Group 2
“Red Flag: When Conflict Trumps Connection”
Unhealthy relationships are often marked by negative patterns that can lead to emotional distress,
lack of trust, and poor communication. Recognizing these warning signs is essential for
maintaining well-being and making informed relationship choices. This survey explores the
common characteristics of unhealthy relationships based on the experiences and observations of
participants.
To better understand the red flags in relationships, a survey was conducted among 100
respondents. Participants identified the characteristics that contribute to unhealthy and toxic
relationship dynamics.
Key Characteristics of an Unhealthy Relationship
Characteristic
Lack of Trust and Dishonesty
Poor Communication
(Frequent
Misunderstandings,
Avoidance)
Controlling or Possessive
Behavior
Disrespect and Criticism
Frequent Conflicts Without
Resolution
Lack of Support for Personal
Goals
Feeling Unsafe or Unvalued
Emotional Manipulation and
Guilt-Tripping
Number of Responses
90
87
Percentage (%)
15 %
14 %
84
14 %
79
75
13 %
12 %
72
12 %
65
56
11 %
9%
Processing Questions:
1. Based on the data, what characteristic is considered as the most obvious sign of an
unhealthy relationship? Why do you think that is so?
2. If you were to answer this survey yourself, what additional “red flags” would you include to
the list of toxic relationship characteristics?
3. How can understanding these unhealthy relationship characteristics empower you to identify
red flags early and take steps to avoid or address toxic behaviors?