Bem Sex Role Inventory Scoring • Scoring Part 1 • Add up your ratings for items 1, 4, 7,10,13, 16. 19. 22. 25. 28. 31. 34. 37. 40. 43. 46. 49. 55, and 58. Divide the total by 19. Part 2 • Add up your ratings for items 2, 5, 8, 11, 14, 17, 20, 23, 26, 29, 32, 35, 38, 41, 44, 47, 50, 53, 56, and 59. Divide the total by 20. Table of Contents Exit How to Read Your Scores According to Sandra Bem • If your masculinity score is above 4.9 (the approximate median for the masculinity scale) and your femininity score is above 4.9 (the approximate femininity median), then you would be classified as androgynous on Bem’s scale. Table of Contents Exit Psychology Today • Unit 8 Social Behavior ▫ ▫ ▫ ▫ ▫ ▫ ▫ ▫ Understanding social behavior on several levels Groups Groups Structure 12 Days Group Cohesiveness Left!!!!!!!!!!! Values Beliefs Norms Ideals Table of Contents Exit Chapter 18 Social Behavior Table of Contents Exit Let’s Talk About Life • Real World- noun: life after high school; or, life as an adult • What are you looking forward to most about the real world? • What scares you about the real world? Table of Contents Exit Is everyone in the world separated by only 6 links? – Duncan Watts, Colombia University Table of Contents Exit What is Social Psychology? • Social Psychology: ▫ Scientific study of how individuals behave, think, and feel in social situations (In the presence, actual or implied, of others) The Study of : Society Culture Groups Social Behavior Conformity Persuasion Influence Obedience http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PtdH5hMz0SU&playn ext=1&list=PL972F14C05D75C195 Table of Contents Exit Notice any Differences? Table of Contents Exit Part 1 Similarities in the Formation and Maintenance of Social Groups Table of Contents Exit Understanding Group Structure Group Structure: Network of roles, communication, pathways, and power in a group Group Cohesiveness: Degree of attraction among group members or their commitment to remaining in the group Psychology fun Fact -- Cohesive groups have stronger bonds Table of Contents Exit The Ties That Bind Groups Cohesiveness 1. Values- Principles, standards, or qualities for living 2. Beliefs- Acceptance of what is right and true 3. Symbols- Objects that stand for a greater importance 4. Norms: Accepted, but usually unspoken, standard of appropriate behavior Table of Contents *All these add up to create a sense of pride. More pride = More Cohesion Exit Beliefs Values Principles, standards, or qualities for living Acceptance of what is right and true •based on values Table of Contents Exit Symbols Table of Contents Exit Norms Accepted standards of appropriate behavior Failure to stick to the norms can result in severe punishments, the Table of Contents most feared of which is exclusion from the group. Exit Personal Space • Area surrounding the body that is defined as private and is subject to personal control Fig. 18.2 Typical spatial zones (in feet) for face-to-face interactions in North America. Often, we must stand within intimate distance of others in crowds, buses, subways, elevators, and other public places. At such times, privacy is maintained by avoiding eye contact, by standing shoulder to shoulder or back to back, and by positioning a purse, bag, package, or coat as a barrier to spatial intrusions. Table of Contents Exit Spatial Norms • Proxemics: Systematic study of human use of personal space, especially in social settings ▫ Intimate Distance: Most private space immediately surrounding the body; 18 inches from the skin. Reserved for special people or special circumstances ▫ Personal Distance: Maintained in interactions with friends. 18 inches to 4 feet from body; arm’s length ▫ Social Distance: Impersonal interaction takes place; 4 to 12 feet • Public Distance: Formal interactions take place (like giving a speech); 12 feet or more Table of Contents Exit Psychology Today • Group Structures ▫ Cohesion • Jane Elliot ▫ A Sweet “A” Video Table of Contents Exit C O H E S I O N Values Beliefs Groups Symbols Norms C O H E S I O N Table of Contents Exit Jane Elliot Brown Eyes v Blue Eyes - Infamous Social Psychology Experiment Grammar School Teacher - Focused her study on third grade students and the creation and reaction to social prejudice. Her study was based on symbols, their representation, and how they drew a dividing line between social structures Table of Contents Exit Brown Eyes vs. Blue Eyes 1. Why did Jane Elliot want to conduct her experiment? 2. How did Jane Elliot conduct her experiment? 3. What were some symbols Jane used to divide the students? 3. What types of tests were given to the students during the experiment to help support her findings? 4. What were some conclusions Jane Elliot discovered during this experiment? 5. Do you think an experiment of this measure would work on adults? Table of Contents Exit Social Science Research: Cohesion and Group Pride Table of Contents Exit The Bathroom Study Survey School Pride Cohesion No Cohesion School Pride Table of Contents Exit Student Dress Code Study Test Scores No cohesion Cohesion Test Scores Table of Contents Exit Social Study: Neighborhoods Crime Rates Cohesion No Cohesion Crime Rates Table of Contents Exit Fig. 18.1 Results of an experiment on norms concerning littering. The prior existence of litter in a public setting implies that littering is acceptable. This encourages others to “trash” the area. (From Cialdini, Reno, & Kallgren, 1990.) Table of Contents Exit The Social Creature: Where we Fit in Social Status: -- The level of social power and importance one has over others in his group Social Roles: -- Patterns of expected behaviors of people in various social positions Table of Contents Exit Represent Your Social Position Social Positions 2 Types of Social Positions 1 Achieved: Attained voluntarily or by special effort 2. Ascribed: Assigned to a person or not under personal control Role Conflict: When two or more roles make conflicting demands on behavior Table of Contents Exit Represent Your Status Social Status (power and prestige) is often a direct result of social position Represented By: Table of Contents Exit The Thing About Social Status Social Status Social Status Special Privileges and Respect Table of Contents Exit What Would You Do? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIEFiHgPPgE 1. Would you Help? Why or Why Not? What if? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1hn-wL6hPq8 1. Would you help now? Why or Why Not? Table of Contents Exit The Point? Taking the first steps into understanding human behavior Every Society Consists of: Social Structures People •Social Positions •Social Roles •Social Statuses Social Structures are Held together by Group Cohesiveness •Values •Beliefs •Symbols •Norms Pride Table of Contents Exit Psychology This Week • Monday ▫ Psychology from this weekend ▫ Jane Elliot Reflection ▫ The Bystander Effect ▫ What Would You Do? • Wednesday ▫ Conformity ▫ Coercion ▫ Obedience • Thursday ▫ It Hurts to be a Cubs Fan! • Tuesday ▫ Milligram- the man, the myth, the legend! • Friday ▫ October 14, 2003 ▫ The Saddest Moment of My Life ▫ Table of Contents Exit Social Poll • Has anyone ever misconceived your behavior for something that it wasn’t? ▫ Why did this misconception occur? • Have you ever misconceived someone’s behavior for something that it wasn’t? Table of Contents Exit Social Perception How we view Human Behavior Table of Contents Exit Can You Guess How Differently These Groups Will React? Table of Contents Exit Is What You See Really What You Get? • Attributions ▫ The process of making inferences about the causes of one’s own behaviors and that of others Internal Causes External Causes -- causes assumed to live with in the person such as needs, preferences and personality traits -- factors assumed to lie outside the person Internal attitudes External influences Behavior Table of Contents Exit Meet Molly Gross!! Internal Causes -Anger issues? -Bitchy personality? Personal -Prefers women? Ooooo Baby you look scrumptious! External Causes -Broken Heart? -Just got fired? Sean is Ugly? Environmental Influences (Social Structure) In order to understand human behavior we have to deduce Table of Contents the surrounding factors Exit 3 Things to Take Into Account in Perception Why was Sean Rejected? B A The social structure of the actor (the person of interest) What if the social roles and expectations are completely different for each structure? S P R The social structure of the Object (the person the action is directed towards) S VS P R Table of Contents Exit The Final Piece of the Puzzle • Situational Demands ▫ Pressures to behave in certain ways in particular C settings and social The social situation (the situations physical or social environment in which it occurred) * FactAs situational demands Increase we discount (downgrade) internal causes for explaining behavior Situational Demands Internal Causes Table of Contents Exit ASS-U-ME This: Mistakes Made in Attributing Behavior More often then not, mistakes are made in attributing causes to behaviors Fundamental Attribution Error: •The tendency to attribute the behaviors of others to internal causes (personality traits) “Uhh what a (b*$%, slob, jerk, pig, racist, etc…..) Actor-Observer Bias •While following the fundamental attribution error for others, we tend to attribute our own behaviors to external factors Table of Contents Exit Reacting to Social Behavior Post Attribution: • The determined causes of someone’s behavior will force us to react in a defensive or passive way: - Environmental- reaction is passive - Internal- reaction is defensive Tolerant reaction (proceed cautiously, allow Situational attribution “maybe a dog ran out on the road.” driver a wide berth) Negative behavior Dispositional attribution Unfavorable reaction Exit Table of Contents (speed up and race past the The Point? When Determining the Cause of Behavior 1. The Environmental 2. The Personal Factors of Factors of the Person the Individual - Social Structure - Social Status - - Social Roles - - Rankings Expectations Social Position - Jobs - Social Situation - Personality - Traits Needs Preferences 3. Our Reactions - Passive -Defensive Table of Contents Exit Jane Elliot Brown Eyes v Blue Eyes - Infamous Social Psychology Experiment Grammar School Teacher - Focused her study on third grade students and the creation and reaction to social prejudice. Her study was based on symbols, their representation, and how they drew a dividing line between social structures Table of Contents Exit Remember Jane Elliot Brown Eyes v Blue Eyes - Social Psychology Experiment Questions to Ponder 1. What conclusions can be made from Elliot’s experiment? 2. Could a social experiment work on students at TPHS? 3. Why don’t members of the inferior group help each other out in a time of need? Exit Table of Contents EMERGENCY!!!!! • When was the last time you witnessed an emergency happening? ▫ Did you help? ▫ Why or why not? ▫ What do you consider an emergency? Table of Contents Exit Prosocial Behavior and Bystander Apathy • Bystander Effect: ▫ Unwillingness of bystanders to offer help during emergencies Related to number of people present More potential helpers present, less likely people will give help Table of Contents Exit Fig. 19.7 This decision tree summarizes the steps a person must take before making a commitment to offer help, according to Latané and Darley’s model. Table of Contents Exit What Would You Do? ABC 7 Social Experiments: The Bystander Effect in Motion • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOy4IT5G8s • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0ONij6eBk • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlFAd4YdQ ks Table of Contents Exit Why The Bystander Effect Happens • 1. Everyone is convinced that someone else will do something. • 2. There is a diffusion of responsibility in which the metaphor comes into play that, "No one rain drop believes it caused the flood." Here, the larger the group, the less pressure each witness feels to do anything helpful. • 3. A lack of empathy for the victim in the situation • 4. Pluralistic Ignorance (Ambiguity of Emergency) ▫ In an unfamiliar situation people tend to look to others for instruction. People watch what others are doing and mimic their actions. • 5. There is fear of victimization in which people avoid conflict because of the dread that they will be attacked or ridiculed if they help. • 6. People create their socially acceptable reasons for not taking actions, such as, "Well, no one else is doing anything because: it's a lover's quarrel; its just teenage pranks; its just innocent play acting,....etc." Table of Contents Exit Empathy Concepts • Empathic Arousal: ▫ Emotional arousal that occurs when you feel some of the person’s pain, fear or anguish • Empathy-Helping Relationship: ▫ We are most likely to help person in need when we feel emotions such as empathy and compassion Table of Contents Exit Interpersonal Attraction • Social attraction to another person • Physical Proximity: Physical nearness to another person in terms of housing, school, work, and so on • Physical Attractiveness: Person’s degree of physical beauty as defined by his or her culture • Halo Effect: Tendency to generalize a favorable impression to unrelated personal characteristics Table of Contents Exit Interpersonal Attraction (cont.) • Similarity: Extent to which two people are alike in terms of age, education, attitudes, and so on ▫ Similar people are attracted to each other • Homogamy: Tendency to marry someone who is like us in almost every way Table of Contents Exit CNN – Fan Psyche Table of Contents Exit Self-Disclosure • Process of revealing private thoughts, attitudes, feelings and one’s history to others ▫ Should be used cautiously and sparingly when you are the therapist performing therapy ▫ May lead to countertransference in therapy • Reciprocity: Return in kind; reciprocal exchange • Overdisclosure: Self-disclosure that exceeds what is appropriate for a relationship or social situation Table of Contents Exit Social Exchange Theory • Social Exchange Theory: Rewards must exceed costs for relationships to endure; we unconsciously weigh social rewards and costs • Comparison Level: Personal standard used to evaluate social rewards and costs in a social exchange • Relationship needs to be profitable enough to maintain it Table of Contents Exit Love and Attachment • Romantic Love: Marked by high levels of interpersonal attraction, sexual desire, and heightened arousal • Liking: Relationship based on intimacy but lacking passion and commitment • Mutual Absorption: When two lovers almost always attend only to each other • Avoidant Attachment: Fear of intimacy and a tendency to resist commitment to others • Ambivalent Attachment: Mixed emotions about relationships; conflicting feelings of affection, anger and emotional turmoil Table of Contents Exit Fig. 18.4 What do people look for when considering potential dating partners? Here are the results of a study in which personal ads were placed in newspapers. As you can see, men were more influenced by looks, and women by success (Goode, 1996). According to evolutionary psychologists, women tend to be concerned with whether mates will devote time and resources to a relationship. Men place more emphasis on physical attractiveness and sexual fidelity. Table of Contents Exit Social Influence • Changes in a person’s behavior induced by the actions of another person ▫ Someone else influences your decision: husband, wife, mother, peer, etc. ▫ Peer pressure: Rudy is swayed by Fanny to go see “The Matrix Reloaded” when he really wanted to see “Terminator 3” Table of Contents Exit Daily Announcements Monday Feb. 28th -The Need to Affiliate ( Muzafer Sharif) -- Conformity -What is it? -Whose Doing it? -Why (Theories on why and how people conform) Table of Contents Exit Flash Back Group Structure Values Symbols Beliefs Norms Table of Contents Exit Remember Jane Elliot Brown Eyes v Blue Eyes - Infamous Social Psychology Experiment Questions to Ponder 1. Why does this social experiment work on children? 2. Why does this social experiment work on adults? Table of Contents Exit Psychology This Week • One Final Week!!!!!!!! ▫ Monday- Conformity Theories ▫ Tuesday- Power, Compliance, Obedience ▫ Wednesday- Semester 2 Final Review/ Stanford Prison ▫ Thursday- Stanford Prison ▫ Friday – Review Senior Letters!! Table of Contents Exit What Happened? Table of Contents Exit Psychology Today: Theories as to why we do it….. and then some. Table of Contents Exit Conformity • Sherif’s Robbers Cave Experiment • Sherif’s classic social psychology experiment named Robbers Cave Experiment dealt with in-group relations, out-group relations and intergroup relations. Muzafer Sherif • -Social Psychology Experiment: -Robbers Cave National Park, OK -1954 VS Rattlers Eagles Table of Contents Exit Conformity • Bringing one’s behavior into agreement or harmony with norms or with the behavior of others ▫ Regardless of personal beliefs or opinions ▫ Regardless of values ▫ Regardless of warning signs that say it might be a bad idea Is anyone truly Unique? Why does conformity get a bad rap? Table of Contents Exit Conformity Coming to a Neighborhood Near You Theories on Why it Occurs Table of Contents Exit Theory 1 • Ingratiational Conformity ▫ When a person conforms to impress or gain favor/acceptance from other people. motivated by the need for social rewards rather than the threat of rejection, i.e., group pressure does not enter the decision to conform. Table of Contents Exit Theory 2 • Social Learning Theory ▫ We learn much by watching others, thinking, then trying it out. ▫ When we succeed, we become more confident and in turn feel as part of the group For ex: if a daughter watches as her mother returns to her abusive father, the girl has learned that it’s acceptable to let your husband hit her Table of Contents Exit Theory 3 • Social Comparison Theory ▫ Making judgments about ourselves by comparing ourselves to others (e.g., comparing our feelings and abilities to those of other people) Upward comparison- we compare ourselves to higher ranking people in order to change who we are and ultimately be part of the group Table of Contents Exit Theory 4 • Politeness Theory ▫ We act politely or rudely depending on whether we care. Conformance to the social rules of politeness is treading a central and safe path which neither threatens nor signals that you may be threatened. Politeness means acting to help save face for others. Table of Contents Exit Theory 5 • Consistency Theory ▫ We seek the comfort of internal alignment. Humans are creatures that, psychologically, do not handle change well In order to avoid change, or the work that goes along with it, we conform for personal comfort. Table of Contents Exit Theory 6 • Group Sanctions ▫ Punishments or rewards(such as approval or disapproval) administered by the group Negative sanctions- being laughed at, ridiculed, being stared at It’s the idea that none of us like to be punished, so we do what we have to in order to be rewarded and feel like part of the group. Table of Contents Exit Table of Contents Exit Theory 7 • The Bystander Effect ▫ The greater number of people there are doing something the more likely we are to follow Typically witnessed in emergency situation Think of it as a social norm Would you Help? Probably not…… Table of Contents Exit Decision Model of Helping 1 Notice an event? Yes 2 No No Interpret as an emergency? Yes 3 Assume responsibility for helping? No Do not help Yes 4 Know how to help? No Yes 5 Decide to help implement intervention? No Yes Help victim Table of Contents Exit March 13, 1964 -Queens, NY Table of Contents Exit Why The Bystander Effect Happens • 1. Everyone is convinced that someone else will do something. • 2. There is a diffusion of responsibility in which the metaphor comes into play that, "No one rain drop believes it caused the flood." Here, the larger the group, the less pressure each witness feels to do anything helpful. • 3. A lack of empathy for the victim in the situation • 4. Pluralistic Ignorance (Ambiguity of Emergency) ▫ In an unfamiliar situation people tend to look to others for instruction. People watch what others are doing and mimic their actions. • 5. There is fear of victimization in which people avoid conflict because of the dread that they will be attacked or ridiculed if they help. • 6. People create their socially acceptable reasons for not taking actions, such as, "Well, no one else is doing anything because: it's a lover's quarrel; its just teenage pranks; its just innocent play acting,....etc." Table of Contents Exit Theory 8 • Normative Conformity (Dominant type) ▫ Yielding to group pressures because a person wants to fit in with the group Conforming due to a fear of rejection • Group Think ▫ A compulsion by members of decision making groups to maintain agreement, even at the cost of critical thinking 2 Factors at Play Here The maintenance of the group’s cohesion and togetherness becomes all-important and can result in very bad decision-making. They will also be more vocal if they believe they are a part of the majority. This works because we fear social rejection. Table of Contents Exit Solomon Asch’s Experiment Solomon Asch’s Experiment: You must select (from a group of three) the line that most closely matches the standard line. All lines are shown to a group of six people (including you) Other five were accomplices and at times all would select the wrong line In 33% of the trials, the real subject conformed to group pressure even when the group’s answers were obviously incorrect! 75% conformed at least once Exit Table of Contents <1% tested erred when alone Affiliation • Sherif’s Robbers Cave Experiment • Sherif’s classic social psychology experiment named Robbers Cave Experiment dealt with in-group relations, out-group relations and intergroup relations. • Muzafer Sherif -Social Psychology Experiment: -Robbers Cave National Park, OK -1954 VS Rattlers Eagles Table of Contents Exit Theory 9 • Self-Fulfilling Prophecy ▫ The way we act is based on the idea of how we think other people view us. (simple right?) If a student has the idea that his teacher hates him or is “dumb” the child is more likely to act that way. Table of Contents Exit Table of Contents Exit Theory 10 • Over-Identification Conformity ▫ Conforming to the expectations of a social role provided to us Ex: my expectations as a man ▫ Though we may not agree with these expectations we still fulfill them Table of Contents Exit In the End • No one really knows why we conform? ▫ As you ca already tell, there could be multiple reasons. • Many times, it isn’t just because of 1 theory. ▫ Most times it’s a combination. • All we really need to understand is that conformity is a group’s number 1 NORM!!! ▫ Without conformity, there would be no groups. Table of Contents Exit Let Me Ask You This • When is conformity a positive thing? • When can conformity go wrong? • What would a world without conformity be like? 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Table of Contents Exit Today’s Agenda 1. Reanalyzing Brown v Blue Eye & The Wave 2. Human Nature Discussion 3. Applying the Theories of Conformity to Recent Social Experiments Today’s essential Question: Can we find examples of each theory of conformity in both social psychological experiments? Table of Contents Exit Food For Thought 1. What do Jane Elliot’s findings from her Brown Eye v Blue Eye study tell us about human nature? 2. What do the findings from Ron Jones’s “The Wave” tell about human nature? Table of Contents Exit Your Goal Theories on Conformity Psychology in Motion Putting Social Psychology to Use Directions: Using your knowledge of the two famous social experiments discussed in class (Jane Elliot’s Brown Eye v Blue Eye and Ron Jones’ “The Wave”) identify one example of each of the nine theories of conformity being used in either study. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. Group Sanctions The Bystander Effect Social Learning Theory Group Think Social Comparison Theory Self-Monitoring Behavior Social Desirability Bias Self-Fulfilling Prophecy Group Locomotion Table of Contents Exit Psychology This Week • One Final Week!!!!!!!! ▫ Monday- Conformity Theories ▫ Tuesday- Power, Compliance, Obedience ▫ Wednesday- Semester 2 Final Review/ Stanford Prison ▫ Thursday- Stanford Prison ▫ Friday – Review Senior Letters!! Table of Contents Exit What Happened? Table of Contents Exit Psychology This Week • One Final Week!!!!!!!! ▫ Monday- Conformity Theories ▫ Tuesday- Power, Compliance, Obedience ▫ Wednesday- Semester 2 Final Review/ Stanford Prison ▫ Thursday- Stanford Prison ▫ Friday – Review Senior Letters!! Table of Contents Exit Psychology Today • Stanley Milgram ▫ The study that “Shocked” psychology • Compliance and Obedience ▫ The differences? ▫ Are there any? • Power and obedience Philip Zimbardo Table of Contents Exit Power, Obedience and Compliance In Group Conformity Table of Contents Exit Abu Ghraib Prison How do good people turn evil? Table of Contents Exit Stanley Milgram – Power and Obedience Famous Social Psychologists -- Well known for his studies on obedience and authority --Would you shock a man with a known heart condition who is screaming and asking to be released? Table of Contents Exit The Breakdown Subjects Task: --After every wrong answer a shock was to be given the confederate. -- Voltage continues to increase after each wrong answer Confederate Task: --Match the given word with the object that it represents Experimenter Task: --Keep the experiment going at all costs. -- Use phrases like “it’s necessary that you continue” *Confederate and Experimenter were in on the set up Table of Contents Exit © Stanley Milgram, The Pennsylvania State University Fig. 18.6 Scenes from Stanley Milgram’s study of obedience: the “shock generator,” strapping a “learner” into his chair, and a “teacher” being told to administer a severe shock to the learner. Table of Contents Exit Fig. 18.7 Results of Milgram’s obedience experiment. Only a minority of subjects refused to provide shocks, even at the most extreme intensities. The first substantial drop in obedience occurred at the 300volt level (Milgram, 1963). Table of Contents Exit Conformity and Obedience Obedience Table of Contents Exit Conformity and Obedience Obedience Table of Contents Exit Conformity and Obedience Obedience Table of Contents Exit Conformity and Obedience Obedience Table of Contents Exit Milgram’s Results • 65% obeyed by going all the way to 450 volts on the “shock machine” even though the learner eventually could not answer any more questions ▫ The learner screamed and provided no further answers once 300 volts (“Severe Shock”) was reached 450 volts XXX Table of Contents Exit 3 Different Scenarios Fig. 18.8 Physical distance from the “learner” had a significant effect on the percentage of subjects obeying orders. Table of Contents Exit Obedience v Compliance Why we give in Table of Contents Exit Compliance v Obedience Compliance -- Bending to the requests of one person who has little or no authority or social power Obedience -- the act of adhering to dutiful or submissive behavior with respect to people with social power Table of Contents Exit Power Social Power: Capacity to control, alter or influence the behavior of another person or group of people Reward Power: the ability to reward a person for complying with desired behavior Coercive Power: Based on ability to punish a person for failure to comply Table of Contents Exit Obtaining Power Legitimate Power: Accepting a Referent Power: Respect for, or identification person as an agent of an established with, a person or a group social order Those who follow, respect, and believe in the Those who hold the most resources core values of the group have the most are typically those who have the influence most influence People refer to these people for direction Expert Power: Based on possession of knowledge or expertise Those who know the most about achieving the goals of a group have the most influence Table of Contents Exit Why We Comply Giving in to those who have no authoritative power over us Table of Contents Exit Compliance Techniques The How To Guide to Getting People to do What you Want With out and Authority 1. Foot-in-the-Door Effect: A person who has agreed to a small request is more likely later to agree to a larger demand. Once you get a foot in the door, then a sale is almost a sure thing Table of Contents Exit Foot-in-the-Door Uhhhh, O.K.? Uhhhh, I guess? Ummmm, O.K., I guess. “Hey Babe can I get your Number?” Ooookkkk?? Sounds good? “Well Do you mind if I call you this weekend?” “Wait, my phones broke, why don’t I just stop by?” “Since I’ll Already be at your place with my car, why don’t we just go to the movies then?” Sean’s Goal: Get a date with Molly Table of Contents Exit Compliance Techniques The How To Guide to Getting People to do What you Want With out and Authority 2. Door-in-the-Face Technique: A person who has refused a major request will be more likely later on to comply with a smaller request After the door has been slammed in your face (major request refused), person may be more likely to agree to a smaller request Table of Contents Exit Door-in-the-Face “Ooooo Baby you look SCRUMPTIOUS!!! What do you say you and me hit up Lover’s Point this weekend?” Eeeewww No! You’re a pig! “Again, I am not interested you perv!” “Uhhh, Fine! Just leave me alone.” “Well, what if we just went out to dinner and from there we see where the night goes?” “Well, then can I at least have your number and maybe call you sometime?” Sean’s Goal: To get Molly’s phone Number Table of Contents Exit Compliance Techniques The How To Guide to Getting People to do What you Want With out and Authority 3. Low-Ball Technique: Commitment is gained first to reasonable or desirable terms, which are then made less reasonable or desirable Henry accepts the price he states for a new car. Then, later, Tillie the saleswoman tells Henry “The business would lose too much money on that price; can’t you take a bit less and add all these options?” Table of Contents Exit Low-ball Technique The Hook “Oh God Yes!!” “Hey Seany baby, do you want to be my boyfriend?” “Ok, good. So it’s settled right?” W are dating?” “Well since we are now dating, I think we should celebrate by you taking me out for an expensive dinner?” “Oh, and I’m also going to need new Tiffany earrings and a Coach purse!” “Oh Yeah!” “Anywhere you wanna go baby!” “Uhhhh, sure babe whatever makes you happy.” Molly’s Goal: To use Sean for his money Table of Contents Exit Table of Contents Exit The Point? Most Social Behavior is the Result of 2 Things 1. Obeying those people with social power Giving into: 1. Legitimate 2. Expert 3. Referent 4. Reward 5. Coercive 2. Complying to People with no social power Giving into: 1. Foot-in-the-door 2. Door-in-the-face 3. Low-balling Table of Contents Exit Assertiveness Training • Instruction in how to be self-assertive • Self-Assertion: Standing up for your rights by speaking out on your own behalf; direct, honest expression of feelings and desires • Aggression: Hurting another person or achieving one’s goals at the expense of another person ▫ Attempt to get one’s way no matter what ▫ No regard for other people's feelings • Broken Record: Self-assertion technique that involves repeating a request until it is acknowledged ▫ Good way to be assertive without being aggressive Table of Contents Exit Fig. 18.9 In an experiment done at an airport, a smoker intentionally sat or stood near non-smokers. Only 9 percent of the non-smokers asked the smoker to stop smoking, even when no-smoking signs were clearly visible nearby (Gibson & Werner, 1994). Table of Contents ©Michael Newman/PhotoEdit Exit Social Traps • Any social situation that rewards individual actions that will have undesired effects in the long run ▫ Anya buys things on credit for immediate satisfaction and then gets a HUGE bill later, which she cannot afford • Tragedy of the Commons: Type of social trap where individuals share a scarce resource. Each person acts in his or her self-interest, which causes the resource to be used up, so eventually everyone suffers ▫ No efforts made, for example, to conserve water, gasoline, electricity, or food • Some social behaviors produce immediate rewards but have significant consequences in the long run Table of Contents Exit