Beta Sigma Phi
FALL
2009
Letter to Our Members
The following is an excerpt from a letter by member Margaret Watson, of Pennsylvania Sigma, Pittsburgh. At the
end of the letter there is more information regarding it’s
history.
Is Beta Sigma Phi a luxury or a necessity? One of our
members recently brought up these questions, and perhaps other sisters have been asking themselves the same
things. In an effort to answer, I would like to tell you what
Beta Sigma Phi means to me.
First of all, how can you give up something that has become a part of you? I wear my little pin always, and I
have only to look down at that shining circle of friendship
to realize that it stands for things that fill a basic need in
our lives. The old world that we know and loved has gone
and will not return. But a brave new world is being born,
a world that will demand the best that is in us. And, by
working together, we can, if we will, give it that best. The
old world has indeed gone, but the old ideals have not
gone. They will remain. They cannot change. And our
organization is founded on these ideals.
Beta Sigma Phi is a dream of womanhood at its finest,
founded on the bedrock of the ideals of life, learning and
friendship. We may never reach the Light, but we may
draw near enough to it to feel its warmth and know its
power. And there surely can be few experiences in life
lovelier than to be privileged to light a candle in someone’s heart and to watch the flame rise, wavering a little at
first, and then growing ever more clear and steady, at last
to shed its radiance not only on that person’s life but on
the lives of others.
For Beta Sigma Phi is real. Here is no confused program
of vague generalizations drawn up in a haphazard fashion. Here is work to be done, a woman’s work; here are
obligations to be assumed; and underneath lies a real challenge to every member. And unless we share that work,
assume those obligations, and respond to that challenge,
Beta Sigma Phi will never mean any more to us than just
three words.
For Beta Sigma Phi is more than a sorority. It is a way of
life.
This eloquent letter speaks volumes about the importance
of sorority. It is quite timely, especially when it speaks of
times changing, yet Beta Sigma Phi remaining a comforting constant. But the letter was not written this year or
even in this century. It was composed by a young member
in 1941. In these days of uncertainty, it is good to know that
our traditions and our mission of bringing Life, Learning
and Friendship to all our members will never change.
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Fall 2009
Volume 127 - Issue 4
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Contents
In This Issue...
2
Letter
4
Conventions/New Chapters
5
What Beta Sigma Phi Means To Me
5
Because We Love This Photo
6
Rushing News
10
Cancer News
15
Postal Statement
16
An Ovarian Cancer Story
17
Lucinda Pins Story
18
Our New Cookbook!!!
19
Cookbook Order Form
19
Mystery Book Drawing Winner
20
Flipping Out for Kids
22
Fall Parade of Legacies
30
Legacy Stories
33
2009 Conventions
37
Mission of Mercy
38
Chatter
40
Fall Chapter Spotlight
42
New Theme
44
Ways and Means
47
International Award of Distinction Recipients
52
Gifts
54
Beta Sigma Phi Memories
- On the Cover -
Meet Presley Pittman, our newest Legacy cover girl!
Read more about Presley on page 29.
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New Friendly
Venture Chapters
Arkansas Delta Zeta, White Hall
BY: Xi Delta Beta, Amber Davis
Welcome These
New Chapters
British Columbia Beta Nu Master, Nanaimo
California Delta Xi Gamma, Arroyo Grande
California Laureate Kappa Tau, Richmond
Colorado Kappa Pi, Hotchkiss
BY: Laureate Beta Mu, Margaret Hollembeak
Colorado Epsilon Epsilon Master, Colorado Springs
Florida Alpha Delta Lambda, The Villages
BY: Carol Lynn
Kansas Alpha Lambda Master, Haysville
Maine Laureate Upsilon, Old Town
Georgia Beta Alpha, Gainsville
(Extreme Makeover)
BY: Beta Alpha, Karen Hill
Michigan Laureate Gamma Lambda, Sturgis
Louisiana Lambda Theta, Belle Chasse
BY: Beta Master, Hazel Saucier
Missouri Kappa Lambda, North Kansas City
Missouri Beta Sigma Master, Poplar Bluff
North Carolina Preceptor Beta Psi, Concord
Mississippi Beta Nu, Amory
BY: Leigh McGonagill
Ohio Beta Phi Master, Toledo
Ohio Beta Upsilon Master, Toledo
Ohio Upsilon Pi, Crooksville
BY: Xi Zeta Omicron, Judith Embrey
Oklahoma Preceptor Gamma Rho, Lawton
South Dakota Mu Sigma, Belle Fourche
BY: Heidi Morton
Ontario Gamma Upsilon Master, Chatham
Ontario Gamma Phi Master, Guelph
Oregon Alpha Kappa Master, Dallas
Tennessee Alpha Omega, Knoxville
BY: Iota Tau, Kathi Hollander
Oregon Gamma Omega, Beaverton
South Carolina Laureate Phi Charleston
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Texas Epsilon Zeta Master, Weatherford
Texas Preceptor Pi Nu, Gilmer
Texas Upsilon Upsilon Master, Greenville
Victoria Lambda Master, Mount Eliza
Victoria Mu Master, Williamstown
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Virginia Alpha Pi Master, Norfolk
Virginia Preceptor Gamma Phi, Fairfax
Wisconsin Lambda Master, Wisconsin Rapids
Wisconsin Mu Master, Milwaukee
Wyoming Xi Master, Lander
What Beta Sigma Phi Means to Me
By: Cappy Mills
Georgia, Lambda Alpha, Newnan
A “Thank you” to my sisters: I have moved
several times, joined many clubs of different natures, and even have blood sisters.
But I have just learned what “Sisterhood”
really means. Thank you to all my wonderful “La-La” sisters! Since I joined this group,
my husband has lost his job (going on 8
months), my son will be going to Iraq for a 7
month deployment, and I have developed
a stress illness (shingles). Here’s what my
blood sisters have done. I have had ONE
phone call! After asking if Jules had found
a job yet, they asked how much weight I
had put on. Here’s what my sorority sisters
have done. Two La-La sisters have offered
my husband tax work, one sister had even
referred him for what may be a full time
exciting career! Four La-La’s have offered
to pay and treat me to events. Two other
sisters have offered advice and encouragement regarding my son’s deployment.
One terrific sister is going to teach me how
to create a special care package. I have
even had a sister offer to cook since my
illness. This is funny since I couldn’t cook
before my illness! All of these fun and fantastic sisters have held my hands and my
heart and laughed with me, cried with me,
prayed with me, and danced in the sand
with me. Our chapter embraces “La-Vie
dan santé” and I know with my sisters help,
so will I. This is what Beta Sigma Phi means
to me. Here’s to the dance of life!
Cappy Mills
Because We Love This Photo
Drum roll, please. We are proud to present
(from left) Sara and Caitlin Reynolds, twins
and future Legacies. The proud mommy of
these two adorable tykes is Cherilyn Reynolds
of Pennsylvania Xi Eta Omega, Lancaster. Destined to become members some day, they are
already sporting Beta Sigma Phi apparel!
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Rushing
Exciting News for Every
Chapter!!
The International office is
searching for the top rushing
chapter for each month. This
program will be effective from
June 1, 2009 through May 31,
2010. Would your chapter like
to be known as the best chapter
and recognized Internationally?
Here’s your chance.
The chapter with the most pledges added in a single
month will be recognized. The winning chapter will
receive a special web page recognition complete with
pictures and rushing story. A special pennant will be
made and sent from the International Office which
can be proudly displayed on their table at any Beta
Sigma Phi event or convention. It will include the
chapter name, location and winning month for all to
view. The winning chapter will also receive a rushing
certificate and the gold rushing stars from International. There will only be one Chapter of the Month
Award issued.
The pledge applications have been checked for June
and July, and we are excited to announce we have a
tie! For the month of June, Illinois Psi Omicron, El
Dorado and Iowa Preceptor Delta Chi, Cedar Rapids
are tied with FIVE pledges each. For the month of
July, Louisiana Xi Delta Phi, Natchitoches and Missouri Epsilon Omicron, Butler are tied with SEVEN
pledges each. Which one will add the next pledge
and break the tie?
We will notify the winning chapter and ask that they
share a group picture or multiple pictures, plus a
rushing story to include on the new website. This is a
terrific way to share with our sorority sisters around
the world about your rushing success. The winning
chapter will become an inspiration to the rest of our
membership and literally become a part of International Beta Sigma Phi history for their dedication,
enthusiasm, and love for sorority.
** Another exciting announcement to share is the
chance for each chapter to acquire a 4-star Yardstick
rating. The members have made the request and now
it is possible. Previously, you had to Friendly Venture
a new chapter to earn the 4-star rating. Now all you
have to do is add SEVEN new pledges to your chapter
within the same sorority year and the 4-star rating is
yours.
As you can see from this Torch issue there were 41
chapters adding five or more pledges to their groups.
A previous Torch listed 47 chapters achieving these
totals. So for the 2008-2009 sorority year, 88 chapters added 5 or more pledges. Of that quantity, 22
chapters actually added SEVEN or more pledges. This
is proof that your chapter can also achieve this goal
and be a 4-star chapter.
Our department will look forward to hearing from you
and assisting the chapters in this new exciting sorority year as we truly Share our Passport to Adventure.
Your sister in Beta
Sigma Phi.
“Watts New in Rushing”
Lola Ruby
Has your City Council tried this idea? Prepare a special booklet or a few pages to
give to members moving into the area. Include a page representing each chapter
including the basics; career or traditional format, meeting days, are they active in
service, ways & means, or other on-going activities. Include the general area of
where the members live to share a geographic idea. Of course, include the vice
president’s name and phone number for contact. Keep this booklet up to date for
each new sorority year. This is a very easy and handy way to give to each transferee
the information to assist her in the search for a chapter that would be a good fit.
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Congratulations To The Top
Rushing Chapters!
14 New Pledges:
Texas Beta Eta Pi, San Antonio
10 New Pledges:
Texas Eta Rho, Center
Texas Preceptor Beta Tau, Dallas
Oregon Alpha Beta, Medford
Delaware Xi Upsilon, Oceanview
5 New Pledges:
Montana Beta Omicron, Red Lodge
Montana Alpha Alpha, Glasgow
Finland Alpha, Helsinki
9 New Pledges:
Queensland, Epsilon, Brisbane
Arkansas Delta Psi, Springdale
Michigan Alpha Theta Chi, Flint
British Columbia Xi Gamma Gamma, Victoria
British Columbia Alpha Phi, Castlegar
California Xi Sigma Omega, Hemet
California Nu Gamma, Crescent City
Ontario Theta Upsilon, Freeport
Ontario Xi Eta Kappa, Cloyne
8 New Pledges:
California Gamma Alpha Eta, Burney
Iowa Xi Epsilon Xi, New Hampton
Iowa Eta Psi, Afton
Oklahoma Delta Kappa, Tahlequah
7 New Pledges:
Florida Alpha Gamma Xi, North Fort Myers
Iowa Iota Chi, LeMars
Indiana Xi Gamma Xi, Logansport
Kansas Nu Epsilon, Medicine Lodge
Idaho Beta Phi, Challis
Kentucky Zeta Epsilon, Jenkins
Illinois Psi Eta, Metropolis
Louisiana Alpha, Houma
North Carolina Upsilon, Winston Salem
Missouri Alpha Gamma Alpha, Warsaw
Virginia Kappa Omicron, Chesapeake
Missouri Xi Iota Omega, Florissant
6 New Pledges:
Germany Alpha Nu, Ramstein
Kansas Rho Mu, Sublette
Louisiana Preceptor Alpha Chi, Rayne
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Montana Gamma Zeta, Bigfork
Texas Delta Gamma, Corpus Christi
Texas Beta Kappa Upsilon, San Marcos
Virginia Kappa Kappa, Colonial Heights
Wisconsin Preceptor Alpha Lambda, Oshkosh
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Four Star Chapters
Those chapters who have Friendly Ventured during the 2008-2009
sorority year have earned a special four-star rating and are listed below.
H H H H Florida Alpha Beta, Jacksonville
H H H H Tennessee Zeta Chi, Murfreesboro
H H H H Missouri Xi Xi Pi, Stanberry
(Extreme Makeover)
H H H H Missouri Preceptor Alpha Tau, Independence
H H H H Arkansas Theta Pi, Hot Springs National Park
H H H H Missouri Xi Nu Theta, Washington
H H H H Alabama Laureate Sigma, Mobile
H H H H Kansas Xi Rho, Liberal
H H H H Missouri Pi Nu, Higginsville
H H H H South Carolina Xi Beta Kappa, Columbia
H H H H Louisiana Xi Delta Phi, Natchitoches
(Extreme Makeover)
H H H H Nevada Xi Alpha Phi, Battle Mountain
(Extreme Makeover)
H H H H California Laureate Theta Phi, Ontario
H H H H North Dakota Xi Tau, Devils Lake
H H H H Texas Xi Alpha Beta Iota, Conroe
H H H H South Carolina Preceptor Alpha Delta, Seneca
H H H H Kansas Xi Iota Epsilon, McPherson
H H H H South Carolina Xi Alpha Chi, Surfside
H H H H Oregon Preceptor Theta, Hood River
H H H H British Columbia Preceptor Gamma Mu, Kimberley
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City Councils who Helped start a
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(complete chapter roster available on website)
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Fighting for A Cure!
Beta Sigma Phi members give of
their time, money and hearts to
help stamp out cancer, particularly
women’s cancers. Read about the
strong and determined efforts of
our chapters to find a cure for this
devastating disease that has touched
all of us in very personal ways.
Nova Scotia, Greenwood members attended
a Pink Party, a perfect way to have a good time
and fight the good fight against breast cancer. Of
course, all in attendance wore pink and celebrated
with games, food and prizes. We believe in supporting this worthwhile cause and the fundraiser
was well supported!”
In 1996, California Xi Upsilon Epsilon, Lakeport
members began an annual walk/run to provide funds
for an organization named Sponsoring Survivorship.
Since its inception this benevolent group has helped
dozens of women in the area pay medical expenses as
a result of breast cancer. Last October, the race raised
more than $8,000 dollars, with Lakeport chapters
Delta Iota Tau and Xi Rho Psi enthusiastically joining in on this worthwhile endeavor.
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Oklahoma members are proud to present their
newest state service project - Ally’s House. Ally’s
House was established to help children with cancer and their families. Donations pay for transportation expenses, prescriptions, clothing and groceries, just to name a few. “We can also help these
families with other kinds of donations, such as
phone cards and
toys,” says Oklahoma Pi Eta,
Oklahoma City
member Gwen
Jones. Gwen
suggests anyone
who wants to
learn more about
this worthwhile
cause go to the
website at www.
allyshouse.net.
California Laureate Kappa Theta, Fremont
member Bev Enos hosted a breast cancer awareness
luncheon, and she herself is a breast cancer survivor.
“During this very difficult time Bev’s courage, wisdom
and sense of humor has been an inspiration to everyone lucky enough to know her,” says her sorority sister
Judy Gagne. “She is the perfect example that with a
positive attitude, we can, and we will conquer breast
cancer.
The Boise, Idaho City Council took part in
the Race for the Cure event in their area, joining
more than 14,000 people who arrived to do their
part to stamp out cancer. The Race for the Cure
is sponsored by the Susan G. Komen Foundation
and is the largest group of 5k run/fitness walks.
The chapter writes, “This event represents life
and the survival and strength of women. We
wanted to represent Beta Sigma Phi in an event
that supports women and girls so we selected the
Susan G. Komen for the Cure, the world’s largest and most progressive network fighting to end
breast cancer.”
Members of Nova Scotia Laureate Delta, Truro created the Beta
Babes team that participated in a local Relay for Life event. The team
had custom sweatshirts made and everyone had a great time doing their
good deed. This was the first year that Laureate Delta engaged in the
event, and was able to raise more than $2,500 for the Canadian Cancer
Society. Laureate Delta sister Katrina Henderson writes that, “it was a
night of many laughs and great memories shared with great sisters for a
wonderful cause.”
Members of Ontario Laureate Gamma Zeta, Thunder
Bay didn’t have to pull any
strings to spread the gospel of
cancer awareness. They eagerly signed up as puppetmasters with a puppet program,
where they visit schools who
may have a student undergoing cancer treatment. “We are
very well received, are asked
many questions and are able
to create an empathetic and
informed audience,” says Laureate Gamma Zeta member
Millie Konderka.
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The acclaimed Fred Hutchinson
Cancer Research Center
has long been the recipient of the
largess of the Tacoma, Washington
City Council. For several years,
the council has held a Breast Cancer
Awareness Auction. The always successful benefit offers such items as
boat cruises, certificates to golf clubs,
and homemade quilts, oil paintings
and more. A new addition to the fun
night also offers a dessert auction,
which features homemade wonderful
delectables made by members. The
dessert auction alone raised more
than $1,000! The council’s motto
sends a powerful message. “Breast
cancer is a women’s disease and we
are a women’s organization, so doing
this auction is near and dear to our hearts!”
Summer fun was the name of the game
for California Sigma Xi, Arroyo
Grande. Members enjoyed their first
walk for a cure when they entered a
Relay for Life event. More than $4,200
raised by the chapter will benefit cancer
research and breast cancer awareness
programs.
Florida Preceptor Delta
Iota, Brooksville also participated in a Relay for Life
event. The chapter hosted
a booth that sold nachos
and raised more than $1,300
that went to help the fight
against breast cancer. Muy
bien!
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Boise, Idaho chapter Alpha
Master took part in “The Bra
Project”, a fundraiser that benefits awareness, prevention and
research. The decorated bras were
displayed at a local art gallery for
viewing, followed by an auction
where different folks vied for the
bras. Alpha Master member Judy
Dietzler writes, “It was a fun event
and provided great visibility for
Beta Sigma Phi!”
Arkansas Theta Chi, Holiday Island outdid themselves this year with
their 4th annual Rally for the Cure
Golf Tournament. Each year just gets
better and better, say the members.
With 20 members helping, there was
also an auction, lunch and door prizes
(the best kind - where everyone is
a winner). The night before the big
event there was a chili and cookie
cook-off, clown acts, a decorated golf
cart parade and live music. Super fun
for a super cause!
The Sanford, Florida City
Council held its annual
Bunco Tournament that ran
simultaneously with a White
Elephant sale to raise money
for the Relay for Life event.
“Everyone brought a snack,
drink and a gift to share and
we had the opportunity to
get acquainted with many
sisters from other chapters.
We were very successful and
raised more than a hundred
dollars for our charity,” says
Florida Preceptor Delta
Delta, Sanford member
Kathy Sutton.
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New York Preceptor Alpha
Upsilon, Jamestown recently
took part in the American Society’s Relay for Life, as they
have done every year for the
past six years. It was a poignant
time, as member Kathy Nicastro was chosen as the honorary survivor who gave
a moving speech about
her diagnosis treatment
and the caregivers who
so staunchly supported
her. During the HOPE
luminaria ceremony
members talked about
how cancer had affected their lives, and
how much they missed
departed sisters. The
overall donation from
the chapter was $3,300.
Florida Alpha Beta Epsilon, Titusville held a raffle
and sold handcrafted items at
a local craft fair. They were
able to raise over $1,700 which
was donated to breast cancer
research. The year before they
proudly raised $858.
They were pleased with their
efforts and the results of the
venture. “Thanks to Beta
Sigma Phi we all met and are
able to do charitable work
along with fun social outings,”
said Marilyn Falusi then member of Alpha Beta Epsilon,
now member of Florida Xi
Lambda Lambda, Titusville.
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The New Beta Sigma Phi Ovarian Cancer Pin
By Barbara Vogel of Nebraska Preceptor Beta Epsilon, Gering
“The idea for a pin to draw
attention to ovarian cancer
began when my 45 year
old daughter, Annet, had
major surgery in October
of 2008. About that same
time the Torch and a lot
of other magazines were
reminding women to check
for breast cancer and pink cancer
ribbons were shown, as were some of the things
to watch for.
Until, then, I didn’t even know what color represented my daughters type of cancer or the symptoms and signs to check for ovarian cancer.
But after several chats with Beta Sigma Phi president Laura Wingfield, the idea for a new pin and
helping to ‘GET THE WORD OUT’ as Annet says,
was born.
Thanks to Laura, we now have this beautiful pin
that represents two of women’s leading cancers
and we have begun to distribute them along with
information sheets. Maybe we can help other
women before cancer takes over more lives. The
proceeds go to help in research to wipe out womens cancers.”
Barbara reports that Annet has completed her
5th chemotherapy treatment and is doing well.
“She has some good and some bad days, but
when we come over to take her to chemo or to
tests she puts on a good face,” says Barbara.
“She not only lost her hair but also her eyelashes.
That upset her cause though she has her cute wig
she just won’t bother with fake eyelashes. As you
can see from the photo, she was so tickled when
I presented her with her Beta Sigma Phi cancer
pin.”
SIGNS OF
OVARIAN CANCER
Unexpected gain or loss
of weight
Abdominal pain, or bloating
Unusual fatigue
Changes in bladder or bowel
patterns
Back or leg cramps
Sexual discomfort
Shortness of breath
Nausea or fever
Abnormal vaginal bleeding
Irregular menstrual cycles
MAY BE AT RISK...IF
Annet (left) and her mother Nebraska Preceptor
Beta Epsilon, Gering member Barbara Vogel
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Family history...
Ovarian, Breast, Colon or
Uterine Cancer
Use fertility drugs
High fat diet
Never been pregnant
Lucinda Pins Meet
the Yellow Rose
C
reator Lucinda Yates found
herself poverty stricken and
homeless, but armed with the
knowledge that there had to be a way
to overcome her plight. Using her creativity and drive, she established a successful line
of fashion jewelry. Her first effort was a simple
house design. Soon after her initial pin’s completion, Lucinda realized that she could help others.
The house pin she created that day became an
ideal fundraiser for a local shelter. It gave the
shelter both visibility and financial support, and a
mission to help non-profits prosper was born.
“Designs By Lucinda” pins, or Lucinda pins, are a
hot item in fashion these days. The one of a kind
broaches are symbolically connected to the causes
they help. Lovingly handcrafted in the state of
Maine, the pins help to attract awareness and are
excellent fundraising tools. The lovingly crafted,
unique pins and the branding of the various
organizations they represent makes them both
fashion and social statements. According to the
website, “The people who wear them become
ambassadors for your organization through the
conversations they cause.”
Connecticut Laureate Nu, New Haven members were so enamored of the pins and what they
represented that they were determined to design
a yellow rose pin. “We decided last fall that we
would try to design a custom pin and we were
lucky that Lucinda had recently created a red rose
pin for another group,” says Laureate Nu member
Joanne Erickson.
When Mary Jane Chicoski, who had placed the
original order, arrived with the newly created
yellow rose pins, the chapter was thrilled. “We
were all excited that they came out so well,” says
Joanne. “The chapter ordered 60 yellow roses
with Beta Sigma Phi on them and 60 without and
sold them at their last Founder’s Day celebration.”
The pins had already become a major source of
income for the chapter’s service projects. “We began about five years ago at a local Christmas Fair
selling Lucinda women pins`and house pins, and
soon expanded to snowmen, winter and holiday
pins,” says Joanne. “We recently ordered HOPE
pins to sell when we volunteer at the Relay for
Life at the end of May.”
“To my surprise, I noticed that yellow rose pins
were a new choice when I received a marketing
email from Lucinda last month. The pins on their
website have a little glitter on them, but we chose
to use 2 colors to delineate the petals instead and
they are lovely!” says Joanne.
Beta Sigma Phi President Laura Ross Wingfield
was delighted to find out when she went to order
one of the yellow rose pins that the seed for the
beautiful pins had been planted by Laureate Nu. “I
had just finished talking to the Lucinda people and
they had sent me a note along with my order of
the yellow rose pin, that Mary Jane was the person in the chapter to do the pins!” It is safe to say
she was beyond thrilled!
To learn how to “Change the World One Pin at a
Time” for yourself or your chapter go to
www.lucinda.com or call 800-799-6116.
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Flipping Out for Kids
Florida Alpha Delta Alpha, North Fort Myers has several worthwhile service projects, but
one just makes them flip out! It is appropriately
titled, Flipping Out for Kids, which involves decorating flip flops for the local children’s hospital.
T
he goal is to be able to have every children’s
hospital stay brightened with a pair of fancy flip
flops to be used as slippers or shoes. Chapter
members contacted the organizer of the project, who
is in the process of making this a worldwide effort,
bringing some joy and many smiles to the faces of the
children stricken by illness. Alpha Delta Alpha chapter
members, Joanne Cotter, Gloria Nelson and Gloria Selander got quite amped about the project after reading
about the super idea in their local newspaper.
The program’s coordinator and other volunteers came
to a chapter meeting to demonstrate how to tie, wrap
and crochet on flip flops. Then they added embellishments to enhance the character of each pair of shoes.
Bows, beads, baseballs, footballs, hearts, jewels or
whatever you could find were glued to each pair to
make them very unique and fun. It doesn’t matter
your skill level! If you can’t crochet, then you can cut,
tie, sew or glue on the embellishments.
“We get together periodically and have fun working
on them and we work on them at home in our spare
time. Members also volunteer their time delivering
the flip flops to the local children’s hospital. There is
something for everyone to do and the shoes are so
adorable and easy to make,” says Gloria Nelson.
Just how powerful a message these cheery pairs of
rubber sandals send was exemplified by a four-year
old girl who did not want to get out of bed to walk.
The nurses and doctors wanted her to move around to
avoid complications. Even her father could not get her
to walk. Members Gloria Selander and Gloria Nelson
went in and talked with her. They offered her a pair of
flip flops, anyone she wanted. She chose a fluffy pink
pair with beads. They asked her if she wanted one or
two flip flops. “Two please,” she said. They told her if
she wanted two she needed to walk on them or they
were no good. She said “OK,” put them on and slid
out of bed and walked up and down the halls holding
on to her Daddy’s hand. The father and nurses all
thanked the two Glorias. They in turn were blessed to
witness such a heartwarming scene. “What a great
experience. It only took a fancy pair of flip flops.”
This service project is a labor of love for
Florida Alpha Delta Alpha, North Fort
Myers, as evidenced by the many pairs
of dazzling flip flops, rewarded a million
times over by the smiles on the children’s
faces as they pick out their special pair.
To date the chapter has made close to
100 pairs of flip flops for the kids. “Our
goal in the future is to present this idea
to our City Council and see if other chapters would like to help,” says member
Gloria Nelson.
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2009
Legacies
Fall Parade of
Sydney Ann and Samantha Lee Novak
Sponsor: Ohio Alpha Upsilon Master, Elyria member
Mary Ann Novak
Caelan Terese Beatty
Sponsor: California Preceptor Phi,
El Cajon member Cheryl Beatty
“Caelan is adorable in her school dress
and that sweet little smile.”
“Sydney and Samantha are
picture perfect with their
dimpled smiles.”
Jennifer Taylor
Sponsor: Texas Delta
Lambda Master, Houston
member Nona G. Taylor
“Jennifer is charming and so
full of life.”
Allison Taylor
Sponsor: Texas Delta Lambda Master, Houston member Nona G. Taylor
“Allison is a vision in pink with her
dark hair and striking blue eyes.”
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Kirsten Pavelonis
Sponsor: Kentucky Laureate
Zeta, Louisville member Sharron
Melzger
“Kirsten is quite energetic and vibrant.”
Devan Mitchell
Sponsor: Texas Xi Alpha
Pi, Katy member Deena
Mitchell
Jaime Nicole Mabbutt
Sponsor: California Gamma
Sigma Master, Sacramento
member Norma Pippig
“Devan is a poised and elegant
young lady.”
“Jaime is a princess in the garden.”
Sarah Amanda Biggers
Sponsor: Idaho Eta Master,
Boise member Tina Marie
Biggers
“Sarah is a blossoming young rose
sure to find her way in the world.”
Sarah Anna Simmons
Sponsor: Florida Delta
Delta, Tampa member
Laura Boeke Simmons
“Sarah shows off her cuteness
with a big bright smile.”
Alia Michelle Naumoff
Sponsor: Michigan Alpha
Theta Master, Muskegon
member Sharon Long
“Alia is quite bubbly and joyous.”
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Kennedy Mae Rosema
Malorie Kist
Sponsor: Michigan Preceptor Beta Gamma,
Grand Rapids member
Carol Ann G. Geiger
Sponsor: Virginia Alpha
Rho, Virginia Beach
member
Lynette Kist
“Kennedy looks like her twin
sister, but she too has her own
unique identity.”
“Malorie is so very sweet, she
is energetic and will be a
great addition to Beta Sigma
Phi.”
Helen Marie Schirf and Carly
Grace Fogleman
Sponsor: Virginia Rho Master,
Hopewell member Diane Lindsay
“These cousins are full of merriment
and joy.”
Cassidy Ann Rosema
Sponsor: Michigan Preceptor Beta Gamma,
Grand Rapids member
Carol Ann G. Geiger
“Cassidy may look like her
twin, but she has her own fun
personality.”
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Kimberly Ann Wood
Sponsor: Illinois Preceptor Epsilon, Decatur
member Marilyn Wood
“Kimberly is very sophisticated and ready for anything.”
Devin Claire Floyd
Hannah Louise Howard
Sponsor: Illinois Preceptor
Epsilon, Decatur member
Marilyn Wood
Sponsor: Indiana Xi Eta
Rho, Fort Wayne member
Janet Howard
“Devin is quite enthusiastic and
well rounded.”
“Hannah is a very sweet young
lady.”
Ashley Fletcher
Sponsor: Illinois Preceptor Epsilon, Decatur
member Marilyn Wood
“Ashley has personality.”
Grace Elizabeth Howard
Sponsor: Indiana Xi Eta Rho,
Fort Wayne member Janet
Howard
“Grace is charming and
gracious.”
Lindsay Renee Horner
Sponsor: Indiana Xi Eta Rho, Fort
Wayne member Kimberly Horner
“Lindsay is very tenacious and extra sweet.”
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Morgan Diane Wiggs
Sponsor: Oklahoma Upsilon, Claremore member
Judy Marie Sears
Kelsey and Megan
Netherton
Sponsor: Illinois Preceptor
Epsilon, Decatur member
Marilyn Wood
“Morgan is so huggable and
snuggling close to her little kitty.”
“Kelsey and Megan are loving
and kind young ladies.”
Bailey Jo Stewart
Sponsor: Montana Xi
Gamma, Miles City member Karen Huckins
“Bailey is a very energetic girl
who enjoys piano, dance and
cheers. “
Malori Elizabeth
Reed
Sponsor: Indiana Xi Eta
Rho, Fort Wayne member Terri Reed
“Malori is endearing with a
big smile.”
Meaghan Nichole Horner
Sponsor: Indiana Xi Eta Rho, Fort Wayne
member Kimberly Horner
“Meaghan is quite enthusiastic.”
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Ashley Susan Horner
Sponsor: Indiana Xi Eta Rho, Fort Wayne
member Kimberly Horner
“Ashley is very energetic.”
Emma Mary Scrogham
Sponsor: Indiana Xi Eta
Rho, Fort Wayne member
Brandy Scrogham
“Emma is deliciously darling in
pink.”
Sara Riley Kight
Sponsor: Virginia Alpha
Rho, Virginia Beach member Cynthia Kight
“Sara is such a sweetie.”
Ashley Nicole
Jennings
Sponsor: Texas Beta Iota
Delta, Dallas member
Katrina Moss
“Ashley dresses to the nines
and is quite radiant.”
Jayden Dawn Kellogg
Sponsor: Idaho Alpha,
Sandpoint member Tanjela Dawn Kellogg
“Jayden is a lady in her stylish
polka dots and hat.”
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Brittany Lynn Horner
Sponsor: Indiana Xe Eta Rho, Fort Wayne
member Kimberly Horner
“Brittany is full of zest.”
Edyn Elaine Merritt
Sponsor: British Columbia Xi
Beta Lambda, Kelowna
member Elaine Stewart
“Edyn is a precious little sweetheart.”
Virginia Graham
Kellie Marie Schreiber
Sponsor: England Xi Zeta,
Lakenheath member Carla
Schreiber
“Kellie is full of heart.”
Gillian Marie
Drees
Sponsor: California Laureate Theta
Delta, Thousand
Oaks member
Judy Stauch
“Gillian is so cute and
lovable.”
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Sponsor: Ontario Nu Delta,
Whitby member Allison Graham
“Virginia is quite a doll.”
Paige Noelle Westerman
Sponsor: Ontario Laureate Epsilon Eta, Ajax member Waneta
Dennis
“Paige is adorable and memorable.”
Ashlyn Johnston
Caitlin Edwards
Sponsor: Ontario Nu Delta,
Whitby member Nicole
Edwards
Sponsor: North Carolina Xi Beta Kappa,
Greensboro member
Betsy Johnston
“Ashlyn is darling, a total
treasure.”
“Caitlin is truly delightful.”
Courtney Renee Wlasiuk and Zoey
Jean Spaulding
Sponsor: Michigan Kappa, Flint member
Jean Kattelman
“Courtney and Zoey and two of a kind, two
precious little gems.”
Presley M Pittman
Sponsor: Georgia Kappa Nu, Warner Robins member Jodi Pittman
“Presley is all girl, and cannot wait to be a
Beta Sigma Phi.”
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Legacy News
O
ur Beta Sigma Phi Legacies are having a super time getting together with their Legacy friends and celebrating. As we ready to
welcome these delightful girls into the ranks of sorority, it is a joy
to see them blossom into lovely young women. Their Legacy Rituals were
all the more touching as many of the older attendees fondly remembered
their own introduction into our glorious sisterhood.
The Manassas, Virginia City Council hosted
a Legacy Tea Party in the home of member
Valerie Burke of Virginia Xi Delta Gamma,
Manassas. A delightful day was had by the
gracious, fun-loving young ladies and their
mothers and grandmothers! There were 10
young ladies in attendance and 11 adults. And
the older Legacy girls were pleased to entertain their younger counterparts, who were
awaiting their Legacy Ritual.
The evening began with mingling and playing
with Barbie dolls until all of the guests arrived.
The girls got comfortable with one another,
while the members were excitedly preparing
for the event. The group proceeded to the
Legacy Ritual table, where there were special
rose candles for each of the four girls, who
were presented with the yellow rose necklace
by their sponsors, and a silk rosebud lapel pin.
The lucky young ladies were treated like royalty while they dined on finger sandwiches cut
into cute shapes, along
with grapes, strawberries, carrots, goldfish,
and a watermelon/
cantaloupe basket!
For an added flair, the
napkins were tied up in
yellow ribbon and doilies were placed under
the cups.
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The adults dined on chicken salad on croissants, salad, fruit, and punch. After lunch,
member Judy Drake of Virginia Preceptor
Gamma Beta, Manassas helped the children
make their own dessert pizza with homemade
sugar cookies, a creamy spread, topped with
fresh blueberries, strawberries, and kiwi! At
the end of the gathering, each girl picked a
wooden frame to take home to decorate as
a memento of the wonderful day, along with
goody bags.
Arkansas Mat Su Valley Beta Sigma Phi chapters are keeping an eye on Legacy Angela
Alicia Barnes, sponsored by her grandmother
Kitty Kay Olney of Arkansas Laureate Eta,
Mat Su Valley. Alicia recently received her
first degree Black Belt in Taekwondo. She
also holds a badge for student of the month,
belongs to the full splits club and has earned
a perfect sparring
badge. At the state
competition she
placed first and second in various categories. She keeps sorority as a priority,
and has been an active Legacy of the
valley chapters. She helped design the
Beta Sigma Phi Cotton Candy tickets for
the Mat Su Valley Summer Reading program which gives readers free cotton candy at the Council-sponsored cotton candy
booth at the state fair. She has also won a
poetry contest and been active in many of
the group socials. “Our hats are off to this
young lady and we are looking forward
to her becoming a member of Beta Sigma
Phi,” says Kitty.
Petersburg, Virginia City Council Legacy
cuties at their very own Ritual!
Katelyn Smith, 18 year old granddaughter of
Sue Moulton, member of California Delta
Iota Master, China Lake, is a Legacy no more,
having received her Pledge Ritual at a recent
chapter meeting. Katelyn, a Legacy member
since 1999, requested to join her grandmother’s chapter because she had been “adopted”
by the members and already felt
Arkansas Laureate Eta, Mat Su Valley
member Kitty Kay Olney (left) and her
granddaughter, Legacy Angela Barnes.
Petersburg, Virginia City Council conducted
a Legacy Ritual and tea for six young girls at
the United States Army Women’s Museum
at Fort Lee, Virginia. The young girls range
in age from 2 years to 13 years. Each Legacy
received her rose pendant necklace from International along with her new membership card
and a yellow rose.
California Delta Iota Master, China Lake
member Sue Moulton with granddaughter
and new member Katelyn Smith.
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like one of the family. Chapter
members feel the same way
welcoming their new younger
sister into Delta Iota Master.
Katelyn is the great-granddaughter of honorary member, Dorothy Hansen of Boise,
Idaho.
Florida Xi Xi Alpha, Cross
City hosted a Princess in Training Day which was attended
by 26 girls ages eight through
twelve. Dressed in their finest
Sunday attire, they began the
day with muffins and juice and
a visit from the reigning princess of the chapter’s county.
Princess in Training Day with Florida Xi Xi Alpha, Cross City.
The day was divided into four mini-schools
consisting of: How to Do Laundry, Correspondence and Telephone Etiquette; Table Setting
and Manners; and Kitchen Tips. The girls then
gathered for a delicious lunch, punch and
chocolate-dipped strawberries.
The event concluded with some exciting new
plans for a second clinic to be held in the near
future.
The sorority sisters thanked the parents and
grandparents who made this event possible
through their encouragement and payment
of the $15 fee. Each princess received a prize
and booklet filled with many of the items
learned in this fun-filled day, and a group photograph concluded the event.
Washington Laureate Alpha Delta, Auburn
(right) member Rose Galloway presents a
yellow rose to grandaughter McKinley Garrett,
the chapter’s newest legacy. McKinley is a third
generation Beta Sigma Phi Legacy. We cannot
wait until she is a member!
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Rose Galloway of Washington Laureate
Alpha Delta, Auburn and grandaughter
McKinley Garrett.
2009 CONVENTIONS
Conventions this year were ones to remember. This
year was one when we perhaps appreciated conventions more than ever. To see our members having
such fun reinforced the spirit that is inherent in
Beta Sigma Phi. Because no matter what the country is facing during these difficult financial times,
our wonderful sisters still have the times of their
lives when they celebrate together. For that, all
of us who travel to conventions, thank you.
Waterloo was the setting for the Iowa convention, which seconded the notion
that “Diamonds are a Girl’s Best Friend.” The weekend continued on a happy
note with forums and continued with free time on Saturday with another one
of girl’s bests friend – shopping. Saturday evening were introductions and announcements, followed by a fabulous meal and entertainment by the Doo-Wops,
all in all a very enjoyable evening. The raffle winners were announced with plenty
of glee, especially for the winners! Sunday brunch was complimented by an extraordinary harpist, followed by bids for 2010 and farewells till next year.
The North and South Carolina convention was held this
year in Hilton Head, South Carolina, an island as beautiful as any you will ever see. The weekend started out with a
Friday night “Pink Pirate” party with a steel band completing
the convention theme of “Island Magic.” Saturday morning
there were super forums that provided something for everyone
followed by a fashion show. Lunch Saturday the prestigious
Alpha/Omega awards were presented and Saturday evening
everyone was invited to “Sail Away to Moonlight Bay.” A
well-known disc jockey put on a beach party that was quite a
delight. Great weekend!
“Broadway on the Border” was the theme of the Arkansas convention, held in Fort Smith. “A Star is Born”
was the first event of the weekend – a tasty buffet with
Karaoke and chapter skits. There was a walk of stars and
every attendee was able to view her own personalized star.
Saturday there was a “Woman of the Year” breakfast, with
Sunday-best dress required, which added to the elegance
of the event. An interesting forum was held following the
breakfast that showed the life of a Beta Sigma member,
from pledging through all degrees. Saturday night was
truly “Some Enchanted Evening,” followed by a glorious
Sunday send-off.
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The California convention, held this year in San
Jose, is always so jam-packed full of events and fun
that it just has to start on Thursday! The weekend
started with Golden Oldies in the Golden State,
which honored our most cherished members.
Friday there was a tour to the famed Winchester
Mystery House with a recognition dinner in the
evening. Always having a little something for everyone, the California convention did not disappoint, with a “Hooray for Hollywood” theme with
great entertainment. Sunday morning was what
everyone anticipated, the awarding of sorority’s
donation to many worthy charities. A dazzling
weekend indeed, from start to finish.
“The Girls’ Weekend Out,” the theme for the Georgia convention, held up to its promise of a good time. The convention was
held in Atlanta and was sponsored by three Councils, those
from DeKalb County, Gwinnet and Atlanta. Starting off
with a comfortable pajama party on Friday, Saturday morning
there was lots of shopping at the ways and means shop and
then a special Sorority Socials forum, which was loaded with
tons of useful ideas for chapter get-togethers, such as “Pizza
Social,” “Italian Pasta Night” and “Dessert Only!” The weekend only got better with a sock-hop Saturday night and a
delicious brunch and the Closing Ritual.
The Texas convention, held in Houston, had a feelgood theme of “Footprints in the Sand.” Friday night
the convention started out with a pool party complete
with yummy snacks and a band, along with lots of fun
games. Saturday morning started with announcements,
door prizes, member highlights and unit dress awards.
After a break each table had a designated member who
was given a bag with items so they could design their own
centerpiece for the Sunday breakfast. Their creativity
knew no bounds! Saturday night dinner was held at a
magnificent aquarium with tropical fish as a backdrop.
All in all, a fabulous weekend from start to finish!
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The Northwest Regional Convention was
held this year in Tigard, Oregon and attended by more than 250 members, including 37
from Canada. Announcing that “We Will Shine
in 09,” the convention did indeed shine with
flourishing friendships and a heady mix of entertainment and good food. Saturday evening,
a company of ballroom dancers entertained,
followed by music from a local orchestra. The
night was full of dancing and singing, in tune
or out, missed steps or not, all in the name of
fun. The weekend ended with a donation to the
recipient of the Oregon State service project,
and farewell to new and longtime friends until
next time.
The Oklahoma State Convention, held in Lawton, was a “Beta Sigma Phi Friendship Cruise.” The
“cruise” departed from New York City on Friday
with lots of shipboard entertainment. After leaving
the Big Apple, it was on to Paris for breakfast where
the members receiving milestones were named and a
great motivational speaker was on hand. The next
port was Mexico where there was served a delicious
buffet dinner with superb Mexican cuisine and even
better Mexican dancers. the whirlwind trip came
to an end when the members arrived back in Oklahoma. With Indian princesses performing the Lord’s
Prayer at Sunday breakfast, this convention will be
fondly remembered.
Thank You, Beta Sigma Phi Members
“We want to express our sincere gratitude for all the many cards received for our mom’s 98th
birthday. There have been 150 cards at last count. These do include those from friends and Betas in
the Abilene area, but a very large percentage have come from Beta chapters all around the country.
In addition to Kansas, fourteen other states are represented in lovely and inspiring cards from Betas
containing beautiful tributes to Mom. It seems that Beta Sigma Phi reflects all that is fine, gracious,
and worthy of praise. We are proud of our mother and very much appreciate the spirit of Beta Sigma
Phi. As you have blessed Mom and us, we in turn send blessings back to you all!”
Thank You So Much!
The Family of Helen Pepper
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The theme of the Arizona convention, held
in Tucson, was “Happy Days.” The hilarious
weekend started with a diner setting, complete
with a 50s jukebox, along with hamburgers
and all the fixings, with an ice cream sundae
bar. As if more was needed, there was also a
skit and a dance contest. Saturday was homecoming - at Walter W. Ross High School,
complete with photo ops with a vintage corvette convertible! Following an afternoon
of Beach Blanket Bingo there was a Saturday night sock hop where everybody doowopped,strolled and lindy-hopped the night
away. Sunday was graduation day, complete
with caps and gowns for those at the head
table. What a celebration!
Michigan hosted their convention in Grand Rapids, with a theme of “Beta Sigma Phi Goes On Holiday.” Mardi Gras was Friday night, a great way to
start off the weekend. there was also an umbrella decorating contest. Such a thrill to behold as everyone
modeled their unique creations. Palm readers were
present for those who wanted to be in the know.
Saturday morning there were several interesting
forums to choose from, followed by a St. Patrick’s
day luncheon. Saturday night it was New year’s Eve,
as everyone dressed in their finest and toasted with
champagne. The weekend ended Sunday with a perfect salute to the Beta Sigma Phi attributes.
The Ohio convention, held in the city of Cleveland, was quite a show!
With a theme of “Now Playing” the weekend promised to be a fun one,
showcasing both old and new musicals we all have come to love. With a
ways and means room that was christened the “Little Shop of Horrors,”
everyone knew they were in for a great ride. “South Pacific” was the
theme for Saturday afternoon, followed by “Flower Drum Song” for
Saturday night which featured Japanese dancers, who fascinated the
crowd by displaying the proper method of assembling a kimono, using
approximately 100 pieces! Sunday was “Wicked” which included a brilliant farewell, that is, until next year!
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Dental Day
Mission of Mercy
– Virginia Eta Lambda, Emporia
Shakepeare wrote, “There was
never a philosopher that could endure the toothache patiently.”
And all of us will agree with the bard that
toothaches are indeed, the pits.
But big thanks go to Virgina Eta Lambda,
Emporia for getting to the root of the problem. The chapter tirelessly advocates for
their community and recently helped make
pain-free mouths a reality to many underserved local residents. The chapter provided breakfast, lunch and all day snacks to
224 dentists, hygienists and dental assistants, as well as local dental students.
The event was the Mission of Mercy project. “It was our service project to help with this when they came to our area
to provide this service,” says Eta Lambda member Janice
Palmer. “For the impoverished or those with jobs but without
dental insurance, dental care is not a priority. The choice
is, do I buy groceries for my kids or get my toothache taken
care of?”
The stage was set for some serious dental work. At the local
high school gym, giant blue tarps were taped to the floor
of the basketball court and 54 dental stations were set up
with portable dental units. Ten of those were for hygienists, the others for dentists. The night before many patients
were pre-registered and screened so they were ready to
be treated early that morning. Other patients lined up for a
first-come, first-serve basis with lines reaching around the
corner of the school.
Many patients arrived as early as 5:30 am to be assured
they would be seen. Unfortunately, some people were
turned away after 4:30 pm in order for treatments to be
completed by 6:30 pm.
“It was a long day for everyone, but all patients and volunteers alike left that evening smiling,” says Janice. “Some
patients commented that it certainly felt good not to have
any more pain in their mouths!”
“With tight household budgets and an uncertain economy
more people are thinking of dentistry as a luxury they have
to do without until a tooth starts throbbing in the night or
bacteria from a cavity infects the throat.This free clinic is for
anyone who needs the service.”
All members of Eta Lambda worked shifts throughout the
day to serve food and beverages to the volunteers who
gave their entire Saturday to help the needy. Over 500 patients were treated. The Mission of Mercy was the latest in
mass dental missions for the Virginia Dental Association
and affiliates.
One of Eta Lambda’s members works for her husband’s
dental office in Emporia. She reports that her chapter was
asked to volunteer because they have always been known
for organizing and following through with local civic and
charitable endeavors---they get the job done! Sounds like
Beta Sigma Phi through and through!
“An event like this does not just happen overnight. There
is a lot of planning, it takes a lot of people, it takes money,
donations, it takes a community - and we love our community! This huge project was so successful that the event
has already been scheduled again, and Beta Sigma Phi has
already agreed to help again!” exclaims Janice.
Another Beta Sigma Phi chapter making a big difference in
their community. Thanks, Eta Lambda, for helping put smiles
on the faces of many.
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Sisters of Western Australia Preceptor Alpha, Perth
have recently completed a joint project of designing
and making a friendship quilt. It was presented to a
sister who has encountered more than her fair share of
illness. The quilt was made up of fourteen individual
heart shapes each designed and made by the fourteen
members in the chapter.
Barbara and two of her sisters from Western
Australia Preceptor Alpha, Perth
“Barbara is very special to us. She is one of three
sisters from the same family in the same chapter,” says
Western Australia Preceptor Alpha, Perth member
Deidre Edwards.
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Indiana Laureate Beta Kappa, Portage recently held
their annual luncheon which included a craft demonstration and a basket sale. The chapter ways and means
donations go to charities such as The Caring Place,
men’s & women’s shelters and the American Cancer
Society.
The Albuquerque, New Mexico City Council recently
honored a local news anchor by naming her an International Honorary Member, for her community awareness
regarding Beta Sigma Phi. The anchorwoman, Nicole
Brady, interviewed many members for the news program with which she is affiliated. “Nicole’s support of
Beta Sigma Phi in Albuquerque has brought awareness
of our sorority to New Mexico and we are proud to
have her as an honorary member,” says Sandy Hunter
of New Mexico Preceptor Alpha Iota, Albuquerque.
Idaho Pi Master, Coeur d’ Alene honored 50 year
members of Beta Sigma Phi with a brunch in 1998
and recently held one that celebrated newly minted 60
year members. “This is a productive group of great
ladies who celebrate service and community spirit as
members of Beta Sigma Phi,” says Pi Master member
Gweneth Cadwell.
South Carolina Preceptor Alpha Iota, Columbia
entertained their neighbors, South Carolina Xi Beta
Kappa, Columbia with an afternoon of food, fun and
games. “ We met at a local restaurant and ate peanuts,
played charades and had a wonderful seafood lunch.
We were all sharing stories and ended the wonderful
time with a delicious cake. As members left, they said
they hadn’t had this much fun being entertained in a
long time,” write Preceptor Alpha Iota members.
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Members of Idaho Pi Master, Coeur d’ Alene
Members of Louisiana Iota Epsilon, Baton Rouge
traveled to the Passionate Platter in Slidell, Louisiana
for a “Garden to Table” experience. The chef/owner
hosted a spectacular day full of gardening information
and a tour. After refreshing beverages, members sat
back to enjoy watching her prepare a delicious lunch of
salad’s and tarts made with herbs fresh from the garden.
It was a delightful day!
Members of Louisiana Iota Epsilon, Baton Rouge
Members of Michigan Alpha Epsilon Master, Saginaw knit squares which are made into afghans, with
48 squares needed to make one afghan. They are then
placed in police cars, fire trucks, rescue missions and
hospitals for those in need. Their aim is to “Keep
America Warm.”
The Oshawa, Ontario Area Council hosted an annual
regional luncheon for members from the 14 chapters
within the Toronto area and southwestern Ontario. The
event consisted of networking, forums, a luncheon and
a guest speaker. The full crowd of sorority members
were fascinated by the guest speaker who was an expert
on their area.
Indiana Xi Delta Epsilon, Kendallville is always very
busy in the fall. For one of their service projects, at an
October meeting, each member made a scarecrow to
be taken to the area nursing homes for the patients to
enjoy. In November they hosted a really super shower... for cats and dogs. Each lady brought dog food or
cat food, cat litter, and newspapers for the local animal
shelter.
Colorado Laureate Omicron, Sterling recently donated $250 each to many local charities including a ministry and help for those who have been abused. They
present a large fundraiser which is the Annual Tour of
Homes in December every year to raise the funds for
several service projects in their community. Last year
they raised more than $2,500.
Ten members of Florida Preceptor Delta Iota,
Brooksville visited fellow member Beverly Lewis in
Las Vegas, Nevada. Beverly and her husband, Vinel,
travel in their motor home and reside part-time out
west. A chapter meeting was held at a local resort,with
guests from Nevada Preceptor Alpha Alpha, Las Vegas, joining the Florida sorority members for an extra
special meeting.
Kathleen Stride-Ager (front-row center) member of England Preceptor Eta, Northwood at a party
given in her honor at a local club.
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Fall Chapter
California Preceptor Xi Eta, Lake Isabella
T
he members of California
Preceptor Xi Eta, Lake Isabella live in various areas
around the picturesque lake in
Southern California at a 3,000 feet
elevation. “The Kern River feeds
the lake and our combined towns
around the lake are referred to
the Kern River Valley. We have two
chapters in our small valley,” says
Xi Eta member Christine Horwath.
“Most of our members have been
together for a long time and in
recent years decided to actively
do some rushing. The newer members feel lucky to have found such
a nice group of woman and I think
we are happily surprised as to how
well the new personalities have fit
right in,” says Christine.
California Preceptor Xi Eta, Lake Isabella
The group could not wait to return after a summer break. They started right in talking about their
most cherished service project, which is supporting the Kern River Valley Sheriff’s Activities League
(SAL) for Teens at Risk. To raise money for this and
other causes, every year the chapter holds a
large yard sale. They have also instituted a 50/50
raffle at each sorority meeting and recently had
A social outing to a local Greek festival
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their first fashion show. The show was a huge
success and the chapter was immediately asked
to hold it again next year, to which they eagerly
answered in the affirmative. “We use local retailers to show their line of clothing and use sorority
members as well as young ladies enrolled in the
SAL program as our models. We hold it at our local
Elks Club who put together a great dinner for us
all,” says Christine.
The chapter also works closely with aging adult
services, the American Cancer Society, the Fish
and Game Habitat club, participates
in a Heart Walk for the local area
hospital, provide scholarships for for
senior girls, and walks in the Relay for
Life.
As busy as they are giving back to
the community, it would be understandable if they did not make time
for fun, but after all, this is Beta Sigma
Phi! One of their exciting outings
was to a Greek Food Festival held in
the nearby city of Bakersfield. “We
sampled Greek cuisine and enjoyed
the music and dancing. We also
enjoyed a outdoor meeting, illuminated by candles. The meeting was
followed by a surprise “Comedy Roast”
Spotlight
Heart Walk – The Xi Eta sisters take a walk for
a good cause.
Carol Putman taking tickets at the door for the
fashion show.
for a member who had recently had her big SIX-O
birthday!” exclaims Christine.
The chapter also traveled to attend a Festival of
Roses in Wasco, California. The event is held every
year the weekend after Labor Day. The chapter
was treated to a lengthy tour through several rose
fields. There were rows and rows of every type of
rose imaginable, particularly their favorite – the
yellow rose. It is documented that more than onehalf of the roses in the United States come from
Wasco and the surrounding area.
According to Christine, one recent meeting in
particular stands out in a special way. “I was really
touched when we all made sisterhood sundaes.
Each topping represents a member with her own
personality and special ingredient to our own
group and it showed how each member is needed to complete the sisterhood sundae. As the
newest member it was my job to put the cherry
on top and complete our sundae. I felt very honored.”
The chapter’s 600th meeting was a sight to behold! They all wore mismatched clothes leftover
from the yard sale. Other memorable chapter
outings include a Halloween costume party at
a local pizza place where members also raised
money for a local charity, and a morning of bad
bowling and good fellowship. Preceptor Xi Eta
also has traditions with their sister sorority California
Laureate Iota Omega, Lake Isabella. Every year
they have a wonderful sweetheart luncheon. Last
years theme was “Denim and Diamonds” where
they taught line dancing lessons to Laureate Iota
Omega sisters.
“To keep in tune with this years theme of “Share
Our Passport to Adventure” our chapter members are all doing their programs on someplace we have been
or would like to go. It is really fun to
hear about all these different places
and we are all learning a lot,” says
Christine.
“Kudos to all the ladies in our group
for doing their best to make our sorority so successful and such an honor to
belong to, from the executive board
to all the committees. It takes all of us
working together and having a great
At a fundraising event of the sisters of preceptor Xi Eta. Many time along the way.”
local causes benefit from the chapter’s service projects.
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Share Our Passport to
T
his year our Beta Sigma Phi theme is
“Share Our Passport to Adventure,”
and it has already become a favorite.
We would like to acknowledge the two creative members who came up with this idea,
Sandra McMillen of Texas Xi Rho, Duncanville and Sheila Miller of Nebraska
Preceptor Beta Epsilon, Gering. These
two super sisters have no idea the fun that
will occur as the result of this imaginative
theme. As you can tell, we are all very excited
about this year’s choice, and we can’t wait to
hear from more of our sisters letting us know
how they used this theme. There are so many
images that can be connected with passport
or adventure or sharing. Read about our
chapters who are already implementing the
theme in fun and creative ways.
On a ship carrying almost 2,000 passengers, seven
Beta Sigma Phis from all over Canada and the USA
got together and celebrated the theme of “Share Our
Passport to Adventure”! All held passports having
just transited the Panama Canal with port stops in
Central America.
Six sorority sisters from four different chapters, Pennsylvania Xi Eta Eta, Greensburg, Virginia Xi Zeta Lambda, Fairfax,
Kentucky Laureate Epsilon, Lexington
and Kentucky Laureate Beta, Lexington
used their passports on an Eastern Caribbean cruise adventure aboard the Norwegian
Dawn. Two of the sisters met the out-of-state
sisters on a Beta Sigma Phi cruise several
years ago and have enjoyed several cruises
and conventions together.
The group shopped at a local mall, where they met for
lunch, and then after a long day ate dinner together
at a quaint restaurant. “We always have a good
time,” writes Preceptor Beta Pi member Priscilla Wyman. “The bonds of sisterhood transcend distance!”
New York Preceptor Beta Pi, Clifton
Park (above) annually visits a former sister,
Joann Maher of Massachusetts Xi Omicron, Norfolk, for a weekend of early holiday shopping, dining out and overnight where
they celebate the new theme and have a good
time shopping and reminiscing.
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Members of Indiana Preceptor Gamma
Iota, Fort Wayne will be embracing our
new exciting theme that conjures up all sorts
of thoughts of traveling to distant reaches.
Members started their implementation of the
new theme by drawing their newest Secret
Sisters. Passports were placed on a world
map under a world globe. Each member
drew a passport which showed the information and picture of their new secret sister.
The chapter year will consist of several destinations. Members will be giving programs on
places such as Ireland, Mexico and England.
Adventure
Sharing our Passport to
Adventure Program!
The Beta Sigma Phi Rushing/Membership has available a fabulous new program for members to start
off the year by sharing our passport to adventure.
This program is designed to accomplish better
chapter participation for a city wide rush, or in
whatever ingenious way our sisters can imagine.
Indiana Preceptor Gamma Iota, Fort Wayne
At each destination, (or meeting) the hostess will be providing food from her locale as
well as a program giving facts and information about the city, state or country.
“We looked forward to starting our travels
at our Beginning Day party in August when
we visited Mexico. We can’t wait to continue
our travels this year. It should prove to be
a fun, informative and exciting year,” writes
member Ann Squires.
Speaking of Secret Sisters, how about a
groovy tune to sing to go along with the
loving practice. And just when you thought
we didn’t have a song for everything, we
received this ditty from sister Doreen Gray
of Ontario Laureate Alpha Eta, Belleville. It is sung to the tune of “You are
My Sunshine.” Enjoy.
You are my sister, my secret sister.
It makes me happy to honor you,
on birthdays, Christmas and anniversaries,
and sending cards the whole year through.
When we’re together, it’s fun to fool you,
with a surprise gift now and then
And when it’s over, in the summer,
we pick a new one and start again.
The booklet provided by the Rushing/Membership
Department is a guide to show what sisters can
include in making their own chapter passports.
Chapters take the example and personalize it by
making their own covers & inside pages on their
computers. Books can be individualized by printing
chapter names, chapter numbers, member names
and even chapter traditions. Various page possibilities could include dates for the chapter meetings,
socials, ways & means, service projects, and City
Council meetings.The really fun part is the usage
of stamps/stickers each time a member attends a
function. The chapter hostess determines their own
stamps/stickers for their hosting dates or events. It
will be fun to see what each hostess chooses and
to see the passport fill up with stamps/
stickers!
The chapter should have
a predetermined year
end gift for the
member with the
best participation indicated by
the most stamps/
stickers in her
passport. A gift
certificate to a
popular restaurant
is always an easy
and welcoming gift.
Please call the Rushing/Membership
Department at International for a copy
of this program. Happy Adventures!
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Caring for Their Communities
Sigma Phi Sisters work to improve lives in
Caring for Beta
variety of caring and productive ways. Read
Caring for aabout
how some of our chapters get involved
Caring for to better their communities.
Ontario Kappa Master, Guelph members
held a very excellent garage sale, which satisfied many customers, making one person’s trash
others take-home treasures! The chapter members have been together many years with many
Golden Circle members and a sister who has
been in 60 years. “We are supporting the charity “Sleeping Children Around the World,” says
Kappa Master member Marian Jordan.“Sleeping
Children Around the World” donations provide
bed kits to children of any race and/or religion
who will benefit the most, usually those located
in underdeveloped and developing countries.
Illinois Beta Nu, Carmi members have been
really busy at work doing good deeds. Although the chapter was formerly only six members strong, that has never stopped this earnest
group from accomplishing great goals. The
town’s Corn Days festival hosts a baby contest
where babies from infants to seven years old
compete for the crowns. Collection cans representing each child are placed in local businesses with a penny equaling one vote. The little
princes and princesses are announced after a
nail-biting deliberation, and awarded luxurious gift bags with goods collected by the chapter. “The Corn Day royalty was then escorted
through town on a float decorated by our chapter,” writes Beta Nu member Laurissa Mallette.
“Thank to our group’s hard work and dedication we were able to raise more than $2,000
this year.” The chapter also does many other
projects both large and small. “We are looking
forward to continued success and are very excited about giving back to the community this
year. We are also very excited to be
welcoming six new members into
Beta Nu. With our added members,
we will no longer be small, but we
will definitely be mightier!”
The chic sisters of New York Xi
Master, Rocky Point recently hosted their fashion show, which was another spectacular success. Proceeds
went to benefit Hope House, an organization the chapter has been
supporting for more than 25 years.
Hope House is a charitable associaIllinois Beta Nu, Carmi members (l-r) Jennifer Cobb
and Sarah Haley work on collection cans for the baby contest. tion that helps people with developmental disabilities.
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Another Ontario chapter, Laureate
Epsilon of Brantford, had a beneficial
aerobic exercise outing, all for a good
cause. The chapter participated in the
annual “Hike for Hospice,” in support
of a local hospital’s hospice facility.
“We raised an amount of $1,500 for the
palliative care program at the hospital,
and as a memorial tribute to our sorority sister Faith Battigelli,” writes Laureate Epsilon member Villa Waud.
(Faith passed away in 2007.)
The weather was chilly, fit for a polar bear. Thus the aptly titled “Polar Plunge,” which nine members of
Virginia Preceptor Beta, Hopewell A model’s life is hard! The stylin’ members of New York Xi
jumped into with gusto. The big plungeMaster, Rocky Point at work.
was to benefit the Special Olympics
gram for children. All local children are eligiof Virginia, and the chapter raised a hot number ble for the program, which serves free summer
with their pledges, totaling close to $2,000!
meals to children ages one – 18. The chapter
Sorority sisters of Idaho Zeta, Boise are making a difference with giving back to their community. Their latest effort involved selling baked
goods at a busy flea market, which attracts customers from many counties. Their goal was to
raise funds for the “Picnic in the Park” food pro-
was also excited to host a visitor from Kansas
Preceptor Beta Xi, Wichita – Bingo Mama. For
more information on Bingo Mama, go to our
newly revamped website at
www.betasigmaphi.org.
Our Scottish sisters of Scotland Laureate Epsilon, Glasgow held a fund-raising event called the “Prohibition Ball.” Idaho Zeta, Boise members at their
The evening raised $3,000 to benefit the work of local can- flea market bake sale.
cer nurses and research on Alzheimer’s Disease.
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Members of Ontario Laureate
Epsilon, Brantford get ready to
take a hike.
Virginia Preceptor Beta, Hopewell members - just chillin’ in the name of charity.
For the fourth consecutive year, British Columbia Xi Epsilon Xi, Winfield members are involved with the
international recreational vehicle
convention, an event that attracts
thousands of RV owners. The chapter raised substantial funds by selling
homemade muffins and other goodies to the hungry motorists. Monies
raised will benefit the neonatal unit
at an area hospital.
It is all about luck, at least at New York Preceptor Kappa,
Syracruse’s Lucky Number brunch. The chapter sells tickets,
with many exquisite prizes being donated by local businesses.
Guests opt for various prizes by placing purchased numbers
in containers attached to each item. And then the lucky numbers win! What a great idea for any chapter to implement.“With
$4,000 raised, a gift of $3,000 was presented to Lion’s Day Camp
Hickory, a day camp for children with Type I diabetes,” says
member Jean Smith. “The remaining funds will be distributed
to other charities.” Shown here is Preceptor Kappa member
Dee Liptak presenting check to the president of the day camp.
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International Award of Distinction
Meet one of the newest recipients of the International Award of Distinction
(IAD), the highest honor that Beta Sigma Phi bestows on active members.
Mary has shown her enthusiasm for all things Beta Sigma Phi.
Mary “Tommie” Doxey
Virginia Alpha Lambda Master, Newport News
Member since 1970
“Tommie
is one of
those special women. You
can count
on her to
step up and volunteer to do a job, it doesn’t matter if it is difficult or not. She makes it look easy
and does a wonderful job. She is a loving, caring
person who exemplifies Beta Sigma Phi. Tommie
is admired by her sisters and they look forward to
working with her,” implores Dorotha Wynell Clark
member of Virginia Alpha Kappa Master, Newport News.
Tea, Founder’s Day and helped with the council’s
Legacy Tea. She has been co-chair for the Virginia
state convention and has been an adviser for a new
Ritual of Jewels chapter.
In her spare time, Tommie opens her home for
Beginning Day, Revealing Day, our Christmas
social, gift wrapping door prizes and for whatever
else may be needed. She provides transportation to
meetings for those sisters who have problems with
night driving.
Tommie is the personification of what a true Beta
Sigma Phi sister should be. She has a heart of
gold and is always ready to help a sister in need.
She exemplifies the true meaning of “the Good,
“The members of Virginia Alpha Lambda Masthe True and the Beautiful”. She has mentored so
ter, Newport News would like to introduce their
many of us. She gives the best of herself to her
sister, Mary Powell Doxey, affectionately known as family, her council, her chapter and her friends.
“Tommie”.
“Tommie’s years of dedicated service are only part
Tommie is a very active lady. She has held all
of why she is deserving of this honor. The love of
chapter offices; chaired all committees; been AlBeta Sigma Phi she so obviously has is exuded in
pha Lambda Master chapter’s Woman of the
all she does and she strives to share that love and
year; Valentine Queen; and council representative, enthusiasm with every sister she encounters, young
a position she still holds. Tommie loyally serves
and old,” attests Teresa Crowson member of Virthe Peninsula City Council and has served in the
ginia Xi Delta Upsilon, Hampton.
past as its president; been Council Woman of the
Year; chaired the Valentine Dance, the Preferential
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International Award of Distinction
Meet one of the newest recipients of the International Award of Distinction
(IAD), the highest honor that Beta Sigma Phi bestows on active members.
Barbara has shown her enthusiasm for all things Beta Sigma Phi.
Barbara May Brock
“Tennessee
Preceptor
Alpha Pi,
Manchester
feels that
Barbara
is deserving of this
honor, as she became an involved member from
the first meeting she attended. Right away, she was
a wealth of ideas and information from her many
years in sorority. She stepped right in and excited
us with her enthusiasm, and wowed us with the
time she devoted to us.”
Prior to moving to Tennessee, Barbara was active
in chapters in both Indiana and Florida.
Barbara has done many ways and means projects.
She worked in the pizza booth, the fish fry booth
and the corn booth at the county fair in Indiana.
She went door-to-door in Warsaw, Indiana, asking
for contributions for her chapter to buy dialysis
machines. She was chairman of the “Fair Queen”
committee in Indiana and made “silk fudge” four
years in a row in Florida, in which she and her
chapter made 1,200 pounds the last year of this
particular ways and means project.
The above mentioned projects paid for the following service projects: two dialysis machines in Warsaw, Indiana. Her Indiana chapter paid for seven
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Tennessee Preceptor Alpha Pi, Manchester
Member since 1966
buses and a van for Cardinal Learning Center, and
bought hearing aids for children. They also provided for “Bowling for Kids” in Florida. As Council president she planned and supervised the delivery of a huge truck load of supplies to Homestead,
Florida less than a week after Hurricane Andrew.
She has attended approximately 31 state conventions, participated in Florida State Conventions
for “Woman of the Year” and was first runner-up
in 1993. She rode in the Cattlemen’s Parade in
Florida representing Beta Sigma Phi in 1990 and
1991. She used a huge banner with Beta Sigma Phi
International on the Cattleman’s Parade float and
truck carrying supplies to Hurricane Andrew Beta
Sigma Phi sisters. Barbara was Valentine Queen in
1990 and 2006.
Barbara has also participated in Friendly Venturing, she rushed 10-12 members in Indiana. She
has sponsored two Legacy members. She Friendly
Ventured a Master chapter in Port St. Lucie, Florida. Barbara assisted Tennessee Preceptor Alpha
Pi in friendly venturing Iota Phi. She is currently
at work to form a Friendly Venture in Tracy City
and Monteagle, Tennessee.
“Barbara has been an active member of her chapter
as well as our area Council since she moved here
several years ago. She can always be depended on
to go above and beyond,” writes Frances J Bland of
Tennessee Laureate Alpha Iota, Murfreesboro.
International Award of Distinction
Meet one of the newest recipients of the International Award of Distinction
(IAD), the highest honor that Beta Sigma Phi bestows on active members.
Linda has shown her enthusiasm for all things Beta Sigma Phi.
Linda Jacqueline Sobley
Mississippi Gamma Master, Columbus
Member since 1973
“Linda
definitely is
a sister of
distinction!
She shows
her class and grace in everything she does. The
way she talks, the way she dresses, and the way
she treats her other sisters is always first class. She
also knows how to have fun! Any time she has
served on city council and any of us has had an opportunity to serve with her, it was always a wonderful experience. She is a great leader and our
chapter has always admired the fine person that she
is,” expresses Yvonne Barron member of Mississippi Epsilon Zeta, Columbus.
“Linda Sobley has been a dedicated hard working Beta Sigma Phi for many years, bringing her
ability and talents that have brought numerous
honors and awards to her chapters and to the city
of Columbus, Mississippi. Her outstanding poise,
patience and personality as a true Beta Sigma Phi,
brings skill and grace to her leadership and this
caring sisterhood.
knows her book of Beta Sigma Phi and the Greek
Alphabet. If there was a college degree of Beta
Sigma Phi, Linda would certainly have that Diploma. Linda is a Beta Sigma Phi “Star” that shines
bright and a Jewel among her sisters and family.
That jewel is a “Diamond”!
Linda has been affiliated with the following
chapters since her initiation: Mississippi Beta
Lambda, Columbus; Mississippi Xi Alpha Epsilon, Columbus; Mississippi Preceptor Gamma,
Columbus; Mississippi Laureate Gamma, Columbus; Mississippi Gamma Master, Columbus.
Linda participated in the hosting of conventions
in Columbus. In 1988 she chaired “Columbus
is Great in ‘88”, she co-chaired “Hats Off to Columbus” in 1995, in 2000 she was the chair of the
Saturday Night Event for “Mirror the Millennium”,
and in 2005 she was Awards chairman for “Girls
Raised in the South”.
“Linda Sobley is dedicated to the ideals of Beta
Sigma Phi, and she exemplifies these qualities
in everything she does. Over the years, she has
Linda is always the one that is eager to step up to
proven herself to be both a leader among us and a
the plate to get things done in a timely manner with most compassionate friend and sister. She is truly
confidence, respect and support from her sisters.
deserving of this honor!” exclaims Mary D Brown
Linda also takes time to attend special events for
member of Mississippi Xi Lambda, Columbus.
sisters in happiness, sickness and in death. Linda
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International Award of Distinction
Meet one of the newest recipients of the International Award of Distinction
(IAD), the highest honor that Beta Sigma Phi bestows on active members.
Barbara has shown her enthusiasm for all things Beta Sigma Phi.
Barbara Jean Wong
California Preceptor Mu, San Francisco
Member since 1969
member of Beta Sigma Phi. Currently, she is an
active member of California Preceptor Mu, San
Francisco. She is currently eligible for her Master
degree in her chapter.
“Barbara Jean truly exemplifies the spirit of what
Beta Sigma Phi means. Not only is she a sister
to all, but a wealth of knowledge and enthusiasm.
Barbara Jean, in my opinion, is the reason that
there are still chapters in San Francisco. She is
constantly recruiting new members and introducing them to the sorority life. She is always cheerful and rarely says no to anyone! She is constantly
volunteering and working on chapter, City Council
and Area Council events,” writes Darolyn Gin
president of the San Francisco, California City
Council and member of California Preceptor
Mu, San Francisco.
She continues to this day serving actively in her
chapter, in San Francisco City Council, and is
even serving currently on the 2008-2009 Camino
Real, California Council’s executive board member as treasurer. In fact, she served nine times from
1989 to 2008 either as an elected officer or appointed officer on the Camino Real City Council.
Barbara Jean also served four times as an executive
board member when she served on the Camino
Real City Council in 1985, 1993, 2001, and the
current sorority year of 2008 to 2009, when they
hosted for the California State Convention for Beta
Sigma Phi.
“We the sorority sisters of California, San FranBJ progressed into a Preceptor chapter in San Fran- cisco, California City Council that includes all
cisco, she received her Preceptor degree in Septem- members in Preceptor Mu and Laureate Rho,
ber of 1991 and joined California Preceptor Mu, concur that Barbara Jean Wong has given the total
commitment and dedicated her life to Beta Sigma
San Francisco.
Phi and we believe that she should be given this
In addition, BJ received her Laureate Degree, at the special International Award of Distinction and we
San Fransisco City Council Ritual Event Day held hope that International will approve and give her
this International Award of Distinction.”
in 2000. She is a Life member and a Silver Circle
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International Award of Distinction
Meet one of the newest recipients of the International Award of Distinction
(IAD), the highest honor that Beta Sigma Phi bestows on active members.
Inez has shown her enthusiasm for all things Beta Sigma Phi.
Inez M. Wilson
“The ten
chapters of
San Jose,
California Area
Council
are in
unanimous
agreement that
Inez truly represents Beta Sigma Phi in every overt
quality and more than that in heartfelt, generous and selfless qualities. If there is a member in
distress, she will respond. If there is a chapter that
needs advice, she will listen first and then assist in
a solution. If there is a need for words to express
an event; there is no one who can use words with
such love, clarity and charm.”
California Alpha Omega Master, San Jose
Member since 1960
Wilson,” attests Donna Roberson member of both
San Jose, California Area Council and California
Alpha Omega Master, San Jose.
Chapters Inez has affiliated with since initiation are
California Beta Beta, Burbank, California Xi
Gamma Delta, North Hollywood, California Xi
Rho Mu, San Jose, California Preceptor Beta Pi,
San Jose, California Preceptor Alpha Omega,
San Jose, California Laureate Alpha Zeta, San
Jose and California Alpha Omega Master, San
Jose.
Inez was chairmen to two Northern California
Council branches and co-chairman to another.
Profits to all three were considerable. In 1999,
Inez hosted the first Legacy Tea which is still continued in the San Jose Area Council today. In 1983
Inez joined Beta Sigma Phi in Southern California, she spearheaded the move to bring the Bay Area
became a single mother and had to take a leave
Lupus Foundation as a service project for all Califrom the chapter. But then she met her current hus- fornia state chapters.
band, moved to Northern California and with his
encouragement became an active member in our
“Inez has been an active member of the San Jose
fortunate council.
Area Council, serving in all offices, committees
and functions. She is such a willing assistant to
“Many may create large projects, complete huge
a member who is taking on a project for the first
tasks or be recognized for an outstanding accomtime. She knows how to guide without being the
plishment, but few are individuals that support the director, thus many have gone on to bigger posibest in life by just being who they are; in thought,
tions because of her mentoring.”
word and deed and still do the rest. That is Inez
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Silver Heart Necklace.
Yellow Sister Mugs
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15oz. Yellow with greek
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Silver chain and heart
pendant engraved with
“Chance made us friends
BSF Made us Sisters”
No.178 [.3oz]. . . .$10.00
Rose Tray. 8”x12” glass plate engraved with
a rose and Beta Sigma Phi scripting.
No.249 [80oz]. . . $28.00
Lamp Pin. Gold plated
convention lamp pin.
No. 805 [.1oz]. . $4.00
Sunglass Clip.Clips to
your visor and holds your sunglasses safely within reach.
No.1490 [1oz]. . . .$4.00
Barrel Can Koozie.
This metallic blue insulated koozie features our
Greek letters and a rose
with heart in white.
No.171 [4oz] $2.50
Superstar Pin. This gold
plated superstar pin is a perfect
gift for the sister who goes
above and beyond.
No. 806 [.1oz]......$5.00
Zippy Letter Opener.
Black letter opener with
magnetic back features yellow
rose and “Beta Sigma Phi”
No.1434 [.7oz].....$2.50
License Plate Frame. Fits around standard license
plate. Frame has gold Greek letters on black background,
and bottom has “Got Friends?”
No.1220 [2oz].....$4.00
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Refrigerator magnet.
Same design as the decorative rose trivet. Add this
yellow rose BSP magnet to
your refrigerator door.
No.1902 [2oz] $4.50
Ritual Votive
Candleholders
Approved by the International Executive Council
for use with Rituals, this
six-cup glass candleholder
represents the Ritual of
Jewels colors. Candles not
included. Do not wash, use
tea light candles.
No.603 [33oz].....$17.00
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Beta Sigma Phi Memories
By: Mary Jane Love Pool
Texas Xi Omicron Omicron, Kerrville
A wife of two years and a mother of a
daughter, I was a new resident of Sinton,
Texas, my husband’s hometown, where
we settled when he was discharged
from the service in 1956. My hometown,
Beeville, was thirty miles north, and while
we had dated for three years, I made
many friends in Sinton. Several of these
young women were forming a new chapter
sponsored by the Refugio chapter, and
they persuaded me to join them and become a charter member. Our new chapter struggled to find new pledges in that
small town, and finally three years later,
we numbered sixteen. By then I had two
daughters, and collectively we had about
twenty children.
My favorite memory occurred at a meeting. A sister gave us the good news that
she was pregnant. Then someone else
said she also was pregnant. Then another
and another and another, and so on. Astonished, we began to laugh and laugh
happily; until in disbelief we counted and
realized that half of us, eight of sixteen,
were expecting. We felt extremely close,
like sisters.
I was an “another” and soon the mother
of three daughters. One of my daughters
later joined that same Refugio chapter.
Now both of us belong to Xi Omicron Omicron in Kerrville.