Alpha Trait #1
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Be Positive
What’s good, y’all? So,in this ebook, I want to get into a trait that you're
gonna need first and foremost if you want to succeed with women.
And you know what? Not just women, but also in life circumstances in
general. You're gonna need this trait of positivity.
So, when I say positivity or being positive, I'm talking about an aura that
you exude. This aura that you give off of positivity, you know I’m saying?
And I'm not saying be extra friendly to chicks or be extra nice. I'm not
saying any of that stuff.
I'm saying positivity while maintaining a masculine mindset, a masculine
frame. You can still do that. You can do both.
As a guy, you want to be well rounded anyway. You want to be able to
have all these different traits of your personality and all this kind of stuff.
And that's what makes a woman intrigued in you.
They kind of see that as you being more of a challenge when you show
those different characteristics. But right now, we're focusing on positivity.
(We’ll get back into the women aspect and how that works out.)
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So, you ever wonder how you can be attracted to a bunch of different
women? You can be attracted to one girl cause she got a fat ass, this girl,
she got fat ass, this girl, she got titties, this girl got a fat ass and titties, you
can fuck them, like that's what we want to do, we want to have sex with
them and all this kind of stuff.
But there's always these 1 or 2 girls every now and then that we encounter, and not only do we find them attractive, but sometimes we like them.
Like...genuinely like them.
And you ever wonder how that is? Like why you get caught up on that 1
girl, but the rest of them, you can just, you know, mess with, and just
leave? But this 1 chick or this other chick, man, they just... something
about them, right?
It just makes you want to... it kind of gets you infatuated with them. That
all stems from a positivity that's inside of them. That they created within
themselves. And that's what you're going to have to learn how to create.
But let me tell you how, you know, that works with women. Because it's
more so natural with them, as opposed to us guys.
We don't really focus on that kind of stuff. But because they're women,
they're born into a world where, you know, with all these simp ass niggas
out here, they getting all this free attention, they get all this positive reinforcement all the time.
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That feeds their egos. That gives them that positivity naturally within
them. That's why they're able to be free and, you know, live abundantly
because they're not really worried about the situations with this guy or
that guy because they got so many coming at them.
They don't have to worry. They have too many options to be worried
about it. That's why they're able to stay positive like that. Most of them.
But to be honest though, for most of these hoes, when they put on that
facade like nothing's wrong, like everything's great in their lives… it’s complete bullshit.
But most guys are too simple minded to even see that. Plus, the fact that
they fall for it, they put them on a pedestal anyway, and they end up, you
know, simping, and in a friend zone.
We're avoiding that, right? So, that's how we’re gonna flip it on them. Because we come from a state of positivity from within ourselves, we don't
have to worry about when you get that feeling like, “Oh, man, I want to be
around her. I want to see this girl more.”
That's why you end up falling into a trap with chicks and not passing their
shit test, because you start, “Oh, I want to see her more than once a
week. I want to... I want to talk to her every day.”
That kind of stuff happens because you're not creating your own enjoyment, or your own positive reinforcement in yourself to be able to be free
of attachment to her. That's why niggas get attached, man. That's why
we see this kind of stuff.
So, if you find yourself in situations like this, what I want y'all to do as
guys is take a step back real quick, and kind of digest the situation.
So, take a step back and really understand the situation that's going on,
right? So, you know, yes, you're a guy and you're working on yourself because you... you watch my videos, you’re... you're following my channel,
you’re reading this book.
So, we are working on ourselves. We're not about the same bullshit
these other guys are with, crying and all this other bullshit, “Women this,
women that, wah, wah, wha.” We're not on that stuff, right? So, we're progressing. So, we're high value, alright?
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If we're high value, then you need to
be able to take a step back and understand, “Okay, well, you know,
even though I'm going through this
shit with this chick, she shit testing
me, you know, whatever.
She’s bull shitting right now. The
other ones, you know, I’m messing
with here and there, but you know,
this 1 chick that I really want. And I
know she's feeling me,” you know
what I’m saying?
Start thinking that way. Start thinking
in a positive way. Like, you know,
“Even though she kind of plays
these games, you know I’m saying,
I'm not really fazed by it. Because I
know where I'm headed. I know
where I'm going. And you know
what? Matter of fact, I know she
wants me. I'm not really worried
about that.”
Start thinking in that way. Start thinking like, “Okay, well, you know I’m
saying, when I really get this chick,
man, when I really get this chick,
she ain't even going to know
what’s up. I'm going to really put it
on this chick when I get her. Just
wait, just wait. When I get this hoe,
I'm gonna really make her regret
all these games she plays with
me. When we get between them
sheets, it ain't gonna be no
games.”
That's how you got to start think-
ing about stuff like this, you know I’m saying? Like, you know,
the fact that she's playing these games and stuff, it should be
intriguing to you also. Women get off on this shit, you have to
learn how to be able to get off on it too, you know what I’m
saying?
When you start thinking that way like them in that aspect,
you're not going to be attached to them, you're not going to
be worried about them. And that's actually going to flip it on
them, and that's gonna make them gravitate towards you now.
Because you know, even if you get rejected by a chick, you're
gonna be like, “Man, whatever.” You play it off in a cool, calm,
cool, collected manner.
When you like that and you stay, you know, masculine about it,
you ain't butthurt and none of that stuff, they’ll take a step
back, and they're like, “Dang, you know, well, I thought this guy
was really feeling me. I thought he was all over me and stuff.
Why... How come I didn't throw him off center? How come I
didn't throw him off his course or whatever? How come he's
not butthurt?”
Because I'm telling you, 9 times out of 10, all these other guys
out there, when they get rejected, they're gonna be butthurt.
But let's say a circumstance happens with you and this 1 chick
that you've been trying to really get aside from these other
hoes…
She hits you with a flake or something. You’re gonna be like,
“Man, that's alright.”
You're gonna handle in a cool, calm, cool, collected manner,
and she's gonna be like, “Well... well, what's... what's making
him so happy? How come he's okay with that? I thought I was
his happiness. I thought... I thought I was the one that he was
really trying to get with. What happened with that?”
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They're gonna start wondering, you know, why it is that you're not relying
on her or... they're going to start wondering, “Oh, well, damn, I thought he
was really feeling me,” or something like that. It's gonna make them think.
And that might make her come full circle.
I've had cases where chicks have come full circle around for me, and
that gave me the power. I got the power in the relationship at that point,
so I was able to fin0
But at the same time, even if it doesn't come full circle around, it's gonna
set you up for the next chick and the following chicks after that, you
know I’m saying?
Y'all got to learn how to just enjoy the game. Because sometimes, you
don't even want to move too fast with it.
With the majority of chicks, you're gonna move fast with, right? But if you
got another chick on the side, you know, the one that has the low interest
that, you know, you kind of play off, the one that you ain't trying to contact too much because you ain't trying to seem needy, you ain't trying to
seem all extra into them and over-pursue, those ones, you're gonna
want to need this. You're gonna need this trait if you want to get them. I'm
telling you, you're gonna need this.
Because you're not going to need her validation. You're not going to
need them to give you their positive energy. You're not going to be gravitating towards her for that, because you're creating it in yourself!
When you do that, you ain't really worried about outcomes. You're not
really worried about the situation. You get in the mindset of not really
giving a fuck about the outcome. So, it's gonna put you in a better mindset. It's all about creating a better positive mindset in life in general.
Matter of fact, I really try my best every day when I wake up or before I
go to bed, to make sure that I keep a positive mindset, because that
translates into the next day. Or, you know, during early that morning, I'll
make sure I get in the type of mood that's positive. So, you know that
translates to work, then I go to the gym and have a good workout. Then
I go to these ladies I'm talking to and I ain’t stressing about them. I stay
on my grind. I say I'm on purpose. I stay focused. And that all equates to
a good fucking day, dawg. That equates to a good day.
I got to tell you, one day I was on my positive mindset shit,
right? So, I'm getting up, I got my clothes ready and shit. So, I'm
like, “Yeah, I'm finna be on time to work today, you know?”
Nigga do be late... I be late to work sometimes, but you know,
but it is like a minute or 2. But, you know, a nigga was finna be
on time today.
So I was walking out my joint. You know, I'm in my positive
mood and shit. Ain’t nobody gonna take that away from me. I'm
walking to my car, bro, I see a fucking $20 bill on the ground.
Boom, already. Shit just came around man.
Like that's how shit happens. Like, good stuff will start happening to you and you won't even notice it. You'll just be like living
life and you like just positive things are coming your way like
boom, boom, boom. You walking down the street, chicks choosing. Like, it's... it's just a good feeling, you know I’m saying?
And matter of fact, that same day I found a $20 bill, bro, I swear.
I worked at a bank, in case y'all didn't know. But I work at a
bank. So, you know, part of my role is to send partner referrals.
Man, I had like 2 partner referrals that morning, bruh? Like, my
goal is 1 a week, but I sent 2 that morning, bro.
Positive stuff happens when you exude that positivity. I don't
care what you believe in. I don't care if you read a Bible, I don't
care if you read the Quran, I don't care if you read Dr. Seuss
books, karma is real, bro.
Like, if you put positive out, it’s going to come back. You put
negative out, it’s going to come back. It's just the truth of life.
That's just how shit goes.
Alright, y’all. So, make sure you're creating your own positive
energy from the inside, not relying on other people or your surroundings for positivity. Stay true to yourself with that, and
you'll be good. Because otherwise, you'll be getting attached
to these females and end up in a whole series of fuckery. So,
stop that shit.
Alpha Trait #2
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Good Judge of
CHARACTER
The 2nd Alpha trait I need y'all to have is good judgment of character.
And I'm talking about this for the friends you pick, I'm talking about this
for the people that you hang around, the people that you want to be
around you.
Because, guys, you need to know that certain people have your back,
right? You also need to know that certain people ain’t going to try to get
you involved in some stupid shit. Because if you've got things going for
yourself and you're hanging around somebody who just an ain’t shit kind
of individual and they have nothing to lose, they’ll put you in bad situations.
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So, if you out here, and they like starting shit with people or they’re the
type of person getting in all these bar fights and you don't do all that shit…
And you know you got this corporate job, and you can’t be involved with
law enforcement, you know what, I'm saying? You’ll mess around with
the wrong dude, get your ass arrested, and that's your job out the door.
If that's your paying your bills, feeding your family, feeding yourself, and
putting clothes on your back… do you think you need to be around that
person?
Some of y'all just about to turn up, but what I'm trying to get to y'all is just
a better understanding of what you really need to have around you in
certain situations. You want to have friends that you know ain't gonna set
you up for failure.
If some guy you know comes around with a platter of cocaine talking
bout, “Hey, y’all trying to turn up? Y’all trying to get a bump?” You need a
homie that's going to be like. “Nah, bro, we good.” You need a homie
that’s on the same page as you. If you don't fuck with that shit, your
homies don’t need to be fucking with that shit. And if they do, that don't
mean that they can't be your boy or something, that just means that you
can't fuck with him in certain situations like that, you know I'm saying?
And here's another thing, that same guy who’s like, “Oh, you want to
bump?” or, you know, “You want to hit this shit?”
And if you're the type of person that don't smoke or you don't do drugs
like that, no cocaine, all that bullshit, and you say no, you refuse like a
man…
And then they come back, “Oh, what are you, a pussy? Dah-dah-dahdah-dah,” you know that's not a person that you need to be around. You
know that's the person that's for this world. You know that's a low-level
individual, you know I'm saying?
This shit ain’t high School. This ain't no popularity contest, nigga. If I tell
you no and I'm adamant about it, that means you respect it. If they don't
respect your decision, then they don't respect you as a man.
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Judgment of character. They have weak character. Do you need to be
fucking with them? No, you don't need to be fucking with those types of
people.
Same goes with these females.
You want to know how to stay away from these crazy ass females? There
are signs. You know, emotional baggage, daddy issues. I've talked about
this stuff before.
If you've heard about it and you've picked up on certain people's character, just sometimes it's best to observe, you know I'm saying? Don't talk
too much. Don't be with all that talking, all that rapping. What, you finna
drop a mixtape or some shit? Don't be with all that rapping. Sit back. Observe. watch their actions.
If they do some crazy shit or you notice some crazy mannerisms, you
might not need to be fucking with that chick. Don't second guess yourself because if your gut tells you, “Oh, this bitch might be crazy, but that
pussy might be good though,” no, no, no, no, no. Don't be thinking like
that, bro. Be smart about your shit. If you got a bad feeling about it, don't
fuck with it. Don't take chances like that, y'all. Don't take chances like that.
Some people out here, they just for the world, and they ain't gonna be
nothing but that. Don't be the judge of character that's like, “Oh, well,
maybe I could change them,” and don't do none of that shit.
That's why all these baby mamas out here that get beat up by their baby
daddies are still waiting for the baby daddy. Emotional scars and all this
shit. They think they could change a nigga. Ain’t no theme music in the
background. You ain't Captain saving no bitches, alright, you ain't saving
none of them.
Alpha Trait #3
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SPATIAL
AWARENESS
Last but not least, we need to talk about your spatial awareness, alright?
So, when you are out in public, you’re with all these other people out
here too. Some people choose to be good, some people choose to be
evil, alright? So, it's always good to have your bubble around you, you
know I'm saying?
What I mean by that is the people in your personal space.
If you don't fuck with nobody like that, they don't need to be coming too
close to your ass. You got to keep that stiff arm... keep that stiff arm
strong. Keep them people out of your space.
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Spatial awareness is key. You need to know who's behind you. You need
to know who's around you in certain situations, y'all.
If it's 3:00 in the morning and you’re walking in a bad neighborhood or
some shit, you need to know where the hell you’re at.
You need to know who the hell is around you.
You need to know the best escape routes.
Every time I park my car, I make sure I'm parking in a situation where I can
peel out if something were to happen. I make a mental notes of the exit,
so I'm gonna park my car in a situation where I could just hop in that bitch
and peel the fuck out, you know I'm saying?
You just need to start thinking. Just be cognizant of shit like that, you
know I'm saying? That’s stuff that's going to help you. Those are survival
tactics in life that you need.
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CONCLUSION
Every real man operates this way. You have to operate
from a positive mindset or at the very least be working
towards that mindset.
You need to have good judgment and perception of
people.
And you need to have spatial awareness.
These are the 3 Alpha Traits that will benefit your life in
so many ways you can hardly even imagine. I hope you
use them well.
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