We relate to you the best of stories… The Story of Prophet Yusuf A.S Lessons | Reminders | Guidance Surah Yusuf – the Background • Based in 1900 BC, about 4000 years from now • Surah Yusuf – an example of education through story telling • Highlighting points: – Sabr – Ihsan • Honorable lineage: Kareem ibn kareem ibn kareem ibn kareem Lessons and Topics Consequences of jealousy/hatred Detailed explanation of human psyche Solutions to social problems Downside of human self Allah’s help during difficult times ُْ َ ْ ُ َ َ ْ ِ ِ اب اْل ِِب ين ِ الر ۚ ِتلك آيات ال ِكت Alif, Lam, Ra. These are the verses of the clear Book. ََّ َ َ ْ َ ُ ُ ْ ً َ َ ًّ َّ َ َّ ُ ْ َ ْ ُ ن ِ ِإنا أنزلناه قرآنا عرِبيا لعلكم تع ِقلو Indeed, We have sent it down as an Arabic Qur'an that you might understand. Discussion points: • Why is the Quran in Arabic? َصص ب َما َأ ْو َح ْينا َ ص َع َل ْي َك َأ ْح َس َن ْال َِق ُّ َن ْح ُن َن ُق ِ ِ ْ َ ََٰ َ ْ َ َآن ُ ْ ِ ِإليك هذا القر We relate to you, [O Muhammad], the best of stories in what We have revealed to you of this Qur'an ُ َ َ ْ َ َ َْ َين َ ِ وِإن كنت ِمن قب ِل ِه ِْلن الغا ِف ِل although you were, before it, among the unaware. Discussion Points: •Why is the story of Yusuf called the best of stories? The “Best of Stories” – Why? The whole story is narrated in one place Compare to a history book – has lessons for us without the dry irrelevant facts Contains a lot of moral lessons In depth analysis of human psyche ُ ُ ُ َ َ ْ َف َِلب يه َي ا َأِ َبت إ ِّن ي َ َأ ْي ُتِ َأ َحد ِإذ ق ال ي وس ِ ِ ِ َر ِ ِ ِ َ ْ َ َ ْ َّ َ ً َ ْ َ َ َ َ ُ ْ ْ َ ُ َ َ عشر كوكب ا والشمس ِوالقمر رأيتهمِ ِل ي ََِس اجد ين ِ ِ [Of these stories mention] when Joseph said to his father, "O my father, indeed I have seen [in a dream] eleven stars and the sun and the moon; I saw them prostrating to me." • Discussion Points: – Communication with parents َ َِ ص ُر ْؤ َي َاك َع َل َٰى إ ْخ َوتك ُال َيا ُب َن َّي ََل َت ْقص ْ َ ق ِ ِ ُ َف َيك ًيدوا َل َك َك ْيدا ِ He said, "O my son, do not relate your vision to your brothers or they will contrive against you a plan. ْ َ َ ْ َّ َّ ُ َ َ ُّ ِِإن الشيطان ِل ِْلنس ِان عد ِو م ِبين Indeed Satan, to man, is a manifest enemy. • Discussion Point: – Yaqub A.S’s warning – backbiting? َْ ِّ َ ُ َ َ ُّ َ َ َ ْ َ َ ََٰ َ َ َ ُ ك يجت ِبيك ربك وِيع ِلمك ِمن تأ ِو ِيل ِ وكذ ِل َْ ََٰ َ َ َ ْ َ َ ُ َ َ ْ ُّ ُ َ ُ َ َ ْ َوب ِ يث وي ِتم ِنع َمته ع ِليك وعلى ِآل يعق اد ح اِل ِ ِ ََك َما َأ َت َّم َها َع َل َٰى أ َب َو ْي َك من َِق ْب ُل إ ْب َراهيم ِ ِ ِ َ َ َّ َ َ َ َ ْ َّ َ ِاق ۚ ِإن ربك ع ِليم ح ِِكيم ِ وِإسح And thus will your Lord choose you and teach you the interpretation of narratives and complete His favor upon you and upon the family of Jacob, as He completed it upon your fathers before, Abraham and Isaac. Indeed, your Lord is Knowing and Wise." • Discussion Points: – The reality of dreams Reality of dreams Three kinds of dreams: • Anxiety/worry (Hadith nafs) • Shaitan’s nightmares • True dream from Allah A part of the soul is extracted when we sleep – it travels through different realms and sometimes we experience that as dreams A good dream is from Allah; a bad one is from Shaitan When you see a good dream, tell only trusted wellwishers. When you see a bad dream, tell absolutely no one. When you have a bad dream, spit thrice to the left, seek refuge with Allah and turn over. Tell no one and do not make a bad interpretation. The dream cannot harm you then. A dream cannot be consulted for guiding between haq and batil or as proof of haq vs batil arguments A dream is not the means to know the future, even a dream after istikhara, and neither does istikhara guarantee a dream. ِّ َ َ ْ َ َ ُ ُ َ َ ْ َ َّ َين َّ ِ لسا ِئ ِل ِ خو ِت ِه آيات ِل ِ لقد كان ِفي يوسف وِإ Certainly were there in Joseph and his brothers signs for those who ask, • Discussion Points: • Narrative-based learning in the Quran َ ُ ُ ََ ُ ُ َُ ُ َ ْ َّب إ َل َٰى َأب َينا م ِنا َ ُّ ِ ِ َ ِ ِ ِإذ قالوا ليوسف وأ َخوه َ أح َ َ َّ َ ْ ُ ُ ْ َ َ َ ُّ ِ ٍ ونحن عصبة ِإن أبانا ل ِِفي ضَل ٍل م ِب ين 8. When they said, "Joseph and his brother are more beloved to our father than we, while we are a clan. Indeed, our father is in clear error. • Favoritism by Yaqub A.S? • Words reflect character • Attitude towards parents Discussion from Ayah 8 • Did Yaqub A.S really discriminate among his children? No! Parents can be naturally inclined towards one child because of obedience and gentleness – with these, a child can win over his parents’ heart. • Attitude towards parents should be one of humility, not superiority ْ َ َ ُ ُ ُُ ْ ً وه َأ ِْر ُ اط َر ُح ْضا َي ْخ ُل َل ُكم اقتلوا يوسف أ ِو ُ َ ُ ْ َ َصالحين َ يك ْم َو َت ُك ُونوا من َب ِْعده َق ْو ًما وجه أ ِب ِِ ِِ ِ 9. Kill Joseph or cast him out to [another] land; the countenance of your father will [then] be only for you, and you will be after that a righteous people." • Shaitan’s traps within family? • Sibling Rivalry Sibling rivalry • They weren’t looking at their own faults. • Sibling rivalry was caused by Shaitan • What do we do when we dislike someone? • Isolate, insult and degrade, create an unpleasant atmosphere • Underlying reason – jealousy! What is the most effective way of winning hearts? Humility, gentleness, patience, kindness, understanding Pride, plotting and planning, isolation, cutting off, spite, revenge ْ َ َ َ ُ ُ ُ ُ ْ َ َ ْ ُ ْ ِّ َ َ َ ُ ُ قال قا ِئل ِمنهم َل تقتل ِوا يوسف وألقوه ِفي ْالس َّيا َرة إن ُك ُنتم َّ ض ُ َغ َي َاب ِت ْال ُج ِّب َي ْل َت ِق ْط ُه َب ْع ِ ِ ِ َ َين ِ اع ِل ِ ف 10. Said a speaker among them, "Do not kill Joseph but throw him into the bottom of the well; some travelers will pick him up - if you would do [something]." • How Allah creates help َ ُ ُ َٰ َ َ َّ َ ْ َ َ َ َ َ َ َ َ َ ُ َ َّف َوإ ِنا ِ قالوا يا أبانا ما َ ل َك َ َل تأم ِنا َ على يوس ُ ُ اصحون ِ له لن 11. They said, "O our father, why do you not entrust us with Joseph while indeed, we are to him sincere counselors? َُأ ْ س ْل ُه َم َع َنا َغ ًدا َي ْرَت ْع َوَِي ْل َع ْب َوإ َّنا َله ِر ِ ََ َ ُ ن ِ لحا ِفظو 12. Send him with us tomorrow that he may eat well and play. And indeed, we will be his guardians. • Discussion Points: – Emotional blackmail of parents ُ َ ََ ْ َ َ ُ ُ ْ َ َ ِّ َ َ ُاف َأن َي ْأ ُك َِله َ ُ قال ِإ ِني ليحزن ِني أن تذهب ِوا ِب ِه وأخ َِّ ْ ُ َ َ ُ ْ َ ْ ُ َ ُ ن ِ الذئب وأنتم عنه غا ِفلو ِ 13. [Jacob] said, "Indeed, it saddens me that you should take him, and I fear that a wolf would eat him while you are of him unaware." ً َّ َ ْ ُ ُ ْ َ َ ُ ْ ِّ ُ َ َ َ ْ َ ُ َ الذئب ونحن عصبة ِإنا ِإذا ِ قالوا ل ِئن أكله ََّل َخاس ُرون ِ 14. They said, "If a wolf should eat him while we are a [strong] clan, indeed, we would then be losers." َ َّ َ َ َ ُ َُ ْ َ َ ُ َ ْ ََ َ َ َ ُ فلما ذهبوا َ ِب ِه وأجمعوا أن يجعل َوه ِفي غي ِاب ِت َ ََٰ ْ ْ ُ َّ َ ِّ َ ُ َ ْ َ َ ْ َ ْ َ ِّ ُ ْ ب ۚ وأوحينا ِإلي ِه ل ِتن ِبئنهم ِبأم ِر ِِهم هذا ِ ِ الج ََو ُه ْم ََل َي ْش ُع ُرو ِن 15. So when they took him [out] and agreed to put him into the bottom of the well... But We inspired to him, "You will surely inform them [someday] about this affair of theirs while they do not perceive [your identity]." ََ َ ُ َ َ ُ ْ َ ً َ ْ ُ ن ِ وجاءوا أباهم ِعشاء يبكو 16. And they came to their father at night, weeping. َ ُ ُ َ ْ َ َ َ ُ َ ْ َ َ ْ َ َ َّ َ َ َ َ ُ َ ست ِبق وتركنا ي ِوسف ِ قالوا يا أبانا ِإنا ذهبنا ن ْ ُ َ َ َ َ ُ ْ ِّ ُ َ َ َ َ َ َ َ َ ب ۚ وما أنت ِبمؤ ِم ٍن ِ الذئ ِ اعنا فأكله ِ ِعند مت ُ ْ َ َ َ َّ َين َّ َ ِ لنا ولو كنا ص ِاد ِق 17. “They said, "O our father, indeed we went racing each other and left Joseph with our possessions, and a wolf ate him. But you would not believe us, even if we were truthful." َ َ َ َٰ َ َ ُ َ َ َ ب ۚ َق ْال َبل وجاءوا على ق ِم ِ ٍ يص ِه ِبد ٍم ك ِ ِذ ِ َ َ ُ ُ ُ ْ ْ ًَس َّو َل ْت َل ُك ْم أنفسكم أم ِرا 18. And they brought upon his shirt false blood. [Jacob] said, "Rather, your souls have enticed you to something… َ َّ َ ُ س َت َع ْ َ َ َان َع َل َٰى ما ِْ ُالل ُه ْاْل فصبر ج ِميلِ ۚ و َ ُ ت ِصفو ِن 18. (contd.) …so patience is most fitting. And Allah is the one sought for help against that which you describe." • Discussion Points: – Sabrun Jameel Three meanings of sabr according to Ali R.A Positive • Sticking to good • Thoughts, words, feelings, leading to actions Negative • Staying away from bad • Thoughts, words, feelings, leading to actions Acceptance • Accepting Allah’s decree and ruling