ISTJs Workspaces part 10 The archaeologist in the architecture firm, the general manager of a container company, the deputy principal, and the retired council worker Acknowledging that I have seen far fewer Ss than Ns in my practice over the last 20 years, the ISTJ clients that I do see usually have a specific query that brings them to careers counselling, and they are keen to resolve the issue quickly and efficiently. Their method of request is encapsulated in phrases such as: I need to make/update my resumé: what steps do I need to take in order to …? My goal is to … I want to prepare a job application for … Meredith Fuller Without ISTJs, how could we feel safe? How could anything get done reliably and properly? Meredith Fuller (INFP) is a not only a psychologist in private practice and a recognised specialist in vocational behaviour and career change, but also a columnist, psychological profiler, and media spokesperson for the Australian Psychological Society. Meredith was a contributor to Love @ Work (Management Press, 2006). She is a life member of AusAPT. fuller.walsh@bigpond.com Australian Psychological Type Review I need a plan to get into X. My manager sent me here for Z. a. Purpose: They usually arrive with a specific, concrete task, such as needing assistance with their job application or resumé; applying for a position, seeking a promotion, attending a job interview, being retrenched, changing career, or requiring career information. b. Presentation: In stark contrast to my NP clients (who usually have unwieldy piles of notes and materials that invariably spill onto the floor), I observe that ISTJ clients bring manila folders, lever-arch files, plastic covers or envelopes with contents in order. Some label and mark each item with tabs for easy reference. c. They like taking self-responsibility, and seek roles where they can turn chaos into control, order, take charge to make things run properly where there is inefficiency or ineffectiveness, and they wish to earn a similar—if not higher—salary. d. They like checklists, goals and plans of action, but are also prepared to factor in uncertainty or inactivity if they are given Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 an estimate of how long that period of waiting may take. Advising them of the median time taken to change career, the average number of applications sent to score an interview, the timeline sequence of a recruitment process, or the typical recovery times for injury or illness can provide a reassuring map. As Charles Martin succinctly puts it in Looking at Type and Careers: ISTJs are very often found in management careers, particularly in the areas of government, public service and private business, and they are often found in technical and production-oriented careers as well. Their task orientation, realistic grounding, dependability, and respect for the facts often draw them to careers that call for an organised approach to data, people, or things. Their dedication [means] they’re hard to distract or discourage from a given task, [leading] to thoroughness and accuracy in their work. But, as Pearman, Lombardo and Eichinger point out, a ‘low tolerance for ambiguity’ can be a potential barrier to effectiveness; ISTJs ‘may find it difficult to advance in organizations where teamwork orientation and strategic agility are essential.’ ‘I wouldn’t go to a careers counsellor’, says Allan, a general manager, ‘unless something happened that I couldn’t fix myself, like I was between jobs and couldn’t crack a job interview or needed to construct my curriculum vitae.’ ‘I’d carefully research the person before making an appointment’, he says. ‘I look for someone with credibility, expertise, or runs on the board.’ 47 Meredith Fuller: Workspaces 10: ISTJs ‘They must be competent’, says Allan, ‘so I can have a degree of confidence in them.’ In summary, the ISTJ case studies share: Early experiences of: I need to understand the relevance of anything I am asked to do. I’d only agree to answer personal questions or do inventories or assessments if they were relevant and being used properly. I’d be turned off by a careers counsellor who offers gratuitous platitudes or tries to blow smoke up my arse. I always liked to work and I would stick out the bad jobs. I’d work several jobs to be a good provider to my family. I did all the work round the house. You didn’t call in tradespeople: you fixed it yourself, or you couldn’t afford to get it fixed. Frank Walsh ‘I’d expect to go two or three times’, Allan explains. ‘If I wasn’t getting what I wanted/ expected, I’d quickly lose interest and not return.’ tragic loss of significant family member financial hardship eldest or only child Main employers: government or education Favourite word: ‘organised’ Regular behaviour: taking responsibility; checking detail; quality control; finishing, listmaking, completing; trustworthiness. Favourite stress outlet: running (the males); swimming (the female); footy barracking. Favourite colour: blue Initial hypotheses about type can be made by observing behavioural cues such as the client’s method of contact, physical entry, dress and presentation, and the presenting problem. In my early interactions I attempt to be succinct, clear and logical. My NFP tendency to flowery language, stream-ofconsciousness observations and abstract, overhead questions isn’t appreciated, and is likely to alienate the client. ‘Glass is half empty’: Inclination to criticise; disinclination to offer positive feedback and compliments to loved ones, or to talk about themselves. Once credibility and trust are established, it’s possible to explore underlying themes and deeper issues. At this point, the sensitive, creative, vulnerable, feeling aspects of the individual are revealed. Recreation: Each has an artistic sensibility or arts and crafts hobby, such as painting, film making, model ship-making or playing music. In general, I observe that ISTJs seeking career counselling are likely to be stoic, silent worriers who prefer to appear in control to the outer world. Personal difficulties are usually dismissed matterof-factly, hurts are glossed over, anxiety about the future swallowed. There may be a history of resentment from having shouldered the lion’s share of effort or output in the workplace, or of superiors or colleagues who may have taken their diligence or kindness for granted. I’ve selected four interesting case studies: three who sought career advice, and one retired. While sharing the ISTJ need for structure, belonging, privacy and leisure pursuits, they have all also shared the loss of a significant person through accident or illness, taking on sole family protector roles from an early age (parenting their parents or siblings). Three had an alcoholic parent; all four have a droll wit. 48 • • • An adventurous, riskier side: This may take the form of a dangerous hobby such as mountain climbing, motorbike racing, tattoos, or a black sense of humour. Distrust of: underminers, smart-arses, lazy colleagues, manipulators Mary McGuiness accurately describes the recreations of my case studies. She points out that ISTJs ‘often enjoy spending time alone reading or doing physical activity’: They often play competitive sport … bushwalking or swimming … cycling or soccer. They enjoy watching or coaching others to play sport. [They] enjoy organising a garden, planting rows of vegetables or flowers … craft, making or repairing things, playing music, sewing and collecting … They also enjoy ‘reading biographies, travel, technical books about their hobbies, social phenomena or ethics, and books about people who set goals and achieve them.’ While sharing the same type and the core associated characteristics, each person is different, with a distinct personality. They may not be effusive in adjectives, but they demonstrate their love, commitment and caretaking by doing things for others. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 Frank first met his wife, Jo (another ISTJ), sitting behind her in class at the Catholic primary school: The retired council worker I used to pull her plaits. We re-met at a dance when I was 16 and we were engaged by 19. Frank Walsh, ISTJ Frank, 81, is a tall, thin man of few words, known for his responsible attitude, practical nature, and ability to fix anything mechanical. Reluctant and suspicious by nature, he would normally refuse to complete questionnaires and talk about himself—but, to his credit, he allowed himself to be dragged along by me. An honest, patient man, Frank grew up in the working-class Irish Catholic community of Port Melbourne. Times were hard, and people managed with very little: Back in those days, I was brought up by relatives in the street, washed and dressed for school by my favourite Auntie Letty. You didn’t have anything—everybody was poor—but all the street stuck by each other. If anyone in the street couldn’t feed their family, you’d pitch in. Someone would drop off a stew. At 20, Frank had a terrible motorbike accident. Like a dreadful Keystone Cops skit, the ambulance had an accident on the way to hospital and they had to wait for a replacement. Suffering injuries including nearly every bone broken, Frank was not expected to live through the night. Jo heard about the accident on the news while waiting for Frank to take her out. Jo’s mother, a suspected ISTJ, said, ‘Don’t you start howling!’ Jo’s brother was in bed with flu, but insisted on taking her to the hospital. Unconscious for the first week, Frank spent five months in hospital packed in sandbags. Jo was his first and only girlfriend. Devoted to each other, they were married by 21. After the bike accident I got offered an easier job with the local council. Why wouldn’t I take it—for the same pay, I just had to sweep gutters! Retired since 58, Frank endures ill health and its restrictions with little complaint. Despite a series of health complications and tragic losses through his life—his twin was stillborn, and his mother died from TB when he was only 3—he remained stoic and hardworking. I did many different council jobs. I learned everything by doing it. As front end-loader driver, I picked up stuff around the streets and loaded trucks in the depot. I made up tar for footpaths. In a gang of five, we repaired footpaths and removed dead dogs. Frank’s father started out driving trucks, before going to night school in his 30s to get his sheet metal trade. ‘He didn’t spend time with me and didn’t talk much’, Frank recalls, ‘but if I asked, he’d show me how to fix something or do a job.’ Frank was painstaking and detailed. ‘I’ve always been a hard worker and worked long hours’, he says. After he left his trade his old firm continued to send special jobs home for him. He left the council to work at a local dairy because they offered more money, and even longer hours—60 hours, six days a week, including two nightshifts: ‘I was always good with my hands’, says Frank. Leaving school at 14, he gained an apprenticeship as a carton creaser and embosser on ‘25 bob a week’. He found the work interesting, and was meticulous in everything he did: You had to be—if a machine got hold of you, you’d lose a limb! Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 Frank Walsh at 80 Got a heavy articulated licence to drive the tanker. You had to be a scrupulous cleaner, pumping out residue at the end of the day, washing out the tanker. I never complained, but I was crook from a hiatus hernia and Reynaud’s disease. October 2007 49 Meredith Fuller: Workspaces 10: ISTJs Frank was later asked to go back to the council job. I cleaned bricks and drove the road roller. I worked on the tip truck carting stones and metal, the road grader, and the bulldozer. Everyone knew I could fix things, so if anyone got in trouble, they’d sing out to me to go and give them a hand. When the blacksmith dropped dead they made me the welder, I went to school to learn, and enjoyed making things, like the footy scoreboards. When the mechanic shot through (couldn’t handle the pressure), they sent me across to do the mechanical work. I did not have the qualifications, but I could do everything, and liked doing it. The boss used to say, ‘If Walshy can’t fix it, throw the bloody thing away!’ Spent the rest of my working life as the mechanic for the council, even though I did not have the proper training. Frank hated school, possibly because he lost a lot of schooling at the age of 6. I broke my hip running my pushbike into a pole and spent 9 months strapped in a long, flat pram (also used for polio victims). I was a left-hander and got the strap to make me use my right hand, as they did in those days. ‘An interest in cars’: Frank Walsh My father remarried when I was 8, and his wife transferred me to the state school. I missed out on reading and writing while recovering from my hip and I was way behind. I never really caught up, but they just kept putting you all up to the next grade. That’s how it was back then. ‘People were so poor in those days’, Frank recalls. ‘There was no money for toys, and you had to play homemade games like Tip Kat’. His after-school chores included cleaning the backyard, feeding the dog and lighting the fire to boil the copper for the family bath. In the pecking order, he had to get into the bath last. Frank liked fishing and rabbiting, and used to get mussels under the Port Melbourne pier. He would go fishing for hours with a mate, using homemade rods. 50 When Frank was 12 he got a .22 rifle: I could still shoot rabbits with a bent barrel. Because I was careful, my grandfather would lend me his antique gun that was passed down. I remember all the detailed needlework of lyrebirds, the leather case, and the bottles of oil. After boxing as an amateur for a while, Frank became a professional lightweight. He trained several nights a week at Dave Shine’s gym, and had 11 fights at Festival Hall before his accident. Frank and Jo have always shared a very close marriage, and like spending as much time as possible with each other. When we got married, Jo wanted six kids and I didn’t care if we did or didn’t. We compromised—I said I’d rather have three kids with shoes than have more without. Generally Frank has tended to expect the worst, but keeps quiet about his concerns. He likes fixed schedules, and has a limited range of foods that he’ll eat. Suspicious of anything new or different, he prefers his routines. As he tells it, his working day comprised: • 7.30 am start (or 6 am, if I was street sweeping) • Noon was home for lunch • Return to work, then go home at 4.30 pm • At 5.00 pm we had tea • A few mates came over and we talked trucks and cars Frank spent any spare time giving his three children a hand, fixing anything from cars to gadgets, later helping to renovate their homes or gardens. My sons also had an interest in cars. I built a pit under my garage so we could work on our cars, a 7 foot hole with concrete floors and walls. All the kids in the neighbourhood would turn up to tinker with cars. Frank rode eight different motorbikes and dirt-track bikes. At one stage he bought Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 an old Jag that had been lying neglected in a backyard, and painstakingly restored it: One weekend my boss asked me to drop by the council for something, and when I drove up in the Jag his mate asked what I did at the council. When he heard I drove the road sweeper, he said, ‘Jeez, you’ve gotta be paying this bloke too much!’ In another skit reminiscent of Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz in The Very Long Trailer, on a camping holiday Jo filled the boot with volcanic rocks. The wheel fell off and broke an axle. Despite loving his Jag, the parts were too dear for him to keep it, and he went back to Holdens. If I could have done anything for a job, I wanted to fly a plane, or be a flight engineer or navigator. I loved those Tiger Moths and cropdusters. In addition to fishing and shooting, Frank has always been interested in whippets and birds. He kept aviaries with hundreds of finches, quails and cockatiels. He and Jo loved fishing by the river, and when they retired at 58, they moved to a small town to fish by the Murray. Later, when poor health got in the way, they moved into a retirement village in Melbourne, ‘beside the bone yard’: We can just cross the road to look at our cemetery plots. Frank didn’t need to take much: he is ‘not interested in ancestors or keeping stuff’. ‘When you’re gone, you’re gone’, he says, ‘so why would you think about the past. or people you didn’t know?’ Frank’s motto in life is: ‘If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing properly!’ The general manager Allan Crandles, ISTJ At 185 cm and 88 kilos, green-eyed Allan is an avid Carlton footy supporter. Following a 19-year management career in the public service, Allan moved to the business world, where for 20 years he has continued to be promoted due to his effective management skills. He is known for being firm and fair. (Allan’s wife calls him a sensible, basically decent person, although he can be grumpy and cranky.) I expect certain levels of performance, and I can do the ruthless things required in private enterprise that you weren’t required to do in the public service. For example, if someone has to be sacked for the greater good, then I don’t lie awake about it the night before. Those decisions must be made and carried out. Acting in a responsible way is almost hard wired in my brain (first-born syndrome?). I’m always conscious of doing the ‘right thing’. Allan has a large collection of books on leadership and history, such as Napoleon, whom he admires, and Hitler and the Third Reich, being fascinated by their evil, ruthless efficiency of communication and leadership. At the moment he’s reading about Henry Kissinger and US presidents. My impatience sometimes Allan is disciplined in his diet and exercise. A well-controlled Type 1 diabetic, he is unfailing in his routines and rigid attention to health requirements. focused. leads me to drive too fast. I am told I am too blunt. I am told I am too task- Allan Crandles Allan has the same breakfast every day— porridge with chopped apple and banana. At school he had the same lunch every day, too: a cheese and lettuce sandwich and vanilla slice. (He still has sandwiches, but fruit has replaced the vanilla slice.) He’s out of bed by 6.20 and on the road for work by 7.05. Usually home by 6.45, Allan goes to bed by 10.30 and has to read one chapter of a book before he can go to sleep. Allan describes himself as ‘a professional manager who, through experience, good fortune, opportunity and some aptitude, Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 51 Meredith Fuller: Workspaces 10: ISTJs has reached general manager level in a number of commercial companies.’ My desk at work, my one at home, and all my desks before this one, have all looked the same: uncluttered, neat, and tidy. I only have on the desk whatever relates to what I am currently working on. When finished, they are filed away in an order where I can easily get back to them if required. The desk is cleared every night before I go home. My style of work is characterised by first principles, which for me means: bring order where there is no order; get the right people in the right positions; get everyone focused on the right strategies and directions; be fair, but be prepared to be ruthless when necessary. And have some fun along the way. He has always known that he likes being in charge, making decisions, and working hard for tangible reward. I was lucky, because I started off working in a hierarchy, the public service. You came in at the bottom, and there were levels to aspire to. If you worked hard, you got up the ladder. If you’re organised and think efficiently and productively, then government management skills easily transfer into the business world. ‘If you worked hard, you got up the ladder’: Allan Crandles in his 30s Allan prefers the private sector because he has autonomous roles with freedom of action to hire and fire: ‘The determinant of your success is how much profit you make—clear cut.’ What are you passionate about, professionally and personally? Professionally, I am most passionate about growing any business I am involved with so that it is profitable and successful. It gives me great satisfaction. Personally, I am passionate about keeping fit and indulging my interest in the creative side of making films (and occasionally doing some oil painting). I offer the above with the proviso that I don’t regard myself as feeling ‘passionate’ about anything very much—and I have always been that way. Describe your current work environment and how you inhabit this space I am general manager of a national company and work in our Melbourne head office in Brooklyn. 52 Like most people these days, the computer is the most-used object on my desk. How would people get the best out of you? i. Set reasonable targets for me to reach. ii. Keep me interested and challenged and don’t test my tolerance for foolish decisions. iii. Give me freedom (authority) to act. What are the puzzles in life that intrigue you? • How otherwise rational people can have religious (read ‘irrational’) beliefs. • Why some men go bald and some don’t. • Why we have such low-quality political leaders in the world at present. • (Why polygamy is seen as a bad thing.) Tell me about your childhood A generally happy childhood, a loving mother, a benign but emotionally detached father. I grew up in the suburb of Glenroy, bordering several housing commission areas. Most often I felt very out of place. It could be a dangerous place to walk around. (To this day I can remember the apprehension I always felt, even walking to the shops.) Most of my contemporaries were not that bright. I was not by nature an aggressive type or a ‘good fighter’ (if you were, your place in local esteem would be secure), but I still was well regarded in my circle of friends and relatives. For all that, I would rate my mother as the dominant positive influence on me as a child and growing up, although I did not realise that until much later. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 School? Your ancestors? I first went to a Catholic primary school, of which generally I have good memories. Next I went to the local technical school in the expectation (not mine) that I would learn a trade. Academic success was not pushed, and I was a total failure when it came to anything to do with making or fixing stuff. My friend Graeme (also maladroit with a hammer or spanner) and I routinely topped our class in the non-trades subjects, but this was not valued by our peers. I made good, lasting friends, and would say that the secondary-level education I received was not as important as the life lessons I learned during that period. I liked using my brains to manipulate outcomes and to motivate others according to my agenda. Overall, though, I was happy to leave and get into the real world. Tertiary education was not even a consideration. What did you prefer to read? Then, and now, I prefer non fiction, mainly biographies or historical texts. The first book I loved would be Catch 22. I loved the quirky but incredibly intelligent humour and a writing style totally unique in novels that I had read. I re-read it every four years or so and always love it. How would you describe the dynamics of your relationship with your mother / father / family? As indicated earlier, I had a great relationship with my mother that still endures. I really believe the best of me comes from her. My father was distant in the traditional Irish way. I came to appreciate how much of a product he was of his own difficult relationship with his father only toward the end of his life. We got along—he was not aggressive or a bad man—but we were not close. My younger brother and I are reasonably close, and generally have been since we both got married: not so much when we were younger, where our differences were more pronounced. He is a good man with strong and similar values. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 My father’s family were Bog Irish who immigrated to Australia in the 1920s with 12 kids. I understand they were from a county in Ulster and, as Irish Catholics, were in the minority and therefore needed to be able to take care of themselves. My recollections of all my uncles are of big men who you would not want to mess with. My father was one of the smallest and least aggressive. All good family men though, and decent, friendly people. My mother’s side were a mixture of Swedish and Australian, also very poor workingclass types. Don’t know much about their lineage. When did you become aware that you were introverted in orientation? I never knew a period in my early life where I perceived myself as anything but shy, not very confident, and concerned about being front and centre. I was always reticent to put myself forward in any situation, preferring to wait for opportunities to ensure I didn’t make a fool of myself (always very important). Knowing what I do now, I would say I was always acting in an introverted way: exactly the opposite to my younger brother, a total extrovert. What were your early perceptions about the world? A bit scary, I think, but overall I was reasonably positive in my perception of the world and what life options I had. I was trusting and naïve early on when it came to people (and sometimes still am), but that is part of the learning process, I guess. I really admire Napoleon. If viewed dispassionately, what he achieved, and what he tried to achieve, was monumental. He was flawed … but his intent was clear, and his intellect, leadership, selfconfidence and vision were remarkable … An extraordinary man and leader. Allan Crandles How would you describe your early peer and outside-family relationships? I formed good, enduring friendships with those I perceived as like-minded people, and was quick to reject any relationship with those I didn’t consider were likeminded (e.g. intelligent, humorous, familyvalues oriented, soft rather than hard). October 2007 53 Meredith Fuller: Workspaces 10: ISTJs What did you want to do/be when you grew up? I wanted to be involved in art/drawing in some way, which later evolved into an interest in making my own little Super 8 films. I see now I lacked the passionate commitment to that creative calling which you absolutely must have get into it at all, much less succeed in it. Something from childhood that you were proud of? At 14 I was playing in an under-15 football grand final, watched by my father and uncle (the first time they had ever come to see me play) and I played a cracker of a game, was Best on Ground, and was awarded a special trophy by the club at the end-ofyear presentation night, again in front of my father. I was pretty happy about all that. I remain interested in AFL football and in particular, the Carlton Football Club. Tell me about your adolescent years Father and son: Allan Crandles and Lucas Crandles I didn’t much like adolescence. Not because I had any unusual problems, it was just that because of my nature and the fact that I was pretty conservative, I felt out of place in the ‘Swinging Sixties’, where I went through my entire teenage years. I did not fancy and was not attracted to the dances, concerts, and the other usual elements of teenage life in that era. I couldn’t wait to be through it and become an ‘adult’, where I assumed I would make a better fit. Describe your personality Childhood: Confident in my own group but very shy outside it. Naïve, but friendly and reasonably happy. Adolescent: Still shy, uncomfortable in the area I lived, and with being this ‘in-between’ thing—a teenager! I used a quick brain to generate humorous responses to life’s situations and got a reputation as a smartarse, which I didn’t mind. I was still very conservative and earnest, sometimes verbally aggressive. Becoming aware of the responsibilities ahead. 54 Now. More relaxed, still with many of the earlier traits. Still essentially an introvert, and even less inclined to add to my circle of friends, which I tend to regard as complete. Who were your initial mentors, heroes? What drew you to them, and what did you learn from them? Had no heroes in my youth that I can recall, with the possible exception of ‘Big John’ Nicholls, Carlton captain and enforcer. I admired various film characters whom I regarded as ‘cool’—dispassionate, controlled characters in the main, e.g. Michael Caine in various genre films such as Funeral in Berlin; Steve McQueen in Bullitt and The Thomas Crown Affair. In terms of mentors, I had two: my first and second bosses. The first (L F Peters) was my primary role model as a leader. Precise, very organised, neat, tough when necessary, aloof and effective. The second was his replacement (W E Butler). Very intelligent, charismatic leader, probing, creative, human (tolerant, and using humour). I came to realise that a combination of both these styles would most suit me and I have tried to achieve that over the years—on the whole, I think, reasonably successfully. Music, films or books that have had a major impact? As a kid, I was very into comics—all kinds. Music: I was most attracted to the Beatles. As I went through my teenage years I didn’t have as wide a range of musical interests as my contemporaries. As I matured, I came to admire some classical music (probably thanks to my wife), but again, it was limited to only a few things I found emotionally stirring (mostly Tchaikovsky). Films: I was avid filmgoer from my teens, and still am. I was completely gobsmacked when I saw 2001: A Space Odyssey in 1969. This began a lifelong fascination with Stanley Kubrick and his films. His films clearly reached me because of their precision, visual clarity and style. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 The film 2001 appealed to me on a variety of levels, many unconsciously. The enigmatic theme, the suggestion, non-religious, that there may be a purpose and a process/ meaning for human life. All overladen with beautifully precise clear images unlike anything ever done before. Currently I am enthusiastically waiting for the next release of the hot new director, L J Crandles (my son). [Go to YouTube to view Black Button and Campsite.] Books: In my 20s I read Inside the Third Reich by Albert Speer. This started me off on a near-obsessional interest in Adolph Hitler and Nazi Germany. It also began a change in my reading habits, still current, where I much prefer nonfiction (as I mentioned earlier). How would you describe your career development? My career development has been one of rising through the ranks of several organisations in spite of not holding any tertiary qualifications. I began in the public service. This was possible (but no doubt vastly more difficult these days) due to some luck, a recognisable organising ability, some leadership characteristics, and getting results. Who/what did you bump up against that affected you/your career? My mentors. A third was my first boss in ANL who gave me my initial opportunity to run a commercial business. Up until then I was simply a line manager in a large organisation. He guided me through the basics. His ultimate contribution was to believe that I could do it. sometimes inclined me toward being a bit obsessed (with revenge, winning, etc). The lack of tertiary qualifications was an issue when I worked for the public service and I had to be much better than other candidates to get an opportunity for advancement. Since I have been in the private sector (21 years now) I have not had that type of issue, as achievements are more important than the qualifications, at least in the industries that I work in. Having said that, I don’t think many more will get into these higher positions without having the appropriate degree behind them —and that is fair enough. Can you think of an example that demonstrates how you go about getting what you want? I think I am a compulsive strategist when it comes to my work life, and I always have some sort of plan to get what I want or think the business needs. I discovered in my early 20s that I could be quite persuasive when I applied myself. I could speak articulately and had an ‘honest face’. This was coupled with an ability to size up people by their reactions as I am talking to them and adjust my arguments accordingly. I have a reputation at work for getting people to willingly do things they otherwise would not want to do. If you could sit down to a meal with five people at any time in history, who would they be? Napoleon. Stanley Kubrick. Carl Sagan. Paul McCartney. Goldie Hawn. There are, however, arseholes everywhere and at every strata of an organisation, so you regularly get to bump into people who impact negatively on you and your career as well. I have had several over the years resulting in conflict at manager level, and in every case I have taken it very personally. Allen identifies his talents as ‘organised, committed, hardworking, strategic thinker, goal-oriented, efficient’. Among the things he struggles with are intolerance and a low threshold for boredom: ‘Sometimes I can be superficial when trying to understand an issue.’ I then devote whatever effort is required to come out on top. Which I have done on most occasions—but, reflecting back, those situations have made me bitter and A myth that best describes your life? Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 In 1993 my boss at ANL gave me responsibility for a business which, despite having annual revenues of $6 million, was losing money badly. It had no direction, no systems, no goals, poorly-motivated staff and management. I was expected to wind it up if it couldn’t be fixed. By 1995 it was making an annual profit of $400 000. My reputation was thereby enhanced and I ended up with responsibility for four of ANL’s companies. Allan Crandles ‘The guy from the wrong side of the tracks makes good.’ October 2007 55 Meredith Fuller: Workspaces 10: ISTJs What makes you happy? Sad? Sunshine, my son, travelling overseas (with my son), good friends getting together. I’ve maintained friendships over 40 years. Sad? How short life is. The prospect of losing those close to me. What sort of people bring out the best in you? Positive, calm, sensitive people. What makes you unique? I honestly have no idea how to answer this one. I don’t think of myself as unique. Napoleon was unique! I don’t think I have ever thought of a motto or a profound statement about the meaning of life. I don’t think there is one. It’s what you make of it yourself. Allan Crandles What are your strongest values in life? Be honest. Value your family and your close friends. What will have been your contribution? Cannot think of a single thing other than being the father of my son, L J Crandles. Ideal day in your fantasy life? Driving around West Cork, Ireland with my son, Lucas, at leisure, and stopping at various villages for pints and food. I really wanted to be an artist/cartoonist when younger. To be able to dabble in art and continue with my interest in filmmaking would be a feature of my lifestyle fantasy for the future. To assist Lucas when he becomes successful in his chosen field(s) would be an attractive addition to that fantasy. What are you putting up with in your life? A recalcitrant, spendthrift wife! Where do you get and refuel your energy? I know how to compartmentalise things in my mind: I rarely get low-energy situations. 56 Anything else that would give insight into appreciating your type of person? After 50 questions, even I don’t want to know anything more about me! I am very private. How do you see yourself as similar to and different from other ISTJs? Similar in the sense that I am very disciplined, efficient and organised. Different, probably because I think I have a lazy person inside me which, as I get older, is increasingly wanting to get out! (For example, from wearing three-piece suits, I have recently moved to smart casual wear.) Allan has always been a responsible, resultsoriented manager. Efficient, he prefers to be mentally stretched and productive, and is frustrated and bored if there is little to achieve. His enjoyments include ‘running with a mate of nearly 30 years, getting little films made, reading a good book in the sun, travelling overseas’, and ‘anything with my son’. Allan admits that he ‘handed over’ the emotional side of life to his wife, Helen (ISFJ). They met in the public service and he immediately liked her ‘feeling’ nature: ‘She was very sensitive and emotional, and I liked that in her.’ A black-and-white person, he takes pride in being rational and logical. A nit-picking, tough decision-maker in the workplace, he has no interest in home-related decisions such as furnishings, leaving that domain to Helen. He refused to have any input into decorating or purchasing decisions for their renovation: ‘I don’t bother with stuff like that … I am only concerned with what it costs.’ Allan plans to retire by 62. In retirement, he would like to travel and make amateur films as his outlet for creativity. He has a low threshold of boredom and needs to fill up his time. Other than winning Tattslotto, I wouldn’t mind getting some clarity on the next five years of my working life. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 The archaeologist / business project team leader Dr Alexandra Haendel, ISTJ Alexandra is an accomplished, elegant, earnest, and humorous professional. In her early 30s, she describes herself as ‘a self-initiating and focused worker with a keen sense of responsibility and obligation who is outcome-driven and has high-quality assurance capability.’ Alexandra’s results-oriented, impeccable standards are coupled with a wicked laugh. Her overachieving approach to life is so detailed and well-organised that nothing is left to chance. Whether organising an academic conference or her Australian residency application, she is in her element making things happen seamlessly. Fluent in European and Asian languages (German, French, Indonesian and Khmer, with an intermediate knowledge of Italian, Dutch and Sanskrit), she has dealt with the protocols of international relations in her work and research in Southeast Asia. Her academic track record demonstrates meticulous operational planning and a focus on problem resolution within deadlines. Her exceptional time-management and organisation capabilities were put to the test recently when, due to red tape, she had to bring forward her marriage from late next year to a mere 6 weeks ahead. Pushed into overdrive by the mammoth task, she became tense and alarmist as she beavered through an almost impossible schedule, in a relatively new country, while working in a new job. Her new husband, an associate professor and wonderful P, finds her earnest microorchestrating (and associated worrying) endearing. His affectionate teasing and delighted acceptance of her personality helped them to arrive at their reception beaming with joy. Naturally, the day was perfect, down to the smallest detail. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 A born organiser, Alexandra has a flair for business administration, economics, and different cultures. ‘I’m an ethical, honest, and loyal worker’, she stresses. She studied history of art and archaeology, as well as international cultural and business studies. With four years research in Southeast Asia, she was clear she did not wish to simply pursue an academic career. Results-oriented, she enjoyed functional activities such as organising large academic conferences. Practical and analytical, she has enjoyed supervising honours students and using her event management skills, and has been interested in researching business opportunities in consulting firms: I’m good at coordinating a team, solutionoriented with high standards. Some say nit-picky! She has recently obtained a position in an architecture firm—part business development/marketing, part project management. An only child, Alexandra grew up in Munich with a Bavarian Catholic mother and a Protestant father in Economics/Law. Her father’s side were industrialists who ran their own companies; her mother’s side were landowners. On both sides, her family lost everything during the war. As a child I was just a shy, sweet girl who was well-behaved. In fact, my mother says she would have wanted me to be a bit naughtier! Fundamentally, I am an organiser. Even though I don’t tend to view myself a ‘people person’, I am quite good with them. Alexandra Haendel When she was 15 her parents separated. ‘I was kicked out of the pink bubble that used to be my life and had to grow up quickly’, she says: I became independent and went my own way. Partly this was due to my mother’s influence; she is really the one who wanted to raise an independent, strong daughter. One of her favourite sayings (of course, I hated this as a child!) was ‘I don’t care what others say! If they say Jump from a bridge, would you jump with them?’ Now it has become one of my favourite sayings! October 2007 57 Meredith Fuller: Workspaces 10: ISTJs Alexandra has the frustration of overchoice; adept at many things, it’s hard to identify one thing for her to focus on. She initially thought she would study chemistry, but was diffident at the thought of another ten years studying. Ironically, she studied for more than ten years anyway. My academic career has been quite straightforward. Everything has been a natural narrowing down and selecting out until I finally arrived at my PhD topic. That a PhD would be part of my career had been clear to me for a very long time, partly because my father has one, and I always assumed I would also. I pulled through the accepted losses that completing a PhD entail—friendships, time, well-being, etc. While she has a preference for sensing, Alexandra is on the 96th percentile on her change orientation. She is extremely high on attention to detail, forward planning and conscientiousness. A doer and a fixer with a prodigious capacity for hard work, she plays hard as well: A perfect day, down to the smallest detail: Alexandra Haendel I have always loved being physically active. I am involved in mountain climbing, all sorts of ball games, cycling, skiing, swimming and ballet. But I also love reading and music, (adore the opera and play several instruments), and spending time with friends over a good meal. Tell me about your history I was born and raised in Munich, Germany. My childhood was protected and, with my well-to-do parents, as an only child I was rather spoilt. I loved school, and always was a straight-A student. In the beginning it was hard. Even though I had lots of friends from kindergarten and my parent’s friends, I found it hard to find my place. There were a few boys who took playing tricks too far and bullied me (a term that didn’t really exist at the time!). I just loved school generally. My favourite play was football, believe it or not. But I was always very sporty, and really good at kicking goals, so the boys always wanted me in their team, which was great! 58 Behind the scenes, however, ‘not all was well’; family life was ‘very different from what we projected’. Alexandra’s father was ‘not only a workaholic, but also an alcoholic’. Her parents separated when she was 15—‘a very traumatic time’: There just was no time for adolescence, and I had to grow up and face the realities of life without money very quickly. (In the beginning my mum neither had a job, as she had been a stay-home mum, nor did my dad pay alimony.) I made it through, though. After finishing school, Alexandra left Munich to move to a small town about 200 kilometres away to study. Those were very happy years. I loved what I was doing (Southeast Asian studies combined with business administration and economics), and went travelling a lot to Southeast Asia with my boyfriend at the time and friends. Moreover, I was active in several student associations, and generally very busy, in the most positive way. With the completion of my university degree also came the end of my relationship, which was very hard for me, as I’d just assumed we’d marry. We had planned to go to London together for a further MA, which we still did—albeit not as a couple. After her MA, Alexandra went on to do a PhD on Cambodian temples. This was ‘a bit of a mixed time’: In one way I loved what I was doing, as I was very good at it; but in another, it was very hard, as there were several administrative problems. I find administrative hiccups very annoying. What Alexandra really enjoyed were her research trips to Southeast Asia: Even though the small town in Cambodia where I spent most of my time could be a bit suffocating, and going on a research trip is not a holiday (even in the most ‘exotic’ places!), I always had a good time and was part of a group of busy expats who shared the ups and downs of life there. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 Towards the end of her PhD, Alexandra’s next relationship ended, as he was unable to cope with her extensive work-related travel. So she moved back to Munich: This was a very challenging time, living with my mother again as a 30-year-old, while finishing the PhD (which meant commuting to London on a regular basis and also going to Paris several times). However, even though she probably would have preferred me to stay in Munich, my mum was very supportive, and helped me. Alexandra was offered a research position at Monash University in Melbourne. The decision to move to Australia was a very difficult one, but ‘it seemed too good an opportunity to miss’: I had been here before for two weeks a year earlier, when I had been invited to a wedding in Sydney and to give seminars in Melbourne, Sydney and Canberra. Since Alexandra’s move to Melbourne, ‘things have been quite a roller-coaster’: My job at uni was OK, but my contract was not extended, so after one year I had to make the decision of whether to stay here or go back to an uncertain future in Europe. You have to go where the jobs are. I had already started a relationship with my now husband, and was not too keen on going back. Furthermore, there were no jobs in my field anywhere in Europe, and without any contacts in the business world and the general economic situation not too rosy, it seemed to be more sensible to stay in Melbourne and attempt a career change. Alexandra sought assistance with her job search. ‘I’m very determined’, she says, ‘and kept persisting, despite the frustration.’ Now I am recently married, and have a business development job at an architecture firm. They agreed to sponsor me. Nevertheless, I do not intend to stay in Australia for good, and am planning to move back to Europe in the future. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 Alexandra is the business development coordinator in an architecture firm with about 50 people in its Melbourne office. Nationally, it is part of a group of four offices, which involves some coordination with the other three offices. My job description is twofold. Firstly, I am responsible for the business development of our office, which means outreach in the form of wining and dining clients/contacts, and researching project possibilities and putting together important submissions. The second part of my job is internal project management on our biggest project. Alexandra finds she needs private space in her home and work life, or she can get ‘frazzled’. Her current work space is not ideal: the office is small, and the layout of her workstation is not how she wants it. However, the office is about to move and the new workstations should be much better. Generally, I am a very meticulous person, and my desk is a ‘clutter-free’ zone. Every day before leaving I make sure things are put away (every item has its place), and papers filed in the respective folders. I know where everything is, and can find things in the dark. I cannot stand untidiness, which would seriously infringe on my ability to do my job. I love the arts, architecture, sculpture and event/ cultural management. What I don’t want is being stuck behind a computer all day, entering data! Alexandra Haendel Alexandra’s current job is not ideal, but, as ‘a bit of an in-between job’ to help her make the transition from academia to the corporate world, it’s OK. What she most likes, although she’s not doing as much as she’d like, is ‘the research side of things’: For instance, I had to put together an entry for an award on a large science building our firm had done, within only two days (one of our directors had left it on his desk for a few weeks). This meant not only reading our internal documentation on the project, but also finding out all sorts of technical and scientific data, partly through internet research, partly from other companies involved in the project. Under that kind of positive pressure, I do my best work: and ultimately our firm won the national award! October 2007 59 Meredith Fuller: Workspaces 10: ISTJs Alexandra describes herself as ‘organised, structured, meticulous, friendly, shy’ (‘I have always worked hard to overcome this, and most people don’t believe it’), and ‘fun’: I worry about things, but I also have a sunny, laughing side. There are two ‘best ways’ to get good results from Alexandra: I believe in doing things as best as I can. Even if it is an ordinary task, it should be done to perfection. Alexandra Haendel One is appreciation: praise, yes, but also critical comments. I am a perfectionist, and expect only the highest standards from myself—and deliver them. However, deep down I am a very insecure person who can worry, and never feel sure of what I’m doing. And because of that, it is important to me that people actually acknowledge when I’ve done something well. The second way to get good results is to give me tasks that interest and challenge me. As I said before, I am a perfectionist, but I am not content doing things well that I’ve done a dozen times before; that would be too automatic. So new, exciting challenges will make sure that I put everything into solving them—to prove to myself (and others) that I can do it. Alexandra does not consider herself a ‘people person’. Her greatest challenge is ‘trying to figure out another person’. When I was younger I thought I had quite a good understanding of human nature (Menschenkenntnis), but that confidence has waned over the years. The downside of not really being comfortable around people is that I automatically assume that they can’t figure me out either. In most cases that is probably true, but not all the time. Otherwise, I’m fascinated by all things numerical. I love them, and can get literally obsessed with brain-teasers! Alexandra recalls herself as ‘a very boring child’: My parents were ‘older’ parents and made sure I had a very proper upbringing— manners were extremely important. 60 As the youngest, both in her own family, and among the children of her parents’ friends, Alexandra was used to spending time with older children, teenagers and grown-ups. ‘Looking back now’, she says, ‘I was a mini-adult, not really a child’. In addition, I was the princess: my parents couldn’t have children for quite some time, and my mum almost died herself and lost me during the pregnancy, so I have always been that one treasured child. And that very much translated into my upbringing. Alexandra’s relationship with her parents has ‘changed dramatically over time’: As a child I was very much daddy’s girl. However, that changed when I got older, and he couldn’t really understand what was happening anymore. In addition, he became an alcoholic, and that just destroyed everything—including the family, when my parents split up when I was 15. Now, my relationship to my dad is very complicated. In one way I still crave to get that closeness back (which, of course, will never happen!), and in another, I cannot forgive him what he has done to all of us— and is still doing. I had to quickly assume adult responsibilities and stay level-headed to look after Mum, who hasn’t been able to let go of caretaking Dad, who is very ill and demanding. My relationship to my mum has been all over the place. She has been very supportive, and ultimately when I need her she’ll be there for me. However, there have been difficult times as well. Overall, we are very close, and she definitely has been the most significant influence in my life, and has made me into who I am today. Alexandra does not know much about her ancestry. A lot of family members on both sides died during the War, and both of her parent’s families lost everything. On my dad’s side I don’t know much at all. His dad died in the war (or rather, never came back, and nobody could find out anything—he either died in Stalingrad or was taken to a gulag) and was never talked about. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 As a child, when Alexandra asked her dad who was the man in the photo on his desk, he said, ‘in a very cold tone that forbade further questioning’, ‘My father’. And my grandmother never really talked about him either. In addition, my dad had grown up in East Germany, which he left when he was 19. Even though his mum and sister eventually came to West Germany, and we went to East Germany to visit his few remaining relatives and friends, there never was a close connection. On her mother’s side things are a bit clearer, partly because Alexandra’s uncle did a family tree a few years ago: Again, the family lost everything in the war (the house was completely destroyed, so there are no old records or photos left at all), but are not as dispersed as my dad’s. It is not a big family, but quite close-knit. I don’t know too much about anyone beyond second cousins, but at least that! Overall, sometimes I feel that a large part of my personal history is missing, because of that lack of knowledge of my roots. Unfortunately, though, because I am so far away from home it is impossible to do much about that. But I try to talk to my mum, aunt and two uncles about that whenever I’m over there to find out more. When she was young, Alexandra wanted to be a palaeontologist: Like all kids, I devoured books on dinosaurs and all things ancient. But I thought that my job-opportunities would be too limited! Another of her dreams was to become an astronaut: I’ve always been fascinated with the universe and particle physics—but again, I thought it’s too unrealistic to succeed. This was not giving up without a fight; I just tried to be realistic. Following on from my interest in the universe, I seriously considered becoming a scientist in chemistry, focusing on gene and genome studies. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 Alexandra has two ‘rather traumatic’ memories from childhood. The first was a serious illness when she was 3. I had to spend a week in intensive care— which, at that time, meant that my mum couldn’t visit me at all. This really traumatised me and for years I didn’t let my mum out of my sight! The second was a short-term separation of her parents when she was 5. My mum took me to her parents, where we stayed for about a month or so. Even though I loved my grandparents to bits, and had a really good time there, it did introduce a significant factor of insecurity into my life. No particular school achievement stands out for Alexandra: I won a few sports trophies, which I was very proud of. But generally, I was such a high achiever that it was kind of normal to be the best, first in everything. She has always loved swimming and mountain climbing. Swimming for me is like meditation. I get into a kind of trance, which is very relaxing. I used to swim competitions, but now I’m more focusing on the relaxing aspect of it. Personally, I am very passionate about integrity and honesty. These are the bases of any relationship. I don’t take well to betrayal! Alexandra Haendel Mountain climbing is a very spiritual activity for me as well. Growing up near the mountains meant going climbing every weekend in summer. I have always enjoyed the physical exercise (and the picnic when you get to the top!), but when I grew older it became increasingly spiritual: that feeling of being close to ‘god’ when you are at the top, and that freedom from earthly bonds. Alexandra has always wanted a mentor, but, apart from a short period during her PhD, has never had one. ‘Probably that was because I was trying so hard to put on the “confidence-mask” that everyone thought it not necessary’, she speculates. ‘In fact, I was craving for that guidance and security!’ October 2007 61 Meredith Fuller: Workspaces 10: ISTJs Her mentor was a Sanskrit professor who became a major influence on her PhD. We met in Cambodia, and he got very interested in my topic, as I was dealing with two inscriptions which happened to have been his favourite ones. We got on really well on a personal level and he took me ‘under his wing’. They ended up going to India together, ‘which was fantastic’. Alexandra’s mentor taught her a lot about Sanskrit and Indian culture; and, ‘most importantly, he taught me integrity’: Even from a young age, my parents had stressed that in their education, but to see someone actually live it, and be prepared to suffer severe professional consequences for their convictions—and still come out a highly regarded and revered expert—was a different matter. In addition, Cambodian studies, unfortunately, is very corrupted. Angkor is very fashionable with a lot of people with a lot of money right now, and a lot of ‘scientists’ and researchers find it very hard to resist those offers. (Free trips on helicopters to outlying temples to be someone’s guide for the day is not even worth mentioning!) ‘Five years thinking about nothing else but these buildings’: East Mebon, Cambodia Within this very decadent setting—after all, Cambodia is one of the poorest countries on the planet!—it has been very useful to be reminded what life as an academic is really about! And that will stay with me forever! When Alexandra was little, her favourite books were from a German author writing about the Wild West and Arabia. He was the hero (in the Wild West he was fighting with the Apache Indians, being best friends with their chief, and in Arabia he was having all sorts of adventures in the desert), and the most intelligent person, always doing the right thing and coming out victorious of all battles. The main theme in my favourite books was the intelligent hero/ine who was strong and stood by their beliefs. 62 Alexandra comes from a very academic family—her father has a PhD in law and economics, and her cousin has a PhD— and the fact that would do further study ‘was never really discussed’. That I did study Southeast Asian studies combined with an MBA was a bit of an accident. As said earlier, I decided against chemistry at the last minute and started an MBA. For certain study programs in Germany, including MBAs, you do not choose your university; places are distributed through a central office. The university to which Alexandra was sent focused heavily on IT, which did not interest her. After enquiring about programs at other universities where I could still use what I had done during my MBA semester, I discovered that special program where I could do Southeast Asian studies. I had never been to Asia and thought it would be fascinating. As a student, Alexandra wanted to be an academic, because she loves research and teaching: Plus, I never really wanted to make use of my MBA in the sense of just becoming a corporate representative in Burma—that would just be too unethical for me! During my PhD, though, 9/11 happened. Funding for Asian studies suddenly dried up, and within a year 15 positions in Southeast Asian studies in the UK had been scrapped. When offered the opening at Monash, she decided to take it. However, the position was only for one year. It was very hard to pull myself together and decide on alternatives, because I couldn’t change my research. In the first instance I was lucky that the research position at Monash came up, and in the second, that I had done my MBA. This necessitated a career change which brought me to business development and project management for the architecture firm. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 Ultimately, Alexandra would like to do consulting, combining her organisational and research skills with her knowledge of Asia. ‘I always plan ahead’, she says, ‘which can be an advantage—but also a problem’: Firstly, I don’t like changing plans. And secondly, I have learned that you cannot plan everything. Nevertheless, normally I tend to consider various alternatives, so even though I know what the outcome will / should be, I have several options to choose how to get there. When some unforeseeable circumstances happen—like not being reappointed at Monash—it takes me a while to get used to the new circumstances. But once I have accepted them, I am usually good at moving along, adapting and finding the best possible solution for the new situation. Sometimes I tend to be a bit too intent on sticking to my plan, which then creates problems, as I get frustrated with things not working out how they should, and other people getting frustrated with me, because they consider me stubborn. An achievement that Alexandra is proud of is her PhD: It was a long, hard journey, and to finish it with a good thesis is very gratifying. Apart from the intellectual challenge, I had to overcome quite a few bureaucratic challenges. And on top of everything else, my dad was diagnosed with lung cancer after my first year, so when I was supposed to be teaching I also had to go back and forth to Munich to spend time with my dad in hospital. He survived, but, of course, you don’t know that at the time! If you could invite 5 famous people to dinner … ? I really don’t like these kinds of questions, as the favourite person to sit down to a meal with is my husband! In addition, I’m too much of a realist, and just accept that this is not possible! Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 Putting my reservations aside, though, one person I’d really like to meet is the king who built the temples I wrote my PhD about. Even after spending about 5 years thinking about nothing else but these two buildings (and a few more since!), I still feel that I cannot figure them out. So there are a lot of questions I would ask him! Another person Alexandra would like to meet is her paternal grandfather: He never came back from WWII (he went missing in Russia and is one of only few soldiers of whom no record exists), and was not talked about much by my grandmother or my dad. The only thing I know about him is that he must have been the loveliest man. Being able to meet him would fill a void I feel very strongly! What frustrates or annoys you? Untidiness. Other people’s unreliability. Laziness and sloppiness. Generally when things, people or external circumstances slow me down or interfere with my plans. I like to plan ahead and find it difficult and frustrating having to change a well laid-out plan because of circumstances I cannot control. What makes you happy? Sad? I am happiest when I feel relaxed and at one with myself. That can be in the company of others or not. Being on a mountaintop with the world all around is an example. I am also very happy when I am with family and friends. A lot of things can make me sad: seeing other beings’ suffering, or injustices done to the innocent. I feel strongly that the pursuit of happiness and fulfilment is very important. To be allowed to be the best one can be and help others achieve that—it’s not easy, especially with social and other pressures. One really has to be very conscious not to forget! Alexandra Haendel Alexandra says that the sort of people who bring out the best in her are ‘supportive ones who appreciate my efforts’. What is most important in life? Loyalty, being dependable, honesty, striving for happiness and love. There is nothing I wouldn’t do for my close friends and my family! October 2007 63 Meredith Fuller: Workspaces 10: ISTJs The deputy principal Paul Muling, ISTJ I make and complete the tasks on my list! The key word is organised: that’s number one. Paul, in his early 50s, is deputy principal of a Melbourne catholic primary school, with another unfortunate footy allegiance: a Hawthorn barracker! (We’re generational Collingwood supporters.) Modest and inclusive in attitude, Paul is best described as a faith-filled and caring, a good man and father, and advice-giver. It’s obvious he thinks of others before himself. An honest, hard working person, his faith is paramount. Paul recently completed a stint as acting principal. As an ‘easy-to-talk-to’ teacher in a leadership position, with a passion for justice, sports and family, he has strong principles and is calm in a crisis. I see my work as a vocation, not a job, and looking after all the staff and students at school is most important to me. I relish in the interaction with the kids and facilitating their learning. I like seeing things that need to be done, putting programs into place, and achieving those goals. Paul Muling We have distributed leadership to empower our teams of teachers, and encourage the empowerment of others. I particularly like helping and enabling families and students in need. Parents and students can be very vulnerable. One thing I now miss is not having all the information and correspondence—I really like to know what is going on to ensure that everything’s running properly. The good thing is being able to return to some classroom teaching, 1.5 days a week. Our staff work well together and I like meetings with our leadership team, where we can check in with and support each other. Paul is also involved in many community activities that involve speaking and listening to others. He supportively phones the members in his prayer group weekly. Paul’s first wife was killed in a car accident, leaving him with four children to raise— the youngest a baby of 6 months. I went into overdrive to do the best I could for our children. I have a strong faith, and I was determined to focus on what needed to be done so that I could do my best for the children. Without my belief system and focus I might have become depressed. But I got on with it. I adjusted, and got on with adversity. I had a great support system of family and friends, and it was my first time of really sharing my feelings with others. Paul spent 11 years as a sole parent: Paul has introduced a number of initiatives, including a Companion Program: teachers run preventative programs for children at risk who lack resilience and relational skills. Sessions may include learning how to play games together, or arts and crafts. I was rarely ill (I had to be health conscious because I couldn’t afford to get sick), but I was always tired. Juggling feeds for my baby, school, running the house, etc, required ongoing work. I used running around the block as a stress relief. The Garden Program has a wellbeing bent, where the children work in hands-on teams to grow vegetables for healthy eating. Many of them live in places without gardens, and parent involvement is also welcomed. The school is also developing a Parent Garden so that non-English-speaking parents can start tinkering together on the weekends. Many years later Paul gradually developed a friendship with a fellow teacher, Gudrun, who had similar values and interests. She was attracted to his faith, values, sense of humour, and good company. Respectful and mindful of his children, they dated for five years before marrying five years ago. Since returning recently to his deputy role, Paul has found it hard not to feel responsible for everything: 64 I am learning to step back and let go. It is hard to let go of every little thing—I’m still getting things thrown on my desk to deal with, and I can easily get overloaded while I’m working out what to throw back! She was a courageous young woman, taking on four small children. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007 Paul and Gudrun were sensitive to their children, who now range in age from 22 to 16. Gudrun dearly wanted a child. There were miscarriages, and a baby, Hannah, who had complications and died weeks after her birth. They recently had Katie. My husband, Brian, was delighted to be asked to be godfather, along with their four older children as godparents. Living in a family of seven, everyone has allocated tasks, and the fridge calendar is essential. Their home bustles with friends, neighbours and colleagues. Everyone benefits from their humour, laughter, and positive attitude to life. Paul describes his himself as ‘organised, casual re dress sense, reflective’. He does not want to let others down, worries quietly, and has a sense of humour. The things most important to Paul are ‘family, faith, close friends, health and wellbeing, environment, sport, footy, holidays’, and, on the professional front, ‘professional learning, educating children, leading’. He is least interested in wealth, pushing his professional achievements, and ‘people who lack drive and passion for teaching and education’. Paul likes the variety, co-leadership and ‘making a difference’ in his work, but dislikes the ‘sometimes excessive pressure’. He describes his desk as ‘untidy, spread out and cluttered’. He is adjusting to his change of role description and trying to let go of some responsibilities. He prethinks his day, makes lists of things to do, and tends to do several things at once. What is the best way to treat you to get the best out of you? With honesty, openness and being inclusive, sense of humour’ Paul was the eldest child in his family. He recalls himself as ‘generally obliging’, but would sometimes get into trouble with siblings and neighbours. At school he was cooperative. He enjoyed games and sport, art in primary school, and biology, English and social studies in secondary. He had a ‘fairly close set of friends’, but lost contact with them soon after school finished. Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 Paul’s paternal grandmother was the only grandparent he had, and was a significant influence on his life. His father’s side of the family were ‘colourful characters’ of French, German and Irish origins. Paul’s mother never knew her English parents, who died at an early age. Paul remembers ‘a happy, stable family life’. However, he often argued with his mother. She now suffers from dementia, and he feels a sense of loss, ‘angry and frustrated’ by the situation. As a young child he was scared of his father, but is now very close to him—a friend—and admires his qualities. When did you first become aware that you were introverted in orientation? Late teens, taking on teacher training— demands of performing in front of class. How do you live? Positive outlook, work with and for others, importance of family, can make a small difference. Growing up, Paul aspired to a career in the medical profession or architecture, but ‘didn’t have the ability’. He was always interested in fitness—‘running, footy and wellbeing’—and a proud achievement was representing his primary school in interschool sports. Paul’s adolescent years were ‘basically OK’ but lonely at times, not understanding the changes going on. His awareness of girls grew, but, having attended an all-boys school, he was awkward in dealing with them. His social life was restricted by money and tight parental expectations. A personal note In 2005 I was nursing my terminally-ill mother from my bedside, after having broken my shoulder while walking my Rottweiler puppy. At the time, Paul and Gudrun were colleagues of my husband Brian, but I did not know them, and Gudrun was pregnant. However, their commitment to helping others is so amazing that they kept arriving with food parcels. I doubt we could have managed without their kind support. Meredith Fuller Who have been your initial mentors or heroes? Heroes: Sports people, e.g. Denis Lillee, the way he could engage large groups of fans, a bit of a larrikin. Mentors: A friend from uni who challenged my values, faith, belief system, social justice re youth and Aboriginal people. October 2007 65 Meredith Fuller: Workspaces 10: ISTJs Music, films or books that have had a major impact? Films: One Flew Over The Cuckoo’s Nest, Butch Cassidy, The Shawshank Redemption, Indiana Jones. Music: folk, e.g., America, Australian/Irish bush music. Books: Benedictine Toolbox, De Bono’s Thinking Hats, the Bible. ‘Family and faith’: Gudrun, Paul and Katie Muling, with godparents Brian Walsh and Sarah, Anthony, Elizabeth and Tim Muling Paul initially resisted becoming teacher and tried studying for local government, but found it ‘too dry’. He enjoyed study and learning, seeing it as important for ongoing personal development. What makes you happy or sad? Happy: interaction with family and friends. Sad: mistreatment of people, dishonesty, misuse of resource and the environment. Who/what did you bump up against that affected you/your career? Family crisis with death of my first wife. Raising my children has been my greatest achievement. ‘The Godfather’: Brian Walsh and Katie Muling If you could sit down to a meal with five people at any time in history, who would they be? Jesus Christ, Ernest Shackleton, Douglas Bader, Theresa of Liseaux, St Benedict. What are your strongest values in life? Trust, spirituality, tolerance, balance, integrity, and humour. What frustrates or annoys you? Not completing tasks, not persisting. Insincere people. People who hit you on the run to get things done immediately. Injustice. What is most important? Family and faith. Being there for others in good and bad times. Not being judgemental. Listening. Life with balance, sense of peace, less hectic, more community focus. Paul has orchestrated the outcomes he has desired in his life (e.g., applying for a principalship) through discernment and discussion with selected ‘wisdom people’. He plans to retire in ten years’ time, and perhaps do something of a pastoral care and counselling nature. He has never been overseas and would like to travel. I’m interested in environmental sustainability, and will probably do some horticulture and grow organic food. ‘Through my experiences I have come to appreciate life far more’, says Paul. ‘Go, Hawks!’ References Martin, Charles R 1995, Looking at type and careers, CAPT. McGuiness, Mary 2004, You’ve got personality, MaryMac. Pearman, Roger R, Lombardo, Michael M, and Eichinger, Robert W 2005, You: Being more effective in your MBTI type, Lominger. Photos: Meredith Fuller 66 Australian Psychological Type Review Vol 9 No. 2 October 2007