Engaging with The Shambhala Principle A workbook Engaging with The Shambhala Principle I have organized the book along the lines of feeling, being, and touching. We can hear logics and theories, but ultimately change and growth occur when we are touched at a human level––when we personally feel and experience something. The societal level is no different. We can be well aware of climate change and overpopulation, but what moves us is direct experience. This is why feeling our own nature, in a direct way, is so potent. - Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche The Shambhala Principle This little guide offers suggestions for individuals and groups of people who want to engage with The Shambhala Principle. Please feel free to experiment with these ideas, develop your own and share your experience with others! 1. Using the three-fold approach of The Shambhala Principle 2. Contemplating, inquiring, sharing 3. Glimpses of basic goodness 4. What is the “deep psychic shift”? 5. The Shambhala principle and human nature 6. The Shambhala principle in action 7. The Shambhala principle in the world 8. The mind, meditation and the Shambhala principle 9. Outrageous, universal and unconditional 10. Doubt, questioning and fear 11. A study guide to the book 12. A Shambhala principle gathering (for Shambhala Centres, groups or households) 1. Using the three-fold approach of The Shambhala Principle The Shambhala Principle says that change and growth occur when we are touched at a human level –– when we personally feel and experience something. We can experiment with this approach when reading any part of the book, even a single sentence. We can inquire into our personal experience. We can ask how that experience affects how we act and how we relate to the world around us. We can do this by asking three questions that correspond to feeling, being and touching. The aim of this three-fold inquiry is to help us connect with a central theme of The Shambhala Principle – that how we feel as human beings, can help determine not only the course of our own lives but the future of humanity and our planet. Here is an example. Let’s say you are reading the opening sentence of the prologue: We humans have come to a crossroads in our history: we can either destroy the world or create a good future. Feeling How do I feel when I read these words? Feeling can range from various sensations in the body, such as muscular tension – very common when disagreeing or being angry – through to emotional states such as sadness or appreciation. (You do not have to agree with these words. You may disagree completely. If you do, what does it feel like to experience this disagreement?) Being Does what I am feeling remind me of other experiences in my life, or moments where I have similar feelings? The book invites us to notice how our innermost feelings are connected to our states of mind, thought processes and responses to events. Being is about how we experience ourselves at the most basic, simple level. Underneath our day to day feelings and emotions, how do we experience our most basic being, or simple existence. This book asks us to explore this underlying level of experience. By inquiring into how the feelings that arise remind us of other experiences in our life, we can begin to reveal deeper patterns in our life. Feelings are not often isolated; they are connected to deeper levels of identity. As we read The Shambhala Principle, we can develop open-ended inquiry into our very human nature. Touching Does what I am feeling remind me of ways I relate to others -- to my family and friends, my workplace and co-workers, the community or broader society I live in? The book invites us to see direct connections between our inner experiences, how we feel about ourselves, and the ways we communicate with other people and create society. You can experiment with these three levels of inquiry as an individual, with a partner or in groups. As an individual, simply take a few minutes to ask yourself the three questions – feeling, being and touching – and see what arises for you. If you want to do this with a partner, you can reflect personally on each question and then share your experience with each other, one question at a time. If you want to do this in a group, you can reflect personally on each question and then take time for people to share their experiences with everyone else, if they wish. Some tips for sharing with a partner or a group: Listen deeply to the person who is speaking, without interrupting, judging or commenting Allow open space for people to speak from their hearts It is not always necessary to respond to or comment on what other people say; letting them speak from their heart is a gift in itself Allow time to go deeper than is usually possible when we are rushed This three-fold process is not about establishing “right” or “wrong”; it is an openended inquiry into our personal, direct experience. That experience is unique to each person. 2. Contemplation, dialogue, sharing Here is another three-step approach you can use to explore themes in The Shambhala Principle. This is particularly useful if you would like to do this with a partner, or in groups. It is a three-fold process involving contemplating, inquiring and sharing. A structured outline for this – “A Shambhala principle gathering” – that can be hosted in Shambhala Centres, groups and households is provided on pages 17-21. A set of questions – “A study guide to the book” – that you can draw on to select a theme for contemplation and discussion is provided on pages 14-16. Here is an example. Let’s say you’d like to explore this question from the study guide: What changes in contemporary education would be most effective in nourishing the wisdom and dignity of both students and teachers? Contemplation Take a few minutes to ponder the question with an open-minded approach. One way to start is simply to repeat the question several times quietly to yourself, not rushing to answer it, but to let it really sink in. Perhaps you can answer it from a deeper level of understanding than you normally access in yourself. Sometimes a feeling, a bodily sensation or a strong emotion arises from doing this. If so, pay attention to those sensations, don’t push them away. Then see what words, mental pictures or ideas surface. They may be fragments, incomplete notions or expressive images. Feel free to make notes if you wish. Contemplation is uses a word, theme, or question as the basis of practice. Instead of following the breath, we stay with the word, theme, or question allowing deeper levels of understanding to arise. Dialogue Take turns sharing your contemplative work with your partner. One of you speaks, the other listens. It is usually good to set a time frame of around seven to 10 minutes each. While you are speaking freely, the role of your partner is to listen with an open mind and heart. Normally, we don’t listen fully to each other; instead we are silent judging, agreeing or disagreeing, and thinking about what we are going to say ourselves! In this session, we try to listen fully. After the five minutes are up for the first person, the partner who was listening asks a question that may help take the contemplation deeper, such as: “Can you say more about the dignity you felt was lacking in your own experience of education?” or “Why do you feel so angry about the education your children are receiving?” Allow a few more minutes for the person to reflect on this and respond. Then, change roles: the person who was speaking now listens and inquires; the one who was listening, now has their time to speak. Sharing If you are working with a partner, the two of you can now have a “normal” unstructured conversation about the question you have been contemplating. It is often helpful to first talk with each other about your experience of the careful way in which you both experimented with “contemplating” and “inquiring”. Sharing your experience of doing that may help to reveal a deeper level of mental activity that you find helpful and would like to have more access to. It may also help your “normal” conversation remain rooted in that. If you are working in a larger group, you can have this kind of “normal” unstructured conversation still in partners. You can also choose either to do that with the full group, or to add a full group “circle” at the end. If you are opening this up to the full group, you can either let people speak spontaneously or simply go around the circle of the group giving each person a little time in which to share with the group whatever they wish. Normally, this kind of group work seems to work best for everyone if the group as a whole listens wholeheartedly to whatever anyone is saying, and does not engage in cross-talk or making comments on what anyone has said. People from the group will naturally speak to each other, if they want to, after the session is over! Levels of Listening For the purposes of contemplation, dialogue, and sharing, it may be helpful to present a few levels of listening. 1. The first level of listening is “listening from within the cocoon.” Here we listen to our partner from within our own busy, habitual mind. We are barely aware that there is another person there speaking to us. We are mostly filled with out own emotions, thoughts, distractions, and judgements. 2. The second level of listening is “listening on the edge of the cocoon.” Here we are aware that there is another human being speaking to us, but we are only listening to determine if what they are saying “lines up” with our own view of things. We are listening in a very judgmental and analytical way. If we like what they say, we offer agreement or how we also see it the same way. If we don’t like what they say, we either silently stop listening, or we judge them as wrong or not quite up to our understanding of things. This form of listening is ultimately about defending our self and our opinions. 3. The third level of listening is “empathic listening.” Here we have reached a certain inner silence and openness. We simply allow this other human being to be who they are, without needing to change them, agree with them or improve them. There is a sense of feeling and opening the heart to what they are saying. 4. The fourth level of listening is “listening someone into their own wisdom.” Here we listen with such depth that our listening actually creates a kind of steady, gentle pull that invites deeper insight for the one who is speaking. Listening becomes an expression of compassion, wisdom and a flow of meaning begins to emerge. 3. Glimpses of basic goodness In the Prologue to The Shambhala Principle, the Sakyong writes: The Shambhala Principle centers around a profound transmission, a nonverbal transference of wisdom: humanity and society are basically good . . . The principle of basic goodness is not particularly religious or secular. It is about how humanity at the core is complete, good, and worthy. Later, he tells us more about the meaning of the phrase “basic goodness”: The Tibetan word for basic goodness . . . literally means “primordial goodness.” Primordial means “beginningless.” However, the beginning is not some long ago time when our goodness was born; it refers to this very moment. Basic goodness is not abstract; it is alive and runs throughout our whole being. The world is fresh and full of warmth and love, and humanity is gifted at experiencing it. From this open and sensitive state, we communicate. It is the wellspring from which we create great music and art, great commerce, economics, and politics. At this time of speed, depression, and technological absorption, it is not easy to experience such a subtle feeling, yet it is always here. Basic goodness is sometimes more easily glimpsed as a direct experience or feeling through art, storytelling, music or other expressive forms – or in the presence of nature. These suggestions may open up this kind of visceral experience. They may also be helpful if you are seeking ways to communicate about basic goodness if you are doing this with a partner or exploring this in a group: A painting Would you like to make a drawing, sketch or painting that you feel expresses basic goodness? You can do this in your mind’s eye, imagining what such a painting would be like. Or you could call to mind a drawing or painting that does this – how does it make you feel? A film clip Would you like to capture a moment or a scene on your camera that you feel expresses basic goodness? You could imagine what you would like to film or call to mind a film that you feel conveys the spirit of basic goodness. An anecdote There may be an anecdote or story about basic goodness that you would like to tell – or call to mind. A dream Have you had a dream about basic goodness? Or can you imagine one? How would it affect you? A dance Some people prefer to express their deepest feelings through movement and dance – with or without music. A gesture Is there a gesture that you feel expresses basic goodness? A gesture can also be a way in which one human being (or a group) extends itself to others – a gesture of reconciliation, for example. Is there a gesture of any kind that you have made, or witnessed or heard about that reveals the power of basic goodness? A moment in nature The Shambhala Principle has many references to the natural world around us and our relationship to it. A walk in nature, or a contemplative period observing the natural world, often enables us to experience the energy of basic goodness. We can spend time outdoors, alone or with others, and share our experience in whatever way we wish. Allow the natural environment to “call you” to certain trees, rocks, sounds, colours, smells etc. Reflections on basic goodness When we engage with basis goodness in these ways, it can be helpful to reflect on what the Sakyong says about it in the book. The Shambhala Principle makes it clear that “basic goodness” is not an idea or concept that can be explained or conveyed the way we treat data: Unlike information, basic goodness cannot be transmitted, but only pointed out. The heart must wake up to what is already there. The book also makes it clear that the phrase “basic goodness” points to something beyond “good” or “bad”. It is not something we pick and choose out of life. It has the quality of being unchanging, beginningless, endless, and all-inclusive. The Sakyong quotes one of Tibet’s most illustrious masters, Longchenpa: “Since all things are all-good, with not a single thing that is not good, all things are identical within the completely good state, in which there is neither good nor bad.” When we reflect on these words, we can examine our experience and ask ourselves if there is anything we glimpse – beautiful or ugly, delightful or horrific – that is not a glimpse of basic goodness. 4. What is the “deep psychic shift”? It is true that climate change and economic instability are big issues. However, any long-term solution to our concerns is rooted in a deep psychic shift. From your reading of The Shambhala Principle, what do you think the “deep psychic shift” is that the Sakyong is talking about? How would you describe this shift? Why do you feel that the Sakyong says that any long-term solution to concerns such as climate change and economic instability, is rooted in this deep psychic shift? How would you recognize this shift in yourself? What would you need to contemplate or do in order to initiate or nurture this shift in your own psyche? What would the impact of this shift be in the world around you – in relationships, in families, in communities, in larger societal processes? In addressing the need for – and indeed the inevitably – of such a shift, it may be helpful to consider the words of the Sakyong: I believe that the pain and confusion of the world is now so vivid and unavoidable that we have no choice but to acknowledge it. Perhaps this means that when we are finally fed up with torturing ourselves, others, and the planet, out of our exhaustion will arise a gap in which we come to our senses and collectively rediscover a more natural state. Only by staring directly at the confusion—examining it and absorbing its reality— will our species discover a way forward. 5. The Shambhala principle and human nature We may never before have considered human nature, but in order to move forward as a global community, it is vital that we do it now. The Sakyong asks us to contemplate human nature. It is, he says, “the most important global issue.” This, he says, is particularly true now because there is a lot of skepticism about human nature, and our assumptions about human nature have what he calls “realworld impacts”. From your own life experience, how would you describe human nature? What do you think about the view of human nature that sees people as fundamentally selfish and competitive? How do you feel about the passages in the book that say that human nature is fundamentally good? Do you think the choice is that simple? If humanity’s fundamental nature is “basic goodness”, then how is it possible for our history to be filled with acts of aggression towards each other and even towards our planet? Why is what we think about ourselves “the most important global issue”? How is this question related to “the deep psychic shift” that the Sakyong says is necessary at this point in human history? 6. The Shambhala principle in action You can use the ideas presented in The Shambhala Principle as a way of looking at your life as it unfolds each day. You can use the book as a “view finder” through which you can bring your activities and experiences into clearer focus. You may find this a helpful way of contemplating the utility of the Shambhala principle itself, or you may find it helps you see things in your life in a different way. Or both! Here are some passages from the book that you might like to experiment with as you go through your day: At home Society does not simply run on greed and aggression, but on an invisible network of love and goodwill Travelling We forget that we are feeling creatures. We rush through traffic so we can get home to the comfort of our television. While this technology has the power to awaken empathy and thoughtfulness, the habit of using it as an escape dulls us to our own brilliance and tenderness. At work In an argument with a coworker, instead of trying to outwit him or her, we use our energy to connect to a bigger view—such as generosity, kindness, and other principles that we are engendering. This allows us to maintain confidence in the inherent goodness in the situation. Our environment Our psychological state is completely related to the environment. When we feel inadequate, we consume the world around us rapaciously. Our culture We are living in a culture where the words kindness and love can seem futile, especially against greed and aggression. In our modern world, it may be hard to trust qualities that cannot be hurried, measured, or even located. Yet these intangible forces have the power to bind us. By using them, our trust in them will grow, and we will all be stronger. 7. The Shambhala principle in the world Basic goodness can be expressed in all aspects of life. In this light, I reflect on how realizing basic goodness might affect the economy, health, and education. I do this in order to initiate a dialogue about how basic goodness can be applied to society as a whole. In this way, dialogue becomes the method of creating society through exchange, opening new pathways for exploration and development. At various points, the book addresses the relevance of the Shambhala principle to major fields of human activity and concern. You may wish to contemplate some of these to see what your own experience is. You could then see if what the book says matches or challenges your experience and views. Here are some passages from the book that highlight key themes: Economics The modern economy now presumes that we are all fundamentally selfish and competitive. As a culture, we seem to draw the conclusion that even though it is good to be virtuous, human nature is greedy. This becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. When we see how the economy fosters and rewards individual and corporate greed, we conclude that acting with virtue goes against our own nature and the nature of our economic system. Education Children are naturally oriented towards learning. For most kids, it is inseparable from playfulness and joy. According to the Shambhala principle, education is the nourishing of this natural wish to learn. Unfortunately, all too often our educational systems hold the view that we are innately confused or disinterested. The resulting systems of teaching, testing, and assessment may squelch children’s curiosity and close the door to wisdom. The environment Particularly since the Industrial Revolution, we have had greater means to oppose nature, taking advantage of the environment for our own gain. Through this greed and discontent we are consuming our planet and the natural resources it provides. The result is personal, social, and environmental deforestation. Health care Even though modern medicine seems almost miraculous and taking pills might temporarily counteract the mounting pressure, the most beneficial approach for the future is to balance the stress equally with a sense of fundamental healthiness. The Shambhala approach to healthiness begins at an inner level by being kind to ourselves; appreciating what we eat through mindfulness, exchanging with others through empathy, resting with our fears, and allowing our mind to have dreams. On the outer level, it encourages respect for human dignity ... we can approach life's vicissitudes from the reference point of goodness whether we are healthy or ill. In this way basic goodness becomes our cosmic health care. Thus even illness becomes a way to discover our treasure, which allows us to celebrate being alive. Power and wealth Power and wealth do not naturally corrupt humanity. What corrupts humanity is the inability to harness and ride its natural power and wealth. Tyranny, terrorism, freedom and rights If our whole social premise is based on paranoia about tyrants and terrorists creating havoc, we are fostering an environment of suspicion and fear in which even more individuals will become disenfranchised from good human society . . . My father personally experienced the horrors of war and genocide. That led to his bravery in declaring basic goodness. He felt that if this message was not proclaimed, humanity would continue to move toward a troubled future because our feelings about our nature would be unexamined and unresolved. Although it is necessary to protect human rights, he felt that laws governing these rights could be a declaration of human dignity that arises out of victory over aggression, rather than a protective agent that arises from fear. War and peace Through view, self-reflection, and behavior, the mind can be directed toward any goal. With these three elements, we can create a state of war, or we can create a state of peace. In creating a state of war, we view others as the enemy, and we practice how to destroy them. In creating a state of peace, we view others as ourselves, and we develop a good society by being “friendly to ourselves and merciful to others,” as my father put it. 8. The mind, meditation, and the Shambhala principle The Shambhala principle challenges us to join meditative insight with social vision in order to create enlightened society. The Sakyong asks us to look carefully at the role our minds play in shaping our individual and collective experience – and the impact we have on the world around us. He asks us not to underestimate the power of the mind’s feeling about itself, pointing out that the human mind has the ability to determine the outcome of every day and that through the power of the mind we set up our personal and societal value systems. He also highlights the role that meditation can play in personal and social transformation. “Meditation,” he writes, “is about developing good mental hygiene.” He points out that one of the Tibetan terms for meditation means “strong mind”. Meditation, he explains, enables us to have direct, personal experience of our basic goodness, and sustain our intention to have a beneficial influence on those around us and the culture of our society. If you have a personal experience of meditation, what do you feel are the most significant effects the practice has on your state of mind and way of being? Do you experience any ways in which your meditation practice influences your communication and interaction with other people? Are there ways in which meditation practice has influenced the way you work, or your attitude and behavior in your place of work? “If we do not appreciate the sensitivity and subtlety of the human heart, how can we appreciate the sensitivity and subtlety of the natural world? At this very intimate level, environmental degradation begins.” Do these words match anything in your own experience? Many people regard meditation and contemplation practices as being of benefit to individuals – reducing stress, putting people more in touch with their own feelings, cultivating inner values. The Shambhala Principle suggests that meditation has a social value. Do you have any experience of this societal dimension of meditation in your own life and work? 9. Outrageous, universal and unconditional It is said that Shambhala was located at the western part of the Orient and the eastern part of the Occident—the confluence of the Asian, European, and Arabic worlds. Thus, even geographically, Shambhala was located in a position of universality. The citizens of Shambhala were said to be technologically advanced and incredibly intelligent. To create enlightened society, they roused their goodness and projected it into their daily lives, which in turn became a constant support for this enlightenment. They infused their relationships with kindness and compassion, and they also used them to develop those qualities. This all arose from a communal belief in humanity’s inherent wisdom. That is why my father drew inspiration from the legend: at the confluence of these great cultures, the spirit of goodness was extolled and celebrated. It was the epitome of human realization and cultural achievement. At various points in the book, The Sakyong, describes the Shambhala principle as having outrageous power, being part of a universal tradition and expressing unconditional wisdom. From your own understanding and experience, how could this principle be described as having “outrageous power”? Are there aspects of the Shambhala principle that you recognize from cultures and wisdom traditions around the world? If the Shambhala principle expresses unconditional wisdom then it would apply in all possible situations. As you reflect on your own experience and the world around you, do you feel this is true? Where would the Shambhala principle not apply? Could something as simple as a principle, actually have an impact on what happens to humanity and our planet at what the Sakyong calls this crossroads in our history? 10. Doubt, questioning and fear As with any book, readers have doubts and questions about what is presented. That is a manifestation of everyone’s natural curiosity, intelligence and inquiring mind. In addition, The Shambhala Principle touches on issues that affect many of us intimately – addressing deep feelings, states of mind such as depression, and asking us to look into human aggression and its affect on our future and our environment. Looking at these issues, a mix of the personal and the societal, can also bring up a lot of fear. People have different ways of working with doubt, questioning and fear. Here are some reflections for individuals, and people in conversation, that may help to acknowledge the reality and value of these experiences – and help people explore more deeply the issues involved. Doubt If you have doubts about the central theme of The Shambhala Principle or some elements of what is says, it is helpful to be open with yourself and others about this. (Even if you are a member of Shambhala or a student of The Sakyong, it is not a lack of loyalty or commitment to experience and express doubt about the Shambhala teachings. That is a natural part of the journey of genuine inquiry into these teachings.) Questioning Opening up questions about what the Sakyong presents in The Shambhala Principle is very welcome. Indeed, he writes in the prologue to the book: I do this in order to initiate a dialogue about how basic goodness can be applied to society as a whole. In this way, dialogue becomes the method of creating society through exchange, opening new pathways for exploration and development. I hope these pathways lead experts in various fields to advance this discussion … Never before has there been a time when reflection on human nature is so important, particularly because of the power of technology. Used affirmatively, it can be a powerful vehicle for allowing each of us to participate in the global community of people who wish to shift the destiny of our planet. Fear Exploration of our fears in connection with The Shambhala Principle is important: We may never before have considered human nature, but in order to move forward as a global community, it is vital that we do it now. Is our nature really fear and aggression, or could it be that we are actually gentle and fearless at heart? If our self-reflection turns up an inkling of that, we can draw power from it, daring to shift our destiny. In this way, the Shambhala principle is a socially transformative process through which confusion about human nature becomes confidence in human worthiness. 11. A study guide to the book Here is a set of questions that you are welcome to use, in any way, to take you through the book. They can be used as a study guide. This is not an outline of the book, and these questions do not cover all the themes presented in the book. You are more than welcome to develop your own questions or pursue any lines of inquiry that you wish. The Prologue What is the crossroads to which humanity has come? What is the dialogue that the Sakyong is initiating and inviting us to join? Part I Creating Enlightened Society How would you describe the Shambhala principle? Have you experienced this in your own life and work? During his escape from Tibet, the Sakyong’s father had a vision of creating an enlightened society. What would such a society be like? How do you think the Shambhala principle could contribute to the transformation of contemporary society? How does “basic goodness” differ from the concept of “good,” as in the moral battle between “good” and “bad”? Have you experienced basic goodness? How does it feel? Can you describe the way your own feelings are connected to the way you feel and act toward nature and our planet? What does the phrase, “Chaos is good news?” mean to you? How has your own experience of negativity, pain or violence helped wake you up to a more enlightened approach to living? “It is true that climate change and economic instability are big practical issues. However, any long-term solution to our concerns is rooted in a deep psychic shift,” the Sakyong writes. What would this deep psychic shift feel like? Part II Feeling How is kindness one of the building blocks of an enlightened society? What does it mean for you to view daily life as a ceremony? What do you appreciate most about your current daily ceremony? What would you like to change? How could sharing a conversation or a meal with another person contribute to transforming society? Can you describe an experience that gives you confidence that this is possible? “The psychic repercussions of materialism and the ceremony of unworthiness have created a depressed culture, and the product of that culture is cynicism and doubt . . . The mind that arises from the combination of intelligence and a depressed state is essentially obsessed with negating everything.” Do you see this pattern as you talk and work with other people? Do you experience this in yourself? How can war be a way that nations try to uplift themselves during a depressed time? What did the Sakyong’s father mean when he told his son to “Cheer up”? Part III Being “The human mind has the ability to determine the outcome of every day.” Do you have direct experience of this, yourself? How do the accumulated thought-patterns of a society affect the way each individual in a society thinks? How did social pressure reflect itself when people in Rwanda were asked why they took part in the genocide in that country? How can the power of the human mind shift our global value system? Do you believe that is possible? Do you have any experience of meditation or contemplative practice that has given you an insight into the power of basic goodness? How have you tried to bring your meditative or contemplative practice into your own life and work, into your relationships or any aspect of your life? Have you experienced what the Sakyong calls “the power of nowness”? What do you imagine it would feel like to live in an “enlightened culture”? Part IV Touching How is our view of human nature directly related to the kind of economy we create? What do you imagine “virtue economics” would be like? “Power and wealth do not naturally corrupt humanity. What corrupts humanity is the inability to harness and ride its natural power and wealth.” How do you experience natural human power and wealth? How is harnessing and riding that power and wealth related to preventing corruption? In your experience, how do the fundamental principles of a society affect its character? What changes in contemporary education would be most effective in nourishing the wisdom and dignity of both students and teachers? “The day does not have to be perfect in order for us to feel a sense of celebration.” Can you describe a direct experience you have had of this truth? How would a society feel if its laws were based on the proclamation of human dignity rather than protection against threats to that dignity? What does it mean to you personally when you read: “Each of us holds human destiny in our hands”? 12. A Shambhala principle gathering (for Shambhala Centres, groups or households) This is a possible format for a community gathering structured around contemplating, discussing and celebrating the Shambhala principle This format offers basic guidelines and suggestions. Please feel free to adjust them based on the needs of your specific community, and to the possibilities of your household if you are hosting the gathering there. Opening the gathering The environment is prepared with dignity. Community gathers in shrine room (in centres or groups). The community leader(s) acting as host (s) for the gathering enter and light the shrine. Welcome the gathered assembly and briefly describe the plan for the gathering. Make sure to explain the nature of the gathering carefully, both for those who are new to such gatherings and new to Shambhala altogether. If you wish, you can open the gathering with The Proclamation of Basic Goodness and the chanting of the Shambhala Lineage Supplication. Practice shamatha meditation for five minutes. Opening reading Opening reading from The Shambhala Principle. This could be one of the chapters from the book, a shorter passage from the book, or one of the questions from “Engaging with themes in the book” (pages xx). You might choose to have a gathering in which the reading is “The Birth of Society”, the Sakyong’s letter to the Shambhala Community written in advance of publication of The Shambhala Principle. The opening reading can be offered by the host(s) of the gathering, or someone they have invited (in advance) to read the text or question. If the opening reading is of a short passage or a question, it is often helpful to read it aloud more than once so that people can focus their minds on it more clearly. Contemplating (3-5 minutes) Instructions for contemplating: We will now contemplate this passage (or the question). Take a few minutes to ponder the passage (or the question) with an open-minded approach. One way to start is simply to repeat a phrase or idea that particularly touched you (or the question) several times quietly to yourself to let it really sink in. This may help you can contemplate it from a deeper level of understanding that you normally access in yourself. Sometimes a feeling, a bodily sensation or a strong emotion arises from doing this. If so, pay attention to those sensations, don’t push them away. Then see what words, mental pictures or ideas surface. They may be fragments, incomplete notions or expressive images. Feel free to make notes if you wish. Please begin. Gong (Allow three to five minutes for this contemplation) Gong. Please conclude your contemplation. Inquiring/Dialogue (20 min) Instructions for inquiring: Please find a partner. (Allow time for people to do this) We will now take turns sharing our contemplative work with our partner. One of you speaks, the other listens. You will have five minutes in which to speak. While you are speaking freely, the role of your partner is to listen with an open mind and heart. Normally, we don’t listen fully to each other; instead we are silent judging, agreeing or disagreeing, and thinking about what we are going to say ourselves! In this session, we try to listen fully. After the five minutes are up for the first person (I will ring the gong), the partner who was listening asks a question that may help take the contemplation deeper, such as: “Can you say more about the difficulty you are having with this text?” or “Why do you feel so strongly about the situation you are going through?” Allow a few more minutes for the person to reflect on this and respond. I will ring the gong. Then you will change roles: the person who was speaking will listens and inquires; the one who was listening, will have their time to speak. Please decide who will speak first. Please begin with a bow to each other. Gong (Allow 7 to 10 minutes) Now the person who is listening may ask their question to help deepen the other person’s contemplation, and give them space to respond. (Allow three minutes) Gong. Please conclude and bow to each other. Please pause for a moment of silence. Now you will change roles. Those who were listening before, this is your time to speak about your contemplation. Please bow and begin. Gong. (Allow 7-10 minutes) Now the person who is listening may ask their question to help deepen the other person’s contemplation, and give them space to respond. (Allow three minutes) Gong. Please conclude and bow to each other. Sharing In partners (12 minutes) Instructions for sharing with partners: Please remain with your partners. The two of you can now have a “normal” unstructured conversation about the passage (or the question) you have been contemplating. It is often helpful to first talk with each other about your experience of the careful way in which you both experimented with “contemplating” and “inquiring”. Sharing your experience of doing that may help to reveal a deeper level of mental activity that you find helpful and would like to have more access to. It may also help your “normal” conversation remain rooted in that. We’ll have about ten minutes conversation now. Please begin. Gong. (Allow ten minutes for conversation) Please conclude. Gong. Now we will share our experience in our group. (Optional: Let’s make a circle.) In the group (20 minutes) Instructions for sharing in the group: (If you wish to open this up to the full group, you can either let people speak spontaneously or simply go around the circle of the group giving each person a little time in which to share with the group whatever they wish. Normally, this kind of group work seems to work best for everyone if the group as a whole listens wholeheartedly to whatever anyone is saying, and does not engage in cross-talk or making comments on what anyone has said. People from the group will naturally speak to each other, if they want to, after the session is over) This is an opportunity to share with others anything you wish about what came up for you in your contemplation. Let’s simply open up the space for whoever wishes to share their experience. We will have time afterwards for talking to each other. Please share only your own experience and thoughts. If your partner wishes to speak, they will do so for themselves. (Allow 15 or so minutes – depending on the group energy) Let’s conclude with dedicating the merit: By the confidence of the golden sun of the great east, May the lotus garden of the Ridgen’s wisdom bloom. May the dark ignorance of sentient beings be dispelled. May all beings enjoy profound, brilliant glory. Let us bow to each other. Gong. Celebrating Please offer some light refreshment for everyone and have time to relax together. Conversation may well revolve around the gathering’s contemplation. (Altogether, such a gathering would take about 90 minutes from the opening through to the conclusion of the group sharing. The time for celebrating would follow that. The local host(s) can adjust the timing as they wish, and adapt this outline in whatever way seems to work best for their local situation.) Last updated: 16 July 2013