(I)
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Prepare on boarding
• Understand:
1. Power
2. Ego
3. Trust
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P: prove your worth
▪ Prove your work, your value
▪ Demonstrate your instrumentality
at every reasonable opportunity.
Make it clear that you want to help
people be more effective in
reaching the mutual goals (抓住每
一個合理的機會,展現你的工具
性。明確表示你希望幫助人們更
有效地實現共同目標)
▪ Think “win-win”
▪ Think “what have you got to offer”
E: “who’s on top”
▪ Subconsciously, people often
want confirmation that they, or
their group, are superior to other
individuals or groups
▪ Be modest and inclusive. Walk
extra miles to affirm the strengths
of others, and try to create a sense
of ‘us’, so that people can
celebrate your achievements
rather than felt threatened by
them
T: “whether you are friend or foe?”
▪ Project warmth and competence
▪ Give the right physical signals like
make eye contact, smile when
appropriate, nod in agreement,
listen carefully without
interrupting, sit up straight, and
stand tall
(II)
3 factors of your trustworthiness
1. Ability (qualification, skill)
2. Benevolence (kindness, helpful)
3. Integrity (正直)
Build your own brand
• 3 perspectives to think your branding
1. Unique
2. Value adding [to individual, to team
and organization]
3. Sustainable [long lasting]
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Leadership presence is about the ability
to pay undivided attention to the situation
Leadership presence aims at inspiring
and influencing others through your
attitude
(III)
Leadership presence in 3 dimensions
1. Physical presence: energy
2. Mental presence: interest
3. Emotional presence: empathy
(IV)
Boosting leadership presence
• Try the warrior post:
1. Centered
2. Grounded
3. Focused
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Mental presence: interest
▪ Multi-tsking reduces attention
span by up to 40%
▪ In 2020, human begins produced
2.5 million bytes of data per day
▪ Every scrap of this data, in theory,
is aimed at someone’s brain
▪ Human brains capacity is
expanding but our brain has a
limited capacity to focus
attention. Our brain cannot multitasking
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When we focus on 2 cognitive tasks at the
same time, decision-making
effectiveness suffers by up to 40%
Women lost 5 IQ-points and men lost 15
Boosting mental presence
▪ Allow time and space for our
wondering mind
▪ Visionary thinking, strategic focus,
creativity and out-of-bo thinking
arise from our wondering mind
▪ Take regular breaks. Your brain
needs a rest every hour or so
Wondering mind wakes up our
subconsciousness is 1 million times
more powerful than conscious mind:
▪ It records everything
▪ It is not logical. It works 24 hours a
day, speaks to you in dreams
▪ It affects 95-99.9% of our
behaviors silently
Emotional presence: Empathy
▪ Right brain
▪ Serious killer usually loses right
brain
▪ Boosting empathy: always think
win-win
Compliment someone
when they do something
good
Complimenting and
encourage others will
boost your own morale
Express appreciation to
yourself for something that
you have done well. Notice
your own successes
(V)
Three rescue missions
1. Volunteer or intern for someone you know
• Tedious tasks like filing document or
organizing a charitable event can add to
your resume highlighted as “organization,
writing, time management, collaboration,
and communication”
2. Do consulting work in your area of interest
• For example, use your favorite social
media platform to offer free consultation,
e.g., fashion advice, video game tutoring,
restaurant critics, cooking
3. Highlight a series of personal projects
4. Get certified in your field of interest. Citing a
certification on your resume will set you apart
from other who also have minimum practical
experience
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Prepare for job interview
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When you get two job offers, you can ask
AI to have to select
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Question 3: