CM 230W – Interpersonal Communication Fall 2005 Communication should be thought of not as a collection of techniques we use on others, but as a process we engage in with them. – Adler, Proctor and Towne Sarah Worley 103 Quinter House Office Phone: ext. 3168 Home Phone: 814.643.2096 Email: Worley@juniata.edu Office Hours: MW 3-4, TR 10-12, and by appointment Required Text: - Adler, Rosenfeld and Proctor, Interplay: The Process of Interpersonal Communication, 9th ed. (New York: Oxford University Press, 2004) - Outside readings as assigned. Course Description: The goal of this course is to help you become a better communicator by examining the process of dyadic communication as it relates to your life and to the world in which you live. We will study the theories and applications of interpersonal communication by exploring the impact language can have on relationships. This course will help you develop an appreciation for how the study of communication in interpersonal relationships can make a difference in everyday life. Awareness and understanding of our own communication styles and those of others is the first step in empowering us to improve. The success of this course relies heavily on self-examination which necessarily involves investigating (individually and as a group) feelings and behaviors that aren’t often shared in classroom settings. That being understood it will be expected of you to maintain a respectful and supportive learning environment for each member of the class. Attendance Policy: Regular attendance in any class is a good practice to develop, it is imperative in a course of this nature. The expectation is that students will attend every class, no skips are permitted. I understand that emergencies happen, but I expect to be notified before an emergency absence occurs. Excessive absences will have a detrimental impact on your final grade and can result in a failing grade for the course. ** Please note that withdrawal after the mid-term date is at the discretion of the instructor.** Communication Expectations: While I value email and the efficiency gained through its use, I value and expect face-to-face communication for most interactions regarding assignments, absences etc. Email is acceptable for announcements or reminders that do not require a response from me. Assignments and Grading: Portfolio Dyadic Oral Presentation Midterm Exam Final Exam Attendance and Participation Collection of short writing assignments given over the course of the semester 10 min presentations involving an in depth analysis of interpersonal theories and observations Essays and short answers Essays and short answers Students expected to be prepared for in-class discussion, class activities often involve minipresentations 20% 20% 25% 25% 10% Note: Students are expected to uphold the standards of academic honesty and integrity set forth by the college. Any infraction of these policies will result in failure of the course. Agenda: (Subject to change as semester evolves.) Date Readings Assignments Aug. 29 31 Course overview and Introductions Sept. 2 What we think we know about Communication Foundations of Interpersonal Communication 5 Ch. 1 7 9 What is Interpersonal Communication and why do we do it? – Com myth Survey The Communication process and competence LAB: Is it interpersonal communication? 12 14 16 Communication and the Self LAB: Self Concept “Bag” Guest Speaker – Bernardo Carducci Ch. 2 19 21 23 26 28 Self Concept and Identity LAB: The Lemon Exchange Perceiving Others and Stereotyping Creating and Responding to Messages Language and Perception The Nature of Language 30 Language: Race, Class and Gender Oct. 3 5 7 Body Language Theories of Nonverbal Communication LAB: 10 12 14 No Class – Fall Break The Art of Listening Listening Responses 17 19 21 24 26 LAB: Becoming an Effective Listener Review Midterm Exam Dimensions of Interpersonal Relationships Emotions LAB: Find the Feelings 28 Why we form relationships? Ch. 7 “Owning Anger” Ch. 8 31 Nov.2 4 The Stages of Interpersonal Relationships LAB: Wanted: Relationships Interpersonal Relationships and Intimacy Ch. 9 Mini presentation Ch. 3 Ch. 4 “Speaking the Corn into Being” Ch. 5 Ch. 6 “Tell Me More” 7 9 Communication Climate “Defensive/Supportive Communication” 11 Feedback 14 16 18 21 23 25 Dyadic Presentations Dyadic Presentations Dyadic Presentations Contexts of Interpersonal Communication “The Story of Us” No Class – Thanksgiving No Class – Thanksgiving 28 30 Dec. 2 “The Story of Us” Conflict and Communication LAB: Mediation Workshop 5 7 9 Culture and Communication LAB: Communicating with Family and at Work 12 14 Wrap Up Reading Day Ch. 10 “Defensive Communication” Ch. 11 Ch. 12 Ch. 13