1 ©Learning ZoneXpress By “Colleen Angel, CFCS” 2 Everyday life is filled with choices. We make decisions – big and small – from morning until night. 5 simple decisions you have made today. ©Learning ZoneXpress List 3 Definitions The process defined. Goal: • Something you want to accomplish. • The decisions you make will affect your goals. Decision: Decision-Making Process: • A set of logical steps to follow when making decisions. ©Learning ZoneXpress • The act of making a choice or arriving at a solution to a problem. 4 Definitions Critical Thinking: • Clarifying a problem or situation with reflective reasoning. Ask yourself: – – – – Do I agree with…. Have I thought about… What does my heart say… Can I live with or without… Consequence: – For example, if you decided to go to your Grandma’s house for the weekend — missing practice and not tell your coach — you could be cut from the team. Resources: • Time, money, energy, and people. ©Learning ZoneXpress • The result or effect of a decision. 5 Today’s Decisions What decisions do you make? List decisions that you have to make in your everyday life. • List as many as you can in 30 seconds. ©Learning ZoneXpress Ready-Set-Go! 6 What to wear/buy. To get a part-time job. What to eat. What movies to see. Who to hang out with. College/Higher education. To do your homework. Hobbies. To study or not. Hair style. Who to talk to about a problem. To smoke or not. What to do with your time. Sports to play. Saving or spending money. What music to buy/listen to. ©Learning ZoneXpress Sample Decisions 7 Tomorrow’s Decisions What decisions will you make in the future? List decisions that you think you will have to make later in your life. • List as many as you can in 30 seconds. ©Learning ZoneXpress Ready-Set-Go! 8 Future Decisions Marriage/Relationships. Job/Career. Having/Raising a family. Getting along with co-workers. Education for children. Promotions/advancement on job. Paying bills. Health-related. Making investments. Leisure activities. Time management. Buy/Sell a house. Yard work. Types of insurance. Purchase/Maintain/Repair automobile. ©Learning ZoneXpress Discipline for children. 9 Goals What do you want to accomplish? The decisions you make will affect your goals. • Which should happen first? – Set a goal or make a decision? • Setting your goals first helps you make the decisions. • Let’s say you want a pro-sports career. Yet, you skip practice frequently to hang out with friends. • What will happen to your skills? List 5 of your goals. ©Learning ZoneXpress Plan and set goals to be in control of your life. 10 Critical Thinking & Consequences Let’s take that pro-sports career. What are the consequences? • What if you don’t like to go to practice everyday? • What happens if you decide to smoke cigarettes? • What things do you have to give up to reach your goal? • What question should you ask yourself? ©Learning ZoneXpress Use critical thinking to analyze the goal of having a pro-sports career. 11 Critical Thinking & Consequences Now take someone who has errands to run. To save time, gas and money, they should plan before they take off in the car. They have to: Return library books. Get groceries. Get stamps. Drop off insurance papers at the dentist. What are the consequences if they don’t plan? • Use critical thinking skills, reasoning and reflective thinking. ©Learning ZoneXpress • • • • 12 Ways People Make Decisions Every time you make a decision, you give up other choices. • Do Nothing! • Decide on an impulse. • Decide by habit (the way they always do something). • Decide by imitation (what others do). • Let someone else decide. If you want to go to college, but use these ways to make a decision, what happens in each case? ©Learning ZoneXpress When faced with a decision here are the things people often do: 13 Decision-Making Process Writing it down will help make your decision! Define the problem or decision you need to made. Advantages and disadvantages of each choice. How each choice affects your goals. Make your decision and give reasons for your decision. ©Learning ZoneXpress List your choices. Decision-Making Chart Decision that needs to be made: List choice 1: Advantages List choice 2: Disadvantages How are my goals affected? My decision is: Reasons for my decision: Advantages Disadvantages How are my goals affected? 15 Making a Good Decision Here are some hints to making a good decision. A decision you make should FEEL right to you. • Friends might put pressure on you to do what they want you to do. You need to make this decision on your own. Think about how you make an easy decision everyday. • What works? What doesn’t? Decisions have good and bad results. You may have to make compromises. Consider your goals and “process” the information alone or with people you respect. ©Learning ZoneXpress • Rarely is a decision perfect in every way. 16 Making a Good Decision More things to consider. Accept the outcome. • Make the best decision you can. • Next time the decision might even be better because of what you learned. A decision can sometimes be changed. Don’t depend on luck and other people. • Use planning and thinking skills to help decide. ©Learning ZoneXpress • Sometimes situations change. • What consequences are there if you change your mind? 17 Resources A resource is anything available that helps you make and carry out a decision. Human Resources: • From people – their personal qualities and talents. • They may be natural or learned abilities and skills. • Resources that aren’t from people that can help you make a decision. • They are usually tangible objects or sources of information. ©Learning ZoneXpress Non-Human Resources: 18 Resources Learn to use YOUR resources! List 5 human and 5 non-human resources. Did you list any of these? Good health, energy, endurance, maturity, patience (all personality traits are personal talents), friends, family, relatives, teachers, workplace, experts, counselors, community agencies… Non-Human Computers, library, databases, the internet, books, brochures (all sources of information), time, machines, food, money… ©Learning ZoneXpress Human 19 Reliable Resources Use good resources, with reliable information! Unbiased Resources: • Provide facts and information to benefit the person making the decision. Biased Resources: List 5 unbiased and 5 biased resources. ©Learning ZoneXpress • Provide information that might not be absolutely true because it benefits the one providing it. 20 Apply What You’ve Learned Did Natalie use biased or unbiased resources? Natalie is looking for a new cell phone. She calls one cell phone company, and the sales person tells her why their phone is better than the competitors’ phone. – The sales person will probably make his or her own product sound superior. – Natalie should ask several cell phone companies about their products and compare the results on her own. – What are her resources? – How do they influence her decision? ©Learning ZoneXpress • Answer: Biased. 21 Apply What You Learned Did Hong used biased or unbiased resources? Hong just turned 16 and is looking for a car. He wants a car that is reliable and safe and uses several sources of information like consumer guide magazines, internet, car sales people and others. – Hong should be able to get a reliable information when he compares all his resources. ©Learning ZoneXpress • Answer: Unbiased 22 Influences on Decision-Making Decisions are individual. The decision-making process leads to different outcomes for different individuals. ©Learning ZoneXpress Much depends on the personal factors and resources that each individual brings to the situation. 23 Influences on Decision-Making Influences on an individual’s decisions. Maturity: age, ability to reason, past experience, etc. Values: ideas and beliefs that are important to the individual. • Many values are formed by the people around you and the environment in which you grew up. Standards: measure of quality the individual expects from themselves and others. Resources: the human and non-human help available so you are more informed. ©Learning ZoneXpress Goals: plans for the immediate or distant future. 24 Influences on Decision-Making What may have influenced different decisions? Evan and Basma each wanted a good deal on a 1960’s style lava lamp. They found some online for $10. Basma bought the lamp online for $10 while Evan bought the lamp downtown for more. ©Learning ZoneXpress They also found a vintage store downtown selling the same lamp for $18. 25 Influences on Decision-Making List possible influences for each of the following categories. Basma is not old enough to drive downtown, or Evan is underage and needs a parental credit card to order online. Values Evan values personal relations more than Basma and wants to know the person he is purchasing the lamp from. Goals Evan wants to finish decorating his room tomorrow and needs the lamp now, or Basma’s goal is to save money. Standards Evan wants to see the lamp first and make sure it is in perfect condition before purchasing it. Resources Evan does not have a computer to order online, or Basma does not have the time or resources to go downtown. ©Learning ZoneXpress Maturity 26 Smart Choices Practice making decisions. • • • • • • To buy a new CD player. You got a “D” on a math paper. To take a babysitting job every Friday night. Your best friend isn’t talking to you. To eat pepperoni pizza every day for lunch. Your dilemma’s, challenges, and tough decisions. ©Learning ZoneXpress Use the Decision-Making Chart to make a decision for one of the following: 27 Summary Decision-making skills are needed throughout your entire life. You will make hundreds of decisions every day. Improving your decision-making skills takes practice. Setting a goal first, helps you make a decision. Understand that maturity, values, goals, standards and resources influence your decisions. Write it down! Use the decision-making chart to help analyze and make challenging decisions. ©Learning ZoneXpress Make use of your resources — human and non-human. 28 Practice What You’ve Learned You’re the expert! List one large decision you are currently trying to make or you will need to make soon. Give an example of one decision you made as a child that you would be much more capable of making today. • Write a sentence telling what your new decision would be. ©Learning ZoneXpress • Include the resources you can rely on in your search for the final decision. 29 Decisions & Choices Quiz Choose the best answer for the following questions. 1. When you discuss and process information, what is this called? a. b. c. d. Decision Goal Critical Thinking Consequence a. b. c. d. Have your friends tell you what to do. Use reliable resources to get the facts. Set you goals. Both b and c. ©Learning ZoneXpress 2. Before you make a decision, you should: 30 Decisions & Choices Quiz Choose the best answer for the following questions. 4. List two things you can do that will help you make a decision. Put the 5 steps in the decision-making process in the correct order: List advantages and disadvantages. List choices. Identify the problem. Make decision, give a reason. List how goals are affected. ©Learning ZoneXpress 3. 31 Web Resources Suggested web sites for more information on decisions & choices. Decision Making - Your Key to Success • http://www.decision-making-tools.com Six Thinking Hats. Looking at a Decision from all points of view. • http://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newTED 07.html How to make decisions stick. • http://hairee.com/how to make decisions.html Virtual Salt - Problem-Solving Techniques • http://www.virtualsalt.com/crebook4.html Please note that web sites are constantly changing and being updated. ©Learning ZoneXpress Take an online self-esteem quiz. • http://region.peel.on.ca/health/commhlth/teenpowr/sequiz.html