WRITE WHETHER
THESE
S I T U AT I O N S
SHOWS
TRANSFERENCE,
PROPINQUITY,
SIMILARITY,
RECIPROCITY,
PHYSICAL
ATTRACTIVENESS,
PERSONAL
CHARACTERISTICS
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Liam was walking through the school
hallway when he saw Ava for the first
time. He was instantly drawn to her—
her smile, the way she flipped her hair,
and her confidence. He couldn’t stop
thinking about her, even though they
had never spoken. That afternoon, he
followed her on social media and liked
all her photos.
2
After moving to a new school, Mia quickly
became friends with Josh. She wasn’t sure
why, but she felt comfortable around him
right away. Later, she realized that Josh had
the same sense of humor and kind
personality as her childhood best friend.
Without noticing it, Mia started developing
feelings for him.
3
Ben and Sarah were assigned as
groupmates for a class project. At first, they
only talked about schoolwork, but over time,
they started hanging out more and learning
about each other’s interests. After spending
weeks together, Ben realized he was starting
to like Sarah, even though he had never
thought about her that way before.
4
Anna and Jake met at a music festival and
instantly bonded over their love for indie
bands. They discovered they also enjoyed
the same books, movies, and even had
similar career goals. Their conversations
were always fun and effortless, and before
they knew it, they started developing feelings
for each other.
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At first, Claire didn’t think much about Noah.
He wasn’t the type of guy she usually liked.
But over time, she noticed how kind,
hardworking, and funny he was. He always
helped others, stayed positive, and treated
people with respect. One day, she realized—
she was falling for him, not because of his
looks, but because of who he was.
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I D E N T I F Y T H E S TA G E O F FA L L I N G
IN LOVE ACCORDING TO FISHER
INTIMACY
COMMITMENT
PA S S I O N
Emma and Chris have been best friends for
years. They share their deepest secrets,
fears, and dreams. Whenever one of them is
feeling down, the other is always there to
listen. They feel safe and comfortable with
each other, even though they’ve never
thought about dating.
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Ava and Daniel have been in a relationship
for three years. Even though they’ve had
challenges—long-distance, personal
struggles, and disagreements—they choose
to stay together. They believe love isn’t just
about feelings but also about choosing each
other every day.
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Mr. and Mrs. Tan have been married for 40
years, but they still hold hands when they
walk and dance together in their living room.
They laugh, share stories, and treat each
other like they did when they were young.
Their love has only deepened with time,
showing that passion doesn’t fade—it
evolves.
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TWO POINTS
My ideal boyfriend/girlfriend is
someone who
________________________
________________________
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E X C H A N G E PA P E R S
1.Physical
attractiveness
2.Transference
3.Propinquity
4.Similarity
5.Personal
Characteristics
6. Intimacy
7. Commitment
8. Passion
9 – 10. Ako
magchecheck
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• Introduction
• Building confidence
AGENDA
• Engaging the audience
• Visual aids
• Final tips & takeaways
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THE POWER OF
C O M M U N I C AT I O N
OVERCOMING NERVOUSNESS
Confidence-building strategies
SELECTING
VISUAL AIDS
Enhancing your presentation
EFFECTIVE DELIVERY
TECHNIQUES
This is a powerful tool in public speaking. It
involves varying pitch, tone, and volume to
convey emotion, emphasize points, and
maintain interest.
• Pitch variation
Effective body language enhances your
message, making it more impactful and
memorable.
• Meaningful eye contact
• Purposeful gestures
• Tone inflection
• Maintain good posture
• Volume control
• Control your expressions
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1.
Know your material in advance
2.
Anticipate common questions
3.
Rehearse your responses
Maintaining composure during the Q&A
session is essential for projecting confidence
and authority. Consider the following tips for
staying composed:
N AV I G AT I N G
Q&A SESSIONS
Stay calm
Actively listen
Pause and reflect
Maintain eye contact
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DYNAMIC DELIVERY
Learn to infuse energy
into your delivery to leave
a lasting impression
One of the goals of
effective communication
is to motivate your
audience
METRIC
MEASUREMEN
T
TARGET
ACTUAL
Audience
attendance
# of attendees
150
120
Engagement
duration
Minutes
60
75
Q&A interaction
# of questions
10
15
Positive
feedback
Percentage (%)
90
95
Rate of
information
retention
Percentage (%)
80
85
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• Consistent rehearsal
• Strengthen your familiarity
• Refine delivery style
FINAL TIPS &
TA K E A W AY S
• Pacing, tone, and emphasis
• Timing and transitions
• Aim for seamless, professional
delivery
• Practice audience
• Enlist colleagues to listen &
provide feedback
1. Seek feedback
2. Reflect on performance
3. Explore new techniques
4. Set personal goals
5. Iterate and adapt
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SPEAKING ENGAGEMENT
METRICS
IMPACT FACTOR
MEASUREMENT
TARGET
ACHIEVED
Audience interaction
Percentage (%)
85
88
Knowledge retention
Percentage (%)
75
80
Post-presentation
surveys
Average rating
4.2
4.5
Referral rate
Percentage (%)
10
12
Collaboration
opportunities
# of opportunities
8
10
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THANK YOU
Brita Tamm
502-555-0152
brita@firstupconsultants.com
www.firstupconsultants.com
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