Pulpit Curriculum Citizenship Changes Everything: Living for When it All Counts by Pastor Kurt Gebhards Phil. 3:20-21 You are not expected to cover every detail of this Pulpit Curriculum, rather, consider it a resource to help you in guiding your group to a deeper understanding and application of the Word. Lifegroup leaders may find it beneficial to select 3 to 6 questions that will make the time most productive. Remember, there is great benefit to group members whose hunger to grow will stimulate their returning, on their own at a later time, so as to understand and apply it further. Introduction Pastor Kurt began with a question. Do you see yourself as a follower of Jesus? Some would think that because they were in church that should answer the question, in the affirmative. But there is more to it than the answer, yes I go to church. The question calls us to a deeper reality. What are the evidences that you are a follower of Christ? What fruit of His rule in your heart can we see? These deeper probing examinations will reveal the nature of your followership and the level of your commitment. If someone sought from you a few of the qualities that a genuine follower of Christ should reveal, could you give that information? Ultimately a follower of Christ lives a distinctly Christlike lifestyle. We reflect our citizenship in heaven. When the world offers pride, self worth, entertainment, amusement, pleasure and gratification we take the road less travelled, the way that honors God. We know that we are only tourists in this life. Explain in what ways we behave as tourists on our way to heaven. What are some ways we should be different? 1. Long for Heaven Are you eager for Christ’s return? How does 1Jn. 3:1-3 break down our motivation now in anticipation of His imminent [He may come at any moment] return? What are a few things that you can look forward to learning when you see Him? If He is coming soon, how should that affect your life now? What might distract you? Study these passages to renew your longing and to activate you motivations in preparation for His return: Christ is making our home John 14:2-3 Our names are registered Luke 10:20 Our inheritance is waiting for us 1 Pet. 1:4 Our friends and heroes are there Heb. 12:23 Are you longing for heaven or lusting after the earth? We are strangers and pilgrims while here on earth according to Heb. 11:13-16. That must have an effect on our affections. According to 2Tim. 4:6-8 and 2Pet. 3:11-12 what is the reward for every follower who is living for Him now and looking for His return? How might we bring about the hastening of the day of His return? Are you doing that? Who are you discipling? 2. Live for Heaven What is heaven like? How have you imagined it? Christian writer Randy Alcorn has written many books describing what it is like. It is a place to look forward to. But the real question is this, are you living for now or for eternity? If we are God’s child and follow His Son we will reflect a different way of living in every part. This is a battle. It is an idea that collides with every age. It is a call to be mindful, this is not my home, I am only passing through. Are you living for heaven? Are your choices distinct[see the Going Deeper section to consider a list a areas to live distinctly]? Would you be characterized as one who lets the world impact your choices? Read Matt. 6:33 and list the ways you might seek first His kingdom. Mutual Ministry: How have you made your citizenship in heaven evident to all? Share with your friends during accountability the segments of your life where the world is encroaching. Is it TV, reading, language, habits, thoughts where you struggle? Share scripture to help each other bring about a loyalty to Christ above all else. Praise God for the friends He has given you to help you stay focused on the prize of heaven. Pray for our church to Get the Word Out about the new Harvest. Pray that the work at the New Harvest will be done on time without any delays. Pray as our people build relationships to invite others to the new Hickory Harvest. Pray for receptive hearts and responsive spirits to the call to make disciples. Pray for Lifegroups to care for, to reach out and to love people and to continue to make the discipleship difference in the lives of friends. The “Intercessory Prayer” groups during our worship services 08/18/13: 1st hour – S. Starnes 2nd hour – Swanson What are some of the implications to your citizenship? Read the Scripture and refer to the resource listed to make your life distinctively Christian. Here are several areas where Christ can make a radical difference as the world looks on. Distinctly Christian Parenting Most of us take up parenting patterns from those who have gone before us. We can do better if we seek God’s truth in Prov. 22:6; Eph. 6:4; Col. 3:21; Heb. 12:10-11 - God's discipline is a pattern for our use of discipline. RESOURCEShepherding the Heart of a Child by David Tripp. Distinctly Christian view of dating Dating relationships are not described in Scripture but you can assume, it is subject to God’s general principles pertaining to relationships and how to relate to one another. 1. Dating teens must honor their parents and respect their counsel (Eph. 6:2). 2. The dating partner’s faith must be considered. “Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers” (2 Cor. 6:14). You are wise to ask whether or not your date has a personal and growing relationship with the Lord. 3. You must examine yourself. Are you spending time with the Lord daily (Matt. 6:33)? Are you depending on the Lord to meet your needs of love and security? Are you an example for Christ to all those with whom you have contact (1 Tim. 4:12)? The Lord calls for you to have a loving relationship with and a commitment to Him that supersedes any dating relationship. Prov. 31:30; 1 Cor. 6:19, 20; 13:4–8; Gal. 5:13; Eph. 4:1–3; 2 Tim. 2:22; notes on Commitment (Matt. 16); Engagement (Matt. 1); Friendship (Luke 1); Identity in Christ (Col. 2); Love (1 John 3); Marriage (Gen. 2; 2 Sam. 6; Prov. 5; Hos. 2; Amos 3; 2 Cor. 13; Heb. 12) RESOURCE- I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris Distinctly Christian marriage Marriage is God’s design. Looking to Him for help will work. Looking anywhere else will not. Consider these passages to guide your efforts to enjoy marriage as God designed it. Gen. 2:18–25; Eph. 5:23; 5:31–32; Col. 3:19; Eccl. 4:9-11; Prov. 31:28-30; 1 Cor. 7:1-5. RESOURCE Marriage Matters by Winston Smith Distinctly Christian activity as a neighbor Love God and love others. It’s that simple but it’s not always easy. God has in store for you hundreds of encounters with the people you meet. Are you making a difference? Stranger’s ministry, Dt. 18:6–8; Ruth 2:14–18; Mark 14:13–15; Luke 10:5–12; 1 Cor. 16:10–11; Titus 1:8; Heb. 13:2; 1 Pet. 4:9 – RESOURCE The Hospitality Commands by Alexander Strauch Distinctly Christian pattern of entertainment choices Enjoying life is not sin. Enjoying worldly pleasure is a formula for destruction. God’s call to stand out means we are called out[the actual meaning of the word church in our Bibles!] of the world to live for Him. Consider the application and implication of these Scriptures – Rom. 13:13; 2 Tim. 3:4; 1 Jn. 2:15-17; Lk. 11:34-36; 1Cor. 15:33; Heb. 5:24. RESOURCE Desiring God by John Piper Distinctly Christian view of exercise Appearance has become an idol in our culture. People judge on outward appearance. God has a desire for us to be healthy while finding our greatest joy through a faith in Him. 1 Tim. 4:7-8; Gen. 1:31; 2:7; 1 Cor. 6:18; Rom. 1:24;7:24; 8:13; 12:1. RESOURCES – Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life by Donald Whitney. Distinctly Christian view of money Your attitude about money says much about the condition of your heart and relationship with God. World’s view •Money brings freedom. God’s view The desire for money can be enslaving and lead to destruction; only Christ brings true freedom (1 Tim. 6:7–10). • Money brings security. • Worldly wealth is very insecure; it will quickly pass away (1:10). Real security is found in knowing and trusting God (Jer. 9:23, 24; 1 Tim. 6:17–19). • Money is what matters. • Christ and the kingdom of God are what matters (Matt. 6:33; Phil. 3:7–10). • Money is power. • Power comes from being filled with the Spirit (Acts 1:8; 3:1– 10). • Money establishes not only your net worth, but your worth as a person. • Your worth is based on what God says, not what your bank statement says (John 3:16; Eph. 1:3–14). • Money makes you successful. • Success comes from knowing and doing what God says (Josh. 1:8). • Money gives you options. • God is the One who ultimately gives you options (Eph. 3:20). • Money brings happiness. • The happiness that money brings is short-lived. And in the long run, money can actually produce “many sorrows” (1 Tim. 6:10). Lasting joy comes from knowing God (5:1–6; John 15:11; 16:24). • Money is your reward. Save it, and spend it on yourself. • Give as much as you can (Matt. 6:19–24; Acts 20:35; 2 Cor. 9:6–11; 1 Tim. 6:18). • Money is your possession. Spend it on whatever you want. • All that you have is God’s to do with as He pleases. You are merely a manager of His possessions (Ps. 24:1; Luke 19:11– 27; 2 Cor. 5:10).