Social Development DEFINITION ◦ Learning to relate to others Social Development Socialization How to get along well in society Friendship, family, co-workers, peers Social Development Process of socialization begins at birth and continues throughout life Social skills such as taking turns and listening are essential for academic success Social Development Social Learning ◦ Contact with people ◦ Imitation ◦ Understanding of social expectations Social Development Relating to Family Members ◦ Parent-Child Relationships ◦ Sibling Relationships ◦ Extended Family Relationships Social Development Relating to Peers ◦ Friendship ◦ Concerns: Teasing Bullying Peer Pressure Rejection Groups and Cliques Social Development Relating to Adults Outside the Family ◦ ◦ ◦ ◦ ◦ ◦ Teachers Counselors Babysitters Mentors Coaches Friends of family Social Development Teaching Social Skills ◦ ◦ ◦ ◦ ◦ ◦ ◦ Taking Turns and Sharing Using Good Manners Cooperation Handling Competition Resolving Conflicts Overcoming Shyness Becoming Assertive Social Development Create a MANNERS poster that could possibly hang in a preschool classroom ◦ Teach children about manners Teaching Manners Appreciating Diversity ◦ Stereotypes ◦ Cultural Bias ◦ Combating Prejudice Social Development What factors could affect Social Development? Social Development Feral Children Something to think about… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=STn3b pTTU6c&feature=related Social Development DEVELOPMENAL MILESTONES Infants Cries, smiles, kicks, coos, laughs to attract social attention Responds to person-to-person contact with adults and children Pays attention to his/her own name Social Development DEVELOPMENAL MILESTONES 1 Year Old Responds to simple commands by adult Engages in social laughter Beginning to become independent Cooperates by helping to put things away Social Development DEVELOPMENAL MILESTONES 2 Years Old Participates in simple group activity singing, dancing Mother continues to be very important to child Knows gender identity Social Development DEVELOPMENAL MILESTONES 3 Years Old Friends becoming more interesting than adults Shares toys, takes turns with assistance Uses "I, me, you" Associative group play begins Social Development DEVELOPMENAL MILESTONES 4 Years Old Plays and interacts with other children Improving in turn-taking and cooperating Understands social problem solving Developing self-responsibility; enjoys doing things for self Social Development DEVELOPMENAL MILESTONES 5 Years Old Wants to do what is expected Respects reasonable authority Engages with other children in cooperative play; fair play Chooses own friends; friendships change rapidly Engages with other children in role assignments Social Development “The only way to have a friend is to be one” Ralph Waldo Emerson Quote of the Day