Randy Ludwig The Biology of Love, Sex & Attraction TNDY 402 FEB 14— 2011 OVERVIEW: 1. 2. 3. 4. Types of LOVE Biochemistry of LOVE Applications Conclusion A few Stats: Age of first marriage: Women: 24.8 years Men: 27.3 years The probability of first marriage by age 30: 74% for women 61% for men. The probability of first marriage by age 40: 86% for women 81% for men. (Goodwin, McGill, & Chandra, 2009) A few Stats: 17% of women & 25% of men have not married by age 35. 12% of women have not married by age 40, 17% of men have not married by age 40. The probability that men and women will marry by age 40 is over 80%. (Goodwin, McGill, & Chandra, 2009) TYPES: If it feels different, it is different 1. 2. 3. 4. Lust (Sex) Passionate Love (Infatuation/Romantic Love) Companionate Love (Attachment) Maternal Love TYPES: Lust/Sex: • Non-selective sex, goodness of fit not important Main Drivers: 1. Testosterone: (C19 H28 O2 ) • Increases sexual arousal in men & women 2. Estradiol: (C18 H24 O2 ) • Associated with higher sexual activity in women • Higher masturbation rates • Preference for “manly” faces 3. Dopamine & Norepinephrine Key Brain Areas Involved: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Medial insula Anterior cingulate Hypothalamus Nucleus accumbens VTA TYPES: Passionate Love: • Exhilaration and euphoria Increases in: 1. 2. 3. Dopamine: (DA) Norepinephrine: (NE) Nerve Growth Factor (NGF) Decreases in: 1. 2. 3. 4. Serotonin: (5HT) Frontal Lobe Amygdala Parietal lobe Excess DA & NE tend to reduce 5HT Obsession Key Brain Areas Involved: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Anterior cingulate Hippocampus Nucleus accumbens Hypothalamus VTA Caudate nucleus Pleasure Centers In the Brain: Orbitofrontal Cortex (OFC) Cingulate Gyrus Thalamus 2. ________ 3. ________ Corpus Callosum 1. ________ Nucleus Accumbens 11. ________ Cerebellum 4. ________ Hypothalamus 10. ________ Pituitary Gland 9. ________ Amygdala Hippocampus 5. ________ 8. ________ Medulla Pons 7. ________ 6. ________ TYPES: Companionate Love: • • Calmer type of love, emotional bond EX: grandparents married for 30 years Increases in: 1. Oxytocin: (OXT) 2. Vasopressin: (AVP) Decreases in: 1. Serotonin: (5HT) • • • Chemically similar Produced in hypothalamus Released from pituitary gland TYPES: Maternal Love: • Parent & child Increases in: 1. Oxytocin: (OXT) 2. Vasopressin: (AVP) Brain implications: • Decreases in: 1. Serotonin: (5HT) • • Hypothalamus not activated Striatum is activated Slight reduction in frontal lobe APPLICATIONS: Prairie Voles: • • Socially monogamous (mate with others at times) High levels of OXT & AVP receptors • If OXT & AVP blocked: they become promiscuous Montane Voles: • • • Promiscuous No long-term attachment OXT & AVP injections in montane voles doesn’t lead to monogamy—why? Clark & Hatfield (1989): • Students were approached by another student of the opposite sex, who said: • “I have been noticing you around campus and I find you very attractive.” • This was followed by one of three invitations: – “Would you go out with me tonight?” – “Would you come over to my apartment?” – “Would you go to bed with me?” Percent Saying “Yes” 100 80 60 About half of both sexes said “yes” to the date 40 20 0 Go Out Go to Apt. Go to Bed Percent Saying “Yes” 100 80 60 About half of both sexes said “yes” to the date 40 20 0 Go Out Go to Apt. Go to Bed Percent Saying “Yes” 100 80 60 About half of both sexes said “yes” to the date 40 20 0 Go Out Go to Apt. Go to Bed Not a single woman said “yes” to the sexual invitation Percent Saying “Yes” 100 80 60 About half of both sexes said “yes” to the date 40 20 0 Go Out Go to Apt. Go to Bed Not a single woman said “yes” to the sexual invitation Percent Saying “Yes” 100 Men were even more likely to say “yes” to the sexual invitation If men said “No,” then they typically apologized and/or offered an excuse such as “I’m dating someone” 80 60 About half of both sexes said “yes” to the date 40 20 0 Go Out Go to Apt. Go to Bed Not a single woman said “yes” to the sexual invitation Mate Preferences of Women • • • • • • • • • • Economic Resources Good Financial Prospects High Social Status Older Men Ambition and Industriousness Dependability and Stability Athletic Prowess Good Health and Physical Appearance Love and Commitment Willingness to Invest in Children Mate Preferences of Males • Desire women who are: – Intelligent, kind, humorous, understanding, & healthy – Similar in terms of values, personality, and religious beliefs In Addition... • Youth • A cue for fertility Mate Preferences of Males • Youth • Physical Beauty • full lips, clear skin, smooth skin, clear eyes, lustrous hair, good muscle tone, & attractive body fat distribution • Behavior: youthful gait, animated facial expression, & high energy level – “Average” & symmetrical faces are more attractive Mate Preferences of Males • Youth • Physical Beauty • Body Fat and the Critical Waist-to-Hip Ratio (WHR) – Universal preference across cultures... – .70 is optimal References: Clark, R.D., & Hatfield, E. 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