The Moment
Reading Group Guide
This reading group guide for The Moment
includes an introduction, discussion questions,
and ideas for enhancing your book club. The
suggested questions are intended to help your
reading group find new and interesting angles
and topics for your discussion. We hope that
these ideas will enrich your conversation and
increase your enjoyment of the book.
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Summary
Thomas Nesbitt is a recently divorced, middle-aged writer who lives a sequestered life in the hills of
Maine. His solitude is disrupted by the arrival of a box postmarked from Berlin. The return address
on the box—Dussmann—is the name of the woman with whom he had an intense love affair in Berlin
during a time when the city was divided and haunted by the shadows of the Cold War. Initially
refusing to confront what he might find in that box, Thomas nevertheless finds himself forced to
grapple with his past, and in the process, relive those months in Berlin when two people found love
and vowed to escape their tragic landscape.
Questions and Topics for Discussion
1. Thomas Nesbitt tells his daughter “the moment…it’s a very overrated place.” Do you agree with
this statement? How does Thomas’s notion of the moment change over the course of the book?
2. Nesbitt concludes that “everyone has a part of themselves they prefer not to reveal.” What part
of himself does he choose not to reveal? If Thomas had opened himself up to Jan, do you think
their relationship would have been different? How do you think the story would have changed if
Petra revealed a certain side of herself to Thomas?
3. Upon his arrival in Berlin, Thomas attends a concert and states, “You only begin to grasp the
importance of an event—and its larger implications vis-à-vis your life—long after it has entered into
that realm marked ‘memory.’” Discuss this quotation in terms of Thomas’s reflections on his time
with Petra. Did Thomas realize what he had only after Petra was gone?
4. How does the time and setting of Thomas and Petra’s love story add to the intensity of their
relationship? Do you think the story would have been as powerful if it did not take place in the
footprint of the Berlin Wall?
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5. Betrayal is a key element in The Moment. How are the main characters betrayed by each other?
By those around them? When does Thomas realize whom he can actually trust?
6. What is superbia? Where and when does it occur in the book and to whom?
7. What were your initial reactions to how quickly Thomas and Petra’s relationship progressed?
Do you think it was doomed to fail from the start? If Bubriski had never gotten involved, would
they still be together?
8. Thomas has been living with the unresolved secret of Petra’s story for almost twenty years.
Why did he never tell anyone about her? How does his secret conflict with Alaistair’s notion that
Thomas needs “to seek resolutions, tidy endings, in situations that are anything but tidy”? When
Thomas finally learns about Petra’s fate does he obtain the “tidy ending” he usually desires? Why
or why not?
9. What does snow symbolize in The Moment? Discuss the various scenes where snow is present,
including at the scene of Thomas’s accident, his crossing back into West Berlin, and his final ride
back to his cabin.
10. Were you surprised that Thomas had to continually convince himself that his love with Petra
was real? Do you agree with his notion “if you write, everything is material. And part of me felt
that, by getting it all down…that, yes I had met the love of my life”?
11. Walter Bubriski informs Thomas that Petra is an agent of the Stasi. How does Bubriski’s news
shred the psychological wall Thomas had built, regarding his love for Petra? Do you think Bubriski
knew Petra’s true back story?
12. Explain what Thomas means when he calls his love for Jan “qualified.” Why did Jan opt to stay
with Thomas even though she knew he loved someone else?
13. The Moment is three stories told from three different perspectives: Thomas’s in the present
day, Thomas’s in the past, and Petra’s. Why do you think the author chose to construct the novel
in such a way? What elements do the varying perspectives add to the storyline?
Enhance Your Book Club
1. Bring some German culture into your next book club meeting. Visit www.ielanguages.com/
German1.html to learn some basic German phrases and find some traditional German recipes, like
kneufla or sauerbraten at germanfood.about.com.
2. Petra had always wanted to visit Paris and finally makes the trip with Robert. Is there any place
you wanted to visit and finally did? Share a favorite travel story with your group and bring photos!
3. The Berlin Wall is a major part of the backdrop in The Moment. Do you remember when the
Berlin Wall came down? Discuss you memories of this significant event in history. For more
information on the Berlin Wall, including its construction, life behind the wall, escape attempts,
and its eventual fall, visit www.newseum.org/berlinwall.
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