“Putting away childish things” By MiXue 1 Cor. 13:11 “When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I put away childish things.” What are childish ways? 1. Defying authority 2. Unhealthy eating habits 3. Insisting on present desires 4. Seeking own aspirations 1. Defying authority Childish Defiance of Authority “It’s all about me.” “No one tells me what to do.” “I am the boss of me.” Who is in charge? LORDSHIP: Who is the Master? Who is the slave? 1 Cor. 6:19-20 “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.” I am the servant He is the Master “Do you not know that when you present yourselves to someone as slaves for obedience, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin resulting in death, or of obedience resulting in righteousness? But thanks be to God that though you were slaves of sin, you became obedient from the heart to that form of teaching to which you were committed, and having been freed from sin, you became slaves of righteousness.” Rom 6:16-18 What does God’s servant do? "If anyone serves Me, he must follow Me; and where I am, there My servant will be also; if anyone serves Me, the Father will honor him.” John 12:26 How do I become God’s servant? "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit. He who loves his life loses it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it to life eternal.” John 12:24-25 NEED: Die to my agenda, sin & will to live for Him & His will The Role of a Servant: “To You I lift up my eyes, O You who are enthroned in the heavens! Behold, as the eyes of servants look to the hand of their master, As the eyes of a maid to the hand of her mistress, So our eyes look to the LORD our God, until He is gracious to us.” Ps 123:1-2 The Lordship of Christ OPENS the door to growth Put away childish defiance God does not exist for me. I exist for God. 2. Unhealthy Eating Habits Childish Eating Habits: “Don’t tell me what I can or cannot eat!” “I will eat whatever I please.” “I will eat whenever I please.” What is good food? But Jesus answered and said, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.’” Matt 4:4 How does it benefit me? “All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.” 2 Tim 3:16-17 1 Pt 2:2 “like newborn babies, long for the pure milk of the word, so that by it you may grow in respect to salvation” “Long for the pure milk of the Word” Nourished by Word Intake: Quiet Time Bible Study Meditation Memorization In-depth Study Teach But don’t stay on an infant’s diet RX for healthy diet: For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you have need again for someone to teach you the elementary principles of the oracles of God, and you have come to need milk and not solid food. For everyone who partakes only of milk is not accustomed to the word of righteousness, for he is an infant. Heb 5:12-13 NEED: Eat solid food What is Solid Food? “But solid food is for the mature, who because of practice have their senses trained to discern good and evil. “ Heb 5:14 “Practice” = Obedience Obedience ≠ Agreement Practice: Hear & Act "Therefore everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them, may be compared to a wise man who built his house on the rock. "And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and slammed against that house; and yet it did not fall, for it had been founded on the rock. "Everyone who hears these words of Mine and does not act on them, will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. "The rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and slammed against that house; and it fell--and great was its fall.“ Matt 7:24-27 The Law of Increase "So take care how you listen; for whoever has, to him more shall be given; and whoever does not have, even what he thinks he has shall be taken away from him." Luke 8:18 It takes FAITH to eat. "If anyone is willing to do His will, he will know of the teaching, whether it is of God or whether I speak from Myself.” John 7:17 Fleshing out Faith “for it is not the hearers of the Law who are just before God, but the doers of the Law will be justified.” Rom 3:13 Obedience makes your FAITH Robust Put away childish diet Eat nutritious food: Word Exercise: Obey Word 3. Insisting on present desires “I won’t take ‘No’ for an answer!” “I want it or else!” Childish inability to delay gratification: Self-centered focus: Focused on immediate temporal desires Trust in own self to know best No future perspective: No future goals or vision (eternal) No trust in other greater than self (God) Need for Greater Perspective Eternal Perspective “Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” Heb 12:12 Trusting God when He seems indifferent or absent “The LORD'S eyes behold, His eyelids test the sons of men.” Ps 11:4 “a weaned child” “O LORD, my heart is not proud, nor my eyes haughty; Nor do I involve myself in great matters, Or in things too difficult for me. Surely I have composed and quieted my soul; Like a weaned child rests against his mother, My soul is like a weaned child within me.” Psa 131:1-3 “eating solid food” Delayed gratification makes HOPE grow HOPE reveals treasure Trials FAITH Perseverance Perseverance Proven character Proven character HOPE Rom 5:3-5 NEED: Eye the goal “Well done, good and faithful servant.” “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith; in the future there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day; and not only to me, but also to all who have loved His appearing.” 2 Tim 4:7-8 Why is having an Eternal Perspective ESSENTIAL for Christian growth? Invest in Eternal Treasure "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. "But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matt 6:19-21 Sacrifice: Giving up something you love for something you love MORE Jim Elliot, 1927-1956 “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose.” "And they overcame him because of the blood of the Lamb and because of the word of their testimony, and they did not love their life even when faced with death.” Rev 12:11 Put away childish fixation on the present Develop Eternal HOPE: Exchange Temporal Treasures for Eternal Treasures Seek Eternal Rewards 4. Seeking own aspirations Childish aspirations Seeking significance in temporal: Possessions People’s approval Power Proficiency Performance Purpose What is my purpose? To give my life for what the Son of God gave His life for. “Just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.” Matt 20:28 Jesus’ last command: And Jesus came up and spoke to them, saying, "All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth. "Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age." Matt 28:18-20 “Go and Make disciples” Baptizing them: Evangelism Teaching them: Discipleship Evangelism: Introducing others to the Savior Evangelism is a Bridge to God’s LOVE "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.” Jn 3:16 How can I present the Gospel? The Illustration In the beginning God created man to have fellowship with Him Man GOD But man’s disobedience breaks that relationship with God Man GOD Sin separates us from God and brings death and judgment Man SIN Death Judgment GOD None of man’s own efforts can reconnect him to God money -----morality --------Philosophies ---good behavior ---good works ----- Man SIN Death Judgment GOD J Man E SI N U S Death Judgment GOD Resurrection J Man E S U S GOD "Truly, truly, I say to you, he who hears My word, and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and does not come into judgment, but has passed out of death into life.” J Man E S U S GOD Evangelism: Midwifery Live the Life Be ready to give a defense to all who ask Build bridges to unsaved Evangelism is being a Bridge Discipleship: Teaching others to observe Jesus’ commandments LOVE God and neighbor How can I love God? "He who has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him." John 14:21 How can I love others? "Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends. John 15:13 Discipleship: Nurturing others “But we proved to be gentle among you, as a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children. Having so fond an affection for you, we were well-pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God but also our own lives, because you had become very dear to us.” 1 Th 2:7-8 'Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline; therefore be zealous and repent. Rev. 3:19 and you have forgotten the exhortation which is addressed to you as sons, "MY SON, DO NOT REGARD LIGHTLY THE DISCIPLINE OF THE LORD, NOR FAINT WHEN YOU ARE REPROVED BY HIM; FOR THOSE WHOM THE LORD LOVES HE DISCIPLINES, AND HE SCOURGES EVERY SON WHOM HE RECEIVES." Mentoring “The things which you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses, entrust these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also.” 2 Tim 2:22 What is the Ministry? NEED: Enter the Family Business Investing in others for eternity "And I say to you, make friends for yourselves by means of the wealth of unrighteousness, so that when it fails, they will receive you into the eternal dwellings.” Luke 16:9 Adding weight "The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few.” “weak woman” “For among them are those who enter into households and captivate weak women weighed down with sins, led on by various impulses, always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.” 2 Tim 3:6-7 Being grown up means: Joining the Family Business (“Bidness”) Exchanging temporal for eternal treasures Learning Word and Practicing Obedience Respecting and cooperating with Authority “When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I put away with childish things. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully known. But now FAITH, HOPE, LOVE, abide these three; but the greatest of these is LOVE.” 1 Cor 13:11-13 The Roots of FAITH The shoots of HOPE The fruits of LOVE Put away childish things Grow like a tree firmly planted by streams of water, yielding its fruit in season, and its leaf does not wither. In whatever she does, she prospers. “Putting away childish things” By MiXue