The Epistle
February 16, 2014
Sharing the Joy and Power of Life in Christ
Rector’s Corner
I will offer an abbreviated Inquirer's Class of 4 weeks length on Thursday evenings at 7:30 p.m.
beginning February 27. The sessions will be "An Introduction to the Episcopal Church" (2/27); "Worship
as Episcopalians" (3/6); An Overview of the Old and New Testaments" (3/13); and "Christian Theology
and Spirituality" (3/20). This series would be particularly appropriate for anyone new to Emmanuel or
the Episcopal Church, and for any adults interested in being confirmed or received into the Episcopal
Church on May 10. This will be my last offering of Inquirer's courses at Emmanuel. I have enjoyed giving them very much
over the years.
Staff Resignation
The Rector and Senior Warden accepted the resignation of our Church Custodian, Mike Lee, on February 6. Mike has
served Emmanuel faithfully for the past 6 ½ years. Going forward we will be served by Barb Acela, who is moving from
part-time to full-time on our staff, assisted by Kevin Bates.
Odds and Ends
* This weekend (2/14-15) is the annual Vestry/Staff Retreat at Camp Chanco. The Rev. Michael Spear-Jones is facilitating.
* Last Sunday (2/9) was Scout Sunday. Our thanks to Doug Irwin who has served as Cub Scout Master for Troop 991 for
which Emmanuel serves as Institutional Sponsor. Under Doug's able leadership the troop has grown from an initial 9
boys to over 30, and several now in 5th grade will soon be moving to a Boy Scout troop under the leadership of David
Maple. Later in the year, Doug will be handing over leadership to another adult leader. It was great to have several
scouts present in uniform on Sunday.
Transitions
* Congratulations to Kevin and Stephanie (Banks) McGurty on the birth of a daughter, Cassidy, on February 8 at Sentara
Norfolk.
Rev. Julia’s Corner
Ready for the next big event at Emmanuel?
Father John is planning to retire in May and we would like to plan a HUGE party to celebrate his and Ann’s
ministry and time here at Emmanuel! So let’s “do this party up big” in Emmanuelite style.
We will have our first Celebration meeting on February 19 at 7 p.m. in the Library. At that time, we will
lay out ideas and forming smaller party planning groups. If you cannot make this meeting but would like to be a part of
the fun, please contact Rev. Julia at assistant@emmanuelvb.org
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Christian Formation
Club 45 meets this Sunday, February 16 and we’re going bowling! Cost is $7; time 3:00-5:00 p.m.;
meet at AMF Indian River Lanes by 3:00 p.m. Contact Vicky, (804) 241-5461 or
vickykch@gmail.com.
Lenten Reflections
Pick up in the Parish Hall
Lent will be here before you know it (Ash Wednesday is March 5!) Each year, our members prepare a Lenten meditation
booklet for the benefit of the entire parish. Each year I find inspiration, wisdom and knowledge in the submissions we
receive. If you like doing reflections of this sort, please consider taking a scripture passage and offering your own
reflection to be published in our booklet. Passages are ready and waiting for you in the church office. There is a STRICT
deadline for submissions so that we can have plenty of time for editing and formatting. I am looking forward to reading
what you write!
Upcoming Events….
Mark your calendars now for our annual
Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper! Tuesday, March 4. 5:30-8 p.m.
Join us in the Parish Hall for fabulous flapjacks by our epicurean experts! $6 per person, kids under 6 eat
free. Seatings at 5:30 and 6:30. Be on the look-out for those inevitable sign-up sheets in the Parish Hall!
Adult Retreat February 28 – March 1
The annual Emmanuel Adult Retreat is a yearly favorite. We head down to Nags Head on Friday
afternoon; enjoy a leisurely dinner on our own before gathering at St. Andrews-by-the-Sea Episcopal
Church. Opening ice breakers and the program intro precede evening prayer and fellowship on Friday
night. Our program this year will be led by Vicky Koch and will be based on the movie Lilies of the Field
starring Sidney Portier. Following breakfast on our own on Saturday, we get down to the meat of our
time together. We start the day with Morning Prayer then have a presentation/small group discussion
format for the morning session. We bring lunch in (lunch is included in the fee for the event) and then
have our final session from 1-3 p.m. We close the event with an afternoon prayer service.
Many folks choose to spend Saturday night as well, and enjoy dinner and fellowship that night, and often worship at one
of the two Episcopal Churches in the Outer Banks before heading home on Sunday. The retreat program fee is $25. The
hotel price is $49 a night (this is a change from previously published price of $39). It is still an amazing bargain!
Registration forms are in the Parish Hall. We do need to know if you are coming so we have program materials for you.
Hotel reservations at the Orville and Wilbur Wright Days Inn can be made by calling 252-441-7211. I hope you will join us
for the fun and formational event!
Hey Emmanuel! Chanco is Calling……
Come join in the fun at the Emmanuel Parish Retreat! Join us May 30-June 1
We will take a look at the Theology of Dr. Seuss as we explore and read his books. There is more to the
story than just the rhyme, some come to hear about Sneetches and have a good time. Many issues are
raised within the pages and we will let the Lorax and Horton out of their cages. I can’t promise you
Green Eggs and Ham but Yertle the Turtle may have a plan. A scavenger hunt with everyone in tow,
on the last day Oh the Places You’ll Go! The leader is one Cat in the Hat otherwise know as a church lady named Pat.
(AKA…Pattie Ames from St. Columba’s Episcopal Church Washington, DC).
Registration begins soon! Mark those dates!
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Adult Forum
Beginning February 16 we begin a new segment called Civil Discourse. Have we lost the ability to have a discussion?
Have we forgotten how to engage in conversation? Join contemporary political and moral leaders as they explore key
topics triggering public debate, including abortion, racism and global ethics. Guests include Richard Mouw, Frances
Kissling, Elizabeth Alexander, Nicholas Kristof and E. Ethelbert Miller.
On March 9 we will begin a Lenten program that will carry us through April 6. On April 13 and 20 we will not have Adult
Forum.
Our final segment for the spring session will be a program called Faithful Citizens. This will carry us through early June.
We are considering several ideas for a summer session….so stay tuned!
Children’s Liturgy of the Word
Worship Leader Schedule
Sunday
Feb. 16
Feb. 23
Mar. 2
8:30 Service
Theresa Rice
Lindsey Osborn
Theresa Rice
Meghann Scott
Theresa Rice
Beth Von St. Paul
Meals on Wheels
For about 30 years, Emmanuel has provided volunteer teams for Meals on Wheels. This ministry
serves the elderly, convalescing, and handicapped in their own homes. Volunteers come from
churches, clubs, military units, and individuals. The volunteers are assigned a week (ours is the third
week in each month), and using their own vehicle, arrive at Sentara Nursing Home for the monthly
assignment. Arrival time is between 9:30 and 10:00 a.m. There the team picks up TV dinners, bag
lunches, and checks the route book with the inventory. The delivery begins; the route is printed
clearly. The two-person team facilitates the delivery with one driving and one reading the map. There
are currently 16 different routes with no more than 12 clients in each route. You should be home in 2 hours. We need a
list of substitutes so please call me if you can help. It’s as easy and 1,2,3 and is a very satisfying ministry. Jane Smith
Coordinator, Meals on Wheels (757) 497-5145
Altar Flower Dedications
Every member of the parish is invited to contribute to the beauty of our worship by giving the altar
flowers on a particular Sunday, to the glory of God and in memory, thanksgiving, or celebration for
people or events that are important to them.
If you would like to make such a gift, please record your dedication in the Altar Flower Book, complete
the Flower Dedication Form and return it to the Church Office or place in the Sunday offering along
with the appropriate payment. Make you check payable to Emmanuel Episcopal Church and please
write “Flower Guild” in the memo line. The book and forms are located on the podium in the Narthex entrance. Thank
you in advance for your generosity and for contributing to the beauty of our worship.
Mark your calendar! Thursday, February 20, Eat at Ruby Tuesday!
It’s Community GiveBack time again!
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Day School Openings
Emmanuel Members,
There have been some Day School families who have had to relocate recently. As a result, we have a
few slots open for 2, 3 and 4 year-olds. If you know of anyone who may be interested in enrolling
their child, please refer them to us. If they decide to enroll, you will receive 30% off the next month's
tuition (or if you do not have a child who currently attends the school you will receive $50).
Additionally, the new family will receive a discount on the registration fee. If you have any questions please contact
Karen Kearse 757-499-7393.
EMMANUEL EPISCOPAL DAY SCHOOL SCHOLARSHIP FUNDRAISER
Members of Emmanuel! Please support Emmanuel Episcopal Day School’s SCHOLARSHIP FUND
by picking up and ordering from the JOE CORBI’S brochures in the Parish Hall. Choose from their
family favorites such as pizzas, calzones, pretzels, cookie dough, cheesecakes and pies. Please
return the order form with your payment to the church office no later than Thursday, February 20.
Checks should be made out to “EEDS”. Scheduled delivery date for all orders will be March 12.
Thank you for supporting our school and those who need assistance with tuition. Your generosity is greatly
appreciated!
Men’s Breakfast
The next Men’s Breakfast is Saturday, February 22, at 7:30 a.m. in the Parish Hall. Please sign up!
Ushers Needed
Have you been looking for a way to become involved at Emmanuel, but do not have time for
weeknight meetings? Volunteering as an usher on Sunday is a great way to serve. Ushers are
usually scheduled only once a month. New ushers are teamed with experienced ushers. For
more information, please contact Mike or Diann Nickelsburg at tutorlatin@verizon.net or 4676829.
A Thank-you from Suzanne Pugh
Upon the completion of my second memorial service as Martha's Ministry's new chairman, I am overwhelmed
with gratitude! We have the most AWESOME, CAPABLE, and DEDICATED parishioners who jump in and help.
Everyone knows basically what and how to do things making the job so much easier. To all who helped the last
3 funerals, please know how appreciative I am for your hard work and dedication.
I would also like to thank all the people on the Flower Guild who also worked so hard to make the memorials
beautiful. Last, but certainly not least, many thanks for all the delicious food people brought in! After the
funeral last Saturday I had a phone call from a close friend. She said 2 friends of hers came to the memorial
and raved about how delicious the food was, how beautiful everything looked, and how well organized it was!
That should make all of us proud!
Martha's Ministry is such a wonderful and important part of Emmanuel's history. Having been a recipient
myself, I know what a burden it takes from the family and how greatly it is appreciated. With all of us
continuing to work together, I know the ministry will continue to flourish.
Faithfully, Suzanne Pugh
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Yarn Wanted!
The prayer shawl knitters would love to have partial skeins of yarn for knitting. Please leave in church
office labeled for “Knitters.”
Faith in Fiction
Next meeting: Thursday, February 13, 2014, (please note this is a change from our regular meeting date)
at 7:30 p.m. Emmanuel Library.
Faith in Fiction is a group that enjoys reading and discussing novels. We focus on the spiritual thread
and/or social consciousness running through the story line of a novel. Our book for February has been
changed to The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry: a novel by Rachel Joyce. If there are any questions please call Patty
Rapp 474-0954.
Future books:
Mar 6 The School of Essential Ingredients
Apr 10 The Light Between Oceans
Tuesday Morning Movie February 18, 10:00 a.m.
The Reader Starring Kate Winslet and Ralph Fiennes
Post Nazi Germany – brief affair with a teenage boy turns into a life-long relationship and
entanglement. A compelling romance.
Women’s Bible Study
Women's Bible Study began February 10, 6:30 p.m.,in the Parish Hall.
“Becoming More Than a Good Bible Study Girl”, (Living the Faith after Bible Class is Over) by Lysa
TerKeurst (click link for information)
This is a 6-week study. We began on February 10 and end on March 17 with our Pot Luck!!! There will be
a follow-on 6-week study at the close of this one. I will order 20 member books at $11 each and as
usual we all contribute to the purchase of the DVD. Please email me at cschindler@cox.net to reserve
your place in this study.
Ultreya! Christ is Counting on You
Where: St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, 201 St. Paul’s Blvd., Norfolk 23510. Church Phone: 757-6274353
Date: Friday, February 21, 2014
Time: 6:00 p.m. gather and food set-up
6:15 p.m. begin buffet meal
7:00 p.m. Ultreya begins
9:00 p.m. Ultreya ends
If you need a ride, meet at Emmanuel at 5:15 p.m.
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What Love Means to a 4 to 8 Year Old...
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, What does love mean?'
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined.
*When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it
for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.' Rebecca- age 8
*When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'
Billy - age 4
*Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.' Terri - age 4
*Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.' Bobby - age 7
*If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate. ' Nikka - age 6
*During my piano recital , I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy
waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.' Cindy - age 8
*My mommy loves me more than anybody You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.' Clare - age 6
*Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.' Chris- age 7
Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.' Mary Ann – age 6
When you love somebody , your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' Karen - age 7
Happy Valentine’s Day
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Schedule for February 16, 2014
PREACHER: The Rev. John Baldwin
11:00 a.m.
LAY READERS: Ted Shrader, George Chafee
USHERS: Lisa Jerauld, Bob Paull, Link Mueller
ACOLYTES: Meca Garcia, Lydia Meredith, Alaina Lusk, Mason
Barbour
HEALING MINISTERS: Walt Altice, Lynne Coates
VESTRY GREETER: Shawn Duesberry
COFFEE HOSTS: Darla & Steve Furman
WELCOMERS: Gary & Linda Ardison
EUCHARISTIC VISITORS: Herb Pixley, James Carver
COUNTERS: (2/17) Dave Roper, Nancy Snell, Lynne Coates,
Gloria White
ALTAR GUILD: (2/15-2/28) Janet Thomas, Sallie Davis, Loretta
Mann, Loretta Jensen, Tracie Filipich
FLOWER GUILD: (2/15) Ruth Bates, Joan Maher, Carole Seal
7:30 a.m.
LAY READER: Richard Pulley
ACOLYTE: Trey Kearse
8:30 a.m.
LAY READERS: Paul Peter, Betty Schindler
USHERS: Dave Mansfield, Jim & Sharon O’Meara
ACOLYTES: Sara Orr, Townsend Larmore, Shannon Roberts
HEALING MINISTERS: Art & Loretta Mann
VESTRY GREETER: Dave Brown
COFFEE HOUR HOSTS: John & Marlyn Lam
WELCOMERS: Mary Fanshaw & Susan Etheredge
Parish Care: Erin Maple – 646-0107
Please Pray for:
Peace in the world; John, our Rector; Julia, our Associate Rector; Marguerite, our Deacon; Howard our retired clergy, in
their daily life and work.
Please pray for: Candy, Suzanne, Fran, Larry, Megan, Sandra, Michael, Denise, Vicki, Peggy, Gary, Will & Paula, Sara,
Bunny, Bev, Jennette & Jeanie, Wanda & the Truett family, Mr. & Mrs. Smith, Judy, Debra, Loretta, Midge, Sarah Grace,
Maggie, Suzy, Glynn, John, Stephen, Marsha, Anna, Gale, Bob, James, Debi, Di Ann, Ruth, Jackie, Shannon, Patrick, Joan,
Marie, Mark, Lauren, Alberto, Susan, Mike, Cobie West & family, Neil, and Dick.
All those in our armed forces and their families at home and abroad: Stephen Campbell, Justin Sprehe, Michael
Montgomery, David Troyer, Doug Barnhurst, and Justin Guy.
Those in prison: Aki, Anthony, James, John, Ryan, David, and Matthew.
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Emmanuel Clergy & Staff
The Rev. John Baldwin, Rector
The Rev. Julia Messer, Associate Rector
The Rev. Dr. Marguerite Alley, Deacon
The Rev. Howard Purvis, Honorary Associate
Phone: 757-499-1271
Fax: 757-499-4953
Day School: 757-499-7393
Director of Finance
Interim Day Sch. Director
Coord. Christian Form.
Director of Music
Assistant Director of Music
Parish Administrator
Building Manager
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Gale Nicholson
Karen Kearse
Marguerite Alley
Bob Sullivan
Alex Mason
Donna Clark
Barbara Acela
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