Discover Your Natural Motivations Session I Psalm 139: 13-15 “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place.” “…each man has his own gift from God…” 1 Corinthians 7:7 “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above...” James 1:17a “…It is He who has made us and not we ourselves.” Psalm 100:3 Giftedness is… THE UNIQUE WAY WE THINK, FEEL AND ACT. It’s the way GOD WIRED US. S. H. A. P. E. Spiritual Gifts Heart Passions Ability & Natural Talents Personality Experience Objectives of Session I Name your personality type and describe it in general terms Identify three strengths of your personality and three areas of caution Practice identifying the personality profiles of others so we can understand each other better 1 20 13 61 41 49 9 17 53 15 3 39 51 19 24 12 36 55 43 52 72 76 68 75 59 84 40 28 35 63 56 71 67 62 8 80 27 11 58 26 32 79 83 7 82 23 47 10 74 65 57 50 42 38 77 25 31 6 33 73 69 30 70 66 5 54 46 29 37 14 22 18 2 45 81 21 34 78 4 60 48 44 16 64 UY 1 20 13 61 41 49 9 53 15 77 65 57 3 39 51 19 56 24 43 12 76 68 75 59 52 72 36 55 35 84 40 28 67 62 8 80 27 63 58 71 83 11 10 26 32 79 23 47 7 82 50 42 74 25 31 6 38 66 69 30 33 73 17 5 70 14 22 54 46 29 37 18 2 45 81 21 34 78 4 60 48 44 16 64 UY Active Types • Extrovert • Outgoing • Optimistic • Involved • Introvert • Realistic • Reserved • Withdrawn Passive Types UY Task-Oriented Types High-Tech People-Oriented Types High-Touch • Plans • Programs • Projects • Process Form & Function • Caring • Sharing • Relationships • Emotions Feeling & Fellowship UY UY D I S C “M”: _ _ _ _ D I S C “L”: _ _ _ _ Take your D, I, S, & C Totals from your Total Boxes and plot Graphs 1 & 2. Count, but do not plot the "B"s. If a number is not on the graph, plot the closest number. Active Types TaskOriented Types D I CS PeopleOriented Types Passive Types UY "M" Graph 1 "L" Graph 2 "This is expected of me” D I S C “This is me” D I S C UY I/S Combination D/I Combination “D” Type - CHALLENGE Descriptive words: Environment Needs: Dominant Freedom Decisive Authority Direct Varied activities Demanding Difficult assignments Disciplined Opportunity for advancement Responds to a leader who: Needs to Learn That: Provides direct answers People are important Sticks to business Relaxation is not a crime Stresses goals Some controls are needed Provides pressure Everyone has a boss Allows freedom for Verbalizing conclusions help personal accomplishment people understand “I” Type - RECOGNITION Descriptive words: Environment Needs: Impressive Prestige Inducing Friendly relationships Inspiring Opportunity to influence Interested in people Opportunity to inspire Influencing Chance to verbalize ideas Responds to a leader who: Needs to Learn That: Is a democratic manager Time must be managed Provides social There can be too much involvement outside of work Provides recognition Offers incentive for risktaking Is also an “I” optimism Details are important Humility is a virtue Not EVERYONE has to be a friend. “S” Type - SECURITY Descriptive words: Environment Needs: Sincere An area of specialization Steady Identification with a group Stable Established work patterns Security-oriented Stability of situation Sensitive Consistent familiar environment Responds to a leader who: Needs to Learn That: Is relaxed and amiable “S” can also stand for “sucker” Allows time to adjust plans It is possible to say “NO”!! Serves as a friend, gives Change provides opportunity personal support Allows people to work at their own pace Answers the “how” ?s Friendship isn’t everything Discipline is good “C” Type - QUALITY Descriptive words: Environment Needs: Calculating Clearly defined tasks Conservative Sufficient time & resources Cautious Explanations Competent Team participation Compliant Limited risks Responds to a leader who: Needs to Learn That: Provides reassurance Total support is not always Maintains a supportive necessary Thorough explanation is not always possible Deadlines must be set Self’s standards are higher than most environment Provides an “open-door” policy Defines concise, detailed standards Is happy to answer questions D I Dominant Determined Persistent Accepts Challenges Quick Decisions Self-Reliant Impatient Inflexible & Unyielding Insensitive Takes on too much Inspiring Influencing Optimistic Personable Enthusiastic Entertaining Impulsive Over-commits Jumps to conclusions Verbally manipulative C S Careful Competent Diplomatic Self-disciplined Orderly & Analytical Committed to quality Overly cautious Too rigid Sensitive to criticism Pessimistic Steady Servant Supportive Reliable Good listener Builds relationships Overly Tolerant Indecisive Procrastinates Lacks initiative Practice Identifying the Personality Profiles of Others REGARDING WEAKNESSES Every strength OVEREXTENDED can become a POTENTIAL WEAKNESS or limitation. REMEMBER… Your personality was handcrafted by God Himself! We must permit the HOLY SPIRIT to temper our extremes, and be guided daily by THE WORD OF GOD. Discover Your Spiritual Giftedness Session II TEAM Discipleship & Leader Development Schoolroom Scenario Acts 1:8 “… but you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be My witnesses both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and even to the remotest part of the earth.” We are all called to be evangelists, as royal priests, but we also have been given special gifting, abilities, passions, personalities and experiences that make us the perfect individual to undertake a unique ministry in the body of Christ… What are spiritual gifts? ‘… extraordinary endowments that the Spirit confers on chosen people.’ Leon Morris ‘… specific visible ways in which the Spirit manifests himself in the believing community, granting them ‘gracious bestowments’ to meet their various needs and thus to build them up…’ Gordon Fee 1 Corinthians 12:11 “All these are the work of one and the same Spirit, and he gives them to each one, just as he determines.” Who Have Spiritual Gifts? 1 Peter 4:10 Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms.” All believers! Do we ACHIEVE or RECEIVE our spiritual gifts? 1 Corinthians 12:18 “But in fact God has arranged the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be.” Receive God’s choice Should I expect to function like other members in the Body? Romans 12:6a “We have different gifts, according to the grace given us...” No! Why use our spiritual gifts? 1 Peter 4:10-11 “Each one should use whatever gifts he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms… so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ.” God is glorified! “Charis” Means “grace” in Greek Also is the root for gift (charizmo) and joy (chara) Isn’t is appropriate that using our grace gifts will result in joy!! SPIRITUAL GIFTS ADMINISTRATION CELIBACY EVANGELISM EXORCISM GIVING HELPS INTERCESSSION KNOWLEDGE MARTYRDOM MIRACLES PASTOR SERVICE TONGUES WISDOM APOSTLESHIP DISCERNMENT EXHORTATION FAITH HEALING HOSPITALITY INTERPRETER OF TONGUES LEADERSHIP MERCY MISSIONARY PROPHECY TEACHING VOLUNTARY POVERTY Discovering your spiritual gifts… 1. Explore the possibilities. 2. Experiment with as many as possible. 3. Examine your feelings. 4. Evaluate your effectiveness. 5. Expect confirmation from the body. Discover Your Destiny Spiritual Gifts Profile – pg 3. 128 statements. Rate from 1 to 5. 1 is almost never true. 5 is almost always true. Resist the urge to put a 3 on everything. William Booth ‘You must know you have a gift before you can use it. Every man is a genius in some direction. There is some specialty in which he excels beyond those about Him …Put yourself into circumstances in which you are likely to discover for yourself, and in which others can help you to find out, what gifts you do possess. I am afraid … thousands …live and die with abilities, which, had they been discovered, might have been the means of saving multitudes.’ “This isn’t working for me!” You may be serving in a ministry position that doesn’t match your giftedness. This may indicate MATURITY AND A WILLINGNESS TO DO WHATEVER GOD HAS CALLED YOU TO DO. OR it may explain WHY YOU GET FRUSTRATED IN YOUR MINISTRY. The greatest ability God wants is AVAILABILITY. God doesn’t always CALL THE QUALIFIED, but He always QUALIFIES THE CALLED. Hindrances to Spiritual Gifting Self-esteem problems Pursuing someone’s else’s agenda for us Avoiding distinctiveness/to be known Trying to be just like someone else Having to function in ungifted areas Unwillingness to accept feedback Blocks to the Flow of Spiritual Gifts Bondage – fear, damaged emotions from childhood, low self-esteem Unresolved anger Conflict with family members Conflict with brothers & sisters in Christ Irresponsibility Sin What robs you of your joy in serving Christ and His Body? What stands in the way of you reaching out to Him to be equipped for His service? How to Handle Conflicts Natural Responses to Conflict: “D’s” – want to Attack “I’s” – want to Expose “S’s” – want to Support or Submit “C’s” – want to Criticize Recommended Wise Responses: “D’s” – restore with love “I’s” – make others look good “S’s” – care enough to confront “C’s” – examine own self first Biblical Resolution Management Read through pg. 31 – “Biblical Resolution Management” Free to copy and circulate in your corps!!! Biographical Survey on p. 34 - check the box at the bottom Putting it all Together Session III Blends What personality type would you predict a person with the gift of teaching has? C What about the gift of serving? S Unique Blends What personality would we normally expect of a prophet? Consider a person with the gift of Mercy having a D personality. Evangelists are not always I’s either. There are some C evangelists who can state a case with indisputable facts that prompt a person to accept the Lord. Group Work Turn to pages 17-22 in your workbook. Locate the Personality / Spiritual Gift description(s) which apply to you. Read them to yourself. Get into groups of 3 - 4. Each person should share briefly the insights you’ve received today. HEART PASSIONS God sometimes gives us a burden that has nothing to do with our personality or giftedness. If you had ten million dollars, how would you spend it? What people/situations have you met that gave you a PASSION for something? ABILITIES/TALENTS We also each have specific natural talents, abilities, hobbies and skills. What “talents” has God blessed you with that can be a vehicle for ministry in your life? EXPERIENCES God allows each of us to go through difficult times that cause us to rely on Him. He often brings people into our lives later who we then can EMPATHIZE with and minister to, in His name. Can you think of a situation that God has allowed in your life and then clearly used so that you could minister to someone? 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.” Romans 12:1-2 “Therefore, I urge you brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God – this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – his good, pleasing and perfect will..” A Warning… Are you open to GOD developing and using your gifts as He sees fit? 1 Peter 5:1-7 “…be submissive…, eager to serve… All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another… Humble yourselves… that He may lift you up in due time.” GET INTO ‘SHAPE’! Turn to page 33 in your booklet – consider the areas of ministry that interest you and suit your “SHAPE” Complete Handout #10 so that your CO can meet your needs and “plug you in”! Food for personal thought and prayer – page 35… Romans 12:1-3 “…offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing… …be transformed by the renewing of your mind… then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is… Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.” BIBLICAL EXAMPLES “D” Types: Paul and Sarah “I” Types: Peter and Ruth “C” Types Thomas and Esther “S” Types Moses and Hannah JESUS? D I Cleansing the temple Feeding the 5000 Mark 6:30-44 Matthew 21:12-17 C S Teaching in the temple Emotionally moved for Lazarus Luke 2:41-52 John 11:38-44