LESSON 2 Structures of High School Settings and the Hidden Threats that Shape the Emotional and Behavioral Patterns Of Teenagers Presented by THE NATURAL SYSTEMS INSTITUTE 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 1 THE ROLE OF ENVIRONMENTAL STRUCTURES: THE CHARACTERISTICS OF THE HOME ENVIRONMENT THE CHARACTERISTICS OF HIGH SCHOOL SETTINGS AND RELATED FACTORS THAT DIFFERENTIALLY ALTER THE EMOTIONS, BEHAVIOR, AND PERSONALITY OF HIGH SCHOOL YOUTH This Lesson is intended for Administrators, Training Directors, and Professionals of High Schools and Juvenile Correctional Institutions and for Parents, Staff, Teachers, and Counselors1endnote slide 35 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 2 TABLE OF CONTENTS • Characteristics Of Life History And The Environment Selectively Evoke Types Of Emotions • Enduring Inner States Of The Person In Relation To Variations Of Environmental Support And Threats • Transformations Of Inner States Induced By The Structures Of The Home And The School • School: Setting Centered Emotion Transformations • Examples Of Types Of Situations • Major Teen Emotions And Feelings • The Classroom Setting • Hallway Setting Between Classes • Student Government • Lunch In The School Cafeteria • After School Adjourns For The Day • After School Extra-curricular Groups • After School Athletics • Evenings at Home • Evenings Away From Home • The Effects Of Degrees Of Control And Threat In The Structure Of An Environment On The Type And Degree Of Freedom Of Expression • Factors Involved In The Structure Of A School System • Encompassing Structure-centered Transformations Of Settings Within The School System • Restructuring The School’s Structure, Systems, And Settings To Evoke Positive Situations And Positive Feelings And Behavior • Person Centered Emotion Transformations Within Optimal Structures • Movies To Accompany The Lesson And Exercises 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 3 Questions Being Addressed • Why are some students non-participants in any school activities? • Why are some students frequently disciplined, suspended, or expelled? • Why are some students frequently absent, failing, or drop outs? • Why are some students frequently shunned, ridiculed, or excluded? • Why are some students physically or sexually harassed or abused? • What are the traditional explanations for these problems? • Are there alternative explanations that are more helpful? • How could an interested person go about making changes that would prevent these problems? • Where would one start if they were interested in making positive changes? • Of possible alternative changes, which would have the best effects with the largest number of students at the least additional cost? • Considering each of the different alternative approaches, what would their benefits be to the school and its staff if taken? 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 4 Characteristics of Life History and the Environment Selectively Evoke Types of Emotions Some of the major factors in teens’ environments and life histories that predispose them to be vulnerable to specific kinds of feelings, emotions, and behaviors are listed below. 1. There are types of factors in the life histories of people that prime them to be, almost continuously, in specific types of inner feeling states and to be prone to react with a narrow range of specific types of emotions to precipitating situations. Parenting style is one of those major factors: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. Teens whose parents related to them with unconditional love, Teens whose parents related to them with conditional love and were overly demanding, Teens whose parents tended to reject them and were overly critical and punitive, Teens whose parents deprived them and were overly restrictive, Teens whose parents were overly indulgent and permissive, Teens whose parents were overly protective, Teens whose parents related to them in a childish way or seductive way, Teens whose parents were dependent upon them as though the child was the parent, Teens whose parents exploited them, Teens whose parents neglected them and ignored them, Teens whose parents had opposite parenting styles and were always fighting over each other’s approach. 2. Another set of factors is a dysfunctional family: broken homes with a weak or overworked single parent or blended families, desertion, imprisoned parents, drug addicted parents, parents with mental illness or mental retardation, parents away from home due to overwork, impoverished homes, parents that are physically handicapped or ill, overly crowded homes with chronic chaos. Consider how different the effects would be if a teen grew up with a history that was the opposite of the above, in other words, in a home with the best of all advantages. 3. Another set of factors are derived from the structure and systems of the school the teen attends. If a school has an educational system that actually generates groups that are favored versus groups that are excluded from activities and groups that fail their courses, that school is also creating a hierarchy of high status to low status, good to bad, accepted to rejected students that results in an array of positive and healthy emotions through negative and destructive emotions. These structural factors create mutually antagonistic cliques or gangs. 4. Finally, there is a set of factors that are related to growing up in neighborhoods with high crime rates, drug infestation, severe ethnic conflicts, or are overcrowded as in the projects. These factors tend to generate gangs. These factors will be taken up in Lesson 3. 5. Imagine how different the teen’s emotional vulnerability would be when growing up in environments with each of these different kinds of sets of factors. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 5 Enduring Inner States of the Person in Relation to Variations of Environmental Support and Threats Enduring Positive Inner States Derived from Supportive Positive Characteristics in the Teen’s Environment: Enduring Negative Inner States Derived from Threatening Negative Characteristics in the Teen’s Environment: 1. Sense of basic security: loved and cared for by family and positively regarded at school 2. Sense of safety: family, school authorities, and police provide visible, dependable protection 3. Self esteem and self respect: family, authorities, and peers show positive regard for the teen as a person and recognition for achievements as well as efforts 4. Self-concept: family, authorities, and peers attribute to the teen a positive identity that is consistent with the teen’s self concept 5. Optimism: family and authorities provide assurance of support for the teen’s aspirations, goals, and vision of their future 6. Sense of competence: family, authorities, and peers positively acknowledge capacities and abilities as regardless of current level of performance, encourage using own judgment 7. Sense of belonging: family, authorities, and peers provide a pervasive atmosphere of welcome and inclusion throughout school and home and in the neighborhood 8. Sense of equality: authorities and peers provide access and opportunities to all without favoritism or prejudice 9. Sense of fairness: family, authorities, and peers demonstrate objectivity in distributing justice, jobs, goods, and rewards 1. Pervasive sense of basic insecurity: a hostile, rejecting, chaotic, destructive home and family 2. Pervasive sense of impending danger: an impersonal, disorganized, crowded, unsupervised, undisciplined school and neighborhood 3. Pervasive sense of self as worthless refuse: family, authorities, and peers that demonstrate disrespect, disregard, and a lack of caring or concern 4. Pervasive identity as trouble and a reject: family, authorities, and peers constantly deprecating, labeling, cursing, and chasing off is incorporated into teen’s self-concept 5. Pessimism: family, authorities, and peers are constantly discouraging and telling teen he will turn out bad and never amount to anything 6. Confirmed sense of incompetence: family, authorities, and peers telling him he cannot do it, is stupid, taking over task and not training or teaching 7. Pervasive sense of being outcast: family, authorities and peers constantly shunning and excluding and labeling as unwanted, unpleasant, and even disgusting troublemaker 8. Sense of being not entitled to equality: authorities and peers show prejudice, discriminate against, and prevent access to opportunities 9. Sense of injustice: family, authorities, and peers peremptorily accuse, blame, and punish, refuse equal distribution of jobs, goods, and rewards without good reason 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 6 TRANSFORMATIONS of INNER STATES INDUCED by the STRUCTURES of the HOME and the SCHOOL 1. Negative home environments induce enduring, negative inner states. 2. When students with enduring, negative inner states come to school, they are primed to react negatively. When students with enduring, positive inner states come to school, they are primed to react positively. Teachers tend to react negatively to negative students and positively to positive students. These teacher reactions intensify the negativity of negative students and the positivity of the positive students, thus causing a vicious negative cycle for the negative and beneficial cycle for the positive. 3. The non-academic school programs, like extra-curricular groups, student government, etc., tend to draw the positive students and enhance their already positive traits, while athletics tends to draw both negative and positive students if they are athletically gifted. 4. The structure of the school’s academic and non-academic settings tends to create two phenomena: divisions between included versus excluded students and achieving versus failing students. The Settings for the included and achieving students induce enhanced emotional and behavioral patterns except with respect to relations with the excluded and failing students. 5. Excluded and failing students return home to face parental reactions that cause enduring, negative inner states to become more negative, thus becoming an unwitting collaborator with the school and together the net effect is in further increasing the negative vicious cycle. This Lesson is designed to help teachers, institutional staff, and parents to understand these structural influences and how to reverse their negative effects. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 7 SCHOOL: SETTING CENTERED EMOTION TRANSFORMATIONS Settings, circumstances, situations, and relationships that differentially affect the emotions of teenagers The Following Settings Represent the Structure of the School. Each Setting Evokes Types of Situations. Together They Exert Transformative Influences 1. Classroom 2. Hallways between classes: time limited, minimal supervision 3. Student government/student council 4. Lunch in the Cafeteria 5. Journey home after school adjourns for the day with various modes of transportation 6. Extra-curricular groups: A small group of students meet for special academic interest to discuss and plan and engage in related activities. 7. Athletics after school 8. Evenings away from home 9. Home doing homework 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 8 Examples of types of situations are presented in the following two slides in order to prepare the viewer for the more detailed analyses of each type of setting and the types of situations and types of emotions and behaviors they evoke. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 9 Could something about the school structure and system be contributing to these problems? Is the approach using Rules and Punishments working? Savage High School Rules 1.You cannot . . . 20.You cannot . . . 100.You cannot . . . You will receive the following progression of punishments for violations: 1. 2. Could the school create programs and develop approaches that would effectively address these problems? Oh god! Can’t wait to get home. Classroom troublemaker FEELINGS! What’s really on their minds in class! Bully and bullied wimp on the run Ha ha! How pathetic! Loner in Hallway In a secluded corner between classes I know you were kissing my brother back in that corner. You leave him alone or I will tell the teacher! Enemies start trading insults in the cafeteria Ah ha! So that’s the right answer. Whew! Now I can pass. Casualty of Hallways Inferiority Complex at Savage High ridiculing others Hey! Where is our student mediator? These guys are about to fight. Hey! Quit shoving me man or I’ll knock the snot out of you! Oh yeah! Then meet me after school. You coward. A Few Incidents On A Typical Day At Savage High 3/22/2016 Inferiority Complex Class Clown Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 Proving they are Macho men 10 after the last bell. How do these pressures from within school carry over after they leave school for the day? Could the school He’s mine! create programs and develop approaches Yeah! Let’s play a Hey! There’s that practical joke on him. brainy kid on his that would effectively way home. address these after Uh oh! school problems? No! He’s mine! You can’t have him! FEELINGS! Oh, we don’t associate with her. She’s not a cheerleader or drum major like us. She’s a nobody. Chaperoned at school dance - can’t wait Yeah! I know what until they go wild clubbing on their own. you mean. Super jocks after school But I’m a Super jock! I’m entitled. Stop, stop! You made one of my gang members look bad at school and now you’re going to get yours! After feeling pent up, anxious, and embarrassed all day at school now I’m cruising hot, wild, and free after school until …….! Gang turf war in neighborhood 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 11 Major Teen Emotions and Feelings With respect to the feelings and emotions listed on the next page, some teens are more likely to feel many of them more often than the average person and some teens are likely to feel many of them less often than the average. Furthermore, these emotions and feelings are likely to be experienced more often in some types of settings and situations and less often in other types of settings and situations. In any given setting and the situations that are evoked there, one teen may have the typical emotion that this type of setting and situation tends to evoke and another teen may not have that emotion or may have a very different emotion. Recalling your own teen years, briefly indicate your experience with these feelings and emotions on the following pages. For instance, which ones did you tend to experience most often? Where and when did you experience them? What types of situations were most likely to evoke these frequently experienced emotions and feelings? How did you usually deal with these feelings? How did fellow students and the teachers tend to react if you acted on these feelings or if they suspected what you were feeling? 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 12 Major Teen Emotions and Feelings 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. 25. 26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. 41. 42. 43. I often felt Anger _______________________________ I often felt Hostility _______________________________ I often felt Rage _______________________________ I often felt Irritation _______________________________ I often felt Annoyance _______________________________ I often felt Impatience _______________________________ I often felt Frustration _______________________________ I often felt Edginess _______________________________ I often felt Desire _______________________________ I often felt Arousal _______________________________ I often felt Craving _______________________________ I often felt Lust _______________________________ I often felt Love _______________________________ I often felt Yearning _______________________________ I often felt Ache _______________________________ I often felt Longing _______________________________ I often felt Happiness _______________________________ I often felt Joy _______________________________ I often felt Delight _______________________________ I often felt Excitement _______________________________ I often felt Ecstasy _______________________________ I often felt Elation _______________________________ I often felt Giddiness _______________________________ I often felt Boredom _______________________________ I often felt Gloominess _______________________________ I often felt Despair _______________________________ I often felt Sadness _______________________________ I often felt Dejection _______________________________ I often felt Hopelessness _______________________________ I often felt Resignation _______________________________ I often felt Depression _______________________________ I often felt Misery _______________________________ I often felt Guilt _______________________________ I often felt Shame _______________________________ I often felt Embarrassment ______________________________ I often felt Remorse _______________________________ I often felt Empty _______________________________ I often felt Lost _______________________________ I often felt Dazed _______________________________ I often felt Audaciousness _______________________________ I often felt Daring _______________________________ I often felt Impudence _______________________________ I often felt Courageous _______________________________ 3/22/2016 44. I often felt Anxiety 45. I often felt Confusion 46. I often felt Dread 47. I often felt Fear 48. I often felt Panic 49. I often felt Hope 50. I often felt Anticipation 51. I often felt Inspiration 52. I often felt Motivation 53. I often felt Eagerness 54. I often felt Envy 55. I often felt Jealousy 56. I often felt Rivalry 57. I often felt Disgust 58. I often felt Resentment 59. I often felt Admiration 60. I often felt Worship 61. I often felt Adoration 62. I often felt Wary 63. I often felt Suspicion 64. I often felt Mistrust 65. I often felt Exclusion 66. I often felt Loneliness 67. I often felt Alienation 68. I often felt Abandoned 69. I often felt Arrogance 70. I often felt Superiority 71. I often felt Conceit 72. I often felt Vanity 73. I often felt Pride 74. I often felt Modesty 75. I often felt Humility 76. I often felt Shyness 77. I often felt Insignificance 78. I often felt Humiliation 79. I often felt Loss of face 80. I often felt Disgrace 81. I often felt Inferiority 82. I often felt Worthlessness 83. I often felt Sly 84. I often felt Devious 85. I often felt Sneaky 86. I often felt Shrewdness Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ 13 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 3/22/2016 I often felt Anger I often felt Hostility I often felt Rage I often felt Irritation I often felt Annoyance ______________________ ______________________ ______________________ ______________________ ______________________ Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 14 6. 7. 8. 3/22/2016 I often felt Impatience ________________________ I often felt Frustration ________________________ I often felt Edginess ________________________ Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 15 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 3/22/2016 I often felt Lust ________________________ I often felt Desire ________________________ I often felt Yearning for a special person____________ I often felt Arousal ________________________ I often felt Craving ________________________ I often felt an Ache to touch someone _____________ I often felt Love ________________________ I often felt Longing to be loved ___________________ While in a class, school activity, the hallway, etc., teens could be having any of the above feelings. Often these feelings become so intense that they can no longer attend to what is going on around them. Typically, they feel they must keep these feelings to themselves. Sometimes, however, they are moved to act on these feelings in public. Teens can have these feelings for the same sex as well as the opposite sex and can even have them for their teachers. Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 16 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 3/22/2016 I often felt Happiness _______________________________ I often felt Joy _______________________________ I often felt Delight _______________________________ I often felt Excitement _______________________________ I often felt Ecstasy _______________________________ I often felt Elation _______________________________ I often felt Giddiness _______________________________ Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 17 24. I often felt Boredom _______________________________ 25. I often felt Gloominess ________________________ 26. I often felt Despair _______________________________ 27. I often felt Sadness _______________________________ 28. I often felt Dejection _______________________________ 29. I often felt Hopelessness ________________________ 30. I often felt Resignation ________________________ 31. I often felt Depression ________________________ 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 18 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 3/22/2016 I often felt Misery ____________________ I often felt Guilt ____________________ I often felt Shame ____________________ I often felt Embarrassment ______________ I often felt Remorse _______________ Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 19 37. I often felt Empty _____________ 38. I often felt Lost _________________ 39. I often felt Dazed __________________ 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 20 40. 41. 42. 43. 3/22/2016 I often felt Audaciousness ____________________ I often felt Daring ________________________ I often felt Impudence ___________________ I often felt Courageous __________________ Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 21 44. 45. 46. 47. 48. 3/22/2016 I often felt Anxiety ________________ I often felt Confusion _______________ I often felt Dread ____________________ I often felt Fear ____________________ I often felt Panic ____________________ Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 22 49. 50. 51. 52. 53. 3/22/2016 I often felt Hope _____________________ I often felt Anticipation ________________ I often felt Inspiration ________________ I often felt Motivation ________________ I often felt Eagerness ________________ Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 23 54. I often felt Envy __________________ 55. I often felt Jealousy _______________ 56. I often felt Rivalry ______________ 57. I often felt Disgust ______________ 58. I often felt Resentment __________ 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 24 59. I often felt Admiration _______________________________ 60. I often felt Worship _______________________________ 61. I often felt Adoration _______________________________ 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 25 62. I often felt Wary _______________________________ 63. I often felt Suspicion _______________________________ 64. I often felt Mistrust _______________________________ 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 26 65. I often felt Exclusion _______________________________ 66. I often felt Loneliness _______________________________ 67. I often felt Alienation _______________________________ 68. I often felt Abandoned _______________________________ 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 27 69. I often felt Arrogance _______________________________ 70. I often felt Superiority _______________________________ 71. I often felt Conceit _______________________________ 72. I often felt Vanity _______________________________ 73. I often felt Pride _______________________________ 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 28 44. I often felt Modesty _______________________________ 45. I often felt Humility _______________________________ 46. I often felt Shyness _______________________________ 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 29 44. I often felt Insignificance _______________________________ 45. I often felt Humiliation _______________________________ 46. I often felt Loss of face _______________________________ 47. I often felt Disgrace _______________________________ 48. I often felt Inferiority _______________________________ 49. I often felt Worthlessness _______________________________ 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 30 44. I often felt Sly _______________________________ 45. I often felt Devious _______________________________ 46. I often felt Sneaky _______________________________ 47. I often felt Shrewdness _______________________________ 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 31 The Classroom Setting Aspects of the Classroom Setting: Teacher in charge and optional teacher’s aid; Performance measures of teacher; Degree of formality of teacher; Nature and character of school and in-class rules for acceptable behavior and discipline procedures; 5. Teacher-student ratio; 6. Schedule with time strictures and in-class fixed-time routines; 7. Curriculum structure and pace; 8. Teaching strategies and in-class tasks; 9. In-class performance requirements of students; 10.Organization of students and types of student in-class roles; 11.Academic performance measures of students; 12.Deportment measures of students; 13.Homework learning tasks; 14.Policies for teacher-parent relations; 15.Special class events. 1. 2. 3. 4. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 32 Classroom Setting: Situations and Teacher Behaviors Evoke Typical Emotions and Behaviors in Students with Positive versus Negative Inner States Student Emotions and Behaviors Evoked INNER STATE of Student : POSITIVE NEGATIVE Teacher Initiated Situations: Giving Commands Attentive, compliant Resentment, slouching, mumbling Lecturing, reading Attentiveness, determination, Boredom, confusion, misery note taking sleeping, passing notes, flirting Explaining Curiosity, arrogance, Boredom, exclusion questioning, giving opinion daydreaming Calling for recitation Eagerness Anxiety, staying out of sight Correcting responses Embarrassment, Shame, Resentment, anger Guilt clandestine obscene gestures Approving/reinforcing responses Pride, delight, superiority Surprise, embarrassment Seeing approval of peer Jealousy, rivalry, disgust Resentment, inferiority, denigrating peer Interrogating, reprimanding Guilt, shame, providing excuse Anger; resentment, clowning Pleading for obedience Smugness, sympathy Giddiness, excitement, noncompliance, disrupting Making threats Annoyance, resentment Anger, alienation, fear, backtalking Motivating, encouraging Hope, confidence Dejection, worthlessness, silliness Giving exam Anxiety, hope Dread, hopelessness, cheating, drowsiness Assigning homework Concentration, resignation Gloominess, inferiority, irritation Dismissing class Anticipation, exiting Relief, excitement, bolting 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 33 Hallway Setting Between Classes Structural Aspects of the Hallways between Classes: • A brief, limited period of time is allocated for going from and to classes • Lockers are provided for exchange of textbooks between classes • A minimal amount of supervision is possible as a massive number of students are going in an incalculable number of directions SITUATIONS EMOTIONS and BEHAVIORS MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH POSITIVE INNER STATES Going to restroom; Rushing, frustration, impatience, Gathering books; Confusion, reluctance, stress, Greeting and catching up with friends; Delight, giddiness, Informing about school events; Inclusion, pride, confidence, responsibility Flirting; Vanity, conceit, arrogance, shyness, humiliation, Making sarcastic remarks; Envy, jealousy, rivalry Making dates; Adoration, arousal, desire, anxiety, panic, dread, Checking notes and homework before next class; Ambition, competitiveness, perfectionism Sharing information about teachers Apprehension, cunning and what to expect in next class; MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH NEGATIVE INNER STATES Hiding; Dejection, insignificance, worthlessness, modesty, resignation, Sharing homework or illicit test information, Shame, guilt, embarrassment, slyness or passing notes; Ridiculing; Disgust, Wariness, mistrust, suspicion, humility, Hazing; fighting; Exclusion, loneliness, alienation, abandonment, Scheming to get someone; Suffering, disgrace, loss of face, inferiority Hazing and bullying; Revenge, hate, meanness, sadism, cowardice Counter-attacking; Annoyance, revenge, anger, rage, Trading and hiding weapons; Aggression, roguishness, malicious glee, Trading drugs Cleverness, coolness, deviousness Taking drugs or quick puffs on a cigarette Turmoil, misery, guilt, lost-ness, despair, daze. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 34 Student Government Setting Characteristics STUDENT GOVERNMENT: Students discover what it means for the group to function as a democratic organization. Students are elected by having nominees for offices make campaign speeches at the beginning of a year or semester. The offices could be president, vice president, secretary, treasurer, sergeant of arms, and a fixed number of Council members. Students running for office can hand out flyers, make posters to put in noticeable places, be on panels with one another to answer questions from the student body, as well as stand in front of the student body and make a campaign speeches. Elections are held by secret ballot. The elected student officers run the weekly student government meetings, with teacher sponsors there to listen and facilitate as needed. A typical meeting consists of the following three parts. 1. OPENING AND ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS: The President brings the meeting to order and may ask a member to open the meeting with a prayer and then welcomes current and new members, announces the meeting’s agenda, congratulates students who have performed assigned tasks or earned awards, has the Secretary read the minutes from the last meeting, and asks for any old and new business. 2. OPENING FOR DISCUSSION: The President asks if there are any current issues to discuss. The meeting is run according to Roberts Rules of Order. The group members take turns speaking in an orderly and formal fashion. Issues discussed can result in motions for rule changes, petitions, initiating projects, setting agendas for the semester, taking stands and adopting statements on matters of policy or school-wide concerns, and the like. When a motion is made, it becomes open for debate. When it seems consensus is reached, members can resolve to have the motion adopted. Motions have to have the approval of an additional member which is called seconding the motion. A motion that is seconded is voted on. With a majority voting for the motion, it is adopted and entered into the minutes as such. Often motions require tasks be carried out. Committees can be assigned to accomplish the tasks and report back to the group on their progress. If petitions are adopted to be presented to the school administration, those committee members report back to the group on the action taken by the administration. Occasionally, petitions are circulated to the student body to get signatures for those who are for and against the petition. 3. ADJOURNMENT: The minutes from the current meeting are read and the group is asked if they are accepted. The meeting may end with the President asking a member to deliver an inspirational message or prayer and then announces that the meeting is adjourned. This whole process introduces the student to an understanding and appreciation of the meaning of citizenship, gives them a feeling of positive empowerment, and gives them a realization that they can be and are participants in a democratic society. These students particularly learn a highly disciplined way to conduct meetings, hold discussions, resolve issues in the group in a civil manner, ensure that fairness and democratic principles rule, be sensitive to problems in the student body and school that need to be addressed, honestly and accurately represent the interests of their fellow students, and conduct themselves as models of maturity, honesty, responsibility, intelligence, and propriety. The students who become members of Student Government are usually those who are more intelligent, make better grades, are more mature, are more socially skillful and outgoing, and have a strong, enduring, positive, inner state. These students do not have the glamour attached to them in their role that athletes do and they do not garner that degree of attention from other students. However, they are attributed high status and given respect by their peers. The characteristics of the structure of Student Government, in contrast to athletics, has a distinctly positive influence on their behavior and personalities. They must learn to consistently exhibit a wide range of positively valued social skills. They are the least likely of all students to get into trouble or have problems. Elections can bring out some negative behaviors due to the need to compete and win over their rivals. However, as they are on constant display, they either have to be masters of deception if they resort to unethical tactics, or else they have to learn to appeal to conflicting audiences and yet maintain their integrity. This is like a crucible for testing and developing character. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 35 Student Government Structural Aspects Of the Student Government Setting Evoke: EMOTIONS and BEHAVIORS MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH POSITIVE INNER STATES articulation happiness courageousness motivation diplomacy assertiveness confrontation competitiveness cooperativeness patience discipline openness persuasiveness understanding considerateness inspiration anticipation admiration pride concern responsibility empathy trust loyalty diligence 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 36 Lunch in the School Cafeteria Setting Characteristics Typically students have lunch in shifts. Lunch is served cafeteria style with a limited number of choices. They quickly take their food and sit down at a table with several other students to eat. Some students bring their own lunches. The lunch room is filled with students. There is usually a minimum number of staff for supervision. There is enough time to eat quickly with a few minutes of free time before the bell for the next class. Students are allowed to move about and interact freely without interference. Incidents of violence are interrupted by staff. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 37 Lunch in the School Cafeteria Structural Aspects Of the Lunch In The School Cafeteria Setting SITUATIONS EMOTIONS and BEHAVIORS MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH POSITIVE INNER STATES Going through cafeteria line Sitting down and eating Chatting in cliques Admiring and including new members Forming and switching alliances Shunning, making sarcastic remarks Criticizing, denigrating, gossip, and tattling Informing about school events Flirting and making dates Helping, problem solving, and sympathizing Studying. Rushing, choosing, frustration, impatience, Delight, giddiness, relief, relaxation Vanity, conceit, attachment, security Including, pride, confidence, responsibility Envy, jealousy, rivalry, wariness, ambivalence Superiority, conceit, exclusiveness, disgust Arrogance, suspicion, maliciousness, elation Pride, responsibility, anticipation, belonging Adoration, arousal, desire, anxiety, dread Superiority, competence, self-admiration, pity Ambition, competitiveness, perfectionism, smugness MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH NEGATIVE INNER STATES Swiping food Sleeping Bumming and loaning money Crudeness and causing mishaps Rudeness, vulgarity, ridiculing, and poking fun Making threats and physical aggression Scheming to get someone Banter about persons of sexual interest Sharing sexual exploits and fabrications Sexual obtrusiveness or harassment Confiding problems and fears 3/22/2016 Envy, desire, anxiety, audaciousness, slyness Abandoned, worthless, lost, gloomy, fatigued Impudent, shame, shrewd, resentful, humiliation, modesty Belligerent, disdain, annoyance, inferiority, delight Alienation, hostility, excitement, dejection, insignificance Rage, frustration, guilt, hopelessness, fear, loss of face Resentment, fear, disgrace, hostility, mistrust, devious Devious, lust, longing, dread hope, shyness Audaciousness, conceit, inferiority, shrewdness, disgust Craving, impudence, hostility, resentment, dejection, misery Wariness, embarrassed, humility, lost, despair, confusion Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 38 After School Adjourns for the Day When high school adjourns in the afternoon, the youth disperse to many different kinds of destinations and use many modes of transportation. Some youths are picked up by parents. Some take school buses to their homes. Some youths walk to their homes, neighborhood parks or sports playing fields, hangouts around stores and street corners, and some to a peer’s home with or without parents or adults present. Some take their friends in cars to these same places or to other after school activities and some just cruise around in cars. Some even go to church sponsored after school activities. A few go to neighborhood youth centers to participate in supervised activities. Finally, some remain at school for sports practice and various types of extra-curricular activities and return home later in the evening using the same modes of transportation as listed above. Among the small groups that leave school together, some could be labeled as gangs and others merely referred to as groups or cliques. Dispersing after school is the most unstructured time of the day for the majority of youths. The other unstructured time is in the evening at hangouts where the only adult supervision is the occasional police car patrolling the area. For those not in supervised activities and facing the least degree of structure of the day, their suppressed desires and fears and their pent up residual emotions generated during the school day are likely to erupt and result in impulsive acts with consequences that could be harmful to others, themselves, and public and private property. Therefore, the time for the greatest release of pent up emotions may be soon after school adjourns. The next slide presents a comparison of reactions, in after school settings with their characteristic structural factors or lack thereof, exhibited by students with positive inner states versus negative inner states. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 39 After School Adjourns for the Day Structural Aspects of the Time After School Adjourns Situations Emotions and Behaviors Evoked MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH POSITIVE INNER STATES Walking home by one’s self eager, abandoned, embarrassed, irritated, fantasizing heroism, romance fantasies, inferiority Walking home with a friends eager, excited, chat about school events/encounters, planning meeting, successes, hopes Taking the bus Picked up by parents In peer’s car to home excited, giddy, bold, chatting about peers attracted to, rivals, envy or disgust bored, inhibited, tentative plans, requesting permission, asking about food, requesting info excited, yearnings, gossip, rivals, disgust, attractive opposite sex, cloths/music/etc. preferences/interests Going to supervised activity engaging, encouraging, collaborating, happiness, pride, chatting about romance and school incidents MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH NEGATIVE INNER STATES Walking home by one’s self embarrassment, abandonment, loneliness, inferiority, revenge fantasies, yearning, despair Walking home with a friends embarrassment, chatting about sports, music, girls, teachers, rivals, negative comparisons, complaining, suspicions, hate Taking the bus excitement, taunting, sexually harassing, putting down, daring, cautioning, planning meeting later Picked up by parents embarrassment, inhibited anger and resentment, lying about school day, arguing, begging In peer’s car to home anger eruption, wild driving, laughing, shouting, sharing smokes/dope, denigrating teachers and rivals, planning evening’s taboo activities and how to avoid getting caught, revenge, sexual exploits, fantasies about girls, boasting competence Play in neighborhood park intense sports play, yelling, threatening, fighting, offensive flirting, boasting, belittling, sharing smokes Hanging out on street corner sharing smoke/dope/alcohol, recounting sexual exploits, harassing, boasting, belittling teachers/rivals Going to supervised activity seeking to bond, objecting, pleading, putting each other down, praising skill, telling peers’ school goofs 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 40 After School Extra-Curricular Groups Setting Characteristics The first characteristic of after school extra-curricular groups is that membership is typically based on interest in subject matter of the group and joining is voluntary. Exceptions are the cases of those joining because of attraction to a member of the opposite sex. At least one teacher, who teaches courses related to the group’s theme sponsors, and, most of the time, attends the meetings. They typically meet once a week for an hour or two after school. They usually have an agenda that is based on group consensus. Many have a major, public event for which they prepare performances, demonstrations, or individual or group projects. Some even have tours or trips to other countries or sponsor exchange studies with other countries. These events may be competitions in which projects are judged by experts. Some have successions of competitions at different levels like regional, state, and even national with awards and publicity. Many schools have displays where is year an award was won are shown year round. Each group differs in terms of how well organized they are and how much support they receive from the school administration. Some schools are fortunate enough to be able to sponsor a large number of extra-curricular groups that are well supported by the administration and community business and social organizations. Others are not so fortunate. Some examples of types of extra-curricular groups are: Science Students Involved in These Groups Generally Computers Music: Voice And Instrumental have Enduring, Positive, Inner States. Agriculture Non-varsity Sports The Associated Emotions and Behaviors Are: Drama motivation Arts superiority Human Services Volunteering delight Business [e.g. Junior Achievement] eagerness Dance, Musicals exclusiveness Languages Spelling curiosity Intellectual Competitions bonding Peer Counseling anticipation Mediation responsibility Peer Tutoring concern Community Development Projects cooperativeness Government [e.g. Mayor For A Day, Judge For A Day] competitiveness Politics fairness Teen Court In addition, there are non-school sponsored groups like Boy and Girl Scouts, Boys and Girls Clubs, and Church sponsored programs. Theoretically, schools that have a large number of these types of groups that are actively supported should have fewer problems with drugs, alcohol, delinquency, violence, weapons violations, suspensions and expulsions, drop-outs, emotionally disturbed, failures, school phobias, ethnic conflicts, religious discrimination, or rejects of any kind. Increasing their number can help. However, membership is usually limited to high performing, highly motivated students with enduring, positive, inner states. This means that many students are not included in any group. It also means that the tendency of teens to exhibit status rivalries in which members of such groups are seen as superior, favored, and privileged and non-members are, therefore, automatically by definition of inferior status, will be a negative characteristic of the structure of the school’s system which negatively impacts these non-included students who have enduring, negative, inner states. This negative, structural characteristic should be considered to be the major cause of the problems listed above within a school’s student population. Addressing and finding ways to correct this structural defect should dramatically decrease such problems even among students with enduring, negative, inner states. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 41 After School Athletics Setting Characteristics Athletics in the vast majority of high schools has unique structural characteristics. Youths are selected on the basis of the athletic prowess alone except for the fact that in many schools athletes must be passing the academic courses. Of course, these youths must also choose to participate and this indicates an ostensive interest even though they may not be genuinely interested. This is so because, if a youth has athletic potential, it is considered either disloyalty to the school or cowardice to not participate. This is the only voluntary school activity where this is the case. Selected youths represent a very small minority of the student body. Once the coach has officially selected the team, they are given jackets to signify their membership. This is a visible sign recognized as high status in the school and in the community. Wherever athletes go they are recognized as special. There are even student rallies and business community banquets celebrating their special-ness and demonstrating support for them. Their every move is subject of scrutiny and critique by fans almost as much as coaches. The school and community counts on them to succeed and the moods of everyone rides a wild roller coaster of wins and losses. Because of this ‘stardom’ they are envied, students fight to be their friends, and rivalries spring up over the privilege to be their friend and romantic partner. Their own status as an athlete and the school’s status, and even community’s status, dependence on their success tends to give these stars a sense of immunity from requirements and moral prohibitions imposed upon non-athlete students. For example, if they bully someone or are sexually predatory, onlookers and even authorities are likely to laugh it off. These youths have to practice long and hard, often into the evening and even Saturdays. This leaves them little time for studies or even much of a social life. They are in the peak of physical shape for strength and endurance. The roughness of sports tends to make them more aggressive in other settings. Sports are theoretically supposed to teach young men sportsmanship which entails a relatively high level of maturity and ethical principles. However, when there is such an extreme emphasis on winning, many coaches, as well as supporters in the community, encourage them to learn how to act on the playing field in highly un-sportsmanship ways, pushing to the limits, and if possible just beyond, of what the regulations allow without getting caught. When you combine these factors and put them in unsupervised party situations, they are primed to be dominant and use force to get their way and put down rivals. Many athletes develop the feeling, as a result of this structure, that they can do as they please with impunity. When this assumption is tested, it is often confirmed. This structure evokes a formula that says, “If I succeed as an athlete and keep up appearances, I can expect others to worship me, give me special privileges, give me a break in academics, and look the other way if I am caught in something illegal or unethical. Therefore, the characteristics of this structure tend to produce aggressive, narcissistic personalities with bravado, social ease, and finesse or charm; while their belief systems are covertly bordering on moral psychopathy. Only youths with strong, enduring, positive inner states can withstand the overwhelming, pervasive influence of the negative characteristics of the structure of school athletics. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 42 After School Athletics Structural Aspects of the Athletic Practice, After School Setting SITUATIONS EMOTIONS and BEHAVIORS MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH POSITIVE INNER STATES Encouraging and motivating team mates; enthusiasm, mutual trust, eagerness, bonding Planning plays; concentration, motivation, anxiety, determination Executing plays; daring, aggression, motivation, trust, exhilaration, Recounting personal good and bad plays; pride, elation, humiliation, anger, impatience Exercise to push physical limits; motivation, determination, stress, vanity, rivalry Grand-standing; vanity, superiority, rivalry, delight Sharing information about coaches; anxiety, admiration, resentment, wary, loss of face Recounting team victories and losses; rivalry, elation, gloom, dejection, pride, disgrace Sharing information about other teams; worry, arrogant, anxiety, determined, hope, daring Comparing positive and negative fan opinion; ecstasy, dejected, resentment, gratitude, confusion Planning for dates and going out evenings; yearning, excited, conceit, shrewdness, daring Discussing girls and sexual encounters; admiration, lust, respect, resenting, insinuations MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH NEGATIVE INNER STATES Discussing girls and sexual exploits; Planning sexual exploits; Planning aggression and retribution; Gossiping; Intimidating, razzing, hazing each other; Complaining; Finding ways to get out of exercise; 3/22/2016 lust, deviousness, disrespect, gloating, inferiority deviousness, lust, craving, impudence, rivalry hostility, resentment, audaciousness, arrogance suspicion, mistrust, insignificant, sneaky, glee conceit, rivalry, annoyance, impatience, anxiety inferior, stressed, misery, resentment, frustration humiliation, dread, shame, hopeless, alienation Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 43 Evenings at Home Structural Aspects of the Settings Characteristic of Students at Home in the Evenings Situations Emotions and Behaviors Evoked MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH POSITIVE INNER STATES Routine assigned chores Cooking Dinning Cleaning dishes Lounging with friends Doing homework Using computer for homework Using computer for chats with friends Using computer for personal interests Watching TV, listening to music Telephone talk topics with friends: Compliance, reluctance, boredom Turn taking, careful performance With family, discussions Compliance, bored, dutiful Chatting, excited, vanity Compliance, conscientious, ambitious Enthusiasm, curiosity, creativity Excitement, cleverness, competence Curiosity, creativity, sophistication Enchanted, romantic, heroic, happy comparing same sex friends and peers planning fun things to do sharing preferences, idols, heroes evaluating parents’ traits fantasies about opposite sex complaints about parents sharing plans for future In own room, secluded, daydreaming pleasant, romance, winning, anticipating Engaging in autoeroticism longing, fantasizing ideal, ecstasy Fighting with siblings rivalry, annoyance, embarrassment Arguing with parents impatience, resentment, impudence Engaging in hobbies curiosity, concentration, pride, cleverness 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH NEGATIVE INNER STATES Defiance, resentment, sabotage For self, neglected, careless, non-nutritious By self, abandoned, dejected Neglect, impatience, irritation, non-compliance Negative, yearning, envy, gloomy, suspicious Frustrated, inferiority, procrastination, quitting Fear, confusion, stupidity, avoidance Avoidance, disdain, embarrassment, retarded Retarded, not cool, embarrassment, envy Rebellious, heroic, macho, cool, elated denigrating same sex friends and peers fantasies about opposite sex complaints about parents contriving ways to break rules contriving ways to cheat in school planning things to do, plots, revenge, devious sharing suspicions, pessimism, envy despair, empty, gloomy, revenge, hate, lonely shame, hostility, abandonment, lust, craving frustration, rage, envy, humiliation, mistrust rage, resentment, alienation, defiance edginess, confusion, boredom, hopelessness 44 Evenings Away From Home Structural Aspects of the Settings Characteristic of Students Out on the Town in the Evenings MORE COMMON TO STUDENTS WITH POSITIVE INNER STATES While the majority of youth are at home at night during the school days, there is a sizable percentage that are out on the town. Youth within any given community have favorite haunts. Some hang out in the parking lot around convenience stores, some around fast food restaurants, some on streets, and other such places where there is some lighting and they are not likely to be run off by proprietors, neighbors, or police. They typically buy cigarettes, sodas, and snacks. Some are able to get alcoholic drinks and drugs which they share with one another. Many have curfews but some stay out until two or three o’clock. Some who are not allowed out will sneak out after their parents have gone to sleep. Since there is no adult supervision, this is the least structured Setting they can be in. As such, this is the time and place for them to act out their pent up feelings. Here, their emotions become intense and their behavior wild. This is a place where they can release their need to rebel against their parents and against the frustrating demands and restrictions of school. In the cloak of night, with no one to restrain them, they can express their need for revenge for being treated like a reject, for being excluded by more favored peers, turned away by those in charge of selecting participants in high status activities like sports, failed and disciplined by teachers, stopped and reprimanded or even arrested by police, and scorned by merchants. Now they can displace their rage by going to excess in defying those restrictions and railing against resented treatment by all sorts of authorities. Among themselves, they can ridicule and poke fun at peers who attacked or humiliated them. They can look for someone to attack physically as they were emotionally or physically attacked in school. They can even engage in fights. Even the girls can occasionally become physically violent. They can yell and scream, shout curses, act obnoxious to outsiders, throw things, race their cars and screech their tires. They can break loose from prohibitions against seeing certain persons of the opposite sex and break taboos by indulging in making out without inhibition. Occasionally a group of privileged male youths, such as athletes, will show up at these settings to harass and intimidate their ‘inferiors’ and even engage in battles with them or challenge them to risky contests like drag racing. Those youths with enduring positive inner feelings and grounded security do not show up at these places because their needs and behavior patterns do not include such rebellion, defiance, acting out, and release of pent up rage and frustration. Most of these youths would find such occasions frightening. When they hear about such wild evenings and violent and illegal acting out the next day at school, they become even more disapproving. distant, and alienated from youths known to have participated and their associates. This creates an unbridgeable chasm and forms an unspoken caste system. This caste system is invisible and is created by the structural characteristics of the visible structures and settings that exclude, degrade, stigmatize, and neglect such a large percentage of students and relegate them as outcasts to a kind of social hell and doomed destiny. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 45 THE EFFECTS OF DEGREES OF CONTROL AND THREAT IN THE STRUCTURE OF AN ENVIRONMENT ON THE TYPE AND DEGREE OF FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION: Highly Repressive Structures Mean Suppressed Negative Emotions Are Restrained. Permissive Structures Unleash Suppressions. Optimal Structures Cause Positive Transformations. Repressed behavior, feelings, fantasies, & inner tension Channeled, positive behavior Uninhibited, negative behavior: Private, primitive impulses dominate LO structure 3/22/2016 MED structure with Positive Avenues Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 HI structure with strict restrictions 46 FACTORS INVOLVED IN THE STRUCTURE OF A SCHOOL SYSTEM Factors That Can Be Altered to Produce an Optimal Structure for All Students Repressive Structural Factors OPTIMAL Restrained Stars DYSCORPORATED and DESIRES Stripes FEARS STRUCTURE Unleashed Permissive Structural Factors 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 47 ENCOMPASSING STRUCTURE-CENTERED TRANSFORMATIONS of SETTINGS within the SCHOOL SYSTEM If we examine the foregoing Settings, the kinds of situations they tend to evoke, and the kinds of emotions and behaviors that students with positive versus negative enduring inner states experience, what can we do: a. b. c. to reduce the occurrence of negative types of situations, to shift negative inner states toward positive, and to evoke more positive emotions and behaviors? Altering Structural Factors for Transformative Processes: • • • • • • • Restructuring the chain of command and the job functions within the chain. Rearranging the places where Settings occur and other structural factors common to each type of Setting or Activity. Inventing and distributing new types of roles and providing Settings for new relationships and repair old negative relationships. Inventing new types of tasks for the participants in the various Settings and Activities. Providing the conditions within each Setting and Activity in which positive modes of expression can be learned, evoked, and shared for all participants. Restructure the organization of and interrelationship among all Settings and Activities and their participants, paying particular attention to scheduling or time allocation and adding functions that cut across and integrate all Settings, Activities, and their participants. Introduce increased integration of the school’s entire System, its Settings, Activities, students, parents, and staff, with appropriate components of the surrounding community. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 48 Suggestions for Restructuring the School’s Structure, Systems, and Settings to Evoke Positive Situations and Positive Feelings and Behavior • Give the student government the responsibility for putting all extra-curricular groups and school athletics on the computer. List the sponsors and members of each group. List each group’s meeting times and places and their mission, objectives, and agenda of events for the year. • Publicize information on all groups at the beginning of each year. Have the Student Government coordinate a campaign at the beginning of the year in which each group engages in a membership drive. Set as an objective to leave no student unaffiliated with a group. • Assign each veteran group member the role of buddy to a new member. • Have each group’s teacher sponsor and the group members find a community organization or business, whose focus is similar to the group, to act as their community sponsor. Negotiate to allow the group to meet periodically on the premises of their sponsor. • Each group should develop projects early in the year to be completed before the end of the year. Have the members try to develop projects that utilize the concepts taught in class. Present their projects to their class, to the entire student body, and to their community sponsor. Publicize these events to all concerned parties, including parents to ensure maximum attendance. • Provide the members of each group identifying insignia to be worn on identifying shirts or hats. Each group member should have a way to identify the nature of their group, their rank in the group if relevant, and any additional awards so that they have immediate recognition value. • Provide a training program, throughout the school year, to train teachers as situational maturity coaches. An objective of this training could be to reduce incidents, avoid disciplinary action, and assist the youths’ growth in maturity. • Use homeroom time for an interpersonal cohesion group so that all students in the class can become personally familiar with each other and their ethnic backgrounds. Allow the time and process for students to express and resolve interpersonal misunderstandings. • Provide parent training throughout the school year and make the schedule so that it accommodates the schedules of all parents. • Have the parents of students be paired, as parent surrogates, with students who are not their own children in order to attend parent-teacher conferences, while their own children meet with parent surrogate instead of the own parent. As teenagers are attempting to emancipate from their parents, parent-teacher conferences with them tend to be un- or counter- productive. If possible, have someone from their group’s community sponsor attend that meeting also. • Have Student Government quantify their performance measures of success for the year’s overall extra-curricular program. Have them present their statistics for degree of success to the student body at year’s end. Have them also make this presentation to the School Board and the Chamber of Commerce. Include statistics on the number of school drop outs and expulsions for the year. Publish their statistics on the school as a whole and each group in an end of school year bulletin and distribute it to all families and community sponsors. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 49 WORKING WITH STUDENTS IN A RE-DESIGNED STRUCTURE: POSSIBLE PERSON-CENTERED EMOTION TRANSFORMATIONS WITHIN OPTIMAL STRUCTURES Gaining emotional awareness, detecting, and transforming raw, dysfunctional emotions into mature, authentic feelings and overcoming the enduing, negative, inner states Developing differential ways of treating and programming for youth with enduring, positive inner states versus enduring, negative inner states 1. Assessing primitive positive and negative emotions through the use of a ‘Setting by Situation by Person’ approach in relation to goals of transforming youths’ enduring inner states in a positive direction 1. Detecting Settings and Situations that provoke or evoke negative emotions and feelings. 2. Unmasking pseudo-incorporated emotions and detecting disincorporated emotions. 3. Transforming pseudo-incorporated and disincorporated emotions back to their original primitive states. 4. Restructuring perceptions of situations and refining of the related feelings and the verbal expressions of those feelings as well as the related behavioral reactions. 5. Transformation of perceptions, emotions, and behaviors through coaching within the restructured Settings. 6. Following the above path and assisting youth in refining feeling-expression patterns toward mature authenticity in reacting to situations and expressing feelings verbally and behaviorally 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 50 Movies to Accompany This Lesson and Be Discussed in Group Focus Concept When Viewing the Movie: Dealing with students with enduring positive versus negative inner states by analyzing different types structures and settings and re-designing for optimal structures • • • • After you have studied and discussed slides of this lesson, it would be helpful to view one of the movies listed below and discuss it with your group in terms of the focus concepts in the lesson: Riding in cars with boys Lord of the Flies Lean on Me Dangerous Minds While viewing the movie of your choice, look for how the school structures and the characteristics of the various settings impact the youths’ emotions, behavior, and personalities. Consider how you might alter the characteristics of settings to evoke more positive emotions and behavior. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 51 Homework Exercises for Administrators, Teachers, Staff, Parents, and Counselors: For each of the topics below, talk with a different youth about school related settings, how they feel about them, and whether they have a positive or negative influence on them and, if so, why. Do the same with teachers. Remember to make your questions open-ended and make notes of what they said. • Ask a student if they are in any athletic or extra-curricular activity. If they are, ask why, what do they get out of it, how does it make them feel, and in what ways they might have changed as a result of being a member. If your first subject is a member, then next try to find a student who is not a member of any activity and ask them why they are not. Ask how it makes them feel and what are the consequences of not being a member of anything. Ask if there is any group they think they might like to belong to and, if they say yes, ask what prevents them from trying to join. • Select several students during lunch time in the cafeteria. Select one that is with a group of obvious friends. Select one that is by themselves. See if you can spot one that is being mistreated in some way. With each, ask them how they feel about the lunch period and ask why they feel that way. If they give a negative answer, ask what happens to them during lunch time that makes it unpleasant for them. • Select a student who is in the Student Government and ask them how they feel about being a member and how it makes them feel about themselves. Ask what they think about the school, what they see as problems, and what they would change if they could. • Select a student in the Hallway between classes that seems happy and purposeful and ask them what they think about the way things are during this time. Ask why they think this is the case. Select a student that seems to be having negative feelings and them what they think about the ways things are during this time, how they feel about it, and why. • Select a student whom you know to be a model student in Class and is making good grades. Ask them how they feel about and what they think of their classes and teachers in general. Ask why they feel that why and why they have those opinions. Select a student whom you know is thought of as a trouble-maker and who is doing poorly in their courses. Ask them how they feel about and what they think of their classes and teachers in general. Ask why they feel that why and why they have those opinions. • Randomly choose several students and ask them where they go after school, how they get home, and what it is like on the way home. Ask if anything unpleasant happens on the way home or they have ever gotten in trouble after school on the way home or before going home. Ask them to try to explain to you why things happen that way. If they have bad experiences after school and on the way home, ask what could make it better. • Ask one student whom you think is doing well and one who is doing poorly what is it like at home in the evening. Ask them what effect this has on them doing their homework and making their grades. • Find a student whom you know goes out a lot on school nights. Ask why they go out. Ask what it is like, what they do, and if they have ever gotten in trouble or been pressured into doing something they thought was bad. • Ask one teacher whom you know to have a good reputation and one teacher known to have a bad reputation how they feel about teaching. Ask them what they see as problems in being a teacher. Ask them to describe one good student and one poor student and ask what makes one a good and the other a bad student. • Ask each of the above teachers what, if they could, would they change about their job and about the school and ask why they think these suggestions would make a difference. • Share the results of your interviews with your training group members. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 52 For Additional Presentations on School Reform for Improving Learning and Preventing Violence, See and Click the Hyperlink Below. http://dredyoung.com/schoolviolence/School%20Violence%20-%20Analysis%20and%20Solutions.htm Endnote: 1. For those interested in the theory behind the Natural Systems Approach, this lesson is a good example of 1. the way external structural factors influence dyadic interaction and individual's personalities and 2. the part inner processes of the person contribute to dyadic interaction. 2. Settings pull for types of situations and situations involve dyadic interaction. 3. Settings usually have roles. Over time, the pull of the Setting and its roles tend to overrule and supplant negative inner processes as the individual interacts in the dyadic interaction elicited by Setting-specific roles and situations. 3/22/2016 Copyright by Edwin L. Young, PhD, 7/1997 53