THE MEETINGHOUSE NEWS First Parish in Cambridge, Unitarian Universalist April 2015 Reflections from Senior Minister, Rev. Fred Small “I am going to notice the lights of the earth, the sun and the moon and the stars, the lights of our candles as we march, the lights with which spring teases us, the light that is already present.” Until I read these words of Anne Lamott, I never realized how the tiny flames of candles reflect the stars in the night sky. Every Sunday, we invite worshipers “to light a candle or drop a pebble in the sand at the front of the Meetinghouse as you hold in your heart a joy or sorrow.” Every Sunday, dozens of people file forward, waiting patiently in long lines. This practice has a long history and some detractors. Fire has been an element of worship since before recorded time. Many religions light candles to honor ancestors and saints. There is something mystical and magical in a flickering flame. In smaller Unitarian Universalist churches, individuals are often invited during worship to share their joys and sorrows orally. This practice can be powerful when people speak their truth from the heart or mark turning points in their lives, less so when they use the opportunity to announce an upcoming event or opine on politics. Sometimes the same people speak every Sunday, while others never do. As congregations grow and the speaking of joys and sorrows demands more and more worship time, they tend to leave this practice behind. If not, they don’t grow. Silent candles of joy and sorrow offer the chance to connect with one’s internal life through a simple ritual act. Like Christian communion, Muslim prayer, and Buddhist prostration, lighting a candle is an embodied act of worship shared with others in community. Anyone who has difficulty moving to the front of the sanctuary can ask an usher or another worshiper to light a candle for them. Many who remain seated appreciate the contemplative music and a few moments of meditation and reflection. Of course, candles cost money. Lighting them takes time and burns carbon. So far, their benefit seems to exceed their cost, but that’s a question the Worship Associates and I will continue to ponder. We now have three tables of candles and one sand tray with stones. If you’re standing in a candle line and you notice a significantly shorter queue at another candle table, please move to the shorter queue to lessen waiting time. If you have thoughts or questions about candles you’d like to share with the Worship Associates, or if you’d like a Worship Associate to light a candle on your behalf, please email worship@firstparishcambridge.org. We’ll be glad to hear from you. Blessings, Fred The Meetinghouse News Upcoming Worship Services April 5 Descending into Heaven Many religions assume that heaven is above us somewhere, and we must strive to ascend there. But what if heaven is below us, and all we have to do is let go—and fall? Multigenerational Easter service interpreted in American Sign Language. Rev. Fred Small preaches. April 12 Horizon Wireless What is on the horizon? From the social justice movements of the last 60 years to rapid technological advances that touch nearly every aspect of our lives, there has been much positive progress, but there is also still much left to change. First Parish Cambridge’s Youth Group offers reflections on the past, present, and visions for the future. April 19 The Necessity of Hope Despite all the bad news about climate—or perhaps because of it—hope isn't wishful thinking. It's an essential strategy—and a spiritual practice. In this special worship service honoring Earth Day, Rev. Fred Small preaches. April 26 Hard to Ride a Bike That’s Not Moving As spiritual people, we often value slowing down, taking our time, and being intentional. And - there are also power in following the impulse of spirit and the bold call of action. Rev. Elizabeth Nguyen preaches about dirt biking, among other things. March 2015 2 It’s the Annual Easter Egg Hunt! Please join us for our traditional children’s Easter Egg Hunt, hosted by the Youth Group, immediately following the worship service on April 5. They and the Easter Bunny need your help! Please donate candy in the marked bins on Sunday, April 5 so the youth can stuff and hide eggs! Small, individually wrapped candy is preferred. Thanks for your generosity! Following the service on April 5, children should bring baskets and gather in the Library for directions. The Youth Group will decide by April 4 whether the Egg Hunt will take place indoors or in the Old Burying Ground. Children of different ages will have separate areas to hunt for eggs, and the youngest children will have their chance first. Parents and guardians, please help your child(ren) pay attention to their location and timing. During the hunt, childrren are asekd to be mindful of our Covenant and our orange promist to each other to “Be kind in all you do”. Childremn agreed to do their best to have fun and help the other children have fun! This means being mindful of how many of us are participating and taking only your fair share. If your child has food sensitivities or allergies, please see Director of Religious Education Mandy Neff to trade your candy in for allergen-free candy at the end of the Egg Hunt. Thanks and Hoppy Hunting! The Meetinghouse News March 2015 3 RELIGIOUS EDUCATION CORNER by Mandy Neff With the advent of spring, many of our efforts in RE this year are blossoming! Our 7 Principles Puppets are almost ready for their debut, our 6th graders have shown incredible leadership, and our Youth Group is preparing to lead worship on April 12. Keep reading for more about the children’s exciting accomplishments. Immigration Quiz Show and Potluck The 6th graders' Immigration Quiz Show was a smash success! Participants feasted on Chinese dumplings, Yorkshire pudding and chicken paprikas, and admired the people decorations from our 2-3rd graders. Our 6th graders created a Jeopardy board and led us through the questions they have been learning about this year in RE. Six teams competed in the Quiz Show on categories like History, the US citizenship test, and Immigration Today. We even got to see a real Green Card - they're actually beige! Everyone from kindergarten to adult had a great time, and our canned food drive netted over 200 pounds of food for Chelsea Collaborative. Thank you all for your generosity! 7 Principles Puppets Our children have finished painting their 7 Principles Puppets. This year they decided which animals matched each of the 7 Principles, then built giant papier mache animals. In March we finished painting them to match the rainbow! Each color stands for one of our 7 Principles. Here’s our Yellow Unicorn! We also have the red butterfly, symbol of migration, to show that each and every person is important… the orange penguin, playful and gentle, to remind us to be kind in all we do… the yellow unicorn, wild and pure symbol of freedom to learn together… the green wolf searching and hunting for what is true… the roaring blue lion reminding us that all people need a voice… the indigo stegosaurus, a gentle giant vegetarian to remind us to build a fair and peaceful world… and a purple bee, the pollinator that shows us how to care for our planet Earth. The children and many volunteer adults have been working on the animals all year and they are almost ready for their grand appearance! Over the next two months we will help them come to life with some fabric details and a return visit from Bruce Orr of Mudeye Puppets who will help us engineer some flapping wings, moving parts, and wearable backpacks. Look for the children's 7 Principles Puppets on parade, June 14th during the RE Sunday worship. In faith, Mandy The Meetinghouse News March 2015 4 Youth Housing Project Approved by the Congregation! At the Special Congregational meeting on March 29, we voted, 65-2, in favor of leasing the auditorium to the Phillips Brooks House Association (PSHA/Harvard University) and Youth on Fire(YOF)/AIDS Action Committee for the purpose of housing a youth drop-in center and youth homeless shelter subject to the successful completion of lease negotiations that are currently underway. The project and the general terms of the proposed lease were presented by Susan Shepherd, Sylvia Wheeler and Cade Murray who are working on the lease negotiations for First Parish. Mike Wiggins has been providing legal services. When the lease is complete and signed, construction on the auditorium will begin. PBHA is funding the entire renovation with an intended completion date of October. We had a great discussion about the project, our mission, our finances and the other challenges facing us. We look forward to the renovation of the auditorium, but more importantly to partnering with two fine organizations providing needed services to homeless young people, particularly BGLTQ youth. For more information about this project, go to our website http://firstparishcambridge.org/yhi/. April Shared Offering The April recipient of our Shared Offering is The Louis D. Brown Peace Institute, founded in 1994 after the murder of Louis D. Brown. The Peace Institute is a non-profit organization dedicated to educating young people and the community about the value of peace and assisting survivors of homicide victims with immediate crisis management services and ongoing support to continue to make Louis’ vision a reality. The Peace Institute rapidly grew into an agency reflecting best practices in offering a safe space for guidance and support to families during the most difficult times of their lives and also became a model for peace education to the city that Louis D. Brown called home. The Peace Institute works with the community as well as government agencies and NGO’s to promote education, collaboration, and policy advocacy at local, regional, state, and national levels. As an organization founded and staffed by families impacted by violence, the Peace Institute understands the many obstacles and barriers that families of homicide victims and families of prisoners must address, and then move beyond the shame, pain and trauma associated with their experience in order to begin to advocate for themselves and others. The Meetinghouse News March 2015 5 Annual Fund Drive Update Each year we commit anew to supporting First Parish in Cambridge through our annual fund drive, which makes possible the work of the church. This drive is for the fiscal year July, 2015June, 2016. Your pledge helps First Parish plan its annual budget, make salary and expense commitments, and in general make good decisions. You need not be a member to pledge; if you find value in this community and wish to help sustain it, your financial commitment is much appreciated! This year’s fund drive was a little different—thank you for trying something new. 32 of you took the role of Visiting Stewards and are meeting one-to-one with many in our congregation. The Stewardship committee decided as many members as possible should be invited into one-toone meetings because we wanted not just to raise money but also to broaden and deepen relationships among us. Unfortunately we did not have enough volunteers to meet with everyone. Another difference this year is to highlight the UUA Fair Share Giving Guidelines. How are we doing? The results so far are inspiring. Thank you for your generosity. The pledges received so far show a significant increase from last year: 110 pledges that total $251,891, an increase over the same pledge units last year of $28,651. We expect more pledges to come in over the next few weeks. The Stewardship Committee believes we can reach $295,000-$300,000. If you intend to pledge but haven’t done so yet, please do it today! You’ll save our leaders’ time and energy so we can all continue to focus on the mission of First Parish. There are several ways you can do this: Pledge online at firstparishcambridge.org/pledge Call or email Carol Lewis at the church office: 617-876-7772 office@firstparishcambridge.org Contact anyone on the Stewardship Committee or email us: stewardship@firstparishcambridge.org Thank you for your support for First Parish. Thank you for participating in a different kind of annual fund drive. Much of what we’ve tried this year is new to us as well—we hope to learn from our mistakes, and we’d appreciate your feedback so that we can do better next year. Please share your feelings and suggestions. You can reach out to any of us on the committee or email us at stewardship@firstparishcambridge.org Thank you, Stewardship Committee Don Tucker, Chair Steve Hanna, Karin Lin, Susan Shepherd and Linda West The Meetinghouse News Women’s Book Group The Women’s Book Group meets on the first Tuesday of every month from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm in the Chapel. The group is open to women of all ages who are friends or members of First Parish. We are a friendly low-stress group. You don’t have to read every book, just come when you can! Many participants bring a snack or dessert to share. If you have specific questions or wat to join our email listserv, email womensbookgroup@firstparishcambridge.org April 7 at 7:00 pm Margaret Fuller: A New American Life by Megan Marshall May 5 at 7:00 pm Girl with the Pearl Earring by Tracy Chevalier June 2 at 7:00 pm Black Walden: Slavery and its Aftermath in Concord, Massachusetts by Elsie Lemier Women Writing Together New and old alike are warmly invited and welcomed at our joyful activity of women writing together, biweekly, all year. We are a facilitated group, for exploring through writing prompts, one’s creative imagination, memory, and voice during the meeting, noncritically. Upcoming meetings are March 9 and March 23. Contact: womenwriting@firstparishcambridge.org Circle Dance Meditation Thursdays, April 2 and April 16 7:45 PM – 9:00 PM in the Barn Room Circle Dance is a moving meditation done to beautiful world music in a supportive circle of community. Moving in unison with others creates a visceral experience of Oneness. The dances are fairly simple and straightforward, often involving just a few steps, and are taught anew every time. When the body is engaged in these simple, repetitive motions and resonating to powerful music, the mind slips into a meditative state, stress falls away, and peace and joy well up effortlessly. CDM is a free offering. Please arrive early and bring water. It's best to dance barefoot, but clean street shoes may be used. Questions to Kaeza: kaezafearn@gmail.com March 2015 6 Passover Seder Saturday, April 4 Join the First Parish community for a Passover Seder on Saturday, April 4th at 6:00 pm in the parlor. The Seder meal tells the story of the exodus from Egypt and journey to freedom... but in a fun, participatory way. In the Jewish tradition, there's always lots of storytelling, singing, eating symbolic foods, and sharing with friends. Visit http://tinyurl.com/PassoveratFP15 to RSVP and list a potluck item you can bring (the link may be harder to access on smart phones, so use a computer if possible). If you have questionsm, email Sara at jewishculture@firstparishcambridge.org. Cracking the Codes: The System of Inequity Film Screening and Dialogue Event Sunday, April 12 Join us for a special film screening and discussion on the causes and consequences of systemic inequity in America. Widely acclaimed as both challenging and uplifting, Cracking the Codes will help us to disentangle internal beliefs, attitudes and pre-judgements within, and to build skills to address the structural drivers of social and economic inequities. We will deepen and shift the framing of racial disparities from focus on individuals to institutional and structural injustices. We will discuss how we can apply what we learn to relationships at First Parish. This event, brought to you by the Transformation Team, will be facilitated by Susan Shepherd and Ministerial Intern, Seanan Fong. Sunday, April 12 in the Chapel from 12:30 pm to 1:30 pm. Snacks will be provided. The Meetinghouse News March 2015 7 Middle East Education Group News The Middle East Education Group invites you to an illustrated lecture by Dr. Beatrice St. Laurent on Sunday April 19 at 12:30 in the Chapel. The event is free and open to the public. Please feel free to invite your friends. THE DOME OF THE ROCK: SYMBOL OF JERUSALEM Throughout the centuries the Dome of Rock has been and continues to be the symbol of Jerusalem for all with its golden dome dominating the Old City. Built between 660 and 692CE, the Dome of the Rock is a commemorative structure constructed over a rock and located on the Haram Al-Sharif or the Temple Mount in the Old City of Jerusalem. It was part of a grander urban scheme planned for early Islamic Jerusalem, which included a large mosque constructed between 639 and 660 in time for the investiture of the first Umayyad caliph. The many changes and restorations of the Dome of the Rock document and reflect the political and historical transformation of both the Haram al-Sharif and the city of Jerusalem. Dr. Beatrice St. Laurent holds a PhD in Islamic Art and Architecture from Harvard University and is Professor of Art History at Bridgewater State University. Between 1990 and 1995, her research focused on the Ottoman period restorations completed between 1545 and 1917. Since 2008, she and her co-author Isam Awwad, who was the Chief Architect and Conservator of the monuments of the Haram al-Sharif for 32 years, have been researching and preparing for publication a volume on the 20th and 21st century restorations of the Aqsa Mosque and the Dome of the Rock. Currently, she and Awwad are co-authoring a book on the first Umayyad caliph Mu’awiya’s urban development of Jerusalem in the 7th century, which included the city’s first mosque, his palace, and an administrative district. Two Exciting Climate Events April brings two opportunities for action--UU Mass Action’s annual lobby day and Harvard Heat Week, a week of events to persuade Harvard trustees to divest from fossil fuels. Bill McKibben, the writer and activist who inspired the fossil fuel divestment movement, will kick off Harvard Heat Week on Sunday, April 11, at 6:00 PM at First Parish. Wednesday, April 14, will be interfaith action day on campus, with a rally at 8:30 PM, and Saturday, April 17, will be the culminating Heat Week rally. Come to as many events as you can to support this campaign; EJTF will have details at coffee hours. Lesley College has decided to divest. If Harvard follows suit, it will profoundly affect the national conversation on climate change. For details, see http://harvardheatweek.org/schedule/ April 14 is also UU Mass Action’s annual lobby day at the State House. The day will begin at 9:30 AM at the Arlington Street Church with presentations on key legislation on economic justice, immigration rights, and ending mass incarceration, as well as fossil fuel divestment and other key climate legislation. This is an excellent chance for Unitarian Universalists to make themselves heard on these connected issues. Details and registration information are at uumassaction.org. The Meetinghouse News March 2015 8 Congregational Conversation on Music On March 1, 2015, about 40 people gathered for the first Congregational Conversation to reflect and share our personal experiences of music at First Parish and discuss how we might improve our efforts to welcome diversity and make music a transformative experience on both a personal level and for First Parish as a whole. The discussions were lively and reflected a deep commitment to our mission of diversity and inclusion. Many acknowledged that music is a wonderful way to experience another culture and intentionally inclusive. But what kind of music should we include? There were many suggestions including: more Gospel, more non-Gospel, more variety that is not Christian, more organ, more drums, more instrumental music, and more “popular culture” songs with spiritual messages. Others provided feedback on the challenge of learning new songs – both in English and other languages. Some recommended that we repeat songs more frequently so that they become more familiar. Some suggested that printed words for some songs would be helpful. Others felt the opposite, stating that printouts of lyrics and translation make things too complicated and prevents us from singing facing each other. One size does not fit all, but we're excited to stretch together to bring each of our full and beautiful selves into community. Being open to the diversity of our musical likes and dislikes opens us to a wonderful opportunity for community building. Several suggested that we host family friendly potlucks and songfests because they want to learn more diverse music and the familiarity helps us feel more comfortable. It would also give us an opportunity to learn more about other cultures and traditions. Even with just these highlights of the conversation, it is clear that musical diversity is a key piece of living our mission and our transformation to be a multicultural, multiracial, justice seeking congregation. The conversation will continue. Transformation Team, Music and Worship Committees are planning next steps so please stay tuned! The 2nd Congregational Conversation will be on May 31 and will focus on Religious Education, multigenerational events, and our ministry to families at First Parish. All are warmly welcomed and invited to attend! Mother's Day Walk for Peace--Save the Date--5/10/15 This Mother's Day, Sunday, May 10th, 2015, thousands of caring and concerned citizens will rally and walk in support of creating a more peaceful and violence free community. Your participation will help deliver this much needed and important message and will support the efforts of the Louis D. Brown Peace Institute and other community organizations working to stop the violence. Join a Group of Parishioners who will be walking. REGISTER for our Team, please be sure to register as a “Team Participant” and choose “UU First Parish Cambridge” as the team. When you register you’ll be given the opporunity to donate to the walk. If you can’t do the walk you can still donate. Donations can be made online (be sure to click the “Credit this Donation to Social Fundraiser” and choose UU First Parish Cambridge). You may also donate through the church by writing a check payable to First Parish and indicating “Walk for Peace” in the memo line. If you have any questions or problem registering or donating, Contact--Chris McElroy---cmcelroy52@gmail.com The Meetinghouse News March 2015 9 Fighting for Immigration Justice: A vigil in Boston by Rashid Shaikh The vigil is almost over. Does anybody else want to speak? Yes – someone shouts from the back. A petite woman charges forward. She takes the microphone: her voice hoarse, her body trembling, her eyes full of tears. You cannot ignore her voice even if you are deaf. Never mind if you – like me – don’t know Spanish. Her pain and exasperation are flowing out of every pore of her body. She switches to English: “Jesus; I love you. I love you for you.” “No more deportations,” we all chant. “No more deportations.” We are facing a big, imposing building, the Suffolk County Correctional Facility. There are some 50 of us – including several from First Parish in Cambridge -- gathered outside on a beautiful spring Sunday in 2012. There are more than 250 detainees inside there! Two kids – a girl about 12 and a boy about 9 – have come forward and are hugging their mom. They are crying inconsolably. Julie comes forward; she knows Spanish. Jesus was picked up two weeks ago by the Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) people. He is not in good health; Jesus has heart and kidney problems! Has he seen a doctor? No, next week; they’ve promised him. Hope his health does not deteriorate, I silently pray. I ask Julie if she has a lawyer; yes, says the woman. Does she need any help; in any way, can any of us do anything? No, thank you; she is just very grateful that we have come out in support of the detainees. She does not need anything. We chant, we sing, we pray. We read the names of more than a hundred who have died in detention; the last one in this very facility. Their only crime: they did not have their “papers.” Nor did the pilgrims! Some inside the building have gathered at their windows. Waving, pounding, they are looking out. We can barely make out their faces, but we can see their hands and arms. And make out human forms. It is all blurry, except for the inhumanity of the incarceration! Cars drive by on the road. A few honk. Others pay no attention. Across the street, in one of the windows, they have put up a sign, one letter at a time: FREE US. We disperse. I drive back with friends. I keep wondering, though: how is she coping with this situation? How would I cope? And, how long will this insanity go on? How long will we – all of us – let it go on? The next Boston New Sanctuary Movement vigil at the Suffolk County South Bay House of Corrections is Sunday, April 19, at 2:00 pm. The jail is located at 20 Bradston St, Boston, MA 02118. Members of First Parish who plan to go will be meeting during Social Hour that day. Please come with us. The more people join us, the louder our voice will be. For more information, please contact bbsf@firstparishcambridge.org. The Meetinghouse News March 2015 10 Cambridge Forum Continues Exploration of the Health of Democracy in April This month, Cambridge Forum concludes its winter series discussing the health of democracy in today's United States. Some of the most serious threats to democracy--voter suppression and polarization-- as well as some of the telling citizen interventions are featured as we wrap up these discussions. April 1 at 7:00 pm in the Meetinghouse IYAD BURNAT: Non-Violent Resistance in Palestine Iyad Burnat, born in 1973 in Bil`in, Palestine, heads the Bil`in Popular Committee. Since 2005, citizens of Bil`in, joined by Israeli and international peace activists, have held weekly non-violent demonstrations against the Israeli separation wall and the encroachment of illegal settlements. The protesters have maintained a commitment to non-violent resistance in the face of armed military opposition. The demonstrations are the subject of the 2012 Oscar-nominated documentary film 5 Broken Cameras, which was made by Iyad¹s brother, Emad Burnat. Iyad discusses strategies for non-violent popular resistance with social justice activist Trina Jackson. How has he brought potential adversaries to share his goal of peace and prosperity for all people? Co-sponsored by Don and Jeannette McInnes and by Unitarian Universalists for Justice in the Middle East – Massachusetts Chapter; the Middle East Education Group of First Parish (UU) in Cambridge; Alliance for a Secular and Democratic South Asia; Boston Coalition for Palestinian Rights; Jewish Voice for Peace – Boston; Jewish Women for Justice in Israel- Palestine; Palestinian House of New England; and United for Justice With Peace. April 8 at 7:00 pm in the Meetinghouse The Health of Democracy: Voter Suppression and Disenfranchisement Political scientist Erin O'Brien explores current efforts to restrict access to the ballot, through both legislative and judicial changes in states across the nation. Journalist Phillip Martin responds with examples from the Civil Rights Movement of citizen actions, including civil disobedience, that opened ballot access to previously disenfranchised African Americans. How can citizens respond when the ideals of democracy come into conflict with the policies of government? This program is funded in part by a grant from MassHumanities. April 22 at 7:00 pm in the Meetinghouse The Health of Democracy: A Polarized People Can a polarized public maintain a healthy democracy? It’s not just the Congress that is ideologically divided. The Pew Research Center recently documented how the American people have become polarized over the past 50 years. Michael Dimock, President of the Pew Research Center, discusses this ground-breaking study and its implications for the health of our democracy. What can citizens do to create and support effective community dialogues aimed at strengthening social bonds? This program is funded in part by a grant from MassHumanities. The Meetinghouse News March 2015 11 Tuesday Meals Program For over twenty-five years, the Tuesday Meals Program has offered warm hospitality and an evening meal in a safe, dignified environment to anyone in need of nourishment. Here are three ways to contribute to our mission this spring: 1. Prep and Serve the Meal on Tuesdays Click or type in the links below to sign up online: Morning Prep (11:00 AM-1:00PM) Chop veggies and prepare sandwiches to go (http://vols.pt/PGN25u) Midday Service (2:00 PM-5:00 PM) Prep the meal and the dining room (http://vols.pt/9WSape) Dinner Service (5:15-7:30 PM) Greet and serve the 80+ guests who join us each week (http://vols.pt/DugbT5) 2. Help Us Pick Up Donated Refrigerators Thanks to a member of First Parish committed to business-community relations, Tuesday Meals has scored two much-needed new refrigerators for free. All we need is for some folks to go get them from Central Sq.! If you'd be interested in lending your hands to transporting these fridges to the basement of First Parish, and removing our old units, please contact Seth Robinson,volunteer coordinator, at tmpvolunteers@firstparishcambridge.org. 3. Lend a Hand for Spring Cleaning If you can’t make it on Tuesdays, consider helping us spruce up our kitchen and stock room on the weekend! Contact Seth Robinson, volunteer coordinator, at tmpvolunteers@firstparishcambridge.org with your availability. Image credits: CC0 Public Domain