Tourette Syndrome YOUR “REAL-LIFE” EXAMPLE OF USING THIS STRATEGY COPING STRATEGY Early intervention is key to managing the disorder. Get help from a qualified health practitioner, including a professional diagnosis. An accurate diagnosis will help to prevent any incorrect “labeling” of your child by others. It will also assist you in working with your child’s education team to determine appropriate accommodations. Obtain a second opinion if necessary. Find a support group for both you and your child, and exchange strategies. Learn all you can about the disorder and educate your family and your child about the disorder. Don’t compare your child to siblings or other children. Treat your child as a unique individual. e.g. “One of Ethan’s tics is motor related – his taps his feet. To prevent attention and disruption in class at school, we made sure he had shoes on the wouldn’t squeak or make a lot of noise, which seems to be working quite well.” Tourette Syndrome Re-evaluate and modify strategies as necessary. Work closely with your child’s teacher, doctor, and school team. NOTE: While children with TS cannot be held accountable for their tics because they don’t have control over them, they should be encouraged to take personal responsibility for the outcome of their tics. For example, if a person has a spitting tic, they should be encouraged to apologize for spitting at someone. They should not be punished for spitting because this was unintentional. If they swear at someone, and this swearing is a tic, they should apologize for hurting someone's feelings but should not be punished for using inappropriate language. Work with a professional to manage their symptoms. Recognize that TS does not affect intelligence; there are numerous highly successful people with TS. Tourette Syndrome Emphasize to your child that TS is not the most important thing about him/her. He/she is valued and loved. Tics may increase with stress and decrease when a child is involved in an absorbing activity. Keep these points in mind when working with your child. Talk with your child about appropriate behaviour for his/her age and explain that any behaviour that is a symptom (i.e. tics) is not his/her fault. Encourage your child to take personal responsibility for the effect that their tics may have. Try to be flexible. Your child will have different needs and abilities at different times and may even go in cycles throughout the day. Tourette Syndrome Work with your child’s teachers, family, and friends to create a reassuring daily routine with a structure your child can manage and expect. Arrange extra help where necessary and take advantage of special education resources. Be sure to allow for flexibility in routine when your child is particularly symptomatic. Break down tasks into manageable chunks and give clear instructions about how to complete them. Allow your child to go at his/her own pace, since tics may slow down tasks. Praise progress rather than criticize disorganization. If you are asking your child to do something, make sure he/she is ready and feeling safe in his/her environment. Tourette Syndrome Look for activities that your child is good at, and then provide him/her with lots of praise to boost self-esteem. Remember, tics are not the same as habits. Your child does not have control over the tics. Ignore tics as much as you can. Encourage taking personal responsibility for the outcome of inappropriate tics. Tics are not excuses for all behaviours, and behaviours that are not tics should have consequences. Work with your child to understand the difference between a tic that he or she cannot control, and a behaviour that he or she chooses to act out. Tourette Syndrome Provide support and supervision, especially in unstructured environments that are less clear for your child. Modify the environment where you can, rather than attempting to change your child. When possible note what triggers your child’s tics and take care to avoid or minimize these triggers in the future if you can. Be aware of depression and suicidal behaviour (see Mood Disorders and Suicide in this handbook), since children with disorders like TS are at higher risk. Don’t assign blame for your child’s tics. Your child cannot choose to stop Tourette Syndrome Have, and encourage in your child, a sense of humour. Children with TS often suffer the added stress of teasing, rejection, and even bullying from peers. Encourage your child to talk about the disorder with classmates, friends and family, and thereby increase acceptance of tics. If your child agrees, consider contacting an organization to have one of their trained volunteers give a presentation to his/her class or school. Determine the best approach with the teacher and with your child to create awareness and understanding of your child’s disorder.