1 Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 2 When French designer Louis Reard introduced the bikini in 1946, Parisian models would not model it. He hired a nude dancer to unveil the swimsuit. Today, little is frowned upon in society. Thong bathing suits, “Daisy Duke” shorts, Micro-mini skirts, are championed on television and in movies, and are seen everywhere. Who sets the standard for what you wear? Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 3 Don McClain World Parents Preacher Elders Always Thought / Done W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 4 To violate God’s standard is to act outside of God’s will Don McClain If so – will listen, appreciate & follow ( Jas. 1:21-22) If not – You will be rejecting God himself ( Jno. 12:48) W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 5 “Unclad, without clothing” . . .“Ill-clad” or “clad in undergarment only” (Thayer, p. 122) “badly clad” or “not fully clothed” (Kittle, I:773-774) “lightly clad” (Liddell & Scott, 170) Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 6 Apron V. 7 Naked (Nude) Don McClain [21] . . . the Lord God made tunics of skin, and clothed them.” V. 10,11,21 Recognized as Still Naked By All (Relatively) W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 7 Original I.S.B.E. article on “Dress” says chiton “resembled the From Roman tunic, corresponding most nearly to our long shirt, reaching The below the knee always, and, in Shoulder case it was designed for dress To The occasions, reaching almost to the Knee ground” (I.S.B.E., II:877). . . . the chiton of the peasantry was shorter like modern kamis of Syrian fellah which is to the knee. Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 8 KUTTONET--"a tunic...; generally with sleeves, coming down to the knees, rarely to the ankles" From (Gesenius, 420; cf. Harris, 1:459; Brown, The Driver, Briggs, 509). Shoulder “The tunic . . . was a shirt which To The was worn next to the skin. It was Knee made of leather, hair-cloth, wool, linen, or in modern times, usually of cotton . . . (Fred H. Wight, Manners and Customs of Bible Lands, 91). Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 9 . . . The simplest form of it was without sleeves and reached to From the knees or sometimes to the The ankles. . . . Women as well as Shoulder men wore it [see Cant. 5:3, A.R.V.], although there was no To The Knee doubt a difference in style and pattern in what was worn by the two” (Fred H. Wight, Manners and Customs of Bible Lands, 91). Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 10 } Nakedness Don McClain Exodus 28:42 (NKJV) 42 And you shall make for them linen trousers to cover their nakedness; they shall reach from the waist to the thighs. W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 11 } Nakedness Don McClain Isaiah 47:2-3 (NKJV) 2 . . . Remove your veil, Take off the skirt, Uncover the thigh, Pass through the rivers. 3 Your nakedness shall be uncovered, Yes, your shame will be seen; . . . W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 12 1 Timothy 2:9,10 (NKJV) 9 in like manner also, that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing, 10 but, which is proper for women professing godliness, with good works. Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 13 (kosmios) "Respectable; honorable" (Arndt and Gingrich, 445). "Well-arranged; seemly" (Thayer, 356). "Orderly; well-arranged; decent" (Vine, III:79). "The well-ordering is not of dress and demeanor only, but the inner life’s uttering indeed, and expressing itself in the outward conversation" (Trench’s Syn. 346). Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 14 The People’s New Testament Commentary defines modesty as “In simple attire which doesn’t attract attention.” Bible Knowledge Commentary “An appearance that is simple, moderate, judicious, and free from ostentation. . . . Christians must be careful about letting a pagan culture set their fashions. Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 15 Reserved Humble Respectable Decent Orderly Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 16 “With shamefacedness” –(aidos) – “A sense of shame or honor, modesty, bashfulness, reverence, regard for others, respect” - "A sense of shame" (Vine, IV:17; Thayer, 14). Have we lost the ability to blush ( Jeremiah 6:15; 8:12)? Those who dress, (don’t dress), in such a way that the imagination has little else, if anything to imagine . . what would it take to get them to blush? Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 17 SOPHROSUNE - Translated “sobriety,” KJV, ASV; - “moderation,” NKJV “Soundness of mind... ‘sound judgment’ practically expresses the meaning; ‘it is that habitual inner self- government, with its constant rein on all the passions and desires which would hinder the temptation to these from arising....” (Vines, Vol. IV, pp. 44-45). “Soundness of mind, i.e.(lit,) sanity or (fig.) self- control” (Strongs, # 4997). Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 18 THEOSEBEIA - “Denotes the fear or reverence of God,…” (Vines, Vol. II, p. 162). “Devoutness, i.e. piety” (Strongs, # 2317). Darby: “profession of the fear of God”, NIV: “profess to worship God” Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 19 I’m dressed – I’ll get it Don McClain Someone’s at the door – Could someone answer it – I’m not dressed! It’s probably my friends – we are going to Wild River Country W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 20 Ignorant & Untaught Want to fit in Want to be bold and “turn heads” Don’t know how they really look Careless – Don’t stop & think Don McClain About Divine principles Allow world’s standards to influence them Brethren gradually get looser W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 21 Our dress says something to others about ourselves - “Attire of a harlot” (Prov. 7:10) Create sexual temptation, causing others to sin (Matt. 5:28; Prov. 6:25; Jas. 1:14; Mt. 18:6-7); [David saw Bathsheba & lusted (2 Sam. 11)] Don McClain Sets a poor example (Mt. 5:13-16), which could put others in danger. W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 22 Bring shame on Christ and His children (Eph. 5:25-27; Jas. 1:27). Discourage Christians (1 Thes. 5:14). Mislead weak Christians (Phil. 3:17). Ultimately, you lose your soul unless you repent and may cause others to be lost too (Gal. 5:21). Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 23 Too short, (revealing the thighs). Too low off the shoulders, (showing shoulders/chest/back). Too sheer (can see through them). Too tight (fits like a sausage wrapper - more suggestive/ appealing to men). Careless body positioning and movements. Don McClain OK when participating in sporting event? OK when participating in a school function? OK when at a swimming pool or the beach? W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 24 Short Dresses / Mini Skirts Swimsuits Split Dresses Backless Dresses Short Shorts (revealing the thigh) Sun Dresses Jogging Shorts Low-Cut Blouses & Dresses Revealing Cleavage - See-Through Styles Don McClain Tight / Formfitting Majorette Uniforms Cheerleading Outfits W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 25 Can I stand, walk, sit, kneel, bend over, etc., in this clothing without being "naked" by biblical standards? Does my clothing emphasize certain body parts or area that would tend to provoke lust in others? Does my clothing stir admiration and respect for me or does it prompt opinions otherwise? Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 26 Since clothing can indicate character (cf. Prov. 7:10), would my clothing suggest an abundance or lack of upright character? What kind of influence will my clothing have on those who are not Christians? What kind of influence will my clothing have on those who are Christians? Would I wear this if Jesus was in my personal physical presence? Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 27 Begin early - don't allow immodesty until 12 or 13, and then expect sudden correction. Take the lead in teaching children about modesty; don't wait for someone else to do it. Teach children by word of mouth - in our homes, and teach them by example - children can identify inconsistency quickly and easily. Be consistent in standards and application of standards. Mothers, teach your sons and daughters what God teaches, and do not undermine godly husbands and fathers as they properly lead. Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 28 Disregard God by disregarding His word ( Jn. 12:48-49; cf. 1 Sam. 8:7). Defile and sear your conscience (1 Cor. 8:7; 1 Tim. 4:2). Lose your sense of shame ( Jer. 6:15; 8:12). You conform to the world (Rom. 12:1-2). Will likely move to more immodesty (2 Tim. 3:13). Will likely move to other forms of worldliness (2 Tim. 3:13). Will resent questions and teaching on the subject 22:22). Don McClain (Acts W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 29 Be Modest – reserved, decent, respectable Exhibit Shamefastness – can blush, have shame Show Good Judgment – common sense Show Godliness – devoted to God Respect Others – opposite sex could lust Cover our nakedness – cover from the shoulder to the knee Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 30 As a ring of gold in a swine's snout, So is a lovely woman who lacks discretion. - Proverbs 11:22 Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 31 Don McClain World Parents Preacher Elders Always Thought / Done W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009 32 Don McClain W. 65th St church of Christ / May 17, 2009