CHAPTER 3 OBJECTIVES: • At the end of this chapter, you should be able to: Develop understanding of the working definition of social literacy Explain the roles of parents and teachers in teaching social skills in children; and Discuss and examine issues in social literacy S o c i a l Literacy Concerns itself with the development of social skills, knowledge and positive human values that enable human beings to act positively and responsibly in range of complex social settings. It is the knowledge of how to behave and treat other people in a way that is morally upright and just and equitable. S o c i a l Literacy The ability to communicate and voice opinions and thoughts, as well as listening to opinions and thoughts of others, is essential in learning. Peers and Schools play a formative role on the social skills development of children. These social skills are often expressed as consisting of three inter-related components: social perception, social cognition, and social performance. S o c i a l Literacy Social skill is defined in literature as “the ability to interact with others in a given social context in specific ways that are socially acceptable or valued and at the beneficial, same time personally primarily mutually beneficial, or beneficial to others. TYPES OF SOCIAL SKILLS • These range from the ability to initiate, maintain, and end a conversation to reading social signals to more complex skills. GREETING TYPES OF SOCIAL SKILLS • INITIATING CONVERSATION ■ This requires good listening and attention skills, as well as the ability to take turns and probe for missing information ■ Being a good conversationalist requires turn-taking and reciprocity. TYPES OF SOCIAL SKILLS • UNDERSTANDING THE LISTENER ■ Once the conversation is initiated, it has to be maintained. ■ A socially adept child quickly and unconsciously recognizes his listener. ■ Think the way they think TYPES OF SOCIAL SKILLS • EMPATHIZING ■ One is able to feel what other person feels. Empathy allows one to really connect with other people. TYPES OF SOCIAL SKILLS • READING SOCIAL CLUES Cues are the hints and signals that guide us to the next thing to say or do. It can be verbal or nonverbal. TYPES OF SOCIAL SKILLS • PREVIEWING OR PLANNING Conversation also requires that one previews or thinks about what effect the words or actions may have on the listener before she says or does to them. TYPES OF SOCIAL SKILLS • PROBLEM SOLVING How one reacts to these conflicts depends on how good her problem solving skills are. This requires negotiation and compromise, give and take that results in a situation where all parties can live with and help maintain relationships. TYPES OF SOCIAL SKILLS • APOLOGIZING A person with good social skills is confident enough to make a sincere apology for her error. This is a courageous act and is the quickest and easiest way to connect a social blunder. Apologizing is a sign of humble and mature one character when commit mistakes. THE ROLE OF PARENTS AND TEACHERS IN TEACHING SOCIAL S K I L L S TO CHILDREN • Parents typically play the major role in teaching social children by skills modeling, role playing and providing opportunities for their child to and rehearse practice skills. • School in the place where children spend the majority of their time with peers it is, therefore a natural and perfect setting for children to learn and practice social skills • Teachers do not have to teach a class in social skills they can have take advantage of any opportunity to help children improve their social skills. They should be alert to teasing and bullying and aware of child that are rejected or ignore by their peers “ISSUES IN TEACHING SOCIAL LITERACY” • • How children develop their social literacy is intrinsically a contextual is not matter and something that can be easily traced in a linear or developmental fashion Children learn through social practices, both impicit and explicit and become human through social interaction. Nevertheless, it is also the case that children engage in social activity before they are taught it; in other words, children are disposed to be social before they learn what sociability is all about. • Two distinct w a y s o n h o w children learn to live socially. Normative and Communal- from their culture children learn custom that provide them with a guide to act in ways that minimize conflict. • Pragmatic and Individualistic- the social order of children in created by explicit and implicit agreements entered into by self-seeking individual to avert the worst consequences of their selfish instincts (Arthur, Davison,& Stow 2000) • • In this last view, social order is dependent on santion and formal agreements. Rules are obeyed personal because they confer advantage on a child. In normative children are persuaded of the moral force of acting socially through their voluntary associations with others, both in their immediate circle, such as the family, and in the wider community, for example, through membership of a church or club. SUBJECTIVE STANDARD OF MORALITY- The natural outcome of post modern philosopies is that truth and morality are consider subjective and open to individual interpretation. This can be seen in the current culture, where action and behavioral patterns that were once considered bad have now become acceptable. HUMAN NATURE- While we would like to believe that people are inherently good, experience has taught us that the inherent goodness of humanity is, at best unrealiable; Sometimes it is there, often it is not. We are quick to champion the cause of moral uprightness, justice . Situational A w a r e n e s s in the Workplace • Such behaviour demonstrates a lack of situational awareness about what is appropriate to do in different social circumstances. • An ability to read social situations illustrates strenght to employers. Social Intelligence in Technological C o m m u n i c a t i o n Text-speak and technology use have affected many young people’s ability tp communicate. Text-speak has reduced student’s ability to communicate using correct grammar. Through studying particular communication genres and what they demand, students can learn more about what individual situstions demand in terms of of the formality of communication. Social Intelligence in Traditional Communication While email has taken over as the primary method of communication, traditional modes of discourse still exist. • An ability to craft these types of documents illustrates an understanding of social expectation and denotes a level of respect and appreciation •