What would it take for you to flee your country? This resource has been written by The Contextual Theology Centre Photograph modelled for The Children's Society | © Laurence Dutton A better childhood. For every child. www.childrenssociety.org.uk Seeking Refuge What would it take for you to flee your country? We don’t often think of Jesus as a refugee. However, one of his first experiences was being taken to Egypt by Mary and Joseph. They fled because Herod had ordered for all new-born boys to be killed. Today, there are many families with children who have fled to the UK, not by choice, but in order to escape violence and persecution in their home countries. The Holy Family sought asylum in Egypt Read Matthew 12: 1-12 Reflect The slaughter of the Hebrew firstborn would have likely led to a stream of refugees arriving in Egypt. Consider how the family felt about the following: • Taking their newborn baby into a different country • Speaking a different language and relying on the goodwill of strangers • Being far away from friends and family How do we imagine the different characters in the story would have felt? How do we hope the Egyptians would have reacted? What is life like for those who seek asylum in the UK? Mushira Zihmran I was four years in the asylum process. It was very hard for us. When children are going to school, they see other parents buying children different things, they are going on trips. My children want to go on trips also but they can’t. We were living with the vouchers, no cash, the vouchers were with restricted shops, and you had to go miles and miles to use them. No local shops accept them. You cannot even use them on the bus. My son is now nearly 17. I am very worried because he is not allowed to go to university. It is very depressing for young people and they can lose their confidence. At 16, they reduced the amount of money he received each week. However, because my son is not allowed to work to make money like his friends, this makes buying what he needs much harder. The older they are, the more expensive it is. He is depressed and I am very worried for him. Creating Refuge Ending Forced Destitution PRAY For those children and families who live in your city or community and are subjected to the difficult life of destitution created by poor asylum support, and for the people currently seeking to help them: For those fleeing danger and looking for safety; for those on the run looking for a new home; for children left destitute in a strange country; Lord, may we offer a welcome as warm as the one we would offer the Child who once fled to Egypt. Amen LISTEN So much misunderstanding comes from lack of face to face encounter. Are there members of your church or local projects that could help you listen to, and build relationships with, those experiencing destitution in your community? For help identifying and finding ways of meeting those needing support near you, please feel free to contact admin@theology-centre.org or supportercare@childrenssociety.org.uk. ACT When we have heard stories, and built relationships with those who need support, we are often moved to take further action. Support the ‘End Forced Destitution’ campaign Having heard the voices of many asylum seeking parents and children, The Children’s Society has launched a campaign to demand the following: 1. Abolition of section 4 support (payment card system) and a move to a cash system 2. Asylum support levels should be in line with mainstream benefits and no less than 70% of income support rates Email or write to your MP to put pressure on the government to achieve this. Guidance: http://action.childrenssociety.org.uk/page/speakout/asylum-support For more information: www.childrenssociety.org.uk/what-you-can-do/campaignjoin/end-forced-destitution. Referral: If you know people who need support then please use our referral line: helpingfurtherreferrals@childrenssociety.org.uk. Giving resources: If you live in London or Birmingham, we do have projects that need donations of food, baby clothes and nappies. Please contact supportercare@childrenssociety.org.uk if you are able to help in this way. The Contextual Theology Centre The Contextual Theology Centre works with churches in London that have specific ministries to migrant communities. If you would like to find out more please contact admin@theology-centre.org. The Children's Society The most disadvantaged children rarely suffer on just one front. We work directly with these children, many of whom have nowhere else to turn, to ensure that they are loved, valued and listened to. With them we fight childhood poverty, harm and neglect. Our network of programmes includes drop-in services for runaways, as well as children’s centres and support for young carers. We support children who are refugees from violence, and we give those in care a voice. We transform the lives of many more children by pressurising government and local authorities to change policy and practice to protect them, and we challenge the negative attitudes that perpetuate harm and injustice. In hard times, children are among the hardest hit. We don’t just help them survive - we support them to flourish. For further information contact: The Children’s Society Email: supportercare@childrenssociety.org.uk Website: www.childrenssociety.org.uk The Contextual Theology Centre Email: admin@theology-centre.org Website: www.theology-centre.org Charity Registration No. 221124 | 4583/09/10 A better childhood. For every child.