CHAPTER OUTLINE INCEST AND EXOGAMY EXPLAINING THE TABOO Although Tabooed, Incest Does Happen Instinctive Horror Biological Degeneration Attempt and Contempt Marry Out or Die Out ENDOGAMY Caste Royal Endogamy MARITAL RIGHTS AND SAME-SEX MARRIAGE MARRIAGE AS GROUP ALLIANCE Bridewealth and Dowry Durable Alliances DIVORCE PLURAL MARRIAGES Polygyny Polyandry What is marriage? Marriage is an institution with significant roles an functions in additions to reproductions. No definitions of marriage is broad enough to apply easily to all societies and situations Endogamy Endogamy: marriage of people from the same group Most societies are endogamous units, although they usually do not need a formal rule requiring people to marry someone from their own society. Caste: Extreme example of endogamy Stratified groups in which membership is ascribed at birth and is life long. Indian Caste: Five major categories (Verna) ranked relative to the other four Each Verna includes a number of sub castes Royal Endogamy: Based on a few societies on brother-sister marriage is similar to caste endogamy Exogamy: marriage outside a given group In many nonindustrial societies, a person’s social world includes of two main categories: kin and strangers. Marriage is one of the primary ways of converting strangers into kin, of creating and maintaining personal and political alliances, relationships of affinity. Genitor: a child’s biological father Pater: one’s socially recognized father: not necessarily the genitor Exogamy pushes social organizations outward, establishing and preserving alliances among groups. The practice of seeking a husband/wife outside one’s own group, has adaptive value because it links people into a wider social network that nurtures and protects them in times of need. Incest: forbidden sexual relations with a close relative Parallel Cousins: children of two brothers/two sisters Cross Cousins: children of a brother and a sister Incest refers to sexual relations with someone considered to be a close relative. All cultures have taboos against it. However, although the taboo is a cultural universal, cultures define incest differently. Incest No accepted explanation as to why all cultures ban incest. Argued: Humans have a genetically programmed disgust towards incest. If people really did have an instinctive horror of incest, a formal taboo would be unnecessary. Biological Degeneration (theory) Early Homo noticed that abnormal offspring were born from incestuous unions. To prevent this, our ancestors banned it. Attempt and Contempt Sigmund Freud: Children have sexual feelings towards their parents, which is eventually repressed or resolved. Bronislaw Malinowski: Incest taboo originated to direct sexual feeling outside – to avoid disruption of – existing family structure and relations Opposite theory: children are not likely to be sexually attracted to whom they’ve grown up with. This is related to instinctive horror, But without assuming a biological basis. Marital Rights Depending on society, several different kinds of rights are allocated by marriage. Edmund Leach (British anthropologist) 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Establish the legal father/mother of the man’s/woman’s child Give either/both spouses a monopoly on the sexuality of the other Give either/both spouses rights to the labor of the other Give either/both spouses rights over the other’s property Establish a joint fund of property for benefit of the children Establish a socially significant “relationship of affinity” between spouse and their relatives Same-Sex Marriage Discussion of same sex marriage The same martial rights belonging to heterosexual couples could be applied to same sex couples EX: Children • If a different sex couple can adopt a child who becomes their through the social and legal construction of kinship, the same logic could be applied to a gay or lesbian couple Marriage as Group Alliance Bride wealth: Marital gift by husband’s group to wife’s group. Progeny price: marital gift by husband’s group to wife’s; legitimizes their children. Dowry: Substantial gifts to husband’s family from wife’s group Outside industrial societies, marriages is often more a relationship between groups than one between individuals. Although bride and groom usually seek their parents’ approval, the final choice lies with the couple. The idea of romantic love symbolizes this relationship. Mass media and migration increasingly spread Western ideas about the importance of love to other societies. Marriage as Group Alliance Bridewealth and Dowry In societies with decent groups, people enter marriage not alone but with the help of decent group. Bridewealth compensated the bride’s group for the loss of her companionship and labor. More important, it makes the children born to the woman full members of her husband’s decent group Plural Marriages Polyandry is practiced in only few cultures groups in Tibet, Nepal, and India. Polygyny is much more common. Many cultures approve of a man having more than one wife. However, where polygyny is encouraged, most men are monogamous, and polygyny characterizes only a fraction of the marriages. Divorce Ease of divorce varies across cultures Tends to be more common in matrilineal than in patrilineal societies When residence in a matrilocal, the wife may simply send of a with whom she’s incompatible. Divorce is harder in a patrilineal society, especially when substantial brideworth would have to be reassembled and repaid if the marriage failed.