Sunday Sunday January 20, 2013 Prevent us, O Lord, in all our doings with thy most gracious favour, and further us with thy continual help; that in all our works, begun, continued and ended in thee, we may glorify thy holy name, and finally by thy mercy obtain everlasting life, through Jesus Christ our Lord Amen. As a newly ordained curate with an evangelical background firmly grounded in extempore prayer, I listened with curiosity to older priests ending meetings with a rapidly recited prayer obviously deeply familiar to them. Perhaps my own familiarity with the BCP was lacking but it was a long time before I discovered where these prayers came from. It has to be said that it would have helped if those using these prayers had spoken more slowly but I quickly became captivated by the phrase ‘in all our works begun, continued and ended in thee’ and began to use it in my www.churchnewspaper.com THE SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR By the Rev Dr Liz Hoare own prayers. The prayer for this week is one of a number provided by Cranmer for occasions when there was no communion and only the first part of the service was used up to and including the offertory. It is one of those 16th century prayers where the meaning of a word has changed significantly and ‘prevent’ needs explaining or changing for those who think God might be being asked to put a blockade in our path to righteousness. Petitioning him to go before us is a very different matter and reminds us that Jesus himself promised his disciples that he has gone on ahead to help us face the final and greatest hurdle of all (Jn 14:2) Even better than this he is at the same time alongside us to help us with his continual help. Another prayer, St Patrick’s Breastplate, describes this all-encompassing nature of God’s embrace in poetic form: ‘Christ be with me, Christ within me, Christ behind me, Christ before me, Christ beside me’ and so on. The phrase that struck such a chord with me is redolent of the communion service, which looks back with sorrow and thank- SUNDAY SUNDAY SERVICE SERVICE Sunday Readings for 27 January 2013 Epiphany 4 - Year C Nehemiah 8:1-3, 5-6, 8-10 1 Corinthians 12:12-31a Luke 4:14-21 The Persian empire defeated the Babylonians and allowed the Jews to return to their homeland, and in 445 BC Nehemiah was permitted to rebuild the walls of Jerusalem, which he accomplished in just 52 days, as part of the restoration of Israel following the long years of exile and slavery. As soon as this was done he set about reconsecrating both the city and its people to God, calling all to gather on the first day of the seventh month, a special day of rest. Israel’s identity was bound up with the Promised Land, and with the holy city, but much more so with the law of Moses, the great treasure which God had given to his people. The rebuilt walls of Jerusalem signified their security after so many years of defeat and destruction, but the surest way to guarantee Israel’s continued favour in the sight of God was for its people to return to live under the law of Moses, for the nation and for all its people to abide in all things according to the word of God. Ezra the priest and the Levites are present, both to read the law of God to the people and to explain it, so that everyone understands. It is a national act of worship, and a pattern for worship throughout the ages to come. The Church founded by Jesus Christ incorporates many people into one body, even though they come from many places and speak many languages, for the body of Christ is brought into being by the Holy Spirit, who in baptism cleanses us and restores in us the likeness of God in whose image we were made. We who were formerly many peoples are now one people, those who have received the Spirit of God and who now belong within the one body of Christ as surely as all the limbs and organs which make up our human bodies. We are not homogenised into matching units, but like the different parts of the body we continue to have our own identity, as we contribute to the well-being and prosperity of the whole. And the same is true of the spiritual gifts that are bestowed upon us, according to God’s will and calling, to build up the Church in the knowledge and love of God. Not everyone is an apostle, or called to exercise one of the other ministries mentioned here by Paul, but what is certain is that all are equally blessed by God and honoured by him as we seek to serve him in his Church, in which we are united for the common good and for the glory of God. Ezra proclaimed the word of God to the people in Jerusalem, a people chosen to receive the law through Moses long before. But that blessing is extended far beyond the walls of Jerusalem when Jesus, “filled with the power of the Spirit” begins his ministry in the synagogues and arrives in Nazareth, his home town. The year of the Lord’s favour has begun, in which no distinction is made between the nations: the prophecy from Isaiah 61 which Jesus announces is now directed towards all who are poor, in captivity, blind or oppressed, whoever they are and wherever they are. Nehemiah’s concern was to rebuild the city, to return his people to Jerusalem and ensure that they knew the law of Moses by which they should frame their lives. But at that astonishing moment in Nazareth a still greater kingdom is announced in which the blessing of God’s word will be poured out upon all who are in need of salvation, in every nation, for the generosity of God knows no limits, and he has sent his Son into this world to build the city of God. The Rev Stephen Trott HYMN SELECTION Hymns for Epiphany 4 Christ is our cornerstone Brother, sister let me serve you Father, we thank thee who hast planted Lo! God is here! Let us adore Lord, thy Word abideth Hail to the Lord who comes Come down, O love divine Tell out, my soul, the greatness of the Lord The kingdom of God is justice and joy Christ is made the sure foundation 15 fulness to the cross, forwards to the heavenly banquet when God’s kingdom will come in all its fulness and strengthens us with his grace to live in the present moment. The cross is all-encompassing and we are covered by God’s forgiving love shown there. He beckons us forward, conscious of his daily presence so that we are enabled to see everything in the light of his saving grace. We dare not therefore begin any project off our own bat, try to get through the day in our own strength or reach the end of a task triumphing in our own achievements. We have not been left alone to manage as best we can or to pass some kind of initiative test. The aim of all we are and do is to glorify God’s holy name. If we need any reminder of our dependency the final words of the prayer remind us of the promise of eternal life which can only be received through his mercy. Focusing on the family We would worry less about what to call same-sex relationships if we were better able to persuade heterosexuals to stay married. The real tragedy of family life in the United Kingdom is not that we can’t work out the difference between civil partnerships and marriage but that the UK has the highest divorce rate in Europe and UNICEF (2007) ranked child wellbeing in Britain as the lowest of 21 industrialized countries. Children growing up in the UK, said the report, are the unhappiest in the industrialized world. Just 40 per cent of 11-13-year-olds find their peers “kind and helpful”. One in 10 UK children aged between five and 16 has a clinically diagnosed mental health disorder (Office of National Statistics). This situation is a clarion call to the Church to join in the task of parenting the next generation. The evidence is clear that children should, wherever possible, be brought up by their biological parents, but parenting is not the exclusive responsibility of the child’s mother and father and one-third of children are not anyhow living with both parents. If church discussions about family were to focus on parenting rather than sexuality then disagreements between liberal, catholic and evangelical theologies would dissipate in the face of the primary social need for the well-being of our children and young people. My own research work has established that the most significant community of which the young people are a part is their family. The research established that the ( extended) family is as, or in some instances, more important than friends to Generation Y. The Church is uniquely placed to reflect this in its work and to build up communities of belonging across different generations. Child Protection issues notwithstanding, a primary resource that the Church can offer to young people is the opportunity for them to build simple, supportive and uncomplicated relationships with adults. The mission statement of the Church includes within it a call to unite people across divisions but this is in contrast to our consumer-based society, which encourages social groupings around peers and interests. Churches are able to reconnect generations, creating models of transition between childhood and adulthood making relationships across the generations possible so that children and young people grow up in a context where they can learn from the life stories of others. The commonness of divorce within the UK has put pressure on the traditional nuclear family unit but it has also created multiple different types of family configurations. The nuclear family unit was shaped during the Industrial Revolution where the family needed to form an economic unit with one partner (traditionally the male) earning a wage and one partner ( traditionally the female) managing the home and family. The vision of this traditional family ( with the roles of the mother and father so clearly separated) represents a middle class 18th century social structure rather than a Biblical vision of the family. The Bible talks of households rather than families: ‘If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever,’ (1 Timothy 5:8) . The contemporary idea of the nuclear family as an isolated unit is a long way from the model of the extended family ( ‘household’) represented in the pages of Scripture. New models of parenting, built on the bones of a divorce, become contemporary models of household with other adults drawn in to help with the parenting. The breakdown of one set of relationships is not leading to the death of the family but to its reorganization (Drane & Fleming Drane ( 2004:32) . The Church’s commitment to support the nuclear family structure does not mean that we should underestimate the value of the energy within a newly constituted stepfamily. There should be no contradiction in advocating marriage and honouring the best intentions of post-married people who chose to form new families. We in the churches need to recognize stepfamilies as a growing family form. It is possible to create a new family, a fluid, extended family that echoes, but is quite different to the previous family group. Children can have wider networks, perhaps a range of different siblings, not just full siblings, but half-siblings and stepsiblings, and a range of grandparents, step-grandparents and aunties and uncles. Children can even gain from having four loving parents around them. It is crucial both missionally and socially that we work with these new families and integrate them into the community of the church. The Rev Dr Bob Mayo is the Vicar of St Stephen and St Thomas Shepherds Bush with St Michael and St George White City ( Follow Bob on twitter @ RevBobMayo)