Brazelton Touchpoints New Hampshire Children’s Trust Strengthening Families Summit March 31, 2014 Presenters • Cathy Kuhn, PhD • Kristen Valente, LICSW Brazelton Touchpoints "When we strengthen families, we ultimately strengthen the community. Our goal is that parents everywhere work with supportive providers, feel confident in their parenting role, and form strong, resilient attachments with their children. To help achieve this, providers must be responsive to parents, knowledgeable about child development, and eager to see every parent succeed.“ -T Berry Brazelton, MD © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Brazelton Touchpoints Network Auburn, ME Augusta, ME Bangor, ME Waterville, ME Port Gamble S’Klallam Tribe, WA Andover, MA Seattle, WA Suquamish Tribe, WA Blackfeet Tribe, MT Confederated Salish and Kootenai, MT White Earth Band of Ojibwa, MN Rocky Boy’s Chippewa Cree, MT Milwaukee, WI Racine, WI Red Cliff Band of Lake Superior Chippewa, WI Manchester, NH Grand Haven, MI Vermont Chicago, IL Port Chester, NY Decatur, IL Rapid City, SD Logan, UT Arapahoe County, CO Colorado Springs, CO Douglas/Elbert Counties, CO Fremont County, CO LaPlata County, CO Larimer County, CO Logan/Phillips/Sedgewick & Morgan Counties, CO Syracuse, NY Elgin, IL Bloomington, IN Rockford, IL Indianapolis, IN Scranton, PA West Lafayette, IN Wilkes Barre, PA Omaha, NE (2) Western IA New York City, NY East Orange, NJ Princeton, NJ Butler County, OH Trenton, NJ Cincinnati, OH Prairie Band of Potawatomi Nation, KS Columbia, MO Kansas City, MO Stillwater, OK Cary, NC Nashville, TN Jacksonville, NC Wake County, NC Wilmington, NC Gallup, NM Austin, TX Greenville, SC College Station, TX Dallas, TX Brevard County, FL Ft. Worth/ Tarrant County, TX Palm Beach County, FL Statewide: Houston, TX Tallahassee, FL CA, CO, ME, VT Round Rock, TX Miami, FL International: Waco, TX © 2007 Brazelton Portugal Touchpoints Center® Waterbury, CT Ocean, NJ Charlotte, NC Pueblo of Laguna, NM Dorchester, MA Newton, MA Muskegon, MI Fresno, CA Hemet, CA Lassen County, CA Los Angeles, CA Napa, CA Oakland, CA Sacramento, CA San Francisco, CA Santa Clara Cty., CA San Mateo, CA Sonoma County, CA Venice, CA Boston, MA Washington, DC Talbot County/ Easton, MD BRAZELTON TOUCHPOINTS CENTER Impact of Trainings © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Impact of Touchpoints on Parents and Early Childcare Providers Parents with early care providers trained in Touchpoints report that: Among parents, Touchpoints has been show to: • • Enhance parent-infant relationships • Moderate parental stress in populations where parental stress tends to increase, on average, over time • Normalize parent’s perceptions of their child’s behavior • Increase well-child care treatment adherence • Improve infant developmental outcomes • Improve maternal mental health indicators Their providers are more supportive of parent expertise than comparison providers. • They have better quality and more collaborative relationships with their providers. • They have increased confidence in their providers. • They show less stress in general, and more stable stress levels over time compared to families without trained providers © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® To provide safe, affordable housing and comprehensive social services to individuals and families who are homeless or at risk of becoming homeless, enabling them to gain self-sufficiency and respect. © 2005 Brazelton Touchpoints Center™ • Since 1885, Ellis Memorial has been committed to serving working families in the South End of Boston Ma and adjacent neighborhoods with a comprehensive array of programs. Today, those programs include high-quality early education and care, safe and educationally enriching afterschool and summer programs for youth, day programs for disabled, frail or elderly adults and supportive services that build strong, stable families. From infants to elders, Ellis Memorial offers high-quality, affordable options that support working families © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Expectations Exercise © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Fundamentals of Touchpoints What are Touchpoints? Touchpoints are that time in a child’s development when change occurs in the child’s behaviors that can confuse or puzzle parents. They are the predictable bursts, regressions and pauses in a child's development. © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Systems Approach to Working with Children & Families Parent FIT Staff Child Caregiver © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® A Paradigm Shift TO FROM • • • • • Deficit Model Linear Development Prescriptive Objective Involvement Strict Discipline Boundaries © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® • • • • • Positive Model Multidimensional Development Collaborative Empathic Involvement Flexible Discipline Boundaries TOUCHPOINTS © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Pregnancy Newborn 3 Weeks 6-8 Weeks 4 Months 7 Months 9 Months 12 Months 15 Months 18 Months 2 Years 3 Years 4 Years 5 Years 6 Years Three-Tiered Approach Developmental Framework Development is characterized by regressions, bursts, and pauses Development is multidimensional Bursts in one domain of development cause regressions in other domains © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Relational Framework • Each Touchpoint is an opportunity for the professional to join with a parent to form a supportive partnership. • Touchpoint interactions build on parental strengths. © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Anticipatory Guidance A way of nurturing families that highlights prevention by using a parents own knowledge to prepare them for the next Touchpoint and its expected developmental themes It is not predicting the next Touchpoint or offering advice (suggesting the provider is the expert) © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Touchpoints Offer Opportunity Points of disorganization in the child and in the family equal opportunities to build relationships with parents © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Touchpoints Principles Use the behavior of the child as your language Value and understand the relationship between you and the parent Focus on the parent-child relationship Look for opportunities to support mastery Value passion wherever you find it Recognize what you bring to the interaction Be willing to discuss matters that go beyond your traditional role Value disorganization © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Parent Assumptions The parent is the expert on his/her child. All parents have strengths. All parents want to do well by their child. All parents have something critical to share at each developmental stage. All parents have ambivalent feelings. Parenting is a process built on trial and error. © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Provider Assumptions Each provider is the expert within the context of his/her practice setting. Providers want to be competent. Providers need support and respect of the kind we are asking them to give to parents. Providers need to reflect on their contribution to the parent-provider interactions. © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® The Toddler T. Barry Brazelton Introduction to the Toddler Touchpoint © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Characteristics of Developmental Process Infant: Unfolding Toddler: Exploding © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Toddler vs. Infant Developmental Process BALANCE: adults ability & need to control the child’s affect and behavior Infant Behavior requires little control Affect is easy to control © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Toddler Behavior requires massive control Affect is impossible to control © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Toddler vs. Infant Developmental Process COMPLEXITY: the actions & intentions of an infant are more straight-forward than those of a toddler Infant Toddler Social Reference for coming to agreement Social Reference to test the limits Infant mental process transparent © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Toddler mental process opaque © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Toddler vs. Infant Developmental Process REGULATION: Needs and wants of an infant are generally sequenced one at a time than those of a toddler who wants opposing desires at the same time. Infant Wants one thing at a time © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Toddler Wants two totally disparate experiences at the same time Toddler Developmental Agenda Independence Dependence • Wants control of own purpose and self • Wants control of others availability © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Toddler Developmental Agenda Empathy Aggression Discovers the spectrum of affect Love Hate Kiss Bite © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Toddler Developmental Agenda Knowledge Skill Judgment © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Using A Toddler’s Behavior as Language: Translation, Please! © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Toddler Behavior as Language: Translation, Please! “What I want NOW!” (Immediate Need) © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® Exploring the Parent Assumptions 1. Pick two assumptions that you find most interesting or most challenging 2. Talk to your neighbor about why you chose the ones you did. Why is it challenging? What makes it hard to put it into practice? 1. 2. 3. 4. The parent is the expert on his/her child. All parents have strengths All parents want to do well by their child. All parents have something critical to share at each developmental stage. 5. All parents have ambivalent feelings. 6. Parenting is a process built on trial and error. © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® For More Information About Touchpoints Brazelton Touchpoints Center http://www.brazeltontouchpoints.org/ © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center® For More Information on Upcoming Trainings http://www.nhceh.org/ 603-641-9441 x251 © 2007 Brazelton Touchpoints Center®