Running head: STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY: ARE EFFEMINATE GAY MEN STIGMATIZED? Abstract The homosexual community has been battling stigma for most of human history. It wasn’t un1973 that it wasn’t considered a disorder in the United States. The stigma prevails, however, because it is a structural stigma morphed by sociopolitical institutions. Within the community, there seems to be a separation between effeminate and masculine gay men. The present study was conducted to discover if effeminate gays are stigmatized within the gay population. The results showed that masculine men were preferred in romantic and sexual relationships, but there was not enough data to assert that an encompassing stigma against feminine gay men exists. However, there were results that signify being effeminate often carries a negative connotation. Stigma against Homosexuals In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association retracted the diagnosis of homosexuality from the DSM. Prior to that, homosexuality was viewed as a mental ailment that could be diagnosed and cured. It took nineteen more years, however, for the World Health Organization to follow America’s lead and remove homosexuality from its Classification of Mental and Behavioural Disorders. While it is no longer accepted as a disorder internationally, homosexuality continues to be stigmatized. Goffman (1963) defines stigma as an attribute that is “deeply discrediting” (p. 3). However, this enduring attribute is not “inherently meaningful; meanings are attached to it through social interaction” (Herek, 2004, p. 14). Homosexuality is STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY not innately wrong; the negative view of gays that lingers was established through years of condemning literature and outsiders’ apprehension when encountering something atypical. Being a homosexual is statistically atypical as only 1.6% of the population self-identify as homosexual and only 1.8% of men self-identify as a gay man (Ward, Dahlhamer, Galinsky, Joestl, 2013, p. 7). It should be noted, however, that the weight of the stigma might skew these findings based on self-reporting. Regardless, the stigmatized trait becomes a defining characteristic of the individual, overshadowing other qualities and engulfing their identity. The individual is then “reduced in our minds from a whole and usual person to a tainted, discounted one” (Goffman, 1963, p. 3) that is considered “sick, immoral, criminal or, at best, less than optimal in comparison to that which is heterosexual” (Herek, 2004, p. 15). The stigma against homosexuals persists mainly because it still exists as a structural stigma. A structural stigma is a “product of sociopolitical forces” that is embedded in “religion, language, the law, and other social institutions” (Herek, 2011, p. 415). The stigma represents the policies of “private and governmental institutions that restrict the opportunities of stigmatized groups” (Corrigan, Markowitz, & Watson, 2004, p. 481). For the gay community, the most publicized opportunity that is restricted is marriage. Marriage, in the sense of the law, has implications on a slew of federal benefits stemming from immigration law, taxes, and social security (Michon, 2013, para. 12). While homosexuals are not pressured into heterosexual marriages, in many states and countries throughout the world, they are offered no other option if they wish to marry and receive their full rights (Herek, 2011, p. 417). In the United States, seventeen states remain adamant that marriage is preserved between a man and a woman. Therefore, the laws that “deny lesbians’ and gay men’s access to marriage are by definition instances of structural stigma” (Herek, 2011, p. 418). Gays are “denied full access to aspects of 2 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY the dominant culture” (Dooley, 2009, p. 25) by being withheld from being legally married, which gives them “less power and access to resources than normals” (Herek, 2004, p. 14). While laws themselves are inherently stigmatizing, the stigma ultimately expands past that. Homosexuality, then, “evokes hostility because it is equated with violation of gender norms” (Herek, 2004, p. 17) that are upheld by laws and amendments put in place by the government that was elected into position. Researchers define this cultural ideology that is “manifested in society’s institutions” (Herek, 2004, p. 16) as heterosexism. Marriage equality is one of the major issues political candidates focus on when developing their campaigns and hunting for endorsements. This places a “sexual minority individuals’ basic rights [under] public debate and a majority vote” (Herek, 2011, p. 413-414). Throughout such campaigns, the extremes of each side of the debate take to the polls, the streets, and the Internet, sharing and pressing their opinions on anyone and anything receptive. The groups are differentiated to create an “‘us’ (nonstigmatized) or ‘them’ (stigmatized), [highlighting] the minority out-group’s perceived differentness and thereby promotes biased perceptions and differential treatment” (Herek, 2011, p. 420). Isolation undoubtedly ensues. Ultimately following is minority stress caused by exposure to “antigay messages through the mass media” which includes anything from pins and flags to yard signs and billboards. Immediately, homosexuals learn that “neighbors and other members of their community endorse sexual stigma” which can cause irrevocable damage to relationships and communities (Herek, 2011, p. 419). With this opportunity to weigh in on how others may live, heterosexuals have the chance to “define their personal identities in terms of their political and religious stance on gay rights without necessarily questioning their own sexuality” (Herek, 2004, p. 11-12). The conflict between the two groups becomes more apparent, resulting in an exponential increase in minority 3 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY stress (Meyer, 1995, p. 38). Because this structural stigma is so prevalent, it is immensely difficult for the individual to overcome the negative messages that are being hurled upon them. Even more degrading is that the “default response to [homosexuality] is disapproval, disgust, or discriminatory behavior” (Herek, 2004, p. 15). The consistently negative views and messages are so frequent that they are unintentionally internalized, which leads to accepting “society’s denigration and discrediting of a stigmatized group as a part of their own value system and selfconcept” (Herek, 2011, p. 415). This influx of negative messages and decreased self-worthy hinders an individual’s comfort in coming out as a homosexual. The expectations of rejection and discrimination increase because of these widely accepted and publicized societal views, contributing to the individual’s psychological distress (Meyer, 1995). To combat the negativity, many choose to hide. The stigma of homosexuality is considered by Goffman (1963) as a blemish of “individual character perceived as weak will, domineering or unnatural passions, treacherous and rigid beliefs, and dishonesty” (p. 4). Because the stigma isn’t outwardly observed, as a physical handicap would be, it becomes logical to pass or hide, sheltering and concealing the stigma and acting accordingly. Many stigmatized homosexuals “enact a cost-benefit analysis of how to proceed” in social situations (Dooley, 2009, p. 14) constantly battling the probabilities of being outed. While practice makes perfect in passing and sometimes deep cognitive activation can keep terrorizing thoughts about the stigma from entering consciousness, hiding is exhausting. The mind is constantly occupied by suppressing thoughts about homosexuality. This fixation leads to a host of health issues, as described by Smart and Wegnar in their 1999 “Private Hell” studies. With the discomfort spearheaded by the psychological effects of constantly hiding, many gays realize “that their relationships and environments would not nurture and support the 4 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY manifestations of a gay identity” (Dooley, 2009, p. 19). This leads many gay men to leave their hometowns in search of new, more accepting scenery, where they do not have to hide as diligently. Oftentimes, this means moving from a small town with set beliefs to a larger city that allows diversity to flourish. In this new location, the door for companionship opens, as there are more people that possess the stigma, allowing individuals to search for and find an ally. Dooley (2009) found that many gay men “decided to become more openly gay, [if] they reported encountering an individual who became a mentor, guide, or role model” (p. 20). Such a model can be seen as a “cultural broker, individuals who can operate in the sub-culture as well as the dominant society” (p. 25). Their experience provides a narrative that can be emulated and learned from, helping to “buffer stigma associated with homosexuality” (Dooley, 2009, p. 27). This close relationship, however, can turn sour, as “all mentor relationships are not altruistic” (Dooley, 2009, p. 25). Relying on someone heavily can exacerbate vulnerability and possibly lead the individual to be sexually victimized by an ally or mentor. Femme-phobia? While the gay community faces its own difficulties as a whole, individuals look to blame other members for being the reason behind the continuation of the discrimination. Members that are often scoffed at are those that exhibit more feminine qualities: “For a lot of guys, it’s tantamount to walking around with great big ‘kick me’ signs tacked on their asses” (Bergling, 2001, p. 31). Effeminate gays have been thrust into the spotlight to represent the whole of the male gay community. According to Bergling (2001), “some men suggest that it’s not so much the reality of effeminate or flamboyant men that’s a problem, as much as it is the perception of such men that’s spread by popular media” (p 113). In a commentary on television show, Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, Ramsey and Santiago (2004) noted, “the program continues the 5 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY Hollywood tradition of defining homosexuality in opposition to masculinity” through the extravagant and dramatic behavior of cast member, Carson Kressley (p. 353). Historically, the implementation of gay characters into television shows and movies has been to provide a measure for and affirm the masculinity of lead characters (Ramsey & Santiago, 2004, p. 353). Even though the media portrays the gay community in such a flowery and feminine way, it does so to confirm society’s judgment on the importance of masculinity. It begs for males to behave like men. Even homosexual men feel inclined to follow the standards. Sánchez et al. (2009) found that by being romantically attracted to other men and being socialized in a masculine culture, homosexual men “may nevertheless be affected by the same rigid rules that affect heterosexual men” (p. 81). According to David and Brannon (as cited by Sánchez et al., 2009), the four main rules for masculinity include not being feminine, being respected and admired, not showing fear, and seeking out risk and adventure (p 74). Likewise, men should be successful, achieve power and status, be competitive, restrict emotional responses, and be career driven (Sánchez et al., 2009, p 74). According to Bailey et al. (as cited by Bergling, 2001), men “reveal a definite preference for masculine-behaving men” even more so if they identify as a masculine gay, displaying that they are in “the market only for those who walk their walk and talk their talk” (p 13). Those who do not align with this preferred standard “feel isolated from a gay social scene that’s dominated by men who worship at that altar of physical perfection” (Bergling, 2001, p 115). Problems arise as “gay men noted that masculine ideals restrict the expression of emotions and affection between gay men as well” (Sánchez et al., 2009, p. 81). The same study suggests, “greater conflict with certain masculine ideals is associated with lower self-esteem and greater depression and anxiety among gay men” (Sánchez et l., 2009, p. 75). The individuals will begin to “to question his self-worth” (Sánchez et al., 2009, p. 81) as “masculine 6 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY norms pressure them to have an ideal body as well in order to feel attractive to other men” (Sánchez et al., 2009, p. 82). The stigma snowballs, beginning first with the stigma of being a homosexual, then compounds, furthering isolation. The favoritism shown to masculine qualities in gay men is supported through the examination of personal advertisements. As referred to by Sánchez et al. (2009), “numerous studies have repeatedly shown that gay men who place personal advertisements tend to stress exhibiting masculine interests and behaviors, and they tend to seek masculine mates” (p. 74). Most notable was a study of 2,729 personal advertisements placed by gay men that there was a significant bias towards stereotypical masculine traits and labels including “dominance, athletic build, straight-acting and jock” (Bailey et al., as cited by Bergling, 2001, p. 74). It should be noted that these studies took into consideration preferences when seeking a potential sexual or romantic partner. These sorts of preferences do not necessarily equate to the existence of a stigma against gays who are not masculine. Also, there is selection bias that occurs due to the fact that not all gay men were represented in the sample, as not all gay men publish personal advertisements. While research has been conducted in regards to the strain of society’s demand for masculinity as on homosexual men and homosexual men’s attraction to more masculine gays, there lacks research that provides evidence that effeminate gay men are actually stigmatized within the community. Therefore, this study aims to shed light on the judgments and opinions held by men within the community. The researchers decided upon one research question: Are effeminate men stigmatized within the gay community? Through the research, however, we hope to uncover patterns or themes that expose what types of men negatively contribute to the longevity of the apparent discrimination. 7 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY Method Participants and Procedures Forty-eight homosexual males completed an anonymous online survey. The sample included participants between the ages of 18 and 44, with an average age of 23.18. The participants were recruited through inquiries posted on Facebook pages belonging to college and university LGBT support and advocate groups across the country and snowball sampling. Demographic information was also compiled via quantitative data research. In terms of ethnicity, 63.3% self-identified as Caucasian, 5% as African American, 6.7% as Hispanic, 3.3% as Multi-Racial, and 1.7% as Asian/Pacific Islander. The rest declined to respond. For those participants that are supported financially by a guardian or parent, their average family income was $110,631, which is significantly higher than the median household income of $53,891 as reported by Luh (2014). The figure is also higher than the household income for heterosexual couples with both providers in the work force, according to US News and World Today (2013). For those living independently, their average personal income was $48,133. A total of 25% of the respondents identified as a Democrat, 8.3% as Republican, 16.7% as Independent, with 25% not signifying their political affiliation. Education levels were reported as well, with 17.8% having their high school diploma or equivalent, 40% having some college credit, 6.6% possessing an Associate’s degree, 22.3% possessing a Bachelor’s degree, while 13.3% had Postgraduate degrees. Consent to participate in the online survey required respondents to confirm their identity as a homosexual man. Participants also had to be 18 years or older to partake in the study. They completed a mixture of closed and open-ended questions regarding stigmatization within the community of gay men. The quantitative research included inquiries about the participant’s 8 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY demographic information including age, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, political affiliation, and education. The perception of stigmatization (acceptance or avoidance) of effeminate homosexual men was assessed using twelve statements that were rated by participants using a 5-point Likert Scale. Sample items included: “I feel discriminated against by other gay men because of the way I speak”, “I am offended when I am referred to as a twink”, and “I feel that effeminate gays are weak.” The researchers ascertained slag terminology and connotations through communicating with members of the gay community through informal interviews. Two categorical questions were asked to gauge more information about the respondent with hopes of finding patterns between personal style and level of dominance and views on effeminate gay men. The first asked the respondent to define their style when in a decisionmaking situation with a romantic partner; options included dominant, equal power, and submissive. The second inquired about their clothing style; the researchers provided eight options including “Hipster”, “Athletic”, and “Chic”. Through the software Qualtrics, the data was analyzed and reported by one author. The other two researchers analyzed the qualitative findings. The researchers formulated four open-ended, qualitative questions based on informal interviews with known members of the community and believed that understanding what is not desired in a romantic partner can contribute to why specific men are stigmatized. The researchers noted that there have been no former studies regarding stigmatization within the community of homosexual men, only insight into preferences for romantic and sexual partners. To verify correlation with previous studies, the researchers asked two open-ended questions regarding preferences in romantic or sexual partners. The participants were asked to list qualities they considered “turn-ons” and ones that were considered “turn-offs.” The researchers developed two 9 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY more qualitative questions to ascertain a deeper understanding of when and where occurrences of stigmatization most appear. Participants were asked to describe incidents in which they have felt discriminated against by other homosexual men and when they have discriminated against a fellow member of the community. The qualitative data from the open-ended questions was compiled and evaluated by two researchers. The two coders individually read the responses to each question and collaborated to develop categories. Because there was very little variance among the responses for the respective questions, coding was done as a cooperative effort. Results Analyses’ focus on participants’ responses to both quantitative and qualitative questions. These questions allowed us to uncover whether there is significant stigmatization within the gay community in regards to those who consider themselves more effeminate. Eight responses were eliminated due to erroneous answers and severe incompleteness. Although 48 participants completed the survey, they did not answer every single question. We found a significant, medium, negative correlation in answers of those who replied to the survey that scored higher on the “I consider myself an effeminate man” (M= 2.25, SD= 1.092) and the effeminate statements, which include “I feel that effeminate gays are weak, I feel effeminate men further the stigmatization towards the gay community, and I have homophobic tendencies toward people in the gay community” (M= 7.0345 SD= 2.97926) R= -.309, p < .05. The same is true for those who did not consider themselves effeminate and scored higher on the stigma against effeminate men statements. We also found a significant, medium, negative correlation between the stigma against effeminate men statements and those who scored higher on the statement “I prefer men who are effeminate:” R= -.390, p < .05. Again, the same is true for the opposite statement. Those 10 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY who scored higher on the stigma against effeminate men scored higher on the statement “I prefer men who are masculine:” R= .448, p <.001. The correlation is significant, medium strength, and positive. We also predicted that there would be a significant relationship between those who consider themselves effeminate and their relationship preferences, assuming they would choose the “submissive” response. Our predictions were incorrect, with F(2,55)= 2.346, p > .05. The results were not significant. Choices that were offered to participants were Dominant (M= 1.50 SD= 1.50), Equal Power (M= 2.12, SD= 2.12), and Submissive (M= 2.77, SD= 1.092). There was also no significance between education level and views on effeminate gays F(4, 40)=.53, p>.05. We also collected an abundance of descriptive data to help us gain more of an understanding of the gay community: “I prefer men who are effeminate” (M= 2.19, SD= 1.017), “I prefer men who are masculine (M= 3.67, SD= 1.190), “I prefer men of my race” (M= 3.33, SD= 1.248), “I prefer men of my age” (M=3.36, SD= .931), “There is a negative connotation to the label “twink”” (M= 3.02, SD = 1.344), “There is a negative connotation to the label “bear”” (M= 2.59, SD= 1.170), “I identify myself as a gay man” (M= 4.15, SD= 1.186), and “I am open about my homosexuality” (M= 4.05, SD= 1.057). The first open-ended question asked for participants to describe an incident in which male members of the gay community discriminated them against. There were 21 recorded responses. Based on the nature of the question, it can be assumed that the other 28 participants have never experienced discrimination. Nineteen of the 21 were separated into two categories: discrimination due to adjustable physical traits or inherent physical traits. Four of the responses were coded as the former. An example being, “Yes, they are so judgmental. Like, I get it Maurice, its a little early for a chunky cable-knit sweater, but I like the way it feels on my skin and not needing to wear a coat out for the night, ok!?”. There were three responses that were 11 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY coded as inherent physical traits. Two of the three explicitly said white gay men were the most exclusionary: “As a gay Asian male, I am often excluded or feel excluded from gay circles due to fetishization or ostracization by predominantly white gay men.” and “Yes. As an African American gay male a lot of white males usually blow me off because I am not the same race as them”. Three of the 11 remaining uncoded results attributed their experience to not fitting the accepted stereotype: “Since I don’t fit the stereotype of a gay guy and I don’t act like the ones you see on TV, I am out casted and treated like I’m not really one of them or on the other hand they just assume by how I look I want to be more like the daddy type”. The following question asked the participants to describe an incident in which they discriminated members of the community. Eleven responses were recorded and examined, signifying that a majority (37) do not discriminate, or at least admit to it. Only one category was created. Six of the 11 respondents cited effeminate behavior and appearance as the reason for their negative behavior. One respondent wrote, “It is typically because of a gay male's effeminate features. It's something I am unable to understand. I don't feel I judge them because of it, but I am much less likely to approach a gay male if he is acting a little over the top about his homosexuality. I approach males who portray the ‘bro’ persona and females who portray the "white girl" persona the same way”. Another placed a heavy burden on effeminate members of the community: “I have never discriminated just believe that overly-feminine gays bring a bad name to our community.” Masculine Appearance Character Traits Feminine Masculine 0 2 2 0 Appearance 2 11 4 6 12 Character Traits Feminine 2 0 4 6 7 20 7 0 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY The table above exemplifies the coding completed for the third open-ended question that asked respondents to list what they would deem a turn-off when seeking a romantic or sexual partner in a social setting. Five of the respondents were eliminated from the coding process because they did not fit within a category. The response “people who don't open up about their emotions” was placed in the Masculine/Character Traits category. Conversely, “Femininity. Aggression. Immaturity. Being in the closet.” was coded under Feminine/Character Traits. The response “rude, pushy, ugly” is an example of Character Traits/Appearance. Twenty of the 43 respondents listed character traits alone as turn-offs: “overly picky, pretentious, has to have things a certain way/inflexible”. Masculine Appearance Character Traits Masculine 0 5 0 Appearance 5 23 21 Character Traits 0 21 17 The table above describes the breakdown coding used for the final open-ended question that asked respondents to list characteristics that would be considered turn-ons in a social setting. Three of the responses were deleted from coding because they did not fit the coding criteria. Responses coded under appearance were most frequent, with 23 of the 43: “kind, funny, not afraid to be himself”, “a guy who is trustworthy, kind, gentle, and who doesn’t show off and someone who can make me laugh”. One respondent replied “outgoing, taller than myself” , which is an example of Appearance/Character Traits. All five of the responses that included masculine qualities were focused on appearance: “body hair, beards, a nice smile”. The response “good looks, humor, honest, compassion, more of a guy’s guy someone who isn’t afraid to be a normal guy and gay” was placed under all three codes. 13 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY Discussion Similarly to heterosexual couples, gay men place a heavy importance on character traits when searching for a potential romantic or sexual partner. It becomes clear that outward behavior and presentation that would signify a man as an effeminate gay are less significant in this decision making process. There was not enough evidence in the qualitative data to suggest feminine qualities are typical turn-offs for gay men, but there was a clear preference for masculinity over femininity. This was mirrored in the quantitative data as results skewed towards disagreement when participants were asked whether effeminate men were preferred. These results revert back to society’s inherent masculine nature and favor for more manly traits. Men that did not identify as effeminate gays scored higher on the statements used to uncover discrimination and stigma. Likewise, participants that favored masculine men scored high on the same statements. Together, they both rated high in their agreement that effeminate gay men are one of the causes for the continuation of the stigma against the entire gay community. These individuals believed the stigma existed and oftentimes upheld in via their beliefs and actions, whereas effeminate gays and those that signified that they preferred their partners to be more feminine scored low on the stigma statements. Therefore, they did not believe that effeminate gay men were stigmatized and are not a contributing factor to the persisting stigma against the whole of the population. Perhaps the negative views that do exist are a way for some members of the population to explain why the macro culture has yet to fully accept the gay community. Effeminate gays stray the most from the accepted gender roles society has held and are more outright in their refusal to fill them. Their outgoing presence draws attention and therefore makes them a target for individuals within the community looking to place the culpability on the micro culture instead of 14 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY the inflexibility of the macro culture and government. Because the negative views are not overwhelming and are not prominent enough to deem effeminacy a stigma that snowballs from the stigma against homosexuals, maybe social change is a conceivable and achievable goal. Limitations As with all studies, there are limitations. These limitations affect the study in ways that inhibit our ability to answer wholly investigate the trends that exist in the discrimination against effeminate gays. We utilized an online survey software because of its convenience and lack of cost, but there are inherent disadvantages with using data collected in this manner. There is no way to know whether the respondents were being truthful in their answers. This led to limited sampling and respondent availability. Also, we encountered issues with non-response. Originally, we had 68 respondents, but there were 20 surveys that were drastically incomplete. We also had limited resources when deciding how to circulate the survey to encourage participation. The demographic information our respondents provided does not mimic the whole population. Initially, we intended on posting the survey link onto internet-accessible gay forums, GaySpeak and Empty Closets. However, the administrators of both websites enforced policies that did not allow new and inactive users to post links and conduct research. We found success through posting on Facebook pages of college LGBT support groups and organizations, however this too provided us with only a small pocket of the gay community. The sites we posted limited our demographics as most participants were in college or had a degree. Future Directions Further research is encouraged along with changes that will counter the limitations. We hope that our research will encourage others to engage in more detailed and in-depth studies in 15 STIGMA WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY the apparent discrimination of feminine gay men found within the homosexual community. 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