Girls Gone Wild: How the Media is Destroying the Identity of Girls and Women Liz Gordon, M.Ed. Equity and Inclusion Chair, Ohio College Personnel Association First Year Adviser, Miami University Why This Topic? Underlying themes: women’s relationships with each other, over-sexualization as a form of bullying, and digestion of media information Increase in behavioral violations at the collegiate level The female prison population grew by 832% from 1977 to 2007. The male prison population grew 416% during the same time period. Source: National Prisoner Statistical Data Series conducted by the Bureau of Justice Statistics and West, Heather C. and William J. Sabol. Prisoners in 2007. Bureau of Justice Statistics: December 2008. Women and the Media Magazines Marketing Movies Television, especially reality television Gender stereotype clip Mean Girls What does this word mean to you? Can you remember the bullies from your childhood? From college? Now? Mean Girls Film Clip Miss Representation What are the larger ramifications for the representation of women in the media? Extended TrailerClip What does it mean to be a “Mean Girl”? Clip Thoughts on our bullies and mean girls? Female Aggression Rachel Simmons Simmons, R. (2002) Odd girl out: the hidden culture of aggression in girls. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Relational Aggression Acts that harm others through damage (or the threat of damage) to relationships or feelings of acceptance, friendship, or group inclusion R. Simmons, Odd Girl Out Indirect Aggression Allows the perpetrator to avoid confronting her target. It is her covert behavior in which the perpetrator makes it seems as though there has been no intent to hurt at all. R. Simmons, Odd Girl Out Social Aggression Intended to damage self-esteem or social status within a group It includes some indirect aggression like rumor spreading of social exclusion R. Simmons, Odd Girl Out Bullying in college Removal of friendship The silent treatment Gossip Threats of physical violence Violence Artificial identity development Women’s Moral Development Carol Gilligan Gilligan, C. (1982). In a different voice: Psychological theory and women's development. Harvard University Press: Cambridge. Level I: Orientation to Individual Survival The individual is self-centered and preoccupied with survival Relationships do not meet expectations Student Development in College Ramifications for Student Affairs Students are quick to release relationships as if they never occurred Students justify the non-violent abuse of friends based on the lack of investment in the relationship Students justify the ending of relationships back home due to an unwillingness for current friends to relate to their new lifestyle First Transition: From Selfishness to Responsibility The individual integrates responsibility and care into her repertoire of moral decision-making patterns. Individuals consider doing the right thing Student Development in College Level II: Goodness as SelfSacrifice Survival becomes social acceptance An individual may give up her own judgment in order to achieve consensus and remain in connection with others Student Development in College Ramifications for Student Affairs The tale of one drink gone bad Superficial relationship development Second Transition: From Goodness to Truth Individual questions why she continues to put others first at her own expense Views examination of her needs as truth, not selfishness Student Development in College Level III: The Morality of Nonviolence The dichotomization of selfishness and responsibility disappear Odd Girl Out Ramifications for Student Affairs Women begin to stand up for one another at the risk of losing other relationships Proud moments! Mean Girl to Adult Bully How does childhood bullying and mean girl behavior in high school translate to different behaviors in college? What images are projected into the media? Female Chauvinist Pigs Ariel Levy Levy, A. Female chauvinist pigs: women and the rise of raunch culture (2005). Free Press. Female Chauvinist Pigs “What was going on? My mother, a shiatsu masseuse who attended weekly women's consciousness-raising groups for twenty-four years, didn't own makeup. My father, whom she met as a student radical at the University of Wisconsin, Madison, in the sixties was a consultant for Planned Parenthood, NARAL, and NOW. Only thirty years (my lifetime) ago, our mothers were "burning their bras" and picketing Playboy, and suddenly we were getting implants and wearing the bunny logo as supposed symbols of our liberation. How had the culture shifted so drastically in such a short period of time? “ -Ariel Levy, Female Chauvinist Pigs Reality Television Clip Source: Google Images Source: Google Images Source: Google Images Race, Gender, and the Media We believe media are crucial in the construction and dissemination of gender ideologies and, thus, in gender socialization. We acknowledge feminism and feminist media studies’ tendency to privilege gender and white women, in particular, over other social categories of experience, such as race and class Source: hooks, 1990; Dines, 1995; Dines & Humez, 2003. Female Chauvinist Pigs One of the implications of young women’s inability to develop meaningful relationships with each other is to in turn develop strong sexual identities that promote the raunch culture of Playboy, Girls Gone Wild, etc… “ If we believed that we were sexy and funny and competent and smart, we would not need to be like strippers or like men or like anyone other than our own specific individual selves”. –Ariel Levy Female Chauvinist Pigs What can we do? Encourage and empower other women Our girls today become our college students tomorrow Remove ourselves from the vicious cycle of the rumor mill Understand theory and apply it to practice Closing “What great gift can we give girls than the ability to speak their truths and honor the truths of their peers? It is my hope that as they, and any woman who has ever been the odd girl out, collect their thoughts to speak their minds, they will whisper to themselves, “What I most regretted were my silences. Of what had I ever been afraid?” –Rachel Simmons Final Questions and Thoughts? Liz Gordon, M.Ed. Twitter: @lizgordon286 gordonea@muohio.edu