TEACHING OUTLINE HOOKED | SESSION ONE | BAIT & SWITCH BOTTOM LINE THERE IS A HOOK IN EVERY TEMPTATION SCRIPTURE ANGLE OF SCRIPTURE “When tempted, no one should say, ‘God is tempting me.’ For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” There is a lot to talk about in this passage! But for this session in particular, you’re going to focus most heavily on this phrase: “after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” That, right there, is the “hook” that you’ll talk about throughout this session. No matter how tempting sin looks, it hides a sharp little hook. And that hook will lead to our own misery. JAMES 1:13-15 NIV SESSION SUMMARY INTRO TENSION TRUTH APPLICATION LANDING Introduce the visual of the fishing pole. Understanding how a fishing pole works can help you overcome temptation. Tell a personal story. Have you ever given in to temptation? Of course! But have you ever been glad that you did? James 1:13-15 tells us that giving in to temptation will make us miserable (maybe not immediately, but eventually). Explain the visual of the fishing pole and the gummy worm. There is a hook in every temptation. Giving in to temptation will make you miserable. But remember, no matter what you do, God’s love for you never changes. QUESTION WHICH TEMPTATION IS MOST DIFFICULT FOR YOU TO RESIST? WHAT IS THE HOOK THAT TEMPTATION HIDES? ©2015 The reThink Group, Inc. All rights reserved. TEACHING SCRIPT HOOKED | SESSION ONE | BAIT & SWITCH BOTTOM LINE THERE IS A HOOK IN EVERY TEMPTATION INTRODUCTION INTERACTIVE: Let’s Go Fishing Begin with the fishing pole in hand. How many of you have ever been fishing? How many of you have gone fishing so many times that you would consider yourself a fisherman? And last question, how many of you have no idea how to use this thing and would probably starve to death if your life depended on it? Most of you are probably wondering why I brought this fishing pole to church. We are at the start of a new series on temptation – the temptation we all face to do what’s wrong, instead of what’s right. This fishing pole, believe it or not, is one of the most important tools you can have in learning how to make wise decisions and in helping you overcome temptation. When it comes to overcoming temptation, to choosing what’s right instead of what’s wrong, we need all the tools we can get. Because making good decisions, especially when something is tempting us to do the opposite, can be so very difficult. Put down the fishing pole. TENSION Let’s just make sure we are all on the same page. How many of you have ever been tempted to do something you knew you shouldn’t do? Absolutely every hand should be in the air right now. Of course, we have all been tempted! All of us have been tempted to say things we shouldn’t say, to look at things we shouldn’t look at, to go somewhere we shouldn’t go. TELL A PERSONAL STORY Tell a story from your own life that illustrates the following ideas... • • • Focus on a small or trivial temptation you gave in to, or were tempted to give in to, preferably as a middle schooler. Keep it short and make it funny. The goal here is to help your students connect with you personally, not to make a point or illustrate a principle. We’ve all been tempted to cheat, or to talk behind someone’s back, to not listen to our parents, or to blame our little brothers for something we did. In fact, you may have been tempted with some of these things during your ©2015 The reThink Group, Inc. All rights reserved. TEACHING SCRIPT 2 car ride here. We all know what it’s like to be tempted to do something we know we shouldn’t do. Sometimes we make the wise choice. But sometimes we give in. 5 MINUTES Let me ask you this question, and don’t answer it out loud: Have you ever been glad you gave in to temptation? with our friends and family, too. Have you ever given in to whatever it was that was tempting you, and thought, “That was such a good decision! I feel like a better person! My relationships are so much better, and my health is improving! I feel shame free and guilt free, and I’ve never slept this well!” We laugh because that’s not typically how we feel at all after giving in to temptation. Giving in to temptation always seems to make us feel worse. And, in the long run, it can hurt our relationships But even though we know that is true, we still give in sometimes. When that moment of temptation comes, we sometimes feel powerless to say no. Why is that? I think the reason is because very few of us have ever understood how this fishing pole works. If you can understand and remember how this thing works, I think you will get so much better at overcoming and resisting temptation. TRUTH First, let me read you a quick passage of scripture, and then I’ll explain what a fishing pole has to do with temptation. This passage of scripture comes from the book of James. When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” (James 1:13-15 NIV) Now, what does James mean? He tells us that when we make the decision to give in to temptation, we get something in return, but it’s not a good thing. James tells us that when we give in to temptation, we get death. Now, cheating on a math test or talking bad about a friend probably won’t actually kill you, so what does James mean? Another way to define that word “death” is misery. Giving in to temptation will make you miserable. Maybe not immediately. But, eventually, the consequences of our bad choices will catch up with us. We’ll feel guilty. We’ll hurt our relationships with other people. We’ll develop bad habits that keep us from being everything God created us to be. James is telling us that, just like a baby takes months to be born, giving in to temptation will eventually lead to our own misery. And even though we know this to be true, it is still difficult to say “No!” Even though you know there is a big chance that you will feel miserable, it’s still hard to resist temptation sometimes. 10 MINUTES APPLICATION This is where the fishing pole comes in. The whole point of a fishing pole is to catch a fish. However, catching a fish isn’t very easy. This may come as a surprise, but fish don’t want to be caught. So the job of the fisherman is to make the bait he throws in the water as appealing as possible. ©2015 The reThink Group, Inc. All rights reserved. TEACHING SCRIPT 3 You can see that I put a gummy worm on the hook. To catch a fish, you have to make this worm look so delicious and so tasty that the fish can’t help themselves… and eventually take a bite. But what the fish don’t know is that, beneath that tasty looking worm, there is a sharp little hook. If you don’t hide the hook, the fish won’t bite. But if you bait it right, and hide the hook, you are going to reel in a nice catch. It is the same thing when we are tempted. The bait is thrown out in front of us, and it looks so tasty! But you’ve got to remember that just inside that tasty What does the bait look like for you? Maybe it’s looking at something on the Internet that you know you shouldn’t look at, talking bad about someone to gain approval, cheating on a test, lying to your parents.... It all looks so good! But it’s looking bait is a hook. There is a hook in every temptation. Would any of you ever bite this gummy worm? No! Why? Because you know there is a hook in it! You know that biting this worm will lead to misery, so you stay far away from it. In this passage we just read, James is reminding us that in every single temptation, there is a hook - something that will cause misery in your life. When you can remember that there is a hook in every temptation, you’ll be far less likely to give in to whatever it is that is tempting you. the bait. And the bait disguises the hook. So the next time you’re confronted with that bait that looks so good, remember that there is a hook in every temptation. Then make the wise choice. LANDING Next week, we are going to talk about some things that will help you stay away from temptation. But before we get there, I want all of you to know this. Right now, a lot of you might be in the middle of a temptation that you can’t seem to resist. Maybe you took the bait, and now you feel bad about yourself and carry a lot of guilt. I want you to know that even though you may feel badly about yourself, God does not. It doesn’t change how God feels about you. God is not mad at you. God is not angry with you. He is not far from you. not mad at you, but I do believe he is sad for you. Misery is the last thing He wants you to feel. He wants you to feel the opposite of misery, which is why we want you to remember that there is a hook in every temptation. And that God has a better story for you. Some of us really need to hear that, because some of us may have done things that have led us to think, “How in the world could God love me right now?” But the head-shaking truth of what we believe is that God will never stop loving you. As you head to your small groups, I want you to think about this question: What is the temptation that is just so difficult for you to resist? And what is the hook hidden inside of it? And to help you remember that, you’re going to get a little something in your small group that you can take home with you. Now, is God sad about your sin? Of course! It makes Him sad because He knows that it will lead to misery in your life. He’s 15 MINUTES STOP TRANSITION INTO SMALL GROUPS ©2015 The reThink Group, Inc. All rights reserved.