

You're normally so reliable, this is unusual.

Praising

You're a great listener, please hear me out.

Praising

I know you care about others, show it now.

Praising

You're intelligent and capable, prove it to me.

Praising

You sound frustrated with how things are going.

Active Listening

You aren't sure what you'd like to do next.

Active Listening

It sounds like you're feeling overwhelmed right now.

Active Listening

It seems like this situation is causing you stress.

Active Listening

It sounds like this has been going on for a while.

Active Listening

You're worried about how this will affect others.

Active Listening

You're feeling a sense of loss or disappointment.

Active Listening

It seems like you're questioning your own abilities.

Active Listening

You're feeling like you're not being heard.

Active Listening

It sounds like you're looking for a solution.

Active Listening

It seems like you're feeling isolated and alone.

Active Listening

Flashcards: Identifying Roadblocks