The Art of Outcomes • Gain an understanding of role of coaching in building capacity in staff to implement the College and Career-Ready Standards • Evaluate your active listening and paraphrasing skills • Observe and evaluate the process of coaching Why the Brain Needs Coaching “When coaches explain the brain to their clients, clients become more accepting of coaching, more aware of their own mental processes, and more self-aware.” -David Rock Discoveries from Neuroscience • Neurons that fire together, wire together. • The brain is hard-wired. – Brain looks for patterns and creates maps. – Brain reacts through fight, flight, freeze. – Emotion drives attention; attention drives learning. Coaching Mentoring • Coaches hold the belief that the person being coached is competent and capable of generating their own solutions to their goals. • Mentors guide from his/her own experience. The purpose of mentoring is for mentors to share their expertise with novices, to help novices feel comfortable and secure. Supervision, Mentoring & Coaching Continuum Supervisor Zone Give Advice: Give the Answer Coaching Zone Co-Creating the Relationship Mentoring Zone Give Advice by asking "loaded questions" Teaching Offering Options Creating Awareness Designing Actions Planning and Goal Setting Monitoring Progress Celebrating Success EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION Brainstorm: What are some situations in which you might assume the role of a “coach”? As Educational Leaders, we wear many hats! • Supervisor • Mentor • Coach Assess your listening • Complete the Assessment of Listening Qualities • Score the assessment • Share with your partner Survey: • Rate your listening skills: – Rock Star: I am the absolute best listener. – Expert: I am a great listener. – Average Joe: I have moments of greatness, but I could use some practice. – Work in Progress: I think I need a little guidance. Dwight demonstrates why active listening is difficult https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qg8PIK74KO4 Do you fall into Unproductive Patterns of Listening? • Read the handout on Unproductive Patterns of Listening – Note situations in which you have used these types of listening patterns – Discuss the noted items with your group – Each group report out examples How can you change these patterns? Why is there a “Listening Gap”? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CPDQgaDiDJE Russ Peterson explains why active listening is difficult. The average person speaks at about 135-175 words a minute, but can listen to 400-500 words a minute. Pay attention to Handle Distractions verbal/nonverbal cues Set Aside Unproductive Patterns of Listening Listening Paraphrase Skillfully Value Silence Listen without the obligation to act Paraphrasing • Three types of paraphrasing – Acknowledging and clarifying • “You’re thinking that…” • “So, you’re wondering if…” • You’re frustrated because…” – Summarizing and organizing • “Sounds like you’re ready to move on…” • “I am hearing that you are dissatisfied with your classroom management.” • “ I hear 3 things: first, you’re going to…” – Shifting conceptual focus (most difficult) • Shift Up: “So, a major goal for you this year might be?” • Shift Down: “List 5 strategies that you might employ to reach your goal” Practice your listening skills! Coach as Communicator Active listening Thought-provoking questioning Direct communication Supervision, Mentoring & Coaching Continuum Supervisor Zone Give Advice: Give the Answer Coaching Zone Co-Creating the Relationship Mentoring Zone Give Advice by asking "loaded questions" Teaching Offering Options Creating Awareness Designing Actions Planning and Goal Setting Monitoring Progress Celebrating Success EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION Brainstorm: What are some situations in which you might assume the role of a “coach”? Final Thought…. • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4EDhdAHrOg What are your Take-Aways? • Turn to a partner and… – Tell him/her a discovery, new learning or a surprise – Share one thing that you are going to commit to using – Be prepared to share out with the group