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Flashcards: Identifying Roadblocks 2
Ordering
Clean up your mess.
Ordering
Help me with these dishes.
Ordering
How about we close the door?
Ordering
Turn down the volume.
Ordering
Don't touch my stuff!
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Get me a glass of water.
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Be careful!
Ordering
It would be best if you made your bed every morning.
Ordering
Why don't you help me carry this box?
Ordering
Let's go for a walk.
Ordering
Please stop interrupting me right now.
Ordering
You need to calm down and listen to me.
Ordering
I would appreciate it if you would be quiet.
Ordering
Stop making excuses for your behavior.
Ordering
You must respect my personal boundaries.
Ordering
It is unacceptable to behave in this manner.
Ordering
I expect you to apologize for your actions.
Ordering
You must learn to compromise with others.
Ordering
Be more considerate of others!
Warning / Threatening
Don't even think about touching that.
Warning / Threatening
You had better clean your room.
Warning / Threatening
If you don't stop, I'm telling Mom.
Warning / Threatening
Don't make me count to three.
Warning / Threatening
I mean it, stop that.
Warning / Threatening
You're going to get in trouble.
Warning / Threatening
I'm serious, don't do it again.
Warning / Threatening
You'd better listen to me.
Warning / Threatening
I'm not going to ask you again.
Warning / Threatening
You're going to be in big trouble if you do that again.
Warning / Threatening
I'm watching you.
Warning / Threatening
Don't test me.
Warning / Threatening
I'm not going to tolerate that behavior.
Warning / Threatening
You better think twice before you do that.
Warning / Threatening
That's the last time I'm asking you.
Warning / Threatening
You're going to regret this.
Warning / Threatening
I'm serious, stop it now.
Warning / Threatening
You're pushing your luck.
Moralizing
You should really be more considerate.
Moralizing
You need to learn to share.
Moralizing
You shouldn't talk to people that way.
Moralizing
You ought to be more responsible.
Moralizing
You should try to be more helpful.
Moralizing
It's not nice to be so selfish.
Moralizing
You need to think about how your actions affect others.
Moralizing
You should apologize for what you did.
Moralizing
You really ought to be more patient.
Moralizing
It's important to respect your elders.
Moralizing
You should always tell the truth.
Moralizing
You need to learn to be more independent.
Moralizing
It's not fair to treat others that way.
Moralizing
You should be more considerate of others' feelings.
Moralizing
You need to take responsibility for your actions.
Moralizing
It's important to have good manners.
Moralizing
You should try to be more positive.
Moralizing
You need to set some goals for yourself.
Advising / Giving a Solution
You should take a break and come back to it later.
Advising / Giving a Solution
Why don't you try calling them tomorrow?
Advising / Giving a Solution
Maybe you should apologize to them.
Advising / Giving a Solution
Have you tried turning it off and on again?
Advising / Giving a Solution
You could ask your mom for help.
Advising / Giving a Solution
Why don't you study with a friend?
Advising / Giving a Solution
You should get some sleep.
Advising / Giving a Solution
Maybe you should make a list of priorities.
Advising / Giving a Solution
You could try talking to them about it.
Advising / Giving a Solution
Why don't you take a different route?
Advising / Giving a Solution
You should try to find a hobby you enjoy.
Advising / Giving a Solution
Maybe you should join a club or group.
Advising / Giving a Solution
It might be a good idea to set some realistic goals.
Logic
If you want to finish on time, you'll need to prioritize tasks.
Logic
The most efficient way to do that would be to break it down into smaller steps.
Logic
Considering the deadline, it might be better to focus on the core issues first.
Logic
Given the constraints, your options are limited to these three choices.
Logic
Based on the evidence, it seems likely that this is the cause of the problem.
Logic
To achieve your goal, you'll need to be consistent in your efforts.
Logic
If you want to avoid that mistake again, you should consider this alternative.
Logic
If you analyze the situation carefully, you'll see the pattern.
Logic
To solve this problem, we need to identify the root cause.
Logic
To make an informed decision, you need to weigh the pros and cons.
Criticizing / Blaming
That's your own fault.
Criticizing / Blaming
You should have known better.
Criticizing / Blaming
Why didn't you say that in the first plac?
Criticizing / Blaming
You're so irresponsible.
Criticizing / Blaming
You're being ridiculous.
Criticizing / Blaming
You're making a big deal out of nothing.
Criticizing / Blaming
You're always complaining.
Criticizing / Blaming
You're not trying hard enough.
Criticizing / Blaming
You're just lazy.
Criticizing / Blaming
You're so selfish.
Criticizing / Blaming
You're never satisfied.
Criticizing / Blaming
You're wasting your time.
Criticizing / Blaming
You're overreacting.
Criticizing / Blaming
You're not thinking straight.
Labeling / Name-Calling
You're acting like a spoiled brat.
Labeling / Name-Calling
You're always so negative.
Labeling / Name-Calling
You are being such a pest.
Labeling / Name-Calling
You're not a baby, are you?
Analyzing
You're trying to manipulate me.
Analyzing
Are you looking for sympathy?
Analyzing
You want me to feel guilty.
Analyzing
You're trying to shift the blame.
Analyzing
You're fishing for compliments.
Analyzing
You're testing my patience.
Analyzing
You're trying to dominate the conversation.
Analyzing
You're seeking validation.
Analyzing
You're trying to avoid responsibility.
Analyzing
You want to appear helpless.
Analyzing
You're looking for a distraction.
Analyzing
You're trying to control the situation.
Analyzing
You're seeking reassurance.
Analyzing
You're trying to provoke a reaction.
Analyzing
You're looking for an excuse.
Analyzing
You're trying to gain an advantage.
Analyzing
You're seeking approval.
Analyzing
You're trying to hide something.
Analyzing
You're looking for a scapegoat.
Analyzing
You're trying to intimidate me.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
Don't worry, it'll be okay.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
That's awful, I'm so sorry.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
I know exactly how you feel.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
You must be so upset.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
It's not your fault.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
I'm here for you, whatever you need.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
Things will get better.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
You're stronger than you think.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
I can't imagine how difficult that must be.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
You're not alone in this.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
I wish I could take the pain away.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
You're going to get through this.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
It's understandable that you're feeling this way.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
You've been through a lot.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
I'm sending you positive vibes.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
Everything happens for a reason.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
You're a strong person.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
Just focus on taking things one day at a time.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
You'll look back on this and be amazed at how strong you are.
Reassuring / Sympathizing
I believe in you.
Questioning
Are you sure that's really a problem?
Questioning
Why didn't you do something about it sooner?
Questioning
Could you have prevented this?
Questioning
What did you expect me to do?
Questioning
Why are you telling me this?
Questioning
Is this really your problem or someone else's?
Questioning
Why are you so upset about it?
Questioning
Have you tried solving this yourself?
Questioning
What makes you think I can help?
Questioning
Are you looking for sympathy or a solution?
Questioning
What exactly do you want me to do about it?
Questioning
Why didn't you think about this before?
Questioning
Are you sure you're not exaggerating?
Questioning
Could you be more specific?
Questioning
Why is this such a big deal?
Questioning
What have you done to try and fix it?
Questioning
Are you blaming me for this?
Questioning
Why didn't you ask for help earlier?
Questioning
Do you really need my help with this?
Questioning
What's the point of telling me if you don't want help?
Sarcasm / Avoiding
Oh, no! This is the worst thing that's ever happened to anyone. Ever.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
Wow, you must be going through a really tough time. Like, world-ending tough.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
This is a total catastrophe. I'm so sorry your life is so incredibly difficult.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
I'm sure glad you came to me with this earth-shattering problem.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
This is a real tragedy. I'm so glad I could be here to witness this momentous occasion.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
Oh, poor you. Your life is so unbearably hard.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
This is such a complex issue. I'm so glad you brought it to my attention, oh wise one.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
I'm truly amazed by your ability to find problems where there aren't any.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
Wow, this is a real nail-biter. I'm on the edge of my seat.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Maybe you should write a book about it.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
This is a real crisis. I hope you have a support group for this.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
Oh no, the humanity! How will you ever cope?
Sarcasm / Avoiding
This is a real dilemma. I'm so glad I don't have to deal with such important matters.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
I'm so sorry you're having such a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
This is a real test of your character. I hope you pass.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
Wow, you're really good at making mountains out of molehills.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
I'm so glad you're sharing this incredibly important problem with me.
Sarcasm / Avoiding
This is a real first-world problem. You should count your blessings.
Praising
You're usually so helpful, I know this must be an accident.
Praising
I appreciate your hard work, but please be more mindful.
Praising
You're normally so considerate, I'm surprised by this.
Praising
You're such a kind person, I know this isn't like you.
Praising
You're intelligent, so I know you can handle this.
Praising
Given your abilities, I expect more from you.
Praising
I admire your strength, now use it wisely.
Praising
You're normally so reliable, this is unusual.
Praising
You're a great listener, please hear me out.
Praising
I know you care about others, show it now.
Praising
You're intelligent and capable, prove it to me.
Active Listening
You sound frustrated with how things are going.
Active Listening
You aren't sure what you'd like to do next.
Active Listening
It sounds like you're feeling overwhelmed right now.
Active Listening
It seems like this situation is causing you stress.
Active Listening
It sounds like this has been going on for a while.
Active Listening
You're worried about how this will affect others.
Active Listening
You're feeling a sense of loss or disappointment.
Active Listening
It seems like you're questioning your own abilities.
Active Listening
You're feeling like you're not being heard.
Active Listening
It sounds like you're looking for a solution.
Active Listening
It seems like you're feeling isolated and alone.