Left-Hand Column Question/Analysis Sheet 1. What has led me to think this way? (What’s the “data” I used)? 2. What were my intentions? What was I trying to accomplish – did I accomplish it? 3. What assumptions did I make about the other person? 4. What do I gain by holding these beliefs? 5. What is this thinking costing me? 6. What kept me from saying what I was thinking? 7. How would I have liked the conversation to go? 8. What might I do differently next time I am in a similar situation?