HELPING BACKSLIDERS TO RETURN Part 4: The consequences of backsliding 1. GOAL For members to understand that even though God accepts and forgives backsliders who want to return, there are consequences for falling away from Him. Therefore, if we understand this truth, we will not be careless to the point of falling way from God. 2. CONTENT 2.1 Introduction A. God loves sinners but He hates sin. He does not want His children to walk in sin and desire to rescue them. B. The Bible warns us that even though God forgives our sin, the consequences of sin persist and we are responsible for our actions. C. Galatians 6:7 "Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows." 2.2 Question What are the consequences of falling away from God? A. B. C. D. ________________ ________________ ________________ ________________ 2.3 The Bible tells us the consequences of backsliding in many places: A. 2 Samuel 12:14 King David turned away from God's commands. He killed Uriah and took Uriah's wife to be his own. He showed utter contempt for the Lord. He lost his son. Copyright © 2005 by New Hope International Church, Seattle B. Genesis 16:4-5, 11-12 God promised Abram and Sarai that they would have a son even though they were old. Sarai did not want to wait and disobeyed God by asking her husband to sleep with Hagar (her maid servant). Hagar became pregnant and began to despise her mistress, Sarai. Hagar bore Abram a son, named Ishmael, whose descendants became an enemy of the Israelites. Isaac was Sarai's son and his descendants became the Israelites. Falling away from God destroys His plan for our Christian lives. God may want to use us for His kingdom but when we fall away from Him, He cannot use us in His original plan for our lives. C. Numbers 14:33-34 God promised to give the Israelites the land of Canaan after they were released from Egypt. But the Israelites rebelled against God and complained against Moses, their leader. They did not believe God's promise. As a result, that generation suffered in the desert for forty years and did not go into the promised land. Falling away from God causes wasting of time in serving God and a lose of the blessings God had promised us. D. Hebrews 12:5-6, 11 God will discipline the backsliders. Discipline causes unpleasant situations. E. 1 Corinthians 12:26 Falling away from God causes suffering for other Christian brothers and sisters. F. 1 Corinthians 3:13-15 Backsliders will not receive a reward after this life. 2.4 Discussion questions A. Have you ever had experiences of being disciplined by God? How did you respond to them? 2 B. Is it true that when we fall away from God, we are the only one affected? Share an experience of how you were affected by the consequences of your friend falling away from God. 3. MEMORY VERSE Hebrews 12:11 "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it." 3