Active Listening MSL102_06 - Active Listening 28 Aug 02 Overview of Presentation What is active listening? Why do we practice it? How do we practice it? What is active listening? Active listening involves: communicating verbally and nonverbally practicing “uninterrupted” listening restating the message observing the sender’s nonverbal signals Why practice active listening? Helps us understand others better Show others we respect them Allows us to receive accurate messages Enables us to respond appropriately How to practice active listening Physical environment Attending posture: SOLER Listening skills Questioning skills Physical environment Ensure privacy Minimize interruptions Eliminate barriers Attending posture Nonverbal skill = SOLER S= squarely face person O= use open posture L= lean toward the person E= use eye contact R= relax, keep it natural Listening skills Reflective statements get at the real meaning Nonverbal and verbal cues often conflict! Recognize nonverbal posture: It’s the real thing! bored overwhelmed closed Questions skills Ask questions…not too many Avoid “why” questions Ask open-end questions Active Listening