re:source School Group Leaders Training Course School Group Leaders Training Core Session 1: School Group Leaders Training Overview of the course: 1. Core Sessions: • Welcome and Introductions • What does the Bible say about leadership? • Why have a group anyway? Developing a vision for Christian Groups in schools re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training 2. Skills Sessions: • • • • • • • • • • Group Dynamics What sort of leader are you? Preparing and leading a group Bible study How to start a group How to plan a programme How to put an individual session together Building groups that last Being a servant community Handling difficult / challenging behaviour Presentation skills re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Pleasedtomeetyoudice game 1. Something about your school. 2. Something about the Christian group in your school. 3. What you are looking forward to this weekend. 4. Help yourself to a chocolate. 5. Something you would like to happen by this time next year. 6. Go and join another group, but take the person on your right with you and introduce them to the other group. re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Core Session 2: THE KIND OF PEOPLE GOD USES.... No.1 – GOD USES WEAK PEOPLE “God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.” 1 Corinthians 1:27 THE KIND OF PEOPLE GOD USES.... No.1 – GOD USES WEAK PEOPLE “But he said to me ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” 2 Corinthians 12:9 THE KIND OF PEOPLE GOD USES.... No.1 – GOD USES WEAK PEOPLE ...THEREFORE CONFESS YOUR WEAKNESS THE KIND OF PEOPLE GOD USES.... No.2 – GOD USES BLAMELESS PEOPLE LEADERS SHOULD BE... 1. BLAMELESS IN THEIR MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE (v.6) “An elder must be blameless, the husband of but one wife, a man whose children believe and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient.” LEADERS SHOULD BE... 2. BLAMELESS IN THEIR CHARACTER AND CONDUCT (v.7-8) “Since an overseer is entrusted with God’s work, he must be blameless – not overbearing, not quicktempered, not given to drunkenness, not violent, not pursuing dishonest gain. Rather he must be hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is selfcontrolled, upright, holy and disciplined.” LEADERS SHOULD BE... 3. BLAMELESS IN THEIR BELIEF AND TEACHING (v.9) “He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it.” THE KIND OF PEOPLE GOD USES.... No.2 – GOD USES BLAMELESS PEOPLE ...THEREFORE PURSUE BLAMELESSNESS School Group Leaders Training Core Session 3: Why Have A Group Anyway? Whatdoyouthink arethetoptwo reasonsfor havingagroup re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Why Have A Group Anyway? • Throw out any that you think are inappropriate • Add any others • Rank them • Be ready to explain your choices re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Why Have A Group Anyway? Matthew 5: 13 – 16 2 Corinthians 5: 18 – 6:1 1 Peter 2: 9 - 12 God’s people in school are called to be… re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Why Have A Group Anyway? School Christian Groups - Some Possible Models re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Bible Reading Cell groups – Worship, word & witness (support emphasis) Just looking group / Rock Solid – Fun, Punchy, with message (outreach) Mix and Match issue / topic based (morals, ethics) Drop in (social) Bible teaching / study (teaching) Prayer (support / outreach) Coffee bar (outreach) re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Why Have A Group Anyway? Your task is to convince the rest of the group that the particular model you have been given is THE BEST way to meet together re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools You’ll have 5 mins to prepare and then you’ll have to present your case to the rest of the group. Why Have A Group Anyway? Reflection: Why do you think your group is currently meeting? Does this need to change? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Skills Session 1: Group Dynamics The Life Cycle Of A Group Forming Storming Norming Performing Mourning re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Group Dynamics 1 Corinthians 14:29-39 Joshua 7:10-11 and 16-26 re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Skills Session 2: What Sort Of Leader Are You? Complete the survey to discover what sort of leader you are. re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools What Sort Of Leader Are You? Relaxed re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools What Sort Of Leader Are You? Directive re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools What Sort Of Leader Are You? Co-operative re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools What Sort Of Leader Are You? Reflection: What are your strengths and weaknesses as a leader? Ask God to continue to equip you? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Skills Session 3: Preparing And Leading A Bible Study Why study the bible in a school group? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Preparing And Leading A Bible Study Getting Ready – preparing to lead • • • • • • Pray for God’s wisdom and leading Read the passage Understanding – What does the passage actually say? Explain – What does the passage mean? Apply – What does the passage mean today? How are you going to communicate this? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Preparing And Leading A Bible Study Getting Ready – Go …. Imagine you have to lead a bible study on the following passage. In pairs, have a go at putting a short Bible study together, following the principles in the leaflet. John 6 : 32 - 42 re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Skills Session 4: START Getting Started Issues to consider: Priorities People Programme Permission START Prayer re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Protection Publicity Getting Started Role play: START The conversation that you might have with a young person in your school who you know goes to church but does not want to come to the new group. The conversation you would have with a Christian member of staff asking them to support the new group. The conversation with the Head teacher as you approach them for permission to start running a group. re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Getting Started Getting Started Guide START www.scriptureunion.org.uk/re-source Click on Starting A Group and download the free guide re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Getting Started Prayer: START Pray for and with each other as you go about starting new groups in your schools. re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Skills Session 5: Planning A Programme Why plan? What are the advantages of planning a programme for a whole half / term? What makes a good / bad programme? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Planning A Programme Activities Menu Add any other activities you can think of. Complete the table by writing in the dis / advantages of each activity. re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Planning A Programme Top Tips: The starting point MUST be the content Then think about the activity / style / approach If it does not fit, save it for another time re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Planning A Programme Give it a go….. In groups of 3 or 4, try to plan a draft programme for the next half term re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Skills Session 6: Planning A Meeting The Good, The Bad and The Ugly … On slips of paper write down a memorable moment you have experienced as part of a small group. It could be some thing very profound, experiential or humorous. re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Planning A Meeting Getting it right … Why do we bother running a Christian group? Why do we bother making the effort to do a ‘good’ meeting? What is a good recipe when it comes to running a meeting? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Planning A Meeting A meeting from scratch … Easter / Christmas / Pentecost / Harvest Friendship Exams The cross of Christ The Holy Spirit The cost of discipleship Euthanasia Climate change Money re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Skills Session 7: Building Groups That Last What is the one key to a successful group? Why do people stop coming to Christian groups? Why do some groups not last very long? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Building Groups That Last What can be done about it / how can that problem be overcome? What are you going to do differently as a result of this session? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Building Groups That Last Successors Mentors Members of staff Evaluating Who is NOW coming Expectations re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Skills Session 8: How To Be A Servant Community In windows 1 – 3: What does God FEEL about what he sees when he looks through the windows of your school? Matthew 9:35 – 38 In Windows 4 – 6: What are the ATTITUDES of Jesus? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools How To Be A Servant Community Shepherd-less sheep? Are there any differences between what you have written in windows 1 – 3 and what you have written in windows 4 – 6? What are your school friends worried about? In what sense are they helpless? How are they like shepherd-less sheep? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools How To Be A Servant Community Ready for action … Identifying and responding to needs in your school Becoming a place of refuge, developing your friendliness Addressing issues in your school e.g. bullying, litter etc Addressing global issues e.g. Fair-Trade, poverty, climate change Praying for your school re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Skills Session 9: Handling Difficult Behaviour Some causes of difficult / challenging behaviour … Low self esteem Lack of boundaries Fragmented home life General learning difficulties Specific learning difficulties re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Handling Difficult Behaviour Some causes of difficult / challenging behaviour … Development disorders Physical demands Group dynamics Your session (!) Boredom re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Handling Difficult Behaviour Rules, rules, rules … What rules does your group currently have? Are these rules known by those who attend? What makes a good rule? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Handling Difficult Behaviour What makes a good rule … Clear Relevant Achievable Clearly communicated Fair Understood Applies to all Positive re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Handling Difficult Behaviour One more rule about rules … There must be consequences for breaking the rules. Agree some appropriate sanctions You must take action if rules are broken You must carry out any threats Don’t be afraid to carry them out re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Handling Difficult Behaviour Now complete the third column in your table: What can be done about it? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Skills Session 10: Welcome to this session on giving a small, or a long, in fact any length talk. Yes giving a talk to a group of children, or young people, or adults could be included I suppose. Anyway the point is it’s a session on how to give a really good concise and clear talk, of any length really to any of the people I just mentioned. That was children, teenagers or adults. So during the session we’ll look at how to give a talk, to make the talk really good so that whoever hears it, whatever age they, are will enjoy and understand what you’ve said. Is that clear? Good, so then we’ll get started with our session on how to give a talk. So please get into pairs and discuss how well I’ve done this talk for you. OK, find a partner and together decide how well or badly I’ve done. What was good, what needed improving? OK, off you go then, find a partner and discuss this introduction on how to give a talk. Off you go, you’ve got 3 minutes to discuss it. Go.’ Presentation Skills So how did I do … ? Did I make any mistakes? What could I have done differently? A better job … Think about a really good / memorable talk or presentation that you have heard / seen recently. What made it so good? What can you learn from this? re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Presentation Skills Visual Aids – getting your point across Advantages Limitations How you could use it re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Presentation Skills Presentation Skills Think of your listeners Opening routine Preparation Structure Delivery Design to help people listen re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools School Group Leaders Training Final Session: Questions And Answers (Or HELP! My group needs fixing) re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools Let’s Pray For Our Groups re:source Supporting Christian groups in secondary schools